foulfitnoob Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover? In my experience, women without children are more likely to date single fathers than men without children are to date single mothers. So it lends to the conclusion that women are more likely to accept being third place in a man’s heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 03:16 PM
3	Double standard for husbands vs wives wanting out of marriages? Well, that is different. I didn’t read that post that way. The idea of leaving a man because he lost his job for a bit is absurd to me. I’ve never known a woman to do it, unless he was choosing not to look for a new job. Whereas, I’ve known men who left their female partner for another women because she gained weight or her body changed. If a man is unemployed and doing everything he can to get another job, and his partner leaves him, then she is a selfish person and probably doesn’t love him. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/24 07:59 PM
6	Bangmaid is a loaded term that adds nothing to the discussion about relationships. My guy, I’ve made myself very clear. The term bangmaid is used by women to categorize a type of relationship dynamic that some men rope them into. It’s not about insulting SAHW’s. I know plenty of women who stay at home that I wouldn’t categorize as being in that kind of a relationship. That can be a very happy, healthy dynamic with the right person. It’s about how some not all) men selfishly exploit women they don’t particularly like as a person. You talk about what “we want” but you do not spe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/24 07:47 PM
5	Double standard for husbands vs wives wanting out of marriages? That is a strawman argument if I’ve ever heard one lol Unless she is morbidly obese and it inhibits her from contributing to the family and living a normal life (like no longer being able to walk), her weight isn’t harming the family. She is still able to do everything she did before. A man refusing to work is definitely going to harm the family. Losing everything, being homeless, all will harm the family. Those are not the same thing at all! My last partner gained a considerable amount of weigh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/24 06:51 PM
8	Bangmaid is a loaded term that adds nothing to the discussion about relationships. And what percentage of men in the last 50 years have experienced anything remotely close to this? Are you going to sit there with a straight face and pretend women wait on their husbands hand and foot? Perhaps your experience is different from mine, but I live in the conservative south and I know plenty of these women in marriages just like that. Most men are hoping to have a wife who is positive and contributes to an enjoyable relationship and most men are dissapointed. I will accept that. I th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/24 05:10 PM
10	Bangmaid is a loaded term that adds nothing to the discussion about relationships. This is a wild take to me. Not wanting to be a bangmaid is not wanting to be with a man who only wants what he can get out of you, as opposed to actually loving you or enjoying your company. All he cares about is his sexual fulfillment and that his woman waits on him hand and foot. A man who wants a bangmaid doesn’t want love he wants a random woman to fulfill a role. Don’t get me wrong, sex is a must in a relationship, and being able to clean up after yourself is a must, but reducing someone wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/24 04:32 PM
1	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you Some will. Others won’t. Being a virgin simply means you haven’t engaged sexually with another person. Some are inexperienced because of a lack of opportunities, others because they aren’t interested in casual sex and want emotional intimacy before they sleep with someone. Don’t generalize. I know plenty of women that want to build some degree of connection before they sleep with someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 01:13 AM
1	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier Let me say this, women are not visual like men are. Even if we find a guy attractive we are not going to stare at him or go up to him. Most of us, myself included, were taught not to approach a man. We were socialized this way. Because of this most women are not comfortable making the first move because, we even more so than men, are afraid of rejection plus there is the added safety risks. A man’s interest is more obvious, a woman’s is more subtle. Yet again, we were socialized this way. We lau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 09:07 AM
1	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier Genuinely curious, where the hell to you guys get this notion that women are not attracted to average men? Average women and even above average women date average men every single day. They fall in love with them and they date, live together, and sometimes they even get married. Humanity exists today because average people were attracted to average people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 08:04 AM
1	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier Yeah I’ll give you that one. Women do have more options as long as we are under a certain age. I personally don’t benefit from this one because I end up having to approach men I am interested in. I recognize that I am not the majority though. Women do have more options to cheat. I will admit though, I am biased on this because most of the marriages in my family ended with the husband leaving the wife for another other woman. Ironically though, once a man gets married (as messed up as it is) he t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:51 AM
1	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier I guess my thought process is that once a man begins a serious relationship with a woman he then has most of the power. From then on it typically is the woman trying to keep him happy (frequently because she wants marriage and children). Traditionally the man is the one in the relationship that gets to chose to propose marriage. Which is why so manny men after marriage act like their wife is such a bother to them (because they feel that they did their wives a favor). You raise valid points. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:16 AM
1	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier Dude. Where do you live where this is the norm? Because I know so many men in their 20s that are in serious relationships with wonderful women and most of them are average in looks, career, income, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:49 AM
1	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier I disagree but am willing to hear you our, elaborate. In what ways do you feel that men have it harder when trying to get married?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:40 AM
1	Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornier It is easier as a woman to have casual sex but most of us want marriage. It is easier for a man get married but most of you want casual sex. Both men and women are struggling with modern dating, we just have different struggles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:37 AM
1	men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them" I am a woman and I absolutely agree with this! It is probably how I was raised. I was accident that occurred between my mother and her booty call. My mother gave my father numerous opportunities to not be my father but he wanted to and so she put him on the birth certificate. He abandoned me and was a truly shitty father but that is a whole other conversation. Women get the choice in most states to not be a mother, men should get that same choice. Financially destroying a man because the birth c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 02:46 AM
2	Thoughts on stay at home dads? Absolutely! Completely agree! I keep seeing men on this subreddit being like "women file for divorce more" and I am like yeah. No kidding! In most households women do the majority of the labor in the home plus most of them work full time too. Eventually she is going to resent the unequal division of labor and say screw it and file for divorce. I also think that this is why many women (that are financially blessed enough for it to be feasible) would not have a problem with their husband being a S…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 05:40 PM
1	Thoughts on stay at home dads? Eh. While being a SAHD is not for everyone, I know a few women whose husbands are SAHD's, and to my knowledge they are very happy with the setup. My cousin and her husband changed to that set up and it actually saved their marriage (they were both less stressed out and they had more time to spend together). However, the one point I will give you is that the relatives and friends aren't always happy about it. Most people don't care, but there are still some people with that "Men are the bread win…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 05:17 PM
1	It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine. There is definitely a double standard with this too. If people insulted a woman's vagina or breasts when they disliked them, there (rightfully) would be an uproar, yet it is for some reason perfectly acceptable to do this to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 06:45 PM