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Geez this sub has gone downhill the last few years. Suggestions of drinking to calm your nerves. Bullshit advice about "just stop being scared". Its okay to be nervous. It's perfectly normal and human. You can expect her to be nervous as well. But you're doing yourself a disservice by letting it stop you - You need to do it even if makes you scared, or anxious. Don't reward your negative feelings. You don't stop being scared, you just stop it stopping you. In time (exposure therapy) you'll stop …
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:40 PM
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Exactly what I was thinking. It’s important to ask harder questions - But I don’t think anyone appreciates a stranger asking such personal questions.
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:26 PM
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Don't listen to other people telling you if someone is too pretty for you - It's absolute bullshit, and who the fuck says that anyways? What's the point.. and obviously she wasn't, since she texted you, and she invited you. You handled it very well. You stated your intentions, and you kept your frame. I think your issue is that at 17 and 20 there is s major maturity gap. A lot of stuff happens in those years.
/r/seduction09/10/17 07:41 PM
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So you hooked up with a person who's not into you? Properly not true ;) Your next step is to invite for a date or hang out. The trick to not coming off as overeager, is to not be. Invest as much (maybe a bit less) energy in her, as she is investing energy in you.
/r/seduction09/10/17 07:33 PM
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It's not the age that triggers my disbelief. No, but your midget friend is ;)
/r/seduction13/08/17 06:39 PM
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What. Are you telling me that a 45 year old, who is 160cm gets laid by groping young women, when they get creeped out he then proceed to laugh at them, and lick their neck? /r/thathappened
/r/seduction13/08/17 03:41 PM
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Have you read Models by Mark Manson? I think you would find it to be very good advice, whilst still resonating with your current values.
/r/seduction11/08/17 11:39 AM
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Can't you get your parents to hook you up with a 'clean' girl if you enjoy following cultural traditions so much? ;)
/r/seduction09/08/17 07:04 PM
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Yeah. Personally I wouldn't spend my time on someone, who doesn't want to spend time on me ;) https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:20 AM
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Why are you spending so much energy on someone you've never met, and before you've even met her she seems like an unreliable person?
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:06 AM
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Generally it is expected of the man to be the one to take initiative when it comes to dating. All of that is irrelevant though, since if you feel like texting her, then you should.
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:03 AM
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Are you fucking kidding me..
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:01 AM
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You seriously need to change your perspective. First off; Being a virgin does not equal women not liking you, not being attracted to you - At any age. Being a virgin is most likely a symptom of how you view women, and you not having any "emotional interest", and other excuses for you not really doing anything about it. I have absolutely no idea what you mean about a clean girl, or what a whore is to you. But maybe you should redefine the way you look at things; A clean girl is a woman who does n…
/r/seduction09/08/17 08:58 AM
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What I used to say when I was still dating, was something along the lines that they seemed nice/sweet and I'd like to go for a date. Do not agree on the specifics such as exactly where and at what time.. since this gives you a window to confirm to both her and you that you are indeed going on that date..
/r/seduction08/08/17 03:03 PM
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Noone knows if it's a wrong assumption or not. It doesn't really matter. With my experience with Tinder, all women I asked if they want to go for a date and actually said yes - went. Keep in mind that a phone number does not hold any value in itself. Do not ask for the number first, and then the date. Get the date, and get the number (or Facebook messenger, WhatsApp or whatever). Then you actually have a reason for getting the number - And the only reason to get it is because you need some way t…
/r/seduction08/08/17 01:42 PM
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She is a founding member a body-positive "movement" in DK called FedFront (Fat front). So yes..
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/17 05:22 PM
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Sounds more like youre drawn to the wrong kind of women my friend.
/r/seduction16/01/16 12:15 AM
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Sounds like you're jealous. And vengeful. If you loose interest - Why don't you just use your energy on someone you are interested in? As for your question, I think you answered it yourself - You hesitate escalation and this happens. If you don't want it to happen, don't hesitate :)
/r/seduction31/07/15 09:49 AM
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Just glanced the first few pages.. Can anyone recommend this book / give a slight review?
/r/seduction30/07/15 07:00 PM
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I don't agree with you that most women lack individual ambition, and don't do fuck all - That is not my impression at all. But maybe its a matter of different cultures. Other than that - I agree that you have to lead, and take charge. But thats mostly because then you are on top of the situation..
/r/seduction05/07/15 12:16 AM
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I don't really subscribe to that thought. "Adventure" is vague as fuck. How do you make a woman an adventure to begin with? The thing is to do fun stuff together, and don't get stuck in a rut watching netflix or some shit.. And girls don't care if you reply immediately.. Most girls just want you to be yourself, and those who don't - Fuck 'em. You will never find a deep relationship if you don't just be yourself.
/r/seduction04/07/15 10:33 PM
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That most peoples idea of what love is, is utterly fucked up. My definition of a healthy relationship; You enjoy each others company, support each other, and are generally just best of friends. In the bedroom you both find each other attractive, and want to have sex with each other, and enjoy each other. Love not something you easily define - Because its different for everyone. There are two things to love: "being in love" and "love" (loving someone). The first year is always jolly.. The honeymo…
/r/seduction04/07/15 11:25 AM
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How TV Ruined Your Life - Love
/r/seduction04/07/15 09:59 AM
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what is this? /r/circlejerk ?
/r/seduction28/05/15 03:23 PM
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Ahahha yes it most certainly would! If you see her friend at some other time, go up and talk to her then :D
/r/seduction25/05/15 03:35 PM
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Your beliefs and thoughts are limiting yourself. I feel like telling this story about going out alone, how it is both scary as shit and fucking fun; New years eve 2013-2014. It was 19:30. I was sitting alone in my small room of an apartment, on the edge of my bed - all dressed up. I had made plans with a female friend of mine that I would go to her party at 23:00 (When she and her friends got home from their fancy ass dinner). I felt kind of ridiculous, since I knew it actually was a "ladies nig…
/r/seduction25/05/15 03:22 PM
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Good for you. And remember that it doesn't really matter whether or not shes seeing someone - If she isn't interested, there isn't much to do about it - And she just saved you a lot of time and effort. On another note - When you see someone and think to yourself that you should go talk to them.. Do it immediately. Don't give your brain time to come up with excuses not to and get nervous about it (at some point you'll hopefully learn that there is absolutely nothing to be nervous about). And if y…
/r/seduction25/05/15 02:38 PM
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Yes. It is possible. Im a bit of a loner - I spend a lot of time alone. I have one close friend, and a few that I keep contact with, but don't see that often. I dont see how it has ever hindered me whatsoever. Could you elaborate on why you think its not possible to get girls without friends?
/r/seduction25/05/15 02:21 PM
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Agreed. Girls find men up in their 50's attractive. Its the women who have it hard..
/r/seduction25/05/15 11:41 AM
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Im danish as well. Dude its a wall of text. Noone is going to read it.. Your text comes off as highly needy. Skip the whole part of how realizing how some girl got pregnant, that you want to make a girl pregnant! ;) Keep it short. Focus on that you recently finished your education as datalog/it-engineer/programmer/whatever your education is, and are now working with your dreamjob (Show ambition, and that you do what you like to do). Also you are not a "young guy" (if you wrote "ung fyr" im going…
/r/seduction17/05/15 01:09 PM
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Most PUA material is shit. It really is.. If you ask for reading material on the IRC you will get the same recommendations again and again. Many of them not even directly targeted at the PUA-community. Thats because most PUA-material is shit. First of all; I stalked your profile - Sorry to say this but girls will not look at you more or less because you masturbate, or dont. You might start looking more at girls, and being horny is a good way of coming out your shell. But NoFap is no magic pill, …
/r/seduction16/05/15 09:21 AM
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Horse-shows. Not kidding. Its a fucking goldmine.
/r/seduction23/11/14 10:52 PM
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lol who even does that?
/r/seduction11/08/14 01:29 PM
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If your sole motivation for doing photography, is to fuck attractive women - Then yeah.. I might be approaching this wrong ;)
/r/seduction08/08/14 12:16 AM
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I have two. Hair everywhere.
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:52 PM
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best comment i've seen today. Enjoy your gold!
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:56 PM
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CHOO CHOO MOTHERFUCKER
/r/MensRights25/12/12 10:58 AM
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