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I think the fact that it comes off as disingenuous is a projection of your own inner state. Men who attack my insecurities just seem like assholes to me. There is no,” I’m just joking bro.” I was raised by the golden rule ‘treat people the way you want to be treated’, so I am kind. If not, I make it clear it is out of love or joking. The men I experience attacking my vulnerabilities seem to do so out of some [subconscious] dominance game. One that they are playing by themselves, not me. Sometime…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/24 08:15 AM
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Nah you just don’t understand nuance. My original reply is still congruent with the other reply you’re referring to. Tell me you lack basic reading comprehension without telling me you lack it. Women who have hoe phases and/or have trains run on them either lack shame/morals or are addicted to validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:08 PM
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I worded my reply carefully to include all of that. Just because youre in a relationship with a woman doesnt necessarily mean you have the fuck buddy role. Secondly, hoe phases and girls having trains run on them are reserved for a relatively small proportion of mentally damaged women, albeit the number is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:53 PM
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Do you even know what hypergamy means? First it mentions that women select for different factors depending on the type of relationship, and secondly, the results of the study only show women to be “willing” to have sex with multiple attractive men - as in, give them a chance, not necessarily foster a relationship. However, thats not how any of this shit works in the real world. If it were, women would be fucking every hot guy that swiped right on them via dating apps. Instead we see most women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:45 PM
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It goes deeper than that my friend. People, in general, are actually pretty vindictive. Taking accountability =/= Impunity from punishment. Women are biologically programmed to avoid accountability so as to preserve the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:19 PM
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Quite the contrary. Men need to vet better and stop giving attention to/sleeping with women under their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:49 PM
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Ahh here we go. The daily I actually don’t understand what RP is about but am gonna misrepresent it anyways just to have some talking points cuz I need an enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:12 PM
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Boring is subjective but yeah most of those guys would be invisible to women (who aren’t golddigging).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:09 AM
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Do some psychedelics. Lol all jokes aside. Yeah they are truly quite emotional creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:18 AM
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Well you would too if being honest could potentially endanger you. For the ones not lying (i.e. speaking emotionally), they really do mean it. Right then. But then they feel a different way and that is no longer true. It was true then, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:12 AM
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It can be a tough pill to swallow. Its why a lot of guys stay in the anger phase so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:07 AM
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Women are “seemingly” hypocritical about many things. They are highly emotional creatures. Whenever they say something add “I feel” to the beginning and “right now” at the end. Also due to historically being shamed many are quite confidential about their actual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:05 AM
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Several misunderstandings here. Starting with the first, your post implies women weigh careers heavily in their search. This is only partially true for women that are looking for a relationship - not hookups. Women will hookup with a dishwasher if he’s charismatic and decent looking. Secondly, even for those that do prioritize career/hierarchy, they do so because they are looking for someone they feel comfortable starting a family with (kids or not). Feeling safe i.e. [in many cases] being finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:58 AM
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This is something I’ve started to bring up in men’s spaces. A lot of frustrated men like to blame women for simply exercising their options, but the reality is its the men at the top who can’t keep in their pants, thereby skewing the rest of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:17 AM
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You say these are symptoms of unrestricted hypergamy. I say unrestricted hypergamy is a symptom of hedonistic alpha men. Such men are a byproduct of a decadent society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:27 PM
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Bingo. The reason all dating advice for men is the same is once you truly understand women - that is, that they are emotional creatures, and you actually understand what that means - you’re going to behave in the ways outlined in these guides. As Madonna put it, girls just wanna have fun - and in today’s hyper-individualistic society, it rings even more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:21 PM
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Probable deniability makes the world go round. Most situations people would rather look the other way. It’s too difficult to think about the reality of time and temptation. Looks like you’ve given these things a healthy amount of thought and have developed, in my opinion, reasonable boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:57 PM
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Its highly nuanced situation built upon a crumbling foundation of unfulfilling values. The permeation of western individualism has propagated through media, namely social, as a result of late stage capitalism. The reason capitalism works is because the world functions based off of archetypes. Essentially what I’m saying is psychopaths and narcissists with their propensity for competition naturally rise to the top of hierarchies, thereby setting the rules for engagement and victory for everyone e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:05 PM
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I’ve been thinking about this and as much as everyone here will hate it, I think it’s men’s fault. It starts with men at the top acting like animals, slaves to their primal desires. They sleep with women far below their value and as such fuck up the whole system. This isn’t even getting into all of the hedonism that is propagated around here. “Enjoy the decline.” How about take responsibility like MEN and fix the goddamn situation. Stop giving up your life essence so easily. Commit yourself to a…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/23 09:49 PM
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Insecurity is insecurity, no matter how you package it. In general men have no problem placating their women. For women, it disgusts them. Wrap your head around it or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:07 AM
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No I’m telling you, you’re wrong. Men deal with insecurity from their girls all the time. If men act insecure in a relationship, it is a major turn off for women. This is an extension of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:43 PM
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No. Most men would have no issue. Like I said theres a difference between men and women, their respective responses to insecurity being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:18 PM
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Honestly this whole thing fucking turns me off of women. I can’t fucking do it. I’m sorry man. I have too much moral character and before anyone acts like I’m sitting on some self-righteous high horse, I’m not. Everyone’s spiritual path is their own. Mine seems to be at a crossroads where either I play the manipulation game to get rewarded with sex from infantile hedonistic hypergamous creatures, or abstain from sex altogether and go fucking meditate in the woods or something. Its like sexual dy…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 08:11 PM
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What? Are you agreeing or no? Most honest men don’t have an issue placating their partner, its that simple. The only dudes who get mad are hiding something. In a minority of cases, perhaps the women asks in authoritative, accusatory, interrogative way, sure the man would get mad…but it’d be about the approach, not calming your girl’s insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:51 PM
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Its also why the dating market’s fucked. Social media/dating apps have ruined women - Girl gets used by Chad, thinks she had a shot at a relationship, and now anyone less can’t compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:33 AM
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Doesnt work that way bro. Women stay stuck on their highest setting - even while in relationships. Thats why so many women “settle.” So dating you would be completely redundant as it wouldnt change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:28 AM
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Lmao women are far better at being discrete than men will ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:15 AM
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Hijacking this comment to say: I genuinely believe most (honest) men would not give a fuck. Women are the only ones who have issues placating their partners because on an intrinsic level it disgusts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:54 AM
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The casual sex market is ruled by dark triad types, nothing new. In most cases, it inherently takes a level of manipulation (lying, subtle suggestion, dominance of peers, etc) to get women to feel both comfortable and aroused, which requires a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:10 AM
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Because as a man it takes a lot of effort to cultivate the kind of lifestyle that would allow them to sleep around casually. Most men give women the ick. Secondly, men being the hornier creatures, are less likely to leave their partner after sleeping around. Its just sex. Men categorize women into “women I’d like to wife and fuck” and “women I’d fuck but not tell anyone about”. Of course there’s some middle ground with varying levels of commitment. Women, however, sleep to secure a HVM(‘s babies…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:35 PM
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Lmao all the hoes coming out the woodwork to defend their hedonistic lifestyles. One even admitted,” Perhaps it works for long term relationship…” Well yeah no shit, if youre fucking multiple people the likelihood of you developing a long term relationship with one is pretty low. Its called a hoe lifestyle phase for a reason. Secondly the amount of “bonding” chemicals released during sex is not comparable to petting a dog, lmfao. It is literally one of, if not, the most pleasurable thing you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:21 PM
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However, if he knows she has a high admission requirement, he's going to be able to confidently feel assured there isn't anything to worry about. No drunk mistakes, no other man coming in, no issues in that temporary state of emotional struggle. Because a woman who has that high admission cost, is not going to be in a position where another man can just come in and have sex with her. Because no man is going to have enough time to meet the required investment. Lmao spoken like someone who has no …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:10 PM
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You’re attached to an idea of what you think women should be, and not what they really are. They aren’t built like that for no reason. When you learn to truly accept them for what they are, while maintaining your own personal values and boundaries, you will find your love for them again.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 06:37 PM
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Men gatekeep relationships, women gatekeep sex. If she's not good at gatekeeping sex, which as a woman is basically her only fucking job, there's something wrong with her. Pure gold. Men, take notes.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 04:01 AM
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The fact that you assume I didnt read your post means what I’m saying went over your head, my guy.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 05:14 PM
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Lmao. AWALT. I have had a robust sexual life with all different kinds of women. Now what? You guys read like the typical purple pill man who’s girl is getting railed by her sneakylink work-husband (me). It doesnt matter. I’ve met “virgins”, career women, church women, feminists, you name it, all vulnerable to being swept away in sea of good feelings by a guy who “doesnt count” - AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 03:55 PM
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The comments filled with a bunch of dudes with one foot out the red pill door. Clearly have not read the sidebar, and or truly internalized it. Everything you’ve said is pretty much standard stuff, and I go as far as to question whether you really ‘get it’. Most men understand that women are emotional creatures. Most men don’t understand what that actually means.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/23 03:43 PM
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⁠That being said, yeah, a lot of guys are creepy and paranoid about paternity tests. It's often because they don't want responsibility for the child and are looking for a way out that makes it the mother's fault. If you can't bring yourself to trust a woman, you shouldn't be dating her. So I take your point, even though I have issues with your analogy. Lmao give me a fucking break. AWALT. What responsibility are men trying to escape by getting a test? Does anyone who spouts this rhetoric ask the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:44 AM
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Where are you from? How old are you and what would you rate yourself? Lastly, what sample size are we talking here? No offense, but I believe at this point its more effective to look at online/offline SMV as two different things, and subsequently, I believe a lot of men are delusional when it comes to their own SMV. I find success both online and off, and I’m short. However, people often think I’m an actor or model due to my pulchritude. You have to know how to talk to people. Not just in person…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:47 PM
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I did not answer your question dude, because by the very act of you asking it, it shows my point has gone right over your head. Edit: Quit ghost editing your comments. Obviously you’re not here in good faith. Peace.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 05:19 PM
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Lmao buddy showing me the definition doesnt change anything. By your logic every god damn thing ever is a hedonist cuz we all engage in pleasure seeking activities.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 08:16 AM
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You’re missing the point. Participating in hookup culture doesn’t automatically make you a hedonist. Women are emotional creatures. Hedonism is a byproduct of that.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 07:04 AM
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Lmao don’t inflate these poor men’s hopes. We are talking about women declining sex on dating apps. Sorry to burst your bubble, but she’s declining Chad for these reasons. The average bro didn’t even match with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:00 PM
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Lmao no the fuck they didn’t. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 10:43 AM
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Even TRP seems to be losing its battle of attrition against society because it seems the men here have forgotten a few core elements: its just your turn & AWALT. Stop getting into relationships and see women for what they are, men: Infantile, Hypergamous, Hedonistic creatures.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 07:17 PM
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What I’m saying is thats pointless. We live in the most interconnected period of time ever. Jody is just a DM away, hence, it’s just your turn bro. That or - you’re a sucker, or seeing other people, yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 10:37 AM
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Honestly dude it doesn’t matter. AWALT. Thats a term seemingly forgotten around here. Nearly (and only to be precautious) EVERY good girl I have ever met is a cheater - which means all women all cheaters. Not that they have but that they will given the right circumstances. It doesn’t matter - redpill,purplepill, alpha, beta.., it does not matter. I have concluded that the only men in relationships are suckers or seeing other people, themselves. Nothing less, nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 10:00 AM
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Agree 100%. Most of the answers here come from a place of naivety/ignorance and this is a highly controversial subject so I don’t blame em.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:41 PM
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It doesn’t. The big misunderstanding here is that because something is low probability that makes it “above average”. Guess what else has a low probability? Being below average in all categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:54 PM
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The conclusion is still average is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:31 PM
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Yeah I read that. Doesnt change what I said and also take note you said “median or above.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:29 PM
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I did. Check the edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:24 PM
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No its not. Your guys’ math is wrong. Just because its a less than 50% chance of being at exactly the 50th percentile mark in all categories does NOT make one above average. You forget one can be ABOVE 50% in these categories as well. It pretty much means theres a low chance of someone being completely average across the board which we all know thats not how humans work. Some people are strong in some areas, weak in other areas. You guys are trying to rewrite “average” as above average and its l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:11 PM
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Lmao stupidity everywhere. In other words having a 100 iq is ABOVE AVERAGE. Y’all are deluding yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:52 PM
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Confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:49 PM
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Not even.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:14 AM
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Women have no issue talking about this kind of stuff with men who are sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:27 AM
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If you think thats the quiet part I got news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:05 PM
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I think social media and dating apps need to be banned and/or heavily regulated. Thats all. And this is coming from someone who fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:20 AM
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You thought wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:17 AM
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Who are also millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:54 PM
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Lol. So your original response was completely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:49 PM
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Totally the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:13 PM
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Naive take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:04 PM
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Red pill ideology doesn’t say hot guys are jerks. It recognizes that guys who don’t give a fuck are attractive to women. Its actually more like hot fun guys -> average fun guys -> hot average guys -> average guys -> ugly guys. Theres no such thing as an ugly guy with a great personality. If he had a great personality, he’d be bumped up to average by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:25 AM
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Man I was just about to post the something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:20 AM
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What do you expect to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:59 AM
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Sure, attractive people have an easier time, but everyone deals with disrespect. The key is understanding that whatever someone is saying about you isn’t the absolute truth. Maybe you are a little disgusting, maybe you aren’t, but either way it doesnt change the fact that you have awesome qualities. Say to yourself,” I love myself too much to let that shit get to me.” I don’t subscribe to the idea that women here don’t want men to win. It may seem that way, but deep down they DO. They want you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:55 AM
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I’m one of those people. Its true man. I used to be fat too. I know what its like growing up with serious insecurities but I learned to love myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:03 PM
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Man you aren’t wrong. But knowing female nature why do you bother my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:02 PM
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Appearance matters, but confidence will take you places.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:56 PM
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Men are the romantics, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:47 PM
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I have repeated this ad nauseum and everytime I get downvoted. Women are picky because social media and dating apps provide them a plethora of validation and options. I will say it again: I have seen my own attraction towards a partner, that I was in an open relationship with, alter depending on my options available. For example, there were times were I was slaying it, and it was kind of meh (our friendship was still strong but for me the sexual attraction not as much) and there’d be times where…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:55 PM
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Yes women and men speak a different language. If you know, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:50 PM
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No. You’re wrong. Women absolutely use it this way. I was actually gonna congratulate the original commenter cuz he’s spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:08 PM
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False. If you know female nature, then you’re aware most of the women here are simply acting in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:54 PM
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Ditto.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:26 PM
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They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:51 AM
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So you can stop wasting everyone’s time with your ignorant and/or intellectually dishonest takes. It is laughable that you’re trying to argue about something you clearly havent even researched. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:02 PM
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By your logic, all religious texts and self help books are malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:59 PM
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The way you worded it seemed to refer to some type of inherent bond abusers have with their victims rather than an exact manipulative process. Not all abusers trauma bond with their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:38 AM
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No trauma bonding is a pattern of trauma and nurturing that is quite manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:31 AM
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The confidence has to come from within my friend. Cultivate love for yourself. Take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror and ACCEPT who you are. You are a badass human with unique interests, hobbies, and passions. Someone out there has admired you before. Whether its an admiration of your skills, personality, looks….you are loved! Look deep inside and realize you are human just like everyone else. Sure, hit the gym hard. Seek therapy. Work on your career, but most importantly, love yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:00 PM
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If the world magically banned social media and dating apps I would bet my left nut we’d see massive improvements in the sexual marketplace in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:46 PM
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I’d agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:48 PM
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Sure, but I’d put money on your confidence being the larger contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:55 PM
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Or maybe your inherent confidence about your height shines through and women pickup on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:04 PM
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You aren’t wrong. I am 5’ 7”. Luckily my face isnt too bad and I know how to talk to women. Think of it more like this: online being short is a detriment. In person being tall is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:44 PM
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I agree with the commenter. Here’s a question: have you ever hooked up with a girl within minutes of meeting her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:38 PM
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I agree. This is why I tell men to cultivate a genuine love for women. I love women. I love their femininity, their minds, their bodies, their hair. I love everything about women. Even the shittests. Hell, I write poetry about how much I love women (among other things that I am grateful for). Women pick up on this, and they love it. Fundamentally, at our core we all just want to be loved. All of our careers, the social media, validation seeking, wars, etc are to be loved. Become lovers, men. Sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:08 AM
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Yes, you dirty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:04 AM
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Bro I just tried to start one of those threads but it was locked “due to incl baiting.” Clown world. The thread was: “List the pills in order of truthfulness” and give details why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:39 PM
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Yes, Jenny was more attracted to Mark than Danny. Had she been more attracted to Danny, if he pushed for sex, he would have gotten it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:32 PM
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It really takes status away from men and makes them compete with just their sex appeal. So guys that are tall, in good shape, and are well hung, get all the attention. Guys that lead with their status and achievements are irrelevant. I already commented this but I’ll add it here as well: small dick dudes instantly outted as providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:20 PM
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I genuinely believe thats as solid of advice you can give. Work out and develop confidence. I’d add a major one, though: cultivate a genuine love for yourself and other people (particularly women if you want to be successful with them).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:17 PM
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Yeah man I know plenty of tall fat dudes who are killing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:14 PM
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Small dick dudes instantly outted as providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:13 PM
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This is femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:11 PM
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Is the argument in your last point that the reason for his success is his height or do you flat out disagree? I see no issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:08 PM
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Posts like this are trash because you can’t quantify suffering. Everyone has their own issues and suffers in their own way. Instead of trying to argue who has it worst or better, lets work towards understanding and how we can fuck each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:02 PM
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I disagree. I need everyone thats in my life. Do I feel entitled to certain behavior by them? Absolutely not, but I do need them. Most of us haven’t quite ascended to full hermit monk status yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:50 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:27 PM
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You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:26 PM
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What parts do you believe to be genuine and what parts misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:25 PM
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Usually they keep the bf secret. On to your second point, I disagree. Its not that the man isn’t pushing for sex. Its that the woman has boundaries up and he chooses to respect them. It also depends on the guy. Some guys push for sex on the first date, others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:24 PM
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Absolute? No Objective? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:03 PM
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Im refuting this^ Ok how Experience it how I sleep with women that “dont normally do that.” Ive hooked up up with women within minutes of meeting them. Women cheat on their bfs with me, but the guys never know. Women often let me do things (anal, facefuck, etc) that they wouldnt do with their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:38 PM
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Lmao cool. I never said all men go the same pace. On to my second point, I know its true because I experience it first hand. I get away with a ton that other guys don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:48 PM
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Such a misguided answer. Men truly don’t want ‘sexually inexperienced’. They want someone who values them sexually (as in gives it up at a fairly normal pace, AND doesnt withhold sexual favors for them), and who hasn’t been with a ton of different people (thus lowering their potential for pair-bonding). Pretty much someone who has had a lot of sex with few partners aka what someone earlier said that many here refuse to believe. Also men dont take it any slower or faster depending on the girl. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:55 AM
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Let me tell you of a time, in the earliest stages of Tinder, before the prevalence of social media, but after third wave feminism. Women FUCKED. And they were happy to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:34 AM
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Lmao and you’re a top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:32 AM
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I have had a threesome with a masc woman and a femme woman. I’ve flirted with several more (masc). I know a few guys who have hooked up with masc women. There is a whole genre of porn. And I’m not talking tomboys. I’m being politically correct here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:30 AM
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It tells you in the search bar e.g. “Search x matches”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:26 AM
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After watching the first five minutes of the video I can tell you straight up why this guy has had little success. He straight up looks like a soyboy. Newsflash: Tinder is for fucking. Very, very few people are sincerely looking for a relationship on there, and this guys’ pics do NOT exude sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:16 PM
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I have a hard time believing this. I’m not gigachad or anything but I do alright online and I get plenty of attractive girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:08 PM
0

Men aren’t doing anything wrong. Its abundance and FOMO that has pervaded women’s minds. Unfortunately for men, women are only acting in their nature. I’ve held this hypothesis for quite some time, having been in the dating scene a while, but reading old posts from several years ago really solidified it for me. We were dealing with the same issues back then, they are just exacerbated now. They called the trend back then. Women are literally flooded with validation from social media and dating ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:57 PM
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Literally this. If you know how to tap into this you can be “that guy”. Women pick up on it instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:41 AM
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I do just fine. However your statement if a woman is into you there is hardly anything you can do wrong Is straight up wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:33 AM
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Wrong. Women are incredibly fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:08 PM
1

I disagree. Hot man> Hot woman> Average woman> Ugly woman> Average man > Ugly Man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:26 AM
1

Spoken like someone who has never been “the other guy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:47 AM
1

It has to be this way because confidence attracts women more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:23 AM
2

As a man who also cooks, it is something to be proud of in this modern age. Most people (under 30, at least) do not know how to cook, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:04 AM
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Doesnt matter your reasoning for it. Fundamentally, it is tough. If it were easy the anger phase wouldn’t be as prominent among members.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 08:31 AM
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Lmao reading the comment you replied to and yours…. I think you’re deeply misunderstood about who’s the angry one here. Sorry you went through what you did, but it doesnt give you the right to just attack people. Especially without coming to understanding first (tons of projection in your comment). LOL WHO AM I KIDDING? Youre a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:41 AM
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I can. Of course the relationship wouldn’t be closed, but often times thots are the only ones who can keep up with me sexually, and I strongly value sexual compatibility. As I grow older, I’m starting to lean towards the french way of dating where its just accepted that everyone has multiple lovers. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill03/06/22 06:33 PM
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Hit the nail on the head brother. This is the toughest pill to swallow and the main reason for the anger phase. You have to be the “other guy” a few times to truly get it. What I like to think about are female buddhists. For a while it was thought that one literally had to be male to achieve enlightenment. Logically it doesn’t make sense (practice is practice) but I get it now. Women are simply wired different.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/22 06:27 PM
1

Lmao cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:12 PM
1

No. Instead of making the effort to comprehend what im talking about youre arguing over bullshit semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:08 PM
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Lmao riiight. I dont care to prove anything to you. Youre clearly naive and intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:50 PM
1

There’s 7.75 billion people on this planet I’m sure you could find someone but for the most part, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:29 PM
1

Had to look that up but yeah. The alternative is to become a more masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:06 PM
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Grow up dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:05 PM
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Not at all man. Some women legitimately like feminine men. As long as you have your shit together and you guys are compatible you will be fine. Just one bit of advice. I hope you get sexually aroused by cucking. When she’s menstruating there is a good chance she could have an ‘encounter’ during a girl’s night out or something. That, or ignorance is bliss. Sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:58 PM
1

Her inviting you out to do stuff, dominance in bed, general assertiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:45 PM
1

As much as needed. If she asks you anything, have an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:39 PM
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Then talk like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:00 PM
1

Dude Idk what got into your head that Im a feminine dude but once again youre wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:56 PM
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Now you’re just making up bullshit. Doesn’t change the fact that ive personally hooked up with a few masc “lesbians” so i know what im talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:49 PM
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Bro dont come at me like that. I know what Im doing. On top of that youre still wrong. Some women legitimately get sexually aroused from bossing their partner around. I’ve been with a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:46 PM
1

Femininity IS biological. There’s literally 2 sexes. Male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:28 PM
1

We aren’t explicitly talking about sex. We are talking about the psychology behind the male/female dynamic in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:24 PM
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No, cuz on a surface level masc women dont want to feel feminine. However when a more masc man comes along biology comes into play. I’ve had more examples than I can count including one just today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:23 PM
1

Its more complicated than you’re letting on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:21 PM
2

As I’ve gotten older and fully swallowed the pill that is women, I realize they are monogamous creatures that just cheat without a second thought. I’m serious, something biological/hormonal or something but when any attractive, confident individual with a deep voice comes along they literally allow themselves to be “taken for a ride” if they are single and/or menstruating. All logic goes out the window. However just as quickly as this comes, they have the profound ability to just “not count it” …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:46 AM
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You’re on the right track but pretty far off. Masc women actually like fem men. However masc women still get aroused by men much more masc them as it makes them feel feminine, however they would never seek those men out for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:36 AM
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Something I found interesting about his studies is that even a man on the most extreme end of femininity is still typically more masculine than a woman on the extreme end of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:30 AM
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Man I agree with you. A lot of these guys are just acting tough and/or got mommy issues. Think of Prince, that one french dude that holds the record for most sex, 2Pac, etc… what do they all have in common? They all are wildly successful with woman and have a passion for them as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 06:36 PM
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Bro tell this to all of the couples that are together in old age. Look at Beyonce and Jay-Z. Life is full of ups and downs and if you can work through things together and keep each other as a priority it works. Its that simple. And before you say oh those old couples are miserable. Maybe in some areas of their lives. But as a whole they’d be far worse if they were alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:03 PM
1

Chad Genetics: 8 (+7) Maintained: 7 (+6) Social: 8 (+7) Net Worth: 4 (+3) Logistics: 1 My dude works overnight as a janitor. However we absolutely slay in OLD - the male equivalent of an instagram model. On a sep note, Logistics is an odd category, imo. It should just be a given that you live a decently populated area, and your social circle would be determined by the Social category.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:00 PM
2

Decadence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:52 PM
1

Honestly I kinda feel like this is life. I was once jaded but now I realize its all about leverage when you really think about it. Some more unethical than others for sure, but that definitely falls on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:48 PM
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Their behaviour in recent years have undoubtedly been catered to/ manufactured by an underlying/ unknown collective who have ulterior motives (the effects of which may present themselves at a later date). I posted this elsewhere, but I’ll just leave this here as well. https://youtu.be/OmNIXACILp8
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:15 PM
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It sure doesn’t help that we have commercials like this currently airing. https://youtu.be/OmNIXACILp8
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:00 PM
2

Lmao I can’t believe someone unironically recommended Andrew Tate. That guy’s a fuckin clown.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 05:54 PM
1

What am I wrong about? Edit: I see the confusion. My comment was meant for u/Glass_Bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:28 AM
1

more than a lot of things Excuses for not having actual game/working on your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:16 PM
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I used to bring girls back to my parents place and fuck them on a futon in the living room at age 28. Y’all are making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:27 AM
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Its met with such disdain and hostility because youre literally telling a group of people that they are not as valuable as they think they are. That being said your post absolutely has merit. As I mentioned here before, I have personally felt my attraction towards a person fluctuate based on the options I had. Social media and OLD absolutely has to have the same effect on women. People will fight this tooth and nail though as it takes away from their intrinsic value and as a hyper-capitalistic s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:21 AM
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Any woman with half a brain and a sense of self worth sees through all the RP nonsense. What nonsense? It seems to me youre conflating RP doctrine with wannabe bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:33 AM
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Just to play devil’s advocate some of the sexiest women I’ve ever been with were legitimately turned off by “goodness.” Quiet confidence in the face of unhinged aggression usually wins out, especially when you have substance to back up the confidence. Keywords here: having substance, in which case, it doesnt matter if youre the aggressor or quiet one. Being quietly confident may look cool, but having your bluff called and getting shit on looks even worse than not doing anything. Relatable clip: …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:14 AM
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Here’s what I’ve found and why there seems to be so much contention surrounding this issue. Women like toppers i.e. men that are assertive. In my experience, the confusion with “niceness” comes from any attempt to placate a woman’s opinion, even if you agree. Another thing that subconsciously plays into this is the tonality of men’s voice. A lot of modern men use uptalk when they speak and it sounds like they lack confidence. The reality is both sides are right but tackling different issues. BP …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:56 AM
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If youre going to add a bunch of context, then sure. However someone’s going to read “just do Chad shit”, and they aren’t going to have internalized the confidence to successfully pull it off. Furthermore, its a nuanced situation with the level of necessary rapport differing from person to person.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 10:25 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:10 AM
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Using the above example of ass-slapping, if you did it and weren’t confident it’d be seen as sexual assault. Do enough of this stuff and you become that weird guy.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/22 07:27 PM
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To be fair, theres only so much “premeditation” that can be done. I get what you’re saying, but as someone who’s on the spectrum as well and had to make a bunch of discoveries of their own, I sympathize with these guys - to me its the same as make-up and snapchat filters. I am firmly against outright lying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:23 PM
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From negging, to set theory, openers, escalation technique, peacocking, magic tricks, etc. Are you saying these are not OK? This is a normal part of flirting, this stuff only seems cringey because it was weaponized on PUA forums. Anyways, there’s no bright line that can be defined between best foot forward & fake it until you make it, and then just being truly fake and even a bit predatory. But an honest person knows it in their heart. I disagree. Unerstanding the innate impermanence and non dua…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:59 PM
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by getting her to think you are something you actually are not (not OK). And this is not OK even for a ONS. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:48 PM
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We agree. be honest with your intentions This isn’t to say don’t give this person your all or be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:41 PM
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We arent talking about potential. We are talking about right now. Edit: And having money doesnt mean they are automatically gonna adopt a healthy lifestyle and/or put it into their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:35 PM
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it’s OK to use whatever sexual leverage advantage you, or your gender, may have to get what you can get. This. Too often I find people worried about “manipulation”. Whether its age, social status, make-up, staying in shape, what-have-you, sexual leverage is the name of the game. Just be honest with your intentions and what you want folks. However while in a relationship I believe men must maintain their leverage or risk being branch swung. The reason for this is women inherently want someone tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:34 PM
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I’ve been with a lot of women, all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:35 AM
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What??? Ive watched porn with several of my gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:57 AM
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Like I said, every man on this planet when given the following three choices A) hot and dumb B) ugly and intelligent C) forever alone Is choosing A.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:44 AM
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You think they are just as important because they matter equally after the threshold of physical attraction has been met. Still ignoring the thought experiment which you know proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:25 AM
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But if she was ugly you wouldn’t have gone for her. Just like our thought experiment. If you had those two options or to be alone forever I know which you’d choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:16 AM
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People need to stop focus on everything being “manipulation.” Yes, as humans we are naturally going to take the most effective route to get what we want. Know what you want and go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:10 AM
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Physical attraction comes first and foremost. Sure you would take a slightly less attractive, ambitious woman over the opposite, but youre lying to yourself if you believe there isnt a threshold of physical attraction that must be met before consideration of other traits
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:00 AM
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Yeah but youd take a good looking unambitious woman over over an ugly ambitious woman any day of the week — youre deluding yourself if you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:50 AM
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Not true. I’m on the spectrum but I’m in shape and handsome so women literally throw themselves at me. I needed advice on learning how to navigate that and relationships, after a few failed ones. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:42 AM
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Lmao bro this is why TRP gets a bad rep.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 09:38 PM
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I hate that I’m becoming more RP the more I read this fucking subreddit. TRP is truth. The anger phase is a nasty one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:02 PM
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Lol - the hamstering is strong with this one. Youre lucky I like you cupcakelover.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:44 PM
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Yes which is the precursor to a relationship for those seeking it. I dont see the problem or how texting for logistics makes you one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:42 PM
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How does this play out in your head? We text for logistics and then what? Meet at a hotel and fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:37 PM
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Yo stop putting words in my mouth I said have a good time. That involves hanging out and getting to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:30 PM
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No. We simply date differently… its closer to the culture of the nordic people. Over there they typically hook up first, ensuring that visceral attraction is present, then they build upon that with a relationship. Some guys aren’t ready to settle down and thats fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:25 PM
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Not always. Some are looking for casual sex some want relationships, admittedly more the former than the latter, however merely only texting for logistics doesnt tell you which the guy is. Thats your mistake. Edit: To be fair to my fellow RPs most aren’t against relationships, it just isnt the focus. Personally most of my relationships stemmed from dating (where the goal was having fun/hooking up).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:12 PM
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Theres nothing to simplify. I told you why I and most guys like me (actual RP, not the caricature you see of it around here) do it and you can’t accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:55 PM
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No you’ll continue deluding yourself and calling strangers liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:50 PM
1

Believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:47 PM
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Theres a difference between some men doing it and most men doing it. I’m the RP’d one here, youre just going off of speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:45 PM
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Youre not even a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:42 PM
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As man who does this I’m telling you you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:39 PM
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Lmao “enlightened”. My guy this is a testosterone fueled circle jerk with an emphasis on becoming “the prize”. Reading shit like that makes me cringe but I have different values than most these guys so I dont really blame em.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 10:03 PM
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The problem with this advice is doing Chad shit without the confidence to back it up is the quickest way to become that guy. Otherwise good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 10:00 PM
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In my experience, most women lie to themselves. If you frame things in a different way, most fully agree with RP. Often they will say x is a dealbreaker but not actually break anything off. If you come off as desperate, falling into their frame, then they will use x as an excuse to drop you. This is one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:48 PM
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You’re overthinking it. Men who only text for logistics due so because they are busy or to give the illusion that they are i.e. maintain mystery. Any getting to know someone can absolutely be done in person, and the space between interactions keeps things fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:23 PM
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Let us know how you do. Interested to see how this unorthodox method of training works out for you. Im a huge proponent of HIIT cardio both in and out of weight training.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:12 PM
1

Ive gotten bad advice from coaches too. Have been lifting for over 16 years now and been a personal trainer for the past 4, but you do you; not my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:42 PM
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You know your shit, kudos. Def believe you are overtraining tho. Muscle burns fat, and in order to effectively build muscle (the whole point of you lifting, even if it is HIIT style cardio) you need rest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:15 PM
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Looked into this and i honestly think its bs. Their whole point is that women can do more reps cuz they have less absolute strength - well no shit sherlock. Have a guy do a similar %1RM and i bet they are doing the same amount of reps. Also they say women burn more fat while lifting weights - well no shit, women have more fat to burn. “News at 10: Fat people burn more fat while lifting than skinny people. The details after these commercials.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:09 PM
1

No issues but Id bet youd see more improvement if you switched it up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:01 PM
1

You def wanna do cardio after weights and youre also overtraining for sure, less is more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:59 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:41 PM
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Lmao it took you a week to come back and say nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:36 AM
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Youre talking about humans bro. The grass is always greener. Everyone fantasizes.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 05:15 PM
1

As a long time practicing buddhist I have to agree with GLO. You need to be able to set boundaries or people wont stop.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 07:14 AM
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The guy didnt punch his friend over pussy he punched him over his audacious disrespect.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 06:13 AM
1

Lmao cognitive dissonance again. Quit projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:57 AM
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They have a need to believe men did 90% of the work though. Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:53 AM
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Stop putting words in people’s mouths, especially over shit you clearly havent studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:33 AM
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My sister is in anthropology and yes….this is EXACTLY how it went.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:51 AM
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I was in agreement with u/M3taBuster but you hit the nail on the head. Its simply because men are more forgiving in dating (dat thirst).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:35 AM
1

Should have linked to the comments of that thread in r/science. There’s good information in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:28 AM
1

Inb4 “I dont make the rules I just follow them” This post is more legitimate than 99% of the shit we see on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:38 AM
1

Dude this is ridiculous. Low effort??? You dont think this science based post would be good for discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:35 AM
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I would put money on these men the women here are marrying having big dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:29 AM
1

I have personally had women throw themselves at me, as in get downright down and blatantly dirty, and I’m short. My face isn’t too bad though as one girl put it,” You are so handsome people actually double take you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:11 AM
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Its not that people want to be rewarded for being ‘good’ its that they are tired of people being awarded for being ‘bad’ while they seemingly get punished for being ‘good’.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:45 AM
1

Lol I’ll spell it out for you= perception is ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:23 AM
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You said wrong but almost everything you typed agrees with me. Lol Ive gotta take a break from PPD. Too much hamstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:28 PM
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I’m pointing to the malleability of attractiveness which in this day and age has largely been affected by the globalization of thirst via apps. Its not that 80% of men are substandard, its that women have developed large egos due to access. 4/10 Betty may be able to fuck 7/10 Dylan so she writes off anyone 6 and under as substandard. However, take away the apps, even with all the equality or whatever and I guarantee you Betty would be quite happy with 5/10 Tim. Nothing has changed about Tim exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:32 AM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you’d be a fool to believe society doesnt play a role in our conditioning of what is and isnt attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:10 AM
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Hes a handsome 6’2 in-shape guy with blue eyes Lmfao the cognitive dissonance never ceases to amaze me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:11 AM
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Your whole post is just a roundabout way of saying since women have more freedom than ever in choosing their sexual partners that MUST mean 80% of men are substandard. Wrong. Life is about perspective (Look at Brazil), with there being a nearly 50/50 distribution of men and women on this planet you will never convince me that 80% of either group is substandard. Women years ago were genuinely attracted to men under 6’2 believe it or not. The (western) world would be a much different place had soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:27 AM
1

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:07 AM
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he is 6’2 and has blue eyes Haha lmfao you have to be trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:11 PM
1

Which is it? Do men find it easier to write off their lack of emotional vulnerability as a women thing or is being vulnerable a risk for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:03 PM
1

You can disregard #2 as the prompt extends beyond romantic relationships 4 - Women love pity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:39 PM
1

What does it tell you oh wise one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:34 PM
1

Smile
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:20 PM
1

Miss
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:29 PM
0

Miss me with that passive aggressive BS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:23 PM
0

Self defeating mentality BS. Most men can hit the gym to significantly increase their attractiveness and there are very few naturally attractive men. Style goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:19 PM
1

A social study on dating apps does not mean 80% of men are substandard. There are many factors that play into this. First and foremost as the site mentions… But with the basic ratings so out-of-whack, the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the most salient of which is that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her, but she then goes right out and messages them anyway. Which shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:17 PM
1

gaslighting the world about their privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:01 PM
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Its not that 80% of men are substandard - actually think about what you are typing lmao. Its that women have developed giant egos from social media and online dating thus raising their standards. A lot of people have their anger misdirected at the opposite sex when everyone is just acting in their nature. The economy, (social) media, and dating apps are fucking up society, not women. That being said, a lot of mens anger (rightfully) comes from a world that is largely favoring women in areas beyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:00 AM
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Sadly it does. Ive personally witnessed it. Granted the dude is cheating on his wife, but he’s extremely competent at hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:43 AM
-1

He’s handsome and athletic because he loves himself enough to take care of his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:23 AM
0

What are you trying to say? On one hand youre saying “OLD isnt the issue” and on the other hand youre saying “Its not people’s fault” which the two arent mutually inclusive but its odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:07 AM
2

Lol u beautiful soul
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:53 AM
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Making her the focus during sex is not a recipe for disaster. My experience tells me differently. Eat your hearts out downvoters.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 01:08 PM
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Lol not blue pill at all my man. If you focus on making the woman cum first she will love you for it. Ive been successful way “out of my league” because as they put it “we are sexually compatible”. Also, girls are freaks. Lastly, who the fuck cares if he’s on the spectrum? Dont put the man down just because you disagree with him.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 07:27 AM
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Everyones a pervert. Some are simply better at hiding it then others
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 05:44 AM
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Ive got some idiot making bad faith arguments about something theyve clearly not taken the time to research. I’m done wasting my time friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:01 PM
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Cant argue with stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:44 PM
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As expected you literally have no fucking clue what youre talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:42 PM
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I am, chump - clearly evidenced by my earlier statement that there is some toxic stuff. You on the other hand have no clue what youre even arguing against.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:38 PM
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Youre clearly arguing in good faith. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:29 PM
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Not a copout - its truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:25 PM
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You dont actually know what TRP is…. Stereotypical post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:22 PM
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If youre implying TRP blames everyone else for their problems then that shows me you dont know the first thing about TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:02 PM
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My guy that kind of love doesn’t exist - at least not in the way youre hoping
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:04 PM
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Those people were likely to be angry with or without TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:00 PM
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I take it you attribute that to being single. Idk what scares you about relationships but companionship is a beautiful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:57 AM
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Thats why they call it the anger phase - the red pill is a tough one to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:54 AM
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You mustve wrongly assumed im an incel. Heres your correction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:55 AM
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Lmao most women chill at home and watch netflix
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:36 AM
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Lmao for what - some entitled misandrous little girl on the internet? im good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:09 AM
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Thats not a good one. Saying “werent you” is seeking her validation for the situation
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 07:46 AM
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This is the kind of shit I just cant get on board with. It reeks of insecurity. AWALT yes, but there are successful relationships.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 07:45 AM
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Thats your fatass ego talking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:11 AM
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No - this phenomena applies to all women; men too (see alphas in the sexual context). I personally have felt my attraction towards a partner waver based on my available options, its human nature In regards to xGTOW, thats reserved for a relatively small portion of the population, not the droves we currently see heading that way; this is partially what I mean when I say that I fear we are losing our humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:05 AM
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One of the things I can appreciate about TRP is that you guys “get it”. However, in the face of all the pessimism around here I genuinely believe we are coming upon an Age of Enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 05:57 AM
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Due to instant gratification and easy access through globalization (social media/dating apps) womens egos have been driven through the roof. They would not have a difficult time finding a man if their standards werent artificially inflated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:19 AM
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There is some toxic shit in there no doubt, but more time i spend with women the more i realize the truth of TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:16 AM
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Where did i say the providers would be earning minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:14 AM
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Prime example of hamstering aka intellectual dishonesty. Take notes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:36 PM
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Trp is all snake-oil concocted to appeal to insecure men. Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:27 PM
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Lmao. The hos would come out to fight the good fight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:24 PM
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Lmao @ you seriously trying to argue that men are worthless. Look even tho women drive me up the wall sometimes I still love them. Miserable people like you should go their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:20 PM
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Dope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:14 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:03 PM
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Lol right. If you understood what he meant you wouldnt have made your little “men seem to forget” comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:53 PM
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Damn son I might have to call an ambulance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:40 PM
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Lol women seem to be illogical. Hes making a comparison between having kids and dogs, one of which is more likely to be the product of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:38 PM
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I’m all for freedom. However, here we go again with this narrative that women are more valuable then men. They are not. Both men and women enjoy sex. Both men and women enjoy companionship. Go your own way if you want but dont act like men are worthless just because they arent paying for all your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:27 PM
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I could say… Women are ungrateful. They’re stricken with choice paralysis and have deemed most men unworthy which is kind of pretentious. They would rather share a greater man than be with someone of equal caliber which I, as a man, find quite pathetic. Or… Men have become coddled. All the things that are supposed to be mentally healthy are actually extremely unattractive to women but society is likely to continually grow more progressive not less. Women like assertive, dominant, competitive lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:09 PM
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Radical idea: Prostitution should be government regulated and subsidized. Supply and Demand + womens giant egos are the only reason its so expensive. The ones who choose this life actually enjoy sex quite a bit. If it was a government regulated job we’d have more volunteers. If it was normalized and affordable the providers would have to deal with less awkward creeps. There’d still be a level of risk involved but government regulation would mitigate this as much as possible. Ultimately man is ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:19 AM
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Lmao women have more freedom and power than ever with an ocean of men to choose from yet many still go this route
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:56 AM
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as a man all i can say is its crazy how people literally respect you just for being good-looking men will ask for advice, women will approach you; people overall are friendlier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:09 AM
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It's amoral in the fact that it works. It's amoral as a tool, but there's a way to use it that'll lead to the most good IMO. Highly subjective, I suppose. i'd agree however we are here to discuss sexual dynamics (how things are and why they are) rather than facilitate any particular way of thinking Well who in the world would argue that it's healthy to have zero boundaries, even just with 1 loved one/lover? I think we all know how that ends up... we don't know of all cases, some people vehementl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:13 PM
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But there's also such a thing as boundaries that MUST remain firm. philosophically debatable, but ill give this one to you as there are certain things that i wouldn't permit (e.g. hard impact play) Make it less about passing boundaries and more about showing that you have a person's best interest at heart, through social intelligence and confidence and bonding. THAT is what I think can be healthy, in the way that you are describing "calibration." i wish i could but the uncomfortable truth is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:49 PM
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i acquiesce that i may have muddled my point with that extreme however to be fair calibration includes a myriad of solutions so i still think it has merit on the topic of abuse, i knew some people would be triggered by the 'passing of boundaries' so to speak, but the uncomfortable truth is its a fundamental part of relationships, and another uncomfortable truth is that for women how much they enjoy something is largely correlated to how attracted they are to their partner... now of course there …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:25 PM
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all other factors being the equal, the man who is the most proactive will get it if we include calibration then all other factors being equal, the man who is the most proactive and emotionally intelligent will get it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:11 PM
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LOL they're almost always one and the same. almost, they are often intrinsically related but they are not the same respect just like "alphaness" isnt this static tangible thing, people can respect you for certain subjective qualities/context which can change at any time i do know men who are respected by their peers but not their wives (its called being pussy whipped) and i know men who couldnt care less about "respect" from their peers who are absolute masters of their dating domain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:50 PM
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no youre confusing being respected as a sexual partner with being respected in general. respect is given out for a number of subjective reasons but in the case of being respected as a sexual partner it is imperative that men push the boundaries of the relationship, and in doing so they are going to have to calibrate. no guy just straight up asks a girl if she wants to fuck, although some guys meet the threshold of attraction to where that'd work for some women if they gauged the situation correc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:57 AM
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semantics. presenting your best abilities is part of attracting a partner i.e. making a partner attracted to you. women are very fickle. they're like schrodinger's cat they are both attracted and not attracted to you depending on how you calibrate. a physically attractive dude can mess up just like a conventionally unattractive dude can give off big dick energy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:42 AM
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So people not wanting what you offer is your fault? Otlr they are simply not allowed to say no? what im saying is that if you get a no you didnt calibrate correctly i.e. didnt build sufficient attraction before asking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:40 AM
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first, if you get a no, you arent calibrating correctly now, show me the comment where i say push the woman's boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:31 AM
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...lol what point are you trying to make buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:26 AM
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thats a part of calibration in addition to knowing when and what to say at the right time To make it sexual you make a sexual offer. this pushes the boundaries of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:21 AM
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dont focus on it being her boundaries, think of it more like the boundaries of the relationship.... at some point youre going to have to move the relationship from platonic to sexual and it will take calibration to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:04 AM
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yes it is, even that first step could be considered harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:51 AM
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lol im in my 30s and have been with a healthy number of women your whole post is just a roundabout way of describing someone who is shamelessly confident - so much so that i find it hard to believe you arent reading that and laughing at yourself lastly, emotional intelligence in itself is a form of competence and that just points to the larger picture that there is so much subjectivity and nuance to what is "great" that anyone can be confident if they truly believe in themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:43 AM
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are you claiming to be so attractive that you force every woman in your life to make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:13 AM
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nah to call it mirroring is an oversimplification. sure mirroring is part of calibration which is part of emotional intelligence but they are not the same. secondly a guy maintaining his frame and calibrating arent mutually exclusive actions. a guy can have almost nothing going for him but if he is shamelessly confident and has calibrated correctly women will interpret such as big dick energy. it works on women from all walks of life, career women and all. lastly to call this 'fake' is an entire…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:50 AM
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sure there are some girls who are extremely explicit about consent, usually victims of sexual abuse but for most actually asking that question kind of kills the mood - it typically indicates a lack of confidence (and isnt asked with such) if a guy has actually read the situation (aka calibrated) correctly he will just go for the kiss instead of asking this rhetorical question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:41 AM
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reread, lol i figured you'd try some lame gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:24 AM
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if said by a shamelessly confident man (who otherwise would've just gone for the kiss had he calibrated sooner instead of with this question) otherwise its sexual harrasment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:22 AM
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"can i kiss you?" is so sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:10 AM
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push and pull, emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:27 AM
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And I want to add something which is that men do not care about you doing anal or even you blowing them if you’re hot enough. If you are hot enough to them you can be a damn starfish and they’ll wife you. Believe that. tell me you exclusively date down without saying you exclusively date down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:29 AM
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this is one of those posts where people attack the literal words instead of the message being conveyed you are absolutely right bro and people DO NOT WANT TO ADMIT IT BECAUSE IT MAKES THEM UNCOMFORTABLE men absolutely have to push boundaries if they want to be respected as a potential partner i dont care about downvotes anymore people, eat your hearts out - my experience with several hundreds of women, being on both sides of the fence, show me OP is absolutely correct people just dont want to ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:24 AM
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i prefer women with intelligence. as someone with a bit myself, having the capacity to understand and carry on conversations about nuanced topics is a huge plus. my longest and most compatible partner to date attended Cornell at the time. on the other hand, there is one girl i dated for a few months who i swear had a 2-digit iq but there was something so endearing about it 🥲 ambition however means jack squat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:30 PM
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if u had my dick you'd believe it too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:53 AM
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lol this comment literally exists but some guys believe "not too big, not too small" is a veiled insult
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:02 AM
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i took it as her saying my dick was perfect, not a veiled insult at all... there is a such thing as too big bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:57 AM
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thats insecurity speaking bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:54 AM
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look i cant speak for others but i have had one ex in particular say i have "bf dick"; as she put it "not too big, not too small"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:38 PM
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lol screams like a child and then says im done with absolutely no sources.... this is why they say dont argue with women folks, the mental gymnastics are truly something to behold
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:41 AM
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Did you seriously Google the search statistics for the words "pick me" and "male feminist" and think that that proves anything lmfao, what is that supposed to prove. it lends evidence towards the fact that there are more male feminists than pick-mes, most people dont even know what a pick me is, yet you claim they are everywhere Like i said women are pickme's by behaviour, here you go moving the goalposts again. no we are talking about "pick-mes" most women arent pick-mes just because many peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:20 PM
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thats an illogical comparison because your original argument is that women have had to solve their own problems without the help of men so men should do the same (an argument that i already proved wrong but you moved the goalposts by saying you meant women created feminism which i politely ignored). i point to male feminists. your argument now changes to but pick-mes and somehow you throw a little spice on there claiming that they outnumber men. well here's what google trends have to say about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:36 PM
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lmao "widespread abundance" 95/100 ppl in the real world have no fucking clue what a pick me is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:21 PM
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yeah youre deluding yourself. your little corner of the internet doesnt reflect the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:14 PM
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Then you haven't been paying attention. There's a tragic amount of female pick-me's, they're everywhere. ive literally never met one in my life here's an experiment, go ask people in public what a pick me even is and report back here with the results My point is that men as a collective have never come together to stand up against female issues, which is what you expect from women. Throughout all of history you've never gave a shit about us and let us fend for ourselves and now you expect women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:06 PM
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youre deluding yourself if you believe the number of pickmes are comparable to the number of whiteknights/male feminists...the two arent even in the same ballpark Edit- From wiki: Since the 19th century, men have taken part in significant cultural and political responses to feminism within each "wave" of the movement. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in a range of social relations, generally done through a "strategic leveraging" of male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:55 AM
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Do you men seriously expect other people other than yourselves to fight for whatever it is you care about? When does that ever happen in this world? I don't see men fighting for female rights in the middle east, i don't see men caring about female issues. where did the term whiteknighting come from? how about male feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:43 AM
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bingo. theres a difference between tolerating pain in competition and actually enjoying it in submission
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:48 AM
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have you ever been on a bdsm site? most of the masochists are women. and as someone who also trains, i would rather get hit than subject myself to some of the shit they're into
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:46 AM
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but shes here to debate people on them 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:39 PM
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i think you replied to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:34 AM
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you are not average
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:28 AM
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unless youre some psychopath with unlimited energy 9/10 it is out of the realm for the average guy if our economy supported single breadwinner households we wouldnt be here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:38 AM
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Read what you just posted, and then tell me you're not a giant fucking asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:09 AM
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How is he gonna know what treatment he is getting vs her previous partners? vibes and experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:50 AM
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if they see you as hookup potential they are pretty brazen about it however if they meet a guy that they're willing to settle down with who would frown upon it then they hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:28 AM
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thats a real story and i know the billionaire who hosted that particular party so....yeah edit - it was never about what they do at the parties, its about the fact that billionaires do hire escorts; i dont believe they were doing anything [too] degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:09 AM
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holy shit are you me? Since that happened I’ve been incapable of feeling close to women or developing romantic feelings for them because I feel like I’m unattractive/unsexy when I treat women right and feel sexy/attractive when I treat them like shit like her ex did to her. SPOT ON It’s been a long time since this happened but there’s a small part of me that wants to message her and tell her how much that fucked me up and has damaged my entire life since then. Idk why I feel that way but I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:20 PM
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nah this is a fantasy i live in LA where the rich and famous thrive - and lemme tell you, yes, they do pay for escorts you might be thinking of situations where rich and/or famous guys pick up women at clubs just because they're rich/famous which is common however if its a party with beautiful women 99% of the time they were paid to be there (excluding networking parties) i've heard stories of dress up parties where there's like 10 billionaires and they hire the 100 most beautiful women in the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:37 AM
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Ez win ah - knew it btw you don't win shit by crying "do your own research" but go ahead and keep illustrating your stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:50 AM
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lol youre fucking stupid bro edit - funny thing is i can see your logic but like i said, youre being disingenuous anyone on this board asking "where is x?" is typically asking "where is x [on this board/in our sexual marketplace]?" but youre playing coy for internet points so go ahead and pat yourself on the back u fucking loser
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:23 AM
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bitch, quit sidestepping first im a dude and second, most men in our culture don't want absolute control in a relationship which is what the guy was implying by asking where are all these men - you know that but want to feel smart edit - this is why you conveniently ignore this part of my initial message there are far more people who like to hate on tradcons then there are tradcons
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:10 AM
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you didnt prove shit wrong the question was asked who wants absolute control in relationship and your dumbass says dudes in the middle east cuz dudes in the middle east are ones posting on this board right? i forgot our cultures are exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:47 AM
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great job moving the goalposts which is kind of ironic cuz i can tell by the snarky tone of your post that you pat yourself on the back after that last one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:50 PM
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yeah and youre being disingenuous about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:50 PM
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there are far more people who like to hate on tradcons then there are tradcons - who tf cares about dating in the middle east
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:01 AM
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first off stop being an asshole, you know nothing about op secondly just like people need money they need healthy relationships, taking away one's loved one only illustrates their level of dependence after entering the relationship, ill give you that - however what youre ignoring is that 95% of people are seeking them - why is that? one could extrapolate that relationships are pivotal to a healthy life (big shocker, i know - maslow's hierarchy of needs, anyone?) if we are to address the meat of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:04 PM
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do you not understand what im saying? the only reason there is a difference is because you become attached to whatever you have newsflash everyone is dependent on healthy relationships to thrive- it shouldnt be this hard edit to address your edit which addresses my previous edit - who said op was in a state of despair? im confident he has clarified many times that people can be happy, they are just happier in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:43 PM
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because u become dependent on it on top of that, money matters (just like healthy relationships) - even if you never had that $25k you would be finding other ways to acquire money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:21 PM
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man ive retyped this so many times as its quite nuanced but i finally have it! people ultimately dont want to be abused in relationships and the message of "learn to be happy by yourself" is really directed at abusers using the aformentioned analogy think of one's happiness on a scale from 1 to 10, now imagine a relationship gives you a boost of 3, however you need a minimum of 7 happiness to not be problematic for your partner a very unhappy person (<4/10) could be a detriment to one's health t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:14 PM
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You can't assume away the sudden removal of an important person in someone's life. why not? if anything this illustrates the level of dependence on these healthy relationships which supports op's hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:44 PM
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So why is there a stereotype about men “trading up” their wife for someone younger when they start doing well financially but not the other way around? because [modern] men dont value financial success in women [beyond having a job/career]. a more accurate analogy would be if the wife started getting in better shape and then she branch swings....which happens all the time Why do men abandon sick spouses at much higher rates? abandon? no... maybe cheat but this is different from hypergamy where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:31 AM
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did u even watch the video
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:00 AM
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actually i reread it and i suppose its possible u didnt have malicious intent when u typed it, im not there to hear the tonality of u saying it - my b
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:46 PM
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all thats true...but u kno what youre doing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:42 PM
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cuz u were
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:30 PM
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i needed time to think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:18 AM
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you know what you were implying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:13 AM
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i was actually tested in elementary school and its definitely higher than youre giving me credit for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:01 AM
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the problem is you should already be doing that stuff and attracting a woman is a byproduct - stop treating every woman as if theyre supposed to be 'the one' and start having realistic expectations about them and i believe you'll find a lot more success
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:56 AM
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i mean if u wanna strawman me cool but im refering to the overall angry tone of your posts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:46 AM
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no - men are the romantics, this is something we wouldn't do some men would cheat... very, very few would actually leave their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:56 PM
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when trp refers to a woman's hypergamy its much more than "she's dating the best man she can get" - its refering to the fact that she will leave her current man, at any time, if she percieves that she can safely branch swing her current man doesnt even have to do anything wrong, all that has to happen is another higher value man giving her the feels and indicating he's willing to date her then she'll begin to rationalize everything after the fact: "we just started to drift apart..."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:54 PM
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nah i think having the shitty vindictive attitude you have is whats gonna get us nowhere what are you hoping for some handmaiden's tale type bs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:32 PM
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a pyrrhic victory? c'mon dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:31 PM
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sure there are some universally attractive features but there are so many additional variables as well; considering we don't know how much weight to give to any particular one, or if we should even be thinking of it like that, its worth discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:28 PM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:26 PM
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its not women you should worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:24 PM
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hey you do you but if you act like an asshole expect to get treated like an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:19 PM
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not that im for or against it but this is a shit argument the economical safety nets aren't what uphold the morality of how people get their money. even ignoring the fact that many of these nets don't provide a comfortable life nor are they easily accessible for the able-bodied layman, the guy's point was that people still find assholes to be assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:01 PM
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isnt this purplepilldebate, where its heavily debated what actually makes a person attractive? this is completely ignoring that yes, society and culture does in fact affect your dating preferences if we'd like to make the future better for everyone its worth discussing those things now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:51 PM
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we arent getting anywhere with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:01 PM
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oh don't be so dramatic dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:00 PM
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youre speaking to the wrong dude about simping anyways what makes your guy a great companion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:59 PM
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apparently you've completely forgotten that there are men, like myself, who do get laid no wonder you were trying to convince me that women don't like sex the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:56 PM
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i dont disagree however my focus is more on the socially open aspects of the culture in general speaking of which one of my best friends growing up was born and raised in brazil, and her family was way closer than mine, they had gatherings like twice a week
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:31 AM
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that the failings of the sexual marketplace come from misguided institutions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:27 AM
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no its because of choice paralysis and instant gratification combined with toxic people on both sides its a vicious cycle on a separate note i see you're kinda crazy for your man - what do you like about him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:22 AM
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because not even women are legitimately happy with their end of the bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:18 PM
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yes the guys seem genuine, keep downvoting me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:16 PM
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nah this is a shortsighted oversimplification which conveniently handwaves away everything to do with the post ignoring the blatant cultural differences at play here, you cant even define beta cuz its a contextually dependent and subjective buzzword
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:15 PM
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if people watched the video they'd find that those guys just met. the man speaking doesnt have any incentive to lie, he's just sincerely sharing his experience. i highly doubt the guy filming, who is the host of the channel, told this new acquaintance what to say about brazil when he invited him down to see what brazil was like. that'd be incredibly awkward and disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:38 PM
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this is what happens when we purport a culture of 'winning', often times at the expense of our peers a la capitalism its not about community or our fellow man anymore, its about having the most followers, being the most attractive, having the most money, etc, etc this combined with the victim mentality thats propagated by extremist feminism and you get where we are today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:25 PM
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nah its a symptom of a bigger issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:12 PM
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lol you do you man i agree asking women to simply lower their standards is cringe but im asking people as a whole to question their conditioning and the efficacy of social media and dating platforms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:02 AM
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no its because i interpet that as part of being a man, you literally say it yourself and men are failing at being men, thus women don't want them? This is simple math here. And my message is that men should instead learn to be happy without women. but my point is that we do need each other, both sides just have to be willing to lower their walls; these walls being put in place by the aformentioned issues edit- wait i get you. no, i dont agree we should just be happy alone. dont get me wrong i be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:50 AM
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the guys are just sharing their experience which involves a lot more than BRAZILIAN WOMEN HOT and yes, i agree, a lot of those examples you give are an issue of instant gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:35 AM
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the fact that you guys are laser focused in on the brazilian women's hotness demonstrates your insecurity that being said you make a good point about people moving around but they have been doing so for decades now and we are only most recently seeing a social decline
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:13 AM
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i agree but i believe both are equally important
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:59 AM
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personally i think thats just a bunch of be a man nonsense and doesnt address the underlying issues society faces
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:54 AM
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what is your point? with or without the brazilian women to make you feel insecure the things i said still hold weight try attacking those points instead of crying not all brazilian women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:50 AM
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you dont speak for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:48 AM
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reply to those comments so i can address you better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:47 AM
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there are many factors that affect your uprbringing besides your parents
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:46 AM
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drawing a comparison between two different cultures to illustrate my point doesnt seem dumb - since this a controversial topic any video is likely to be critiscized people who are saying 'not all of brazil is like that!' are kind of missing the point, in my opinion, cuz then its a matter of why is rio de janeiro like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:44 AM
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someone from brazil commented that on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:38 AM
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people are culturally different, they are simply addressing their experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:36 AM
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my point is they are projecting their mindets onto culturally different people im sure the women dont feel like victims when being kissed by someone they fancied
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:32 AM
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what statements have i made about brazil? could've sworn the literal title of this was asking what you thought of the video
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:24 AM
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lol by a couple of guys talking about brazil
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:22 AM
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look, if you need help, people have no problem giving it to you but personally i'd rather be solution focused than problem focused and all this has nothing to do with the video
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:21 AM
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instant gratification is much more than the attention you get from your parents
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:18 AM
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Lots of people complain that LA is very superficial. But the difference is I can still be in the US and not in LA. I've heard the plastic surgery bit applicable in Brazil generally, not just in Rio or Brasilia or some specific city. the complaints about superficiality have to do with the "hollywood fakeness" that permeates out here, noone is complaining about plastic surgery are people really happier? Good point and when I see in my own social circles, those who haven't paired up aren't happy. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:16 AM
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i believe its less that there are more beautiful women in brazil and moreso that women are friendlier there as beauty is subjective to your surroundings and the fact that people still struggle with dating even in cities like LA where there are tons of attractive people everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:06 AM
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instant gratification in the form of social media, dating apps, VOD, porn, video games, fast food, etc, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:29 PM
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Poorer communities also tend to have stronger community ties because in the face of economic scarcity, human capital becomes that much more valuable and valued. lol why isnt the us coming together then I haven't been to Brazil but I must say, as a woman I wouldn't want to live in that culture where women are considered inferior to men and openly objectified. the open objectified thing is debatable, but i agree... noone wants to be considered inferior however i dont know just how much of a societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:16 PM
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lol i knew it where did i say that was exclusive to women? ill wait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:03 PM
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both are just answering questions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:02 PM
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oh yeah the guy filming totally told his boy what to say beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:02 PM
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nah women out here have no problem using dudes for free food or just changing their minds and ghosting you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:00 PM
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im not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:58 PM
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by instant gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:57 PM
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i actually agree with you there. i think its a combination of all things but there is the consideration that the us has a much better economy than brazil
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:56 PM
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nah just found it my suggested videos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:55 PM
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well thats because i dont have a victim mindset and skipped over the part i assumed people would understand: that there was some nonverbal communication before the man made his move
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:54 PM
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sure but as someone who's lived all over the country from the south to the west to the north to suburbs, cities you name it - experiencing life as a kid is much different than as an adult; that person was raised in Brazil but has lived their adult life as an american college student
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:49 PM
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i thought the world was a lot friendlier and liberal when i was in college, reality set in when i moved to the city
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:43 PM
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because having an idea of what life will be like and actually experiencing it are completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:39 PM
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fair but the idea of loser/weird is skewed by culture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:36 PM
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ok but theres a difference when reality sets in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:36 PM
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realistically its taking the word from two strangers who have lived in brazil so there's not much of a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:33 PM
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did you know how tough making friends would be once you got out of school?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:30 PM
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what im saying is people are being raised a bit more narcissistically over here and they've been poisoned/coddled (your pick) by instant gratification which is proving to be detrimental to society you know how traditionally the only women who were single back in the day were like that bitchy old aunt with a bunch of cats well that numbers going up, as well as mgtow because we are all being convinced we don't need each other mgtow and cats are a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:29 PM
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i dont disagree but i find it hard to take the word of someone who hasnt even experienced life as an adult out of college yet over someone who's living there as an adult edit - clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:22 PM
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people are so quick to block each other and there's the whole cancel culture that has gotten a bit extreme considering the fact that at the end of the day we're all humans who want to be loved and most of us would save a stranger if they were drowning another example is the fact that people are surprised to hear that one of my best friends is vehemently against black lives matter considering i'm half black. but the reality is that even though we may get into heated debates about that stuff somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:20 PM
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sure but that doesnt make me a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:16 PM
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yes, and once they do they would find that the us is less open socially than brazil if they travelled here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:13 PM
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since im catching a whiff of contention a better question would be what do you disagree with? or what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:10 PM
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nah - just dumb biden vs trump stuff ironically im not biased toward either side
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:07 PM
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of course you do, but the world changes quite a bit once you don't have the social net of college
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:03 PM
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all im saying is wait till you get out of college
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:57 PM
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best example i can give off the top of my head is the fact that im blocked by some of my own family members on facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:56 PM
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colleges are more socially open to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:41 PM
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because responsibility sucks and 9/10 women would rather have a man that they trust be responsible for shit Wut its quite simple really. your whole post reeks of vindictiveness so this may be hard for you to understand but in couples someones got to lead, this is usually the man - it does not mean that he bosses her around nor does it mean that they don't discuss things as a team, it simply means that he leads
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:48 AM
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But men aren't preforming their roll. We've seen that duel income 40 hour work weeks are the norm now. Most women work full time. this is just more of the men suck narrative. just because women are working too doesnt mean "men aren't performing their rol[e]". what do you even mean by that? So why would she submit? She does half or better of everything. She is his partner in efforts and contributions so why would she logically want to be treated as his subordinate? because responsibility sucks an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:09 PM
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seriously man i love me some aphex twin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:02 PM
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lmao shove your passive aggression up your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:47 PM
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really? your big retort is to just handwave it away and call me dramatic and weird whatever...keep hating men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:05 PM
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yeah online dating's trash but the landscape out there sucks bro trust me - im not a bad looking or super shy guy the biggest hurdle for me is making friends/starting new activities when im already trying to juggle work, fitness, and chores
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:13 PM
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nah you would think that but it has the opposite effect since women weigh their attraction based off of apex fallacy and they're willing to share for instance you'd think dating would be easier in LA due to the larger number of people but realistically it plays out much different the actors, athletes, and models are killing it but not so much everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:24 PM
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no you're wrong i just checked the subreddit to make sure i wasnt taking things out of context literally read posts about how girls think its ok to play nice and sweet to get free meals and then ghost the dudes if thats not emotional manipulation idk what is edit - thats the thing about deciding who "deserves attention" or not, its completely subjective and these girls end up hurting innocent people cuz of it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:08 PM
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i take it you havent read literally any of the other responses here and are just being obtuse to try to win an internet argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:51 PM
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how about some aspects, but not all, of both are manipulative it would be far more effective if instead of attacking blanket terms like FDS and TRP we would just attack specific things they do that we find unethical/ineffective or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:17 PM
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FDS emotionally abuses men they are actively vetting as part of their vetting process which is completely different from ignoring strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:03 PM
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your whole post assumes that the person stringing the other along is unaware of the situation which is hardly the case - i agree that communication definitely helps but everything's not so cut and dry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:00 PM
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Withdrawing attention from men that do not deserve it is not abuse. i think they call that stonewalling and it is a form of emotional abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:50 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:05 AM
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obviously adult relationships are too nuanced for your simple minded brain - good thing you aren't leading any countries
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:57 AM
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who tf are you? the morality police? go suck a "worthy" dick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:27 PM
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seriously why don't you back tf off? why are you so critical of my life? i'm happy. i don't put up with bs AND i get to extract value from people (example: tattoo artist that would HOOK ME UP) who otherwise would have been written off as "worthless" if i adhered to your shitty black and white thinking - it's like you're not even reading what i'm typing cuz you keep twisting shit to fit your cunty worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:04 PM
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You tell them with your actions of occasionally hanging out with them S T R E T C H You said you have “friends” who aren’t people you like to spend a lot of time with there's a reason that word's in quotations
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:53 AM
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no, you are twisting my words doesn’t mean I need to placate shitty people by telling them they have a value in my life where, anywhere in our discourse, did you read something about me telling shitty people they have value in my life? explain how im wasting my time edit - the answer's obviously by talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:07 PM
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its because of two fundamental things the first is social media which has algorithmically divided people via echo chambers -because we have devoloped into a society of instant gratification, we have a lower tolerance for people who dont share our views and -its easier to fight with people when you arent talking face to face the second are dating apps which give people seemingly limitless options -people develop choice paralysis/unwillingness to compromise because of fomo i.e. there's always a be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:18 AM
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keep twisting what im saying to fit your pessimistic worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:11 AM
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sure but with one mindset there is potential for further value to be gained ...and just overall gratitude lol edit - clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:11 AM
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no, there's an explicit difference in mindsets here - i don't label people as worthless for the aforementioned reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:48 AM
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cuz i dont think black and white like you if i dont like someone i dont hang out with them, its that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:16 PM
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you extrapolated 'i allow bs in my life' from 'sometimes im around people that i'd rather not hang out with every day' which is untrue if you want to go around writing people off as worthless and that works... good for you personally i would have missed out on some great experiences and opportunities had i been as close-minded
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:56 PM
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like i said life and people are more complex than that i have friends that are kind of nasty people that i generally dont hang out with, but that doesnt automatically mean any time i do its a bad experience - they are also tattoo artists and would hook me up if i wanted at the end of the day, for me, the bad still outweighs the good but they are not worthless... (you can also reread my taco example of someone indirectly adding value)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:39 PM
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just because the bad outweighs the good doesnt mean its all-bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:22 PM
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i wouldnt keep them in my life but that doesnt mean theyre worthless to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:33 PM
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good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:24 PM
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just because someone isn't a net gain doesnt make them worthless to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:18 PM
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lol there's a whole pathology here to be explored but regardless the world's full of people who add value to your life indirectly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:13 PM
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look i know im not gonna convince someone who almost narcissistically labels people as worthless or non-worthless to them but everythings not so black and white, sure i can have tacos at any time but im still grateful when i have them and if someone drags me out to do so then they have provided value to my life in that moment (tacos, fresh air, exercise, sunlight)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:00 PM
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men have been saying women arent fit for military and construction and garbage and plumbing, etc since those jobs exist and women hardly gravitate towards those jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:55 PM
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even so, maybe you guys grabbed food or maybe you went for a walk and you got some exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:41 PM
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no you dont. you dont go on a 2nd date after a completely dull first one. like i said there was something positive about the experience even if you vehemently refuse to acknowledge it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:33 PM
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no i guarantee you if guys talk like that about those jobs, nothing will happen. case in point, the military also given the fact that people have been shaving since biblical times, and women have just most recently started shaving less contributes to the fact that it is about 'empowerment' and not so much 'just because you say we cant do this'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:30 PM
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so you went on more then one date with these guys...im assuming they werent completely boring for that to happen which means one of two, or both things- a)they gave you good feelings b)there was something that wasnt apparent at first that you discovered you didnt like value
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:20 PM
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realistically anyone likes to prove themselves, this isnt exclusive to women what jobs are women taking as a result of men talking like that? edit - clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:02 PM
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you wouldnt get the experience without the person are you telling me you have a completely static personality, having known everything you do and dont like, whats good and bad from birth? on top of that im sure they gave you good feelings some of the time, maybe they bought you things, maybe you guys had sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:57 PM
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lol i bet you guys cant do construction, plumbing, or garbage work 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:48 PM
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Oh come on now. Y'all hear "the plurality of couples meet online" and extrapolate that to "THERE IS LITERALLY NO WAY TO DATE BUT TINDER." c'mon thats just as much of an exaggeration as the example you used over 70% of relationships start via OLD, now thats not to say you cant meet someone in the real world but there are implications to such apps the same as there are with other forms of social media a la instant gratification and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:23 PM
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ah yes thats why most women are lesbians /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:48 PM
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she's aesexual and projecting her experience onto them...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:46 PM
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youre conflating sexuality with promiscuity - the majority of women are heterosexual, but they arent promiscuous also sexuality absolutely is on a spectrum - its not all or nothing... i would know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:47 PM
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just because women's sexuality doesnt work that way doesnt mean they dont want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:39 PM
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yes my experience tells me women want dick too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:35 PM
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you've extrapolated "the majority of women are aesexual" from "as many as 30% of women experience sexual dysfunction" - that is a bit of a leap
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:31 PM
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of course they arent as horny as men what point are you trying to make? that the majority of women are aesexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:23 PM
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what studies edit - its laughable that youre trying to argue that women dont get horny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:09 PM
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i dont know what you mean by that but your logic doesnt add up women are horny just like men. whatever means they use to secure sex is after the fact
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:48 PM
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most people arent in a rush to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:34 PM
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Women are not interested in taking dick. They're looking for richbuxx. women are horny too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:29 PM
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unless your point is that we can't give weight to any aspects of dating i don't know what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:08 AM
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what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:47 AM
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any romance in this day and age equals thirst
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:54 AM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:47 AM
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bro this is literally rocket science to these guys for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:46 AM
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talking about when approaching women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:45 AM
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masculine do not get excited, happiness is different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:44 AM
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not if you have a bad attitude about yourself, i promise you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:42 AM
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i'm not saying don't fix the things in your life when you are unhappy. i'm saying have a level of positivity about you when approaching women and (for the reasons i listed in the post) you will see a lot more success....this is why fake it till you make it works...which it does this is something that is often overlooked as people give more weight to other things, but the key difference in my post is the fact that i believe its the greatest contributing factor. if people were more mindful about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:41 AM
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i agree. looks are still important
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:32 AM
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my point is to have good energy/positivity about you when talking to women and you will see a lot more success, not 'just be happy bro'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:29 AM
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Im not gonna read the whole post lol lol stopped there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:28 AM
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one can surround themselves with positivity but if they aren't happy and confident when approaching women, it won't help
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:27 AM
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it happens man, i've seen it myself ever heard of big dick energy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:26 AM
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i don't agree - being ghosted after you've given a level of emotional investment in someone never feels good, even if it was just meaningless sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:25 AM
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it is realistic. most unsuccessful men are insecure and unhappy. i'm not saying its a cure all, but if you are confident and happy you will be more successful than not and a guy who is attractive but insecure will still push women away, thus i believe having good energy is the most important aspect of talking to women (which doesn't mean the other parts aren't important)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:38 PM
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women take care of their children (this includes providing for them) but operate differently in society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:31 PM
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perhaps being happy is equally important. if one is attractive but unhappy then they won't be successful. if you're happy aka you pass all the shit tests then you'll be wildly more successful edit - no, now that i think about it, just because one trait is the greatest contributing factor doesn't mean the others aren't important, so i retract this... I still believe happiness aka good vibes is the greatest factor, as without it one will not succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:24 PM
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being happy ≠ being a clown or someone's personal entertainment system
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:09 PM
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Men who struggle with relationships also do seem to be unhappy. Correlation being what it is, I don't think if they were less miserable it would totally fix their woman issues. i agree, but im talking about the initial hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:07 PM
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You can be happy as a gibbon and dumb as a jellyfish, while you’re life is in ruins. and those guys are getting laid, seen it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:04 PM
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go talk to women and see if having a negative or positive attitude will get you laid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:49 PM
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you would think so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:46 PM
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i don't disagree that a mother takes care of her kids but when operating in society they typically leave the responsibility of their family, and often times, by extension their own actions, up to the father also why do you think the phrase "happy wife, happy life" exists? its cuz you don't argue with your wife, she is always right - what is that if not a lack of responsibility women in society are hardly the first to step up to the plate of responsibility, most things are men's problem to solve
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:34 PM
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lmfao that's hilarious dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:29 PM
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i feel this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:25 PM
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lol i mean in the context of what im talking about smartass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:24 PM
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i genuinely feel like im hitting these guys with some wisdom and they're all like "no its this, this, this, and this" the irony is that mindset is literally the reason a lot of these guys aren't getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:22 PM
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Trapped? No, nobody is forcing someone to stay with someone who is shit. Because bad boys do not commit. lol which is it dude And the games they play are fake as fuck yet women fall for them all the time. yes they are charming aka they bring the good vibes aka they aren't insecure how is this news to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:19 PM
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even the bad boys are confident (aka good vibes) around them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:14 PM
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you're talking about the decisions of a few powerful people like i said most good deeds go unheard of and good news doesn't make the news edit - keep conveniently ignoring the fact that we have only made it this far as a species because we're prosocial
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:11 PM
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What they want is Sexual satisfaction, self-indulgence and no accountability. what is this supposed to mean? i'm talking about getting laid I give you personality matters but is not the predominant factor nor the tie breaker we're just gonna have to agree to disagree. i give examples in my other responses why this is the case
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:09 PM
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i'm not talking about the subjectivity of losers and winners bro i'm talking about how good vibes get you laid EDIT: those dudes living in their basements would act insecure when approaching women aka bad vibes the doctors would not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:05 PM
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this is rare. most women want a confident, happy man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:04 PM
3

exactly. this is literally what i'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:02 PM
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Women are terrible at reading emotions and people. Just look at how many women get with abusive men. no they aren't - they end up trapped with those men after they show them a good time aka good vibes Nope, they love the concept of a sexy brooding man period. yeah in theory...but it doesn't really play out like that in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:59 PM
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you're arguing semantics, people want to feel good...that's good vibes i've explained multiple times why this is the case, read my other responses
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:50 PM
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nah dude, humans are naturally compassionate people, it's just that acts of good often go unseen and good news rarely makes the news - you only think otherwise likely cuz you're projecting your own mindset onto the world i have personally met plenty of compassionate people, seen plenty of compassionate acts by unassuming people, and so on... and like i said, we literally have only gotten this far as a species because we learned to work together aka "if the group succeeds, i succeed"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:47 PM
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which is antisocial
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:44 PM
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i say this because even if you are rich and handsome if you are defensive aka unhappy aka insecure you will fail a girl will be willing to overlook the first two if a guy is confident; that means he is happy and he is secure (which subsconsciously tells them he must have something else going on i.e. status, big dick, etc...)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:42 PM
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care to elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:38 PM
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not at all dude, that's the most antisocial take i've read which is kinda ironic given that we're a prosocial species and only have gotten this far because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:36 PM
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lol women worship? it's no secret that women are more emotionally intuitive women chase sexy men who have shitty lives but are generally in a good mood around them at least
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:33 PM
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of course the other factors have weight, but i believe having good vibes is the most important - even if you are exemplary in all other facets, if you are in a bad mood, you're gonna turn people away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:30 PM
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girls just want to have fun refers to the lack of responsibility not to them necessarily having more fun and yeah i agree one should strive towards contentment rather than happiness, but i'm talking about dating and how having good vibes is important
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:28 PM
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Tall, brooding handsome man who never smiles? 😍 this only gets you so far - they have to actively engage the girl at some point in which she'll vibe test Funny how women's sniffing apparatus fails when an attractive man is suffering financial instability, relationship problems, or insecurities. cuz when you're out having a good time, you typically aren't thinking about this stuff, and when the two actually engage since he is an attractive man, and by extension, probably successful with women, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:25 PM
1

about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:14 PM
2

lol whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:13 PM
2

yeah - you're just like every one else, contrary to your original post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:31 PM
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you're literally being the provider while she is the nurturer but you claim you aren't filling a gender role
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:54 PM
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you aren't more aware of anything - you talk like every guy but you walks around consciously trying to fit a gender role, but youre literally just like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:27 PM
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no - by your definition anything, including just two people fucking each other's brains out, would be plot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:22 PM
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you're blissfully unaware of your biological imperative, good for you but you come to a board arguing about things you have no awareness of, sad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:57 PM
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let's be real, you were mainly referring to women and their looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:52 PM
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gotta love it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:50 PM
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there's porn literally geared towards women that has no plot; just two people making love
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:35 PM
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i was thinking about this today. the reason so many people are confused about what women find attractive is because of their dual mating strategy. when a woman is seeking comfort and safety, personality and status DOES seem a lot more attractive however in terms of raw sexual energy, aesthetics (and a little confidence) are everything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:31 PM
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lmfao i'm considered a "pretty boy" - i don't say that to act cocky but if you gonna jump to conclusions like that so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:16 PM
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yes i'm making sweeping generalizations because it's basic logic, of course there's always outliers but if you're used to being catered to because of your attractiveness, you're gonna operate differently especially in the context of what the guy is talking about and yes i have experienced it firsthand, partners will treat you differently based off their perceived value
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:13 PM
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at first i agreed with you but then i realize the issue has become a bit conflated the average girl has more options cuz dudes like to get their dicks wet and girls are willing to share simple as that the average guy's value diminishes as the average girl's value rises due to the accessibility of high value dick via dating apps - thats what frustrates the average guy the average guy is not the simp on onlyfans nor is he catcalling women edit - actually i agree with you in regards to the title st…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:16 AM
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when i dated a girl that people thought was under my league girls would act passive aggressive towards her. they would also flirt with me like crazy, drove them wild never got any shit from my friends though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:06 AM
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instead let it happens if it happens how does this play out in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:34 AM
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the site could be for making friends as well. also some people weigh physical attraction more heavily than others
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:33 AM
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i literally experienced it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:30 AM
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the overwhelming majority of both sexes are unsatisfied with their OLD experience and it is largely due to swipe/hookup culture You just didn't waste time with people you'll never date i'm surprised you typed that out and didn't make the connection. it absolutely is instant gratification in the form of validation - that's the whole shtick of swipe apps and why they are successful, you swipe a few times and boom! matches
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:17 AM
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this is a point that im glad you brought up; i was thinking the same thing initially (watch what they do, not what they say) but women are on the decline in OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:11 AM
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this is it's biggest hurdle, but we'll have to see because studies show the overwhelming majority of people (male and female) are unsatisfied with the current market for dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:06 AM
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yeah this would be the biggest hurdle and we are just going to see how dating trends go - as of right now even though the percentages of relationships being made via OLD are increasing, women are dropping the apps with the leading theory being that they don't find them fulfilling enough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:04 AM
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there's a guy on this very thread who started several relationships that way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:59 AM
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you would be able to filter by body type and exchange pictures... sure some people would catfish, but thats no different from any other platform
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:58 AM
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its no secret that personality only gets you so far, but this platform would give those with that as their greatest strength a better chance at finding someone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:57 AM
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after one has wasted enough time judging people by their looks with less than satisfactory results, i would assume they'd be open to a platform where that isn't the major determining factor it works both ways, guys would theoretically be less thirsty because they'd actually have to get to know women instead of immediately sexualizing them and both parties always have the option exchanging pictures once they've spoken a bit my theory is that this also combats some of the issues women face due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:55 AM
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that's great and all but we're talking about the average man and why they have trouble with patience...it's a difficult skill to calibrate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:44 AM
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the world's greatest leaders are not comparable to the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:11 AM
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the problem is that men are the pursuers and if you aren't sexually aggressive you run the risk of being seen as non-sexual i.e. beta
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:08 AM
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not true at all man, we're just spoiled by instant gratification, in the past i made many relationships through sites where there were no pics. people used to meet from chat rooms and message boards all the time, hell they still do it here on reddit in regards to the app, people would still be able to share pictures, and there'd be no character limit for sending messages
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:02 PM
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most apps have filters for height, body composition, and race
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:42 PM
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not every girl wants a guy who's over 6ft and plenty of dudes are into BBW. with the low subscription fee one could potentially create multiple profiles to look for different things (sex, relationship, hobbies...) and with the implementation of message groups i believe people would be more lenient with who they message especially considering that not every person with such restrictive preferences actually meets the requirements to attract said preferences also tinder was wildly successful becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:40 PM
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we'll have to see the way things turn out but recent studies have shown women are falling off of current dating apps; they just arent working for them - this could be a breath of fresh air
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:29 PM
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women would get plenty of validation just on the fact that they are women, but this time it would be more fulfilling as guys would be validating their personality not their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:25 PM
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you're not wrong i'm imagining an advertisement campaign involving billboards and teams set up at college campuses and stuff certainly an investment, but i genuinely believe it would be a profitable one ala the new facebook for dating and like-minded people. hell, it could end up becoming so much more with the message groups. people could find new partners, friendships, hobbies... with the anonymity maybe you'd see crazy stuff like a group for gloryholes or something definitely a project for a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:21 PM
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thats what we're doing here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:10 PM
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the idea here isnt to make an app thats going to make you wealthy, its to make an app that works and with a subscription service and the aformentioned features i believe it would still be profitable EDIT - im not educated on the costs of network infrastructure but how expensive could it be to run basically a message board
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:04 PM
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i believe the monetary investment, combined with people being selective with the profiles they accept messages from, would combat this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:02 PM
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not a novel idea, sure, but certainly different compared to the current landscape It also wouldn't be profitable because if you keep losing users that stop actively dating around, you lose potential revenue streams. it wouldnt be profitable because it'd be too effective? i believe men are horny enough that the hookup and kink aspects of the app would keep it afloat especially considering the implementation of message groups
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:55 PM
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the average guy doesnt get a lot dates, much less turns down follow up ones, regardless of whether they had sex or not that being said both parties want to feel some sort of spark i.e. sexual attraction or else there wouldnt even be a follow up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:27 PM
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not that simple. i dont blame these girls for using their assets, however conditioning plays a pivotal role in human development and the guys out there simping are propogating an exploitative culture of women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:15 PM
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no. attractive people are more likely to act callously and typically less willing to compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:03 PM
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i am not, i have a gf and my n count with women is around 70. i am bi though but i am much more attracted to women than men. my n count with men is only around 20 although it's super easy to get casual sex with other men. i just don't get along with typical straight men. are u me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:42 PM
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the obsession with sex comes from the fact that for the majority of relationships - to get to the aspects you are describing - they start with sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:29 PM
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honestly shouldve read this kid's epic first, now i see why you said what u said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:10 PM
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i literally felt the spectrum of attraction for a partner based on the number of options i had (open relationship) there is no way this doesnt apply to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:04 PM
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if its not a fuck yeah its a hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:02 PM
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Men that put themselves and their well-being first before women and pussy will always win. Men that don't will always lose. It's that simple. what does that even realistically mean bro? you say this as if people in the gym arent going there to look good for others and on the other hand as if guys who struggle with women literally do everything with them in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:57 PM
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you say you care about people but you have no issue exploiting their trust i'm curious is it that you think other people's lives aren't as valuable as your own... is it cuz you're afraid of being vulnerable with just one person... what's the deal? do you navigate life trying to be as 'cool' as possible and this is just par for the course?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:18 AM
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you can be into whatever you want and so long as you arent ashamed of yourself girls will be into it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:54 PM
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no its because of his lack of tact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:47 PM
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it's not as impossible or tortures as men make it There have been plenty of times where I've physically been in pain, crying on the floor, while panting because I've been so horny. This is coming from someone who has masturbated themselves bloody on more than one occasion. ok psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:02 PM
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nothing hard to accept - its literally female nature one of the reasons you cant take them seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:39 PM
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its no big deal... people just need to remember that there's a living feeling human being on the other side of their interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:56 PM
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this is a thing that bothers me countless times ive been "in the pocket" they are dtf, blowin my head up "oh you are so perfect... " and then just completely ghost and that shit makes me feel less than human sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:20 AM
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lmao yeah id take his advice on this as well.... maybe u shouldnt show ur bf anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:54 PM
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yeah who tf is upvoting this tryhard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:16 PM
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lol trust me people are mighty brave when their horny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:29 PM
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if they insist on us being sexually exclusive when sex isnt on the table then i don't know if we can even be friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:57 PM
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lol bro who hurt u
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:06 AM
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lol ive had the same friends since middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:29 PM
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Companionship? I have friends for that. lol anyone who says this is 100% lying to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 06:22 PM
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and they kill it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 04:22 AM
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its the natural evolution of trp - the only 'enjoy the decline' guys that remain are narcs and psychos the rest of us tried it and realized we wanted something with a little more substance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:23 PM
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lol stop its much easier to have a great personality when youre already attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:17 PM
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they gotta make it to the bedroom before their ed is even exposed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:15 PM
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god damn man - my family doesnt understand this and its the leading reason id like to start my own
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:50 PM
1

choice paralysis
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:46 PM
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i dont know if you remember when tinder first released but it was a lot closer to grindr than it is today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:42 PM
1

ur conflating two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:51 PM
1

whos complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:46 PM
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at least he had the balls to try - u live and learn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:38 PM
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whos complaining edit - if a chick overreacts to some simple flirting youd better believe my friends and i are laughing about it later
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:33 PM
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lmao her comment is the essence of the failure of ppd (and why you dont try fix problems with women by talking)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:30 PM
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Like the cliche guys want a good girl who is a slut just for him and girls want a bad boy who is good just for her. The CC girls are good for us but sluts for other men. It's the equivalent of a guy who is super nice and generous to other women but treats you like trash. never thought of it this way - great analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:23 PM
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theres no universal answer to approaching... people make mistakes all the time so its stupid to sit there and tell a dude that he doesnt care if he doesnt 'take a second to think whether she will enjoy it or not'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:11 PM
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thats the thing - there is no universal answer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:52 AM
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people misjudge shit all the time that doesnt mean they dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:36 PM
1

whats ur point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:31 PM
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it can hurt if its unwanted because it makes them feel powerless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:15 PM
1

nobody's perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:11 PM
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If they hope it is well-received, why do they not seem to take a second to consider whether it will be? people misjudge shit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:16 PM
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thats when u take shit to hr or find a better job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:13 PM
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How about women adopt the same self-defense attitude that men have? because that shit doesnt make a difference. women are weak bro. a true predator (the ones they should be worried about) does not give a flying fuck about a woman that 'looks powerful'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:11 PM
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eating a hamburger every time youre hungry is a bit hedonistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:52 AM
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They like bitchy women, who get mad at them for “accidentally” eating the last chocolate muffin when 1. they knew that she wanted it and 2. She’s on her period and 3. could you be any more stupid and cruel to leave the muffin wrapper on the counter... just so he can be the “hero” and pull out the muffin from behind his back. They like unpredictable women, who might sell the fridge to buy shoes while he’s not looking. Sometimes he comes home and you’re wearing sweatpants with full makeup and hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:47 AM
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as another man with abundance mindset i dont agree what that dude reduced men to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:43 AM
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Not true. When and where prostitution is legal men still have LTRs and get married. Why? Men are possessive and don’t like it when the woman they are sleeping with is sleeping with everyone else. youre conflating two diff things. men still have ltrs and get married in those areas cuz guess what we like bonding too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:09 AM
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trying too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:06 AM
0

sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:02 PM
0

its about how u ask
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:50 PM
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"attraction" starts with physicality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:48 PM
1

and youre wrong. its not more complicated, its nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:32 PM
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no - youre making it more complicated i think the word youre looking for is nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:30 PM
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your post is hard to answer because its not clearly defined if the point of your post is to say "it takes more than physical beauty to get laid..." then sure youre right...but physical beauty's certainly the biggest hurdle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:29 PM
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thats an extra $500 in someone elses pocket - dont underestimate women bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:14 PM
2

this is a great analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:10 PM
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yeah i also think a big thing being overlooked here is while there are some nuances to 'male' or 'female' they can be fundamentally reduced to domination and submission...'maleness' is 'domination' and vice versa....these two will never go away because the world is naturally hierarchical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:18 PM
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forreal dude - maybe the guy wants to clean up his act
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:04 PM
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u can (and should) totally ensure theres a strong physical attraction before developing a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:56 PM
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its funny to watch someone say something doesnt exist and then hamster it into existence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:51 PM
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lol i could look at you the right way and it'd be an "emotional connection"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:42 PM
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this is one of those things youd have a hard time getting people to agree w you because of the ultra rare anecdotes coming out of the woodwork and intellectual dishonesty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:40 PM
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the two arent mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:38 PM
1

yeah if caught
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:27 PM
1

lol what are u asking? if i tell u this is how women generally feel and the sample size is 70% men thatd be a little fucking stupid wouldnt it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:23 PM
1

ur welcome buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:48 PM
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agreed.... this is the 'intimidation' op is talking about any arguing about that is missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:34 PM
1

haha how can u type something like that and legit think 'got em' thats disgusting and obviously not sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:33 PM
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bro im sensing a lot of frustration from you and it looks like you are projecting that on to women don't get me wrong chad frustrates women, but they ARE a lot more apathetic about it then you make it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:31 PM
2

u literally just contradicted yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:25 PM
1

bro its the same story over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:09 AM
2

not on lame ass websites typically marketed towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:07 AM
1

incel - nice one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:07 AM
1

bitch you were wrong and you already admitted it...shouldn't have replied to your petty ass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:04 AM
1

im saying that the fact that some women can communicate directly is evidence in itself that you're wrong about women being utterly unable to communicate that way and/or change their behavior also youre the one who keeps saying communicate like a man, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:00 AM
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i still hold the same argument - those votes are skewed cuz they're mixed edit - and while i cant prove it i would bet money that more women and gay dudes vote on those things anyways... guys don't really care about that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:56 AM
3

yeah this is why i believe half the shit on trp are power fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:37 AM
1

ive slept with two girls in the same day, let alone three girls in a single week, so im here to back you up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:35 AM
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who do you think reads people magazine, like really i could take the time to do my research just to 'win' this argument but you're really just being obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:24 AM
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yeah guess who's voting in these polls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:22 AM
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women and gay dudes edit: which makes em more legit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:20 AM
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depends on how much time you invest doing it as much as people want to pretend there aren't hiearchies, there are some people are hotter than others its just a fact and its good to recognize that and do what you can to maximize your own happiness note that i didnt necessarily say strive to become hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:19 AM
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not agreeing with you you say women can't communicate directly and/or change their behavior in the context of what op was saying and im saying you're wrong *sarcastic laugh*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:14 AM
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thats because these articles are written by women and gay dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:10 AM
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bitch did i say self improvement equated to talking like a man? or did i say that women are both capable of self improvement and direct communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:54 AM
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the "spark" is the "vibe" and i think most people are actually acutely unaware of it, yet we all subconsciously operate off of it what the "vibe" is, is evolutionary biology at play, it makes you say/do all the right things with the right inflection at the right time, and women are really just along for the ride - they cant help what they're attracted to i.e. just be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:46 AM
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wow way to speak for all women retard first off, yes women are capable of self improvement, lets get that out of the way and secondly, i know plenty of women that communicate LOUD AND CLEAR their intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:42 AM
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i agree with you, initially when i read the title of op's post i thought "why the fuck not both?" and while i think we should always strive to ideals op's not completely wrong but Including making it so that women don't feel particularly bad for reporting something even if she made mistake or a bad move no fuck that - not a single person should be able to walk with impunity when it comes to ruining someone's life with a false accusation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:38 AM
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what in the actual fuck are you talking about? rape is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:22 AM
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what cracks me up is if you look at the top sexiest men of 2020 only two are under 30, and six out of ten of them are over 35 source: https://people.com/celebrity/sexiest-man-alive-2020-men-of-the-year/?slide=b2e128b2-da90-4288-b5fd-6b5f9688ff20#b2e128b2-da90-4288-b5fd-6b5f9688ff20
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:12 AM
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they're saying it'd happen because of climate change, not because of men dropping out of society.... two diff scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:09 PM
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and thats my point...its not about whether the hot guy 'controls' the relationship, but merely the fact that he has them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:05 PM
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in this context an average guy is basically anyone who is not chad and, im assuming, not an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:02 PM
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yes because ask yourself what answer are you looking for the point of op's post is basically hot guys dont sleep around with a bunch of women and this guy is basically saying yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:59 PM
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these 'literalists' fucking bog down the sub and its nothing but frustration- like grow the fuck up you intellectually dishonest fools
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:47 PM
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bro dont project ur insecurities onto that man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:45 PM
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buddy i can tell you personally ur wrong it blows my mind when people are like "ive never seen it, so it doesnt exist"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:45 PM
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nope - even before they got burned by chad these girls were hardly giving average guys attention
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:43 PM
5

when u ask a question like 'is that a harem' ur completely missing the point of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:40 PM
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man this is the kinda shit that used to piss me off when looking from the outside in, now im in its just...disappointing - the more im successful with women the more i find them pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:37 PM
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what ppl dont get who post shit like this is sure the powerful had harems but the very girls in those harems cheated on the powerful with beautiful and/or athletic men and thats just the way it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:35 PM
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honestly i think you both are a little right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:55 AM
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you read like a trper pretending to be woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 08:53 AM
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bahahaha dont project
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:29 AM
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dude i have a feeing youve never dated someone actually "hot"... i dont care who you are - every guy meets his match...for most sexually active men there will be the one hot one that they let get away with way more than they should have and it ends up being a good lesson in boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:53 PM
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not even answering that nonsense bahahaha like i said some of you just want to be angry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:41 AM
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hahahaha yeah i was joking obv its more complex than that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:14 AM
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idfk each person has their own
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:10 AM
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cuz women are fuckin crazy hahahaha no forreal tho it depends on the gap in attractivess - some girls can read the vibe and sense that theres no hope
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:09 AM
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I think that's where 90% of these sexually frustrated dudes come from, they're competing with felines and still losing some how lmao. cuz those girls are still getting fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:05 AM
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jfc like women dont rate men too some of yall just want to be angry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:02 AM
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Then it’s not about honesty or women thinking they can change you at all. It’s just them thinking the temporary pleasure of being with a hot guy is worth the downsides so even if he’s honest they might still go for it. Where with a guy on her level looks wise or below she wouldn’t. no they really think they can change your mind - its a little of both tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:00 AM
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In my opinion, having a "chad" personality only works if you have something to back it up with this isnt an opinion its a fact u better have good money, status, or a big dick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:55 AM
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says who dude....theres a reason the hot ones get away with so much shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:52 AM
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by default womens smv is higher but its not the same as rmv. when you look at it from this perspective i dont think their value is inflated that much - what does the most damage in that respect is photo editing, but a girl can only keep up the facade for so long before she realizes that a)most of her hot matches arent actually fucking her and b)the ones that do are either ons or would never consider her more than a fucktoy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:51 AM
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bingo when youre honest about being aloof its like it becomes a game to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:39 AM
2

that does suck and guys go through literally the same thing - very few men have ideals of becoming some 'alpha playboy' and actually wanted to be someones prince charming. they wanted to find the one as well. but then they grow up realizing that pedestalizing women only leads to them getting thrown on the backburner or cheated on - they realize that they are only truly valued for their wealth and status and there's no such thing as the one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:57 PM
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Right, that's why no school has ever allowed me to show my shoulders or above my knee, dont conflate rules for children with rules for rational fully developed adults why I don't go home with guys I don't plan on sleeping with you generalizing why people warn me not to drink or go to that party or go to that guy's room girls can be creeps too why girls are shamed for sending nudes but guys aren't for sharing them this is straight up wrong why male friends say "this is just what guys are like", b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:08 PM
1

you throw a tantrum every few days due to celibacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:03 AM
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