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forthegiggles1/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:14 PM
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Makes sense. It helps everything fall into place though.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 11:45 PM
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Yea have started up with the lifting again. Can get big pretty quickly. I think that’s the ticket right now tbh. Lift, play abundance game, and see what happens. I’m just so caught up on this shit I need to rewire my brain to attract new people.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 11:35 PM
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Exactly. I’m taking d3 I’ll grab some k2. Anything else you can recommend?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 09:06 PM
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What’s k2? Hurts like hell because of the situation. I let my guard down. She lives in an area ripe with dudes. I live in a much rougher climate where life will grab you by the balls regardless. That + the fresh breakup hurts like hell. Not afraid of rejection. Pissed because I lost 1.7 years on a girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:57 PM
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Right lmao. Yea my frame is rough right now. It’s amazing how much support there is out there though. All my friends, girls I know etc are all like fuck that bitch. It’s just hard knowing your partner isn’t there
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:48 PM
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Yup. I think by being a dick I meant more ignoring girls etc. I fell a bit into the trap of the woman. I’m an extremely good dude who generally holds frame at all costs. I think what happened with the relationship was she ran out of games and this was like the final game that could hurt me. Still sorta feels like a shit test. On the other hand the unknown especially with winter depression kicking in hurts like fuckinh hell
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:43 PM
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Damnn 15 years? I think everyone has them tbh. I’m about to just lower my standards I think lol. Once I was happier with myself I was able to lower my standards and be happy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:40 PM
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That's the plan. I just have to start. And this is the kick in the balls I think I need.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:32 PM
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Fucking amen. You guys are awesome, thank you. I need this massive kick in the balls to regain my sanity I think. It's amazing how many men will have your back in this world.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:30 PM
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lmao true I guess. This shit fucking hurts.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:29 PM
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I appreciate this. I think bottom line is I just need to get my head straight and hopefully fall into the next one. Shit hurts like hell though.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:28 PM
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lmao maybe I need to be start being a dick again. I never get fucked over when i'm a dick.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:26 PM
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True lol. It just feels weird not being able to contact her at all. Before she was like a whole different girl where if I called she would get annoyed but never held it against me. I feel like she did a 180 and got evil all of a sudden.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:26 PM
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Extremely helpful thank you very much. It's amazing how guys will always 100% go out of their way to help out of kindness. SMV is good enough. Have a few acne scars but i'm probably about a 7. Confidence and vibes I give off are super super strong. I'm also super solid when in social situations. I was thinking about leaving her up on my snapchat maps. She's the only one that i let view it. That way she may get into the pattern of checking it. Might cause some dread. She isn't that good looking. …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:25 PM
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True. I think it was more the life I built up in my head. I'm generally a pretty depressed dude. I need confidence again but it's tough as you get older and want to settle down. Early 20's I was banging girls left and right. It's different now though.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:09 PM
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You think messaging her is an awful idea? ​ Did the same exact thing with my other EX. She cheated. We broke up and I started playing the field. Found a new girl and the ex magically came back begging. I then proceeded to just use her sexually and lead her on. I then made her break up with her new boyfriend. Once she broke up with her new boyfriend I proceeded to date my new girlfriend lmao. I still keep her around just to fuck with her based off of what she did in the past. You think I should p…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:05 PM
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100% she's a virgin. She's only done oral and shit and wasn't a huge fan. From a super reserved family and I think she was nerdy as hell growing up. Very religious too.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 08:00 PM
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Agreed and this is why i'm here. The sex thing isn't a big issue. I have no issues getting sex. I'm about 50% redpill/ 50% long term relationship sorta dude. I have basically found a balance that works. Bottom line is I think I let a few of my redpill tendencies to fly out the door and it ended me up in this situation. I'm also a dude that couldn't be fucked with a lot of the girl drama. That's why this was appealing. Lets me stack money and do my thing without all the strings attached. Got to k…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:59 PM
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True but tbh I couldn't be fucked with girls anymore. I can get sex whenever I want. It worked because it lets me do my thing without having to deal with the BS. The knowing someone is there checkbox looked nice. Along with the fact that she has her shit together. Since the breakup i've chilled with 4 different girls. Talked to 10. I know I sound like a bitch but it's a weird dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:55 PM
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Amen. Words of wisdom right here. Thank you for that.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:51 PM
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Probably one of the smarter comments here. I definitely built a bunch of her good traits up. That + attention. Only problem is love feels fucking good.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:50 PM
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Yea that makes sense. Basically what the entire relationship was. Her telling me how much she hated me because I made her feel a whirlwind of emotions 24/7. She loved me, hated me, loved me, hated me etc. But I was always as rock solid as could be. Was a dick, then sweet, etc. That's where i'm stuck. I think even if she found someone recently she will have a hard time finding what I gave her. The past few girls have all come back simply for that fact. I have had my ex back for sex so many times …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:49 PM
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True but this was a long term investment kind of thing. Two similar families. Decently well off, etc. I'm just worried i'll be stuck with some trashy as bitch with nothing good going on. Shit sucks.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:44 PM
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Hurts like fucking hell. Yea i'm trying to better myself right now. Only so much you can take though throughout the years.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:42 PM
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Yea I think a big part was her social circle. Extremely wealthy + good looking + high status. I'm more of an alpha than the other dudes in the fact that i don't give a fuck. That's where this hurts like crazy. Seems like she got super stressed, lost her mind, did something stupid. Girls come back in a lot of cases. The fact that she made the decision when she was on a mental breakdown is what drives me nuts.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:40 PM
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Ouch lol. Only reason i'm sweating this is because they almost always come back.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:34 PM
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This is the reason i'm here right now. I need an honestly brutal kick in the ass from guys who are doing it right. Getting back into it atm. Lifted heavily for years but past 8 or so it's been on and off.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:31 PM
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Yea getting laid isn't a real issue. Was in the same bed as 2 girls last weekend. Nothing sexual but it's available. Have had a bunch of other girls show interest. Also my ex's will give me pussy whenever I want. Only issue is I haven't heard from her in 2 weeks. You think I should drop the bomb if she comes back? Is messaging her an awful idea? I was thinking about giving it a month and see what happens. Only problem is it's so hard to tell. The IFFY part about the situation is her parents are …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:28 PM
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100% correct. Just with family and shit and i'm sort of in a weird industry atm. What do you mean by provide drama?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:21 PM
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Appreciate that. So you think I should just go no contact and see what happens? I'm guessing messaging her is an awful idea?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:18 PM
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Amen lol. If I don't go nuts this is the ideal situation.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:17 PM
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That's the ideal situation. I'm just debating if I message her am I actually shooting myself in the nuts. I feel like messaging her might just push her away further.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:16 PM
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I appreciate that a lot. That's what i'm hoping. I ALWAYS go no contact and they almost always come back. I'm thinking I should probably just go no contact and move on. If she comes back she comes back?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:16 PM
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True lol. Money isn't really an issue but a dog does sound super appealing right now. Where i'm stuck is every girl i've had in the past always comes back. It's so fresh I feel like I can still just switch it to my advantage if she comes back. I'm not some crazy alpha but i've had enough experience where I can make situations work. I'm halfway between redpill and wanting a relationship if that makes sense. Have done the banging random girls for years thing and it sort of makes me depressed. This…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:14 PM
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Appreciate it. Been there done that. It's funny though because the ones that I had oneitus for ages ago actually have all come back wanting me for long term. Only issue is i've gotten over them and realize they are scum. Yea this girl was super reserved which is why I am so dumbfounded at this whole thing. I know all girls suck but she was on the lesser side of the "i'm just going to get up and leave over some stupid shit" side.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:11 PM
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Yea definitely not a master but also pretty fine tuned. Basically took what i've learned and translated it into something that works for myself. The time thing is one of the biggest issues for me. I got a bit trapped by the promise of a future. She gets her head in a shit spot and leaves because I showed some weakness.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:09 PM
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Correct. That's basically why I came back. Need to get blasted. Yea i've basically taken everything I can from the redpill and translate it into my relationships. Sort of a 50/50 approach that has worked for me. The redpill is good for majority of things. On the other hand each person needs to take majority of the knowledge here and make it work for their individual self. I've tried certain tactics from here and have had great success but also great failure. It's when I take the knowledge and tw…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:05 PM
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Appreciate this. Maybe i'll get a dog. Only issue is when she comes back i'm hoping I haven't fully moved on. She made a fucking shit decision in a time of stress. Was way out of her character.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:46 PM
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I normally bounce back super fast. I just fucking HATE it. My morals are too good to throw away any relationship with a person ever. Bouncing back isn't really the issue. It's more the way it ended. Seemed so fucking premature just because she was on a power trip. Every other girl i've been with has come back. I'm just not sure how quickly I should actually move on.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:44 PM
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Question. When you say if she doesn't fuck then run what do you mean? Just curious cuz the last 2 relationships I was in had hella sex but were AWFUL relationships. Like the amount of bullshit just wasn't worth it. I can still command them to this day. I can still hit them up to this day and they will give in. This girl had a super low libido because of stress. (health issues, work, school, etc). But was still the most comfortable situation i've been in. ​ Definitely a virgin. Super reserved jew…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:43 PM
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Appreciate that. Yea this shit is tough as hell. All of my sources of joy were from myself. Making money, building my business etc. Only problem is without a girl that's there for ya you can never fully reach 100% imo. I feel like the average joe can reach like 30% on their own, 80% with the redpill, and 100% with a solid relationship. I think they add an energy and comfort that can't really be obtained on your own. I know this sounds beta as fuck but there is something relaxing about having a g…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:36 PM
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True but the past 10 years I haven't been happy unless i've been in a relationship. Like severe depression when I'm on my own. I used to fuck girl after girl early 20's but got sick of it. If you look around there are a lot of happy long term relationships. Probably oneitus but even the girls I used to date still come back saying i'm their favorite.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:29 PM
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Appreciate that. Yea tbh I'm here looking to get nuked. Only way to do it I think. IMO it wasn't really my state but more of hers. She went off the deep end emotionally. Every last relationship i've been in they always come back. It's just so fresh i'm at a loss of what to do. Have hit up the dating apps but not having a companion drives me fucking nuts. Do you think a dog would be beneficial? Was thinking about getting one for my birthday.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:27 PM
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Definitely loads of good ones. I'm just getting older and sick of nothing substantial. The way this one ended seemed wayyy too premature. I think I pushed it a little and she basically reacted. Too tired to finish school. I make very good money but in more of a hack way than most girls looking for something "stable".
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:24 PM
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Very true. I think I ended up testing her a bit out of my ego. Pushing her a bit to see how she would react. My frame is generally pretty good with the occasional fuck up. I'm just curious as to what the fuck to do. Every last breakup ended up coming back. I think they say 50% of relationships end up back together. I'm getting too old to deal with the stress of breakups.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:22 PM
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It does to an extent but I see both sides here. Rich me has opened up a LOT more doors for myself than broke me. Rich me can also solve issues with women that rich me never could. The amount of pussy I started slaying once I hit the 6 figures was 10 fold compared to what I used to be able to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 10:31 PM
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Jews? You sounds pretty intelligent....
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:33 AM
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You've hit the nail on the head. I cringe watching a few of my buddies in the dating scene because they have ZERO control. Every relationship i'm in I make it very clear there are certain rules that both her and I have to follow. I am laid back as hell but make it very clear that if any of these rules get broken I will be fucking a new girl within a week. It's the fear itself that actually keeps my relationships going and they are generally pretty good. If I wasn't in control I would never want …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:37 PM
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Agree with this 100%. Only problem is if he has icepick rolling or somewhat deep boxcars. Besides for that it's amazing for surface issues.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:56 PM
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The problem here is that there is a misguided misconception between losing weight and looking good. Most of these guys simply want to look good but think that it only has to do with weight because that's what they are told. Eating fewer calories will shed the weight but isn't the best way to the end goal. Toning muscle+losing weight at the same time will give them a better overall physique and will snowball the process a lot quicker.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:12 PM
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The problem is that the third party won't win so it's gotta be either Hillary or Trump. Hillary is run by the machine. Look at how many "mysterious" deaths have been directly related to her and her party. I think it's upwards of 50 at this point. I don't necessarily support trump but I think he is a man with a mind of his own which is enough to be respected. Voting for Hillary just means more years of supplying terrorists with arms while our tax dollars pay trillions on military contracts that s…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:03 PM
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Sorry bro but "Nancy" is the one that fucked up the relationship. You acted weak, but we all make mistakes and sometimes that shows that you are more of a man than most. It shows her true colors. You have a community here that has your back btw. Either never talk to her again or start chasing other tail and let that destroy her soul. She deserves a world of hurt and will soon regret fucking up the chance of being with a guy of your caliber. Eventually it will catch up to her if shes that narrow …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 06:31 PM
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