forwhitedove Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Wedding Approaches? Lol he agrees with me, then he gets downvoted so he deletes comment and account. Groupthink 101 people.	/r/askTRP	16/05/18 07:48 AM
1	On the topic of getting girls to qualify themselves to you always interested in hearing new perspectives if you care to share	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 11:15 PM
1	On the topic of getting girls to qualify themselves to you Ok, why's that?	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 11:07 PM
0	Wedding Approaches? All good man, can't say I've had any more pure thoughts or that I come from any moral high-ground. We're all just figuring things out at the end of the day. & I meant taking the attention and focus off the bride and groom.	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 11:06 PM
1	Went to fuck a milf, but lost erection during intercourse with condom, how to prevent this in future? You've got to decide for yourself. Not appealing to nature, but if 60,000 years of human evolution are suddenly not working something is wrong here. Sounds like a good way to make your mid-life crisis much worse IMO. If you know all that, you wouldn't be here. Grass is greener on the other side, you'll soon find that out. Highest quality girls don't go to bars and clubs and places where "alpha-bros" go to "pickup chicks brah!". Not trying to be hard on you man, but take a serious look at what yo…	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 11:04 PM
2	On the topic of getting girls to qualify themselves to you Great, that's fantastic. In regards to your question, this isn't the answer you want, but it's about forgetting the small stuff and letting it all come natural. Don't forget the non-financial facets to life like a legacy, some sort of social change, and an LTR / wife. They seem unimportant but everything will come crashing down without them. -- and again, none of this may apply to you, but I'm just saying it because it's something so many RP guys forget. Keep on crushing it man!	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:56 PM
3	Went to fuck a milf, but lost erection during intercourse with condom, how to prevent this in future? Just because "many TRPers do it" doesn't mean it should be done. Relying on viagra is sad and unnatural. Congrats on the business, but if you're chasing true happiness & fulfilment you won't find it here or chasing women. The best way to get women is to not try to get women, but rather do cool stuff you like in a social setting. Even then, the most fulfilling option is probably choosing one really good girl to go deep and long-term with. Take that for what you will, but you won't find high quali…	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:53 PM
8	On the topic of getting girls to qualify themselves to you Don't spend time theorising about such trivialities on TRP. Get out there and focus on your grand life mission, and from that starting point everything will fall into place.	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:46 PM
1	Went to fuck a milf, but lost erection during intercourse with condom, how to prevent this in future? Look for sex outside of a relationship Get let down by your high expectations (likely from porn) Take drugs to keep an erection Cannot stay hard during sex, the most vital & ancient human activity Probably what happened is you got way to caught up in TRP and here you are seeing what it's really like to "bang women like a real alpha." This isn't what an alpha looks like, and it sure as hell isn't natural. Go build something for yourself -- a business, a legacy, a family -- anything. Women can be …	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:40 PM
3	Just got finessed.. (newbie need advice) I appreciate you manning up and saying that. Keep up the good work and focus on your big-picture goals. Don't get too sucked into this RP stuff or chasing women. Here's what you need to know about TRP: lift, stay sharp, have a good posture, be charming, witty, and don't be needy. That's it. There's a lot of BS chatter that goes on here. Focus on your life project. No more time should be wasted here on TRP. Don't hesitate to reach out over PM if you want to talk about quitting weed. You can get i…	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:33 PM
10	How do I repair the damage done by having previously been bluepill? Don't worry about what other people may or may not think of you. They've got their own insecurities to worry about, why are you so important? In all seriousness, focus on your own personal development and growth and everything else will fall into place. P.S. -- Don't get too sucked into all this red pill stuff. It has some useful points, but the ones who spend hours here every day are the ones who are terrible with girls. Lift, stand tall, groom, be well mannered and charming. That's all you nee…	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:30 PM
-1	dread game makes her go full nuts If you "stay the course" the relationship will just end. OP needs to talk to his girlfriend outright and quit playing games	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:27 PM
2	dread game makes her go full nuts Dread doesn't work on all girls and in all cases. They will think you're withdrawing and won't associate it with previous "bad behaviour." Hell, half the time, they won't even know you think they screwed up. Stop playing games, be a man, and communicate with your girl straight out. "Did you do this? I didn't appreciate that. Don't do it again." Then move on with your life, games are for girls.	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:27 PM
8	Just got finessed.. (newbie need advice) Why are you messing with another guy's girl? That's your first mistake, keep yourself clean and sharp always. Why the hell are you smoking weed? That's the biggest ambition killer around. Quit that immediately, you have much bigger problems than girls.	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:24 PM
-3	Wedding Approaches? Forget about it. You're going to be taking away from what's the biggest, most important day of the two people getting married. Do not try to waltz in there and steal the show, you will look very bad. Besides, a wedding is far too sacred. Whether you're religious or not, two people are committing their lives to each other and that should not be taken lightly. How would you like it if you were up there?	/r/askTRP	15/05/18 10:19 PM
0	Should I make a harem as a high school student? stop wasting your time on HS girls bucko	/r/askTRP	14/05/18 09:43 PM
2	I've met a celebrity - personal advice underrated	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 01:59 AM
1	Young and trying to instill principles of TRP Don't go against your nature. If you're wise enough to know you're not at the stage of chasing girls right now, don't do it. Honestly, focus on reading and powerlifting and whatever else makes you fulfilled right now. When you're mind and body are at the point of being romantically involved, you won't even have to try. It'll come so natural -- like an evolutionary force that's greater than yourself. You're wise for your age. Keep it up.	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 01:53 AM
3	Young and trying to instill principles of TRP I was 16 when I found TRP. I went crazy with it, dove right in, and basically spent 6 hours a day reading / practicing / thinking about the conquest of the opposite sex. It's a trap. Focus on big-picture goals, not high school girls and one-night stands. Chase fulfillment and success, not whatever the academics of TRP University tell you to chase. Above all, be a student not a follower. Think for yourself -- that's not a cliche but a very solid piece of advice I wish I heeded at your age. Don't …	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 01:06 AM
1	Best college to go to? If you base your decision for college on girls, you've got bigger problems than where you should go to school. Anyways, college is overrated and, basically a scam, unless you need a degree to live a fulfilled life. E.g. you want to be a doctor, engineer, or lawyer. I'd recommend skipping college, starting a business or shadowing a CEO / role model / expert as an apprentice. You'll make much more money and have much more fun.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 01:01 AM
1	How important is chemistry with sex and plates? Well obviously sex is better when you're in a deep relationship. Since when did society decide sex is separate from emotion? You mean to tell me 200,000 years of conditioning men to stay with their woman & raise a family (incentivized by better sex) mean nothing? LOL, it's funny how important we think we are.. as if we can fight 50,000 generations of evolution and nature because our dick, neocortex, and TRP told us to. Although natural =/= right, there's a reason why marriage has been around for…	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 12:55 AM
-3	A few questions regarding the soft next Holy shit, al this theorizing and academicizing of TRP reminds me of myself back in HS. Look, the more you get all technical and involved with all this red pill stuff the worse you're going to be. If you like a girl and she fits into your big-picture life goal, respectfully pursue a relationship with her. If you don't like her, or she doesn't fit in with your life goals, then respectfully move on. It's really simple, we've been doing this relationship thing for hundreds of thousands of years. Yo…	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 12:51 AM
2	How to get laid at a high school party? Trying to get laid at a high school party isn't a very worthy goal for a smart, young, capable man like yourself. I say that only in hindsight; back in high school I wasted years playing the social game, digesting volumes of TRP, and, admittedly, trying to get laid at parties. This isn't the answer you're looking for, but I'm going to give it to you anyway. Don't try to get laid. In fact, don't try, at all. The more time and energy you pour into trying to get laid is less time and energy for mor…	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 12:48 AM
-1	How to make use of my summer Start a business, you'll learn more in 4 weeks than you did in 4 years at university.	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 12:42 AM
1	Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing? I'm American but have lived in Europe for about 2 years now. Look for girls from European families with a history (nobles, respectable industralist families, etc). They're raised very well and will make you feel like a barbarian with their etiquette and elegance. But they're sweet and will teach happy teach a clueless American how to properly meet their family :) European girls in general are far, far more traditional and charming than Americans. I'm patriotic so that hurts to say, but it's true…	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 12:41 AM
5	Am I doing it wrong? Congrats on the upward progress. Now keep moving forward and don't remain stagnant with the first fruits of your labor. Think about the bigger picture and your grand mission. What are your prospects like? Do you want to start a business? Start a family? Start a movement? Use your success to fuel you upward still, keep pushing for what you want and wrestling with life. Congratulations and keep up the good work	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 12:30 AM
1	TRP for disabled The way to walk up and talk to girls is to just do it. Don't come up with pickup lines or something you practice in your head. Don't have expectations. Just tell them you think they're dress is pretty, or they're looking very solar today, or you couldn't help but notice your beautiful smile. Then walk away and continue your day. Men try to apply their cold and rational world to relationships, and it always screws things up. Talk to girls because you enjoy talking to them, not because they can of…	/r/askTRP	12/05/18 12:26 AM
1	really think I should just give up on women for the time being. Forget about chicks, focus on your life mission and they'll come naturally. You had the right idea. Keep moving forward with your goals and don't get distracted until a Significant Other becomes a part of that larger life mission	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 11:25 AM
1	What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days? No pics either man, it's all dopamine hits that help you escape the reality you find yourself in. Not to say no fap, but no porn for sure. Video, picture, or otherwise.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:54 AM
1	Tips on gaming girls where you go over at hers? Listen to her words. You don't want to get wrapped up in a rape case. If she says "stop" or "no", you stop.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:52 AM
2	Should I text this old plate Happy Birthday tomorrow? 30-second backstory inside You shouldn't mess with another man's girl. That was your first mistake. Respect the relationships of others, for your fellow man's sake at least... Anyways, no, don't text her. She was likely just using you to get revenge on her boyfriend. Focus on your grand mission in life and eventually building a family and meaningful, positive legacy.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:51 AM
5	Handling Interactions Don't chase numbers. That's a very goal-oriented thing to do and women hate that. Go after experiences instead. Don't randomly ask a girl for her number. Randomly ask a girl her favorite piece of art, or her favorite novel. If you like her and she's interesting, offer to keep the conversation going over coffee. Oh yeah, you'll need her number for that. But it's a hell of a lot less needy, and genuine.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:48 AM
33	I'm attending a party in 2 weeks but have been monk mode for 5 months. I'm definitely not the same person I used to be. How can I ensure I hold my frame around these "old friends"? Who cares man. You're a new person now, your old friends will adjust or stop being friends. Keep on crushing it.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:45 AM
3	Lifting aside, what activities/hobbies do you do to raise your SMV Focusing on your life mission, being the best human being you can be, and not getting caught up in all this red pill stuff.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:44 AM
1	Hard next, how shall I proceed? Maybe she does have work, or she really is tired. Girls are wishy washy. Don't expect commitment to meet up like you would from an employee. Work a time out and meet up with her. If she says "we should meet up", she wants to meet up with you.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:43 AM
1	What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days? Stop watching porn.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:41 AM
2	How to leave the comfort zone and spin more plates. You have a girlfriend that you like, congratulations. Now don't screw it up. Red pill told you to be confident, outgoing, fun and sharp. That got you the girl... duh. Now you've entered a new plane. Forget about other girls. Focus on your girl and focus on growing your relationship together. Now it's time to start laying the foundations for your future. What you neglect will not serve you. Focus on what you have, quality over quantity, and start thinking about how your relationship with your gir…	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:40 AM
2	Are ugly guys able to spin plates? Forget about plates, focus on your grand life mission instead... time is short and we don't have much of it.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:37 AM
5	Younger acquaintance girl showing IOIs? I don’t like writing advice posts, because I want to become capable of deciding this stuff by myself. Bravo, most people have forgotten how to think for themselves. I know I did, and I screwed up a lot as a result. If you like this girl, invite her out for lunch or something fun. Whatever the case, make your intentions clear. She's a freshman and you're a junior. You two are on different levels when it comes to maturity and what you want out a relationship. Treat her well, keep things congenial,…	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:36 AM
1	Ex texting after 5 months no contacts. What to do ? Revenge is pointless, don't waste your time. Focus on your grand mission in life.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:34 AM
5	TRP for disabled Forget about the whole Red Pill pickup world. Not because you have a shit bag, but because this puts the entirety of trp into perspective. Find something more meaningful than seducing girls and breaking their hearts. What's your grand mission in life? Do you want to start a family?	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:31 AM
-2	Need advice on how to escalate Take her out for a date, and declare your romantic intentions from the start by calling it a date. Don't force yourself to escalate past what is in your nature and according to your personal morals and values.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:29 AM
1	Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on. Are you sure she didn't find out about something you did in the past? Move on, but reexamine your relationship with the red pill. You said her ghosting you bothered her, but she essentially did to you what you've been doing to dozens of girls for 4+ years.	/r/askTRP	10/05/18 12:28 AM