fourpillar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How does one strive for goals that are independent from the clause "in order to get women" Just because getting more and better women is a side effect of being great doesn't mean that the point of being great is to get more and better women.	/r/askTRP	05/03/17 12:42 PM
2	How much responsibility do we have if we are drunk out of our minds? People who are passed out cannot legally consent.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/17 03:19 AM
2	My captain and I agreed that I was going to be a SAHW but now we can't pay our bills. You complained more about not getting your nails done in this post than you did about having a budget. I cannot take you seriously, and your SO might feel the same way if this is how you're communicating.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/17 11:18 PM
1	Does reading TRP give any of you others serious anxiety? You shouldn't plate men It should be added that you can't plate men unless you're a gay man. It's built into the definition.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/17 11:11 PM
1	Does reading TRP give any of you others serious anxiety? Solution: Don't read TRP.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/17 11:08 PM
6	How do you keep your family organized? For shopping, I have a different, smaller whiteboard, on which everyone just writes stuff we're out of, and then I take a snap of it for my shopping trips. I do this as well. I also have a separate place on a whiteboard in the kitchen that lists all of the leftovers that's in the fridge. If you put leftovers in the fridge, you write what it is and what the date is that it went in the fridge (ie: chicken tacos 3/4). When you eat the last of leftovers, you erase it from the whiteboard.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/17 07:52 PM
2	Who here is using Seeking Arrangements? Why would you pay for a sugar baby rather than clean yourself up and get hot enough to get it for free? That's not free.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/03/17 02:15 AM
12	How much responsibility do we have if we are drunk out of our minds? She's responsible for getting herself into that state. He's responsible for doing what he did. It's legally sexual assault, since he's touching her in a sexual nature without her ability to consent. Whether it's rape depends on if you include forcible as a requirement for rape or whether you define it as penetration without the ability to consent, to which there is some debate. It's like if I drive into a shitty neighborhood and leave my phone laying in the front seat of my car without my doors …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/17 11:00 PM
1	Alpha males aren't defined as the pack leader. They are the ones who bear offspring. In these red pill communities we often use the archetype of the alpha and beta males of wolf packs Wrong. It was never built on anything to do with fucking wolves. It's just a short-hand to describe different types of behavior. Edit: Wtf it looks like it's replying to the top comment instead of the OP, sorry if it is, not sure why that's happening.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/03/17 03:09 PM
1	Help with being seen as feminine/finding a Captain when I'm an Amazon? And I think the fact that I am tall (5'11"), naturally voluptuous and large framed (large chest, broad shoulders and hips, big butt) and tend to put on muscle easily if I do any kind of athletics is what is stopping me I highly doubt this is stopping you. It sounds like you're dealing with the realities of dating, which suck, and are searching for some kind of reason as to why this is happening. People who tend to take responsibility for things and own their shit, so to speak, tend to turn to se…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/17 11:19 PM
3	Boyfriend putting me on a pedestal To clarify one point: What I mean isn't to actually go ask him and then go off of what he says. What I mean is that if he finds you attractive, then you follow that. This is what I mean by you don't get to decide if you look good; he does, etc.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/17 09:35 PM
2	Boyfriend putting me on a pedestal One approach that has been helpful for some women is to decide that they don't get to make the decision about their own appearance; their man does. Whether that's for you or not is up to you to decide, but it can help take that feeling of responsibility off of your shoulders, which is what causes a lot of the things that you're describing here. Best of luck either way.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/17 09:27 PM
1	Catch and Release vs. NoFap I think that's a conversation that should be had early on in a relationship to establish protocol, as cold as that may seem. I've told my SO from the beginning that I'm basically going to do what I'm going to do, and if she's not okay with that, then she shouldn't be with me. She got to make the decision about whether she wanted to know or not, but everyone is different. In any event, the expectations should be stated and understood ahead of time, regardless of what those expectations are.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/17 07:49 PM
1	Catch and Release vs. NoFap And yeah you know honestly, I don't have a problem with a guy getting some ass on the side, and I know everyone has their own moral stance on that which may be different than mine. However, with that having been said, I think that it's wrong to get some on the side to the point that it interferes with your regular sex life along similar lines of what you were talking about, so that's kind of related too.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/17 06:36 PM
2	Catch and Release vs. NoFap After reading your elaboration, I don't think you're describing catch and release, and I think that's the crux of our disagreement. I do agree 100% that what you're talking about would divert energy from your wife in that sense, and we're not in disagreement about that at all. I think that when most guys think of catch and release, as it's described here, that it's a very shallow thing. At the most, it ends with getting a woman's number and throwing it away. What you're describing here is buildi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/17 03:48 PM
2	Catch and Release vs. NoFap See my edit	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/17 02:02 PM
3	Catch and Release vs. NoFap Your entire post is based on the premise that too much catch and release will lead to not gaming your wife in the way that too much porn will lead to not performing sexually. The problem with that is that the former two aren't related by causation, only correlation, and only in some cases. This is what separates them from the relationship between porn and sexual performance. Thus, it's all a great excuse for a guy to not approach with the way you've presented it. A better message is to encourage…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/17 02:00 PM
2	Catch and Release vs. NoFap This all sounds like digging for an excuse not to approach. Edit: For clarity, I don't mean an excuse for OP not approaching, but the type of thing that someone would read and then use it as an excuse not to approach.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/17 01:29 PM