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I cannot express how much I hate social media and the rediculous abundance of porn that just radiates from the internet. It makes me so angry. I’m a way I do feel an ounce of empathy for him, porn is everywhere, only fans girls are everywhere and it’s so widely accepted - especially online. Even young kids are exposed to hardcore pornography and trying to keep your own kids away from it doesn’t mean they aren’t shown it in school by other kids. The issues with it are off the damn charts and soci…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 09:10 AM
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I think the best thing you can do is shine in your own light, it gives other people the permission to shine in theirs
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 05:25 PM
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This was towards his own child? There’s nothing you can do. You could talk to your sister in law about how your worried that kind of language might give her self confidence issues in the future but other than that you can’t do much. Also doing that might alienate her from you a bit as she’s likely to take his side You can’t parent other people’s children for them
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 09:57 AM
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Call 101 (the non emergancy crime number for those not in the UK) cos he called the toddler fat? They wouldn’t do anything There might be a reason he doesn’t pick the babies up, he could have hurt his back or something. It was rude AF but not a crime.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 08:06 AM
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I don’t think so, my partner likes it, we usually ask who’s going to be “the little one” which is who’s going to be the little spoon, or the one in (I guess) the more “submissive” position. It’s very intimate and they put a lot of guard down being with a woman in that way, I don’t think it’s effeminate or emasculating I just think it’s very private and intimate
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 10:43 PM
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Okay so I’m able to write a full response My short answer is no It sounds like you have very little respect for this man and your treating him more like a resource than you are a potential partner. You are still sleeping with other men which is very disrespectful towards a man that your considering such a serious relationship with, you speak of people who have arranged marriages falling for someone over time but you arnt from a culture where that’s the norm and I think it’s unwise to rely on tho…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 09:44 AM
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I’m going to advise you against this but I’m out at the moment and want to write a proper response when I’m home
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 05:28 PM
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🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWives18/11/23 12:10 PM
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It’s like learning a new skill, you will get there. The first part is being able to recognise when you find yourself entering that headspace and the second is going to be working on managing that feeling. You already know it’s a problem so you’ve started on the right path 💕
/r/RedPillWives17/11/23 04:33 PM
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I mean this in the nicest way possible, he’s literally telling you what he doesn’t like and your not listening When your mad or anxious your giving a knee jerk reaction by blowing up his phone hand airing all your dirty laundry out. When you feel that rush of anxiety stop. Do not message him. Go for a walk, do some exercise, write in a diary, record a voice note then delete it. It’s not that you can’t talk to him about what upsets you but that you can’t do it when you’re in that heightened emoti…
/r/RedPillWives17/11/23 01:48 PM
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The promise of a future. I mean ultimately no, nothing is guaranteed but when I met my partner for the first time I felt like I could see the future, him as my husband, our own little family, Christmas together, building our own home, what we’ll do when we retire It’s so exciting, it fills me with motivation
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 02:49 PM
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I have nothing to say but I feel you, I can’t wait to be a mum! We’re not even married yet and I’m older than you 😭 I believe Laura Doyle has a podcast episode on this subject
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 07:31 PM
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You might end up having to impolitely and in no uncertain terms tell him to eff off I had a guy like this at my last place of work, I told my man I felt uncomfortable that this guy wouldn’t leave me alone but I could not get him to back off. My boyfriend said he didn’t trust him and that he was worried about what this guy would do. He invited me on a work night out and I went thinking others would be there (they wernt) and sat opposite him while he downed two pints, when he started on about my s…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 07:58 AM
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I understand some of how your feeling, my mum didn’t want me and I was raised by my dad, it’s really hard when you don’t get the parent child relationship you expected I’ve always described it as a sort of grief, my mother is not a nice person so I didn’t really miss out on her being in my life but I really missed that “mum” role model. There’s no real way to process that grief and there are still parts of me that feel sad sometimes and want my mum As I’ve got older and found myself longing to b…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 07:57 PM
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Don’t stay with someone for the sake of it. For a relationship with a man to work you first and foremost need to respect him, and it doesn’t sound like you do. That lack of respect will turn to resentment and then to contempt. No relationship will be perfect all the time, we all have our ups and downs but it’s essential you can find the man who will be able to work through everything with you and not against you. You are not married to this man, you are still young at 31 so if you decide it’s be…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 09:52 PM
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I like a man who’s fit and strong (good shoulders really get me). My partner works out a lot and we’re an outdoorsy couple with lots of hiking and such. So he’s very fit, you can tell by looking at him that he’s a fit man, but he isn’t ripped. He’s got that nice mix of a strong figure but some softness so he’s a nice cuddle partner. He’s told me before that to achieve a super ripped figure is really difficult and unsustainable. It involves a strict diet and to make the muscles visable lots of pe…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/23 11:34 AM
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Your thinking along the same lines as me. The neckline is fairly high so I’m thinking more a pair of drop earrings and my hair up in a nice updo. I’ve got some time to practice!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 06:26 PM
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I’ll send you the image!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 06:21 PM
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I just picked it up and tried it on, it looks way better than I anticipated. The navy is much more flattering than the light blue was which I think is what threw me off so hard last time. I’ve sent him some pictures so hopefully he agrees!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 06:02 PM
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I saw you other comment but I’ll reply to this one, I just picked it up and tried it on and it looks WAY better than I expected. The sleeve mostly covers the one big arm tattoo and it’s long enough on me that even though technically my leg tattoos are visable they’re not as obvious as I thought they’d be. The darker colour made a big difference and is much more flattering
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 06:00 PM
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No of course that’s why I said I understand I was just surprised he didn’t pick a more fitted dress Since my wobble earlier I’ve bought the dress he selected, we all have those moments where we think something stupid for no good reason lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 09:09 PM
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I’m a bit put off the idea of the makeup especially because the dress is navy and I’m pale and one of the sleeves covers most of the biggest arm tattoo and it’d rub on the dress and look wierd. He never mentions them so I know it’s my own insecurity And I’m literally being ridiculous about the dress, but sometimes you just need to hear the reality check. I ordered the one he picked 💕
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:11 PM
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I know I’m literally just being rediculous!! I ordered the dress he picked out, I know I’m going to look nice, I blame PMS
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:09 PM
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Your making me emosh!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 06:09 PM
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No he never mentions the tattoos I do trust him, he’s the absolute best, I think he’s nervous too, his family have never met one of his girlfriends! Hopefully I can come across as the perfect lady
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 05:40 PM
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I literally just ordered it, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 05:32 PM
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You are right
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 05:29 PM
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I know your right! I’m nervous about putting makeup on tattoos and then getting it on the dress. They’re not the end of the world they’re just fairly big and I wish I’d never got them but you live and learn. I am excited to meet his family, I’ve got them gifts and a big box of chocolates to share. I’m sure the whole trip is going to be amazing and I’m just wobbling because I’m nervous
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 03:39 PM
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Trust me I learnt this one through bitter, hard experience
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 08:39 PM
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My biggest rule is I never talk bad about my man to someone else. If he’s upset me he’s the person I speak to about it. No venting and getting it off my chest. Most “guy friends” a girl has don’t have platonic feelings towards her, most girlfriends are quick to sabotage. There’s a bit of a caveat if you manage to befriend some RPW but it’s not easy. Also addressing him directly will tell you a lot. My ex boyfriend was awful, I didn’t need to hear anyone else’s opinions on him because he did a gr…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 06:44 PM
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I usually plan my shopping around my meals. If your only cooking for yourself or one other person it’s easier to make a bigger batch and eat it over a few days - it’ll save time and money. I try to reuse things too, so I find it easier and cheeper to get a whole chicken, roast it and then add it to my dishes then make a stock out of the carcass than buying (for example) pre prepared chicken breast twice a week. Try and start with things you know you like to eat and work from there. So for exampl…
/r/RedPillWives31/10/23 05:53 PM
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Tbh I wouldn’t have disclosed anything about your plans for losing your virginity, what if you got there and then decided that you wernt ready? This feels like a bargaining chip or like he’s paying for your virginity. You haven’t been together long so it feels like a lot of pressure to place on yourself I would have just told him it’s a place I would like to visit and left it upto him, I wouldn’t have attached anything about loosing virginity to it because he’ll see it like winning a video game,…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 12:22 PM
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I’m sure I will but I can’t help but worry Honestly at first I took a lot of the lead and was bossy. I found RPW before it was too late and it started as an experiment, I just pulled back and let him take the lead and he almost immediately stepped into the role of leading the relationship. He really has that soft alpha energy, he doesn’t feel the need to be the boss all the time in every situation with everyone but when he needs to he’s really good at it. It’s been very interesting because I’ve …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 10:55 AM
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My partner is six years younger than me. I never notice it, no one ever notices it, I don’t look significantly older than him or anything. He’s also the leader, the boss, the captain, whatever you want to call it, in our relationship The only thing that ever worries me is wanting to be a mum, I’m still in my early 30s but I’m aware that there are risks and challenges attached to it. Hopefully everything will be okay
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 08:31 PM
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I don’t have babies (yet) and figured I’d have to buy dvds of old shows from when I was a kid!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 10:41 PM
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Oh my god I think your the only other person I’ve ever come across out in the wild that also uses that site!!!! I have to restrict my access to it I once scrolled through the boards through an entire night 😂! It changed my outlook on a lot of things. You’ve made my night lol!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 09:52 PM
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I think it’s best to always take this sub with a grain of salt just because of the platform it’s on. I wish forums were still widely used like in the wild west of the internet - I’d love a true red pill women space And Thankyou! It’s only early days of planning because I have to emigrate to the USA to be with him but he’s amazing and I’m very lucky 💕
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 09:04 PM
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Literally this. It’s a fetish and a dangerous one and not worth losing years of your life over whilst he pursues it I said this in another comment but clearly I’m a massive prude because even on redpill women I got get on this hyper pro oversexualisation train and supporting any and everyone in all of their proclivities.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 06:35 AM
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This. There’s so many crossovers with trans widows every red flag flew up as I read this. I know it’s not en vouge to say this but I’d bolt out the door if my partner did this. I would absolutely not be okay with it and the way OP wrote this post I think it’s massively giving her the ick and setting off her alarm bells. You don’t even need to read transwidow stories a casual glance at what trans identifying males themselves say and this aligns with their nonsence. I’m clearly a massive prude bec…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 06:27 AM
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My partner has ADHD and I think he makes an excellent captain He properly saw a psych and got on the right medication. He got it under control before I met him. He still struggles sometimes but I wouldn’t say it’s any different to anyone without ADHD.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 08:54 PM
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I think he sounds like a waste of time personally, when your dating someone they’re putting their best self forward and I don’t think this is an example of his best self. I’ll be honest I think he’s putting a big man act on, it sounds like the sort of stupid thing men say to each other in the locker room rather than to a woman they take seriously. If he was such a wonderful sex king that his ex’s were so enamored with why wasn’t he still with them?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 05:58 PM
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You need a good broth to start, I use two chicken carcasses, roast them for 40mins to an hour and put them in the slow cooker for 24 hours with a roughly chopped carrot, celary, onion, 2-4 bay leaves, some mixed herbs (I don’t usually have fresh to hand) salt and pepper and I love garlic so I throw several cubes in there. Onion skins will give it a nice rich colour For soups I keep them chunky, for chicken soup I use thighs (there my fave part anyway) I keep the bones on whilst they’re cooking i…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/23 08:39 PM
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Hell no. Dump this one! Your 26 you have plenty of time to find a man who will respect you. If he wants to mess around with other women he shouldn’t be doing it on your time
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 10:54 PM
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Atm im obsessed with Daens kitchen https://youtube.com/@daenskitchen?si=WntWBionkHalgGq_ I’ve also just bought Family Comforts by Rebecca Wilson, I haven’t looked through it yet so I can’t give a review but I’ve heard it’s good, she does her family recepies to be suitable for children from 6 months - I don’t have any babies yet but it’s be nice to think of having some established meals that will be good for the family from before they’re here
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 04:07 PM
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I’m straight up too lazy for a full face everyday, I can’t wear makeup at the moment because I need new glasses (it’s a whole thing). When the glasses situation is sorted I’ve bought a really lightweight foundation to wear daily, I like a touch of blush, mascara and tinted lip balm Maybe you need to look for a more low maintenance look for day to day that feels a bit more perked up from where you are not but not the full routine you used to do
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 06:21 PM
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I think that idea sounds amazing in your head but in reality would drive you up the wall. Firstly it’s not very common outside of religious cults and fringe wierd sexualities to come across people in these kinds of arrangements. Sure some millionaire somewhere can get lots of women to sleep with him but Joe the mechanic who works 60 hours a week isn’t. Most women are not going to be okay with that kind of arrangement and even if you could get that to happen those women would drive you mad with t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 06:04 PM
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Where are all these women that men are sleeping with? By your own admission women are very picky and the average man isn’t sleeping with a haram of women. It sounds to me like you’ve been listening to a lot of the contemporary red pill podcasts, they largely centre on making fools out of young silly sex workers. My partner doesn’t meet the 666 requirement for a high value man, he doesn’t make six figures, he doesn’t have a six pack and he’s not six foot tall. I would consider him a high value ma…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 05:47 PM
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I’m not so upset by the women from my teens because I understand that they were also misguided, plus I turned 18 in 2009 so I feel like we got hit hard with a lot of teen movies and teenage media (I was in the UK growing up when SKINS which would be pretty equivalent to euphoria) so we were getting a lot of bad information from lots of angles But when I was in my 20s and my friend was pushing that nonsence it really annoyed me. She slept around until she fell into bed with a recently divorced mi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 02:25 PM
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Like worldlysentiments said I wish I had been a little older (I can’t remember if I was 17 or 18 but it was around when I turned 18). I felt a lot of peer pressure to loose it from my girlfriends at the time. I haven’t slept with many people but I remember even in my twenties getting a lot of pressure from a friend of mine at the time to just “have a hoe faze” I went on a couple of dates with guys but couldn’t bring myself to sleep with men I wasn’t romantically interested in. I remember when sh…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 10:15 AM
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Probs cos this sub has “redpill” in the title so people don’t look any deeper Also it’s Reddit and this shit happens all the time, it’s the most over moderated and controlled platform
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/23 06:39 AM
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I can imagine how hard that must be for you, especially as our current culture is so against stay at home mothers Firstly I think when other women are treating you like this it’s comming from a good place, given the oppertunity I think a lot more women would be happy to stay home but many don’t want to admit it for a variety of reasons. Laura Doyle talks about the importance of surrounding yourself with like minded women so I think it might be worth seeking out mother/ homeschooling/ church/ rec…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/23 05:22 PM
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I sometimes say no if I’m really tired, poorly or I really just don’t feel upto it right now. He’s also done the same Vast majority of the time I say yes. I love being close to him, touching him, spending time with him. I’ll usually get in the mood even if I wasn’t to begin with. I love him, it’s not a duty thing, sometimes it’s okay to do something I don’t fancy right now only to end up enjoying myself
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 12:14 PM
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I thought that it was a phase, that if I changed my approach things would get better and it just needed time. It didn’t get better it got worse. It took me a while but I realised that there was something wrong with this man and if I didn’t leave it was going to hinder my oppertunity to find a good relationship and have the love I wanted When I did leave I did a lot of self reflection about why I picked that man in the first place so I didn’t make the same mistakes again I have found my future hu…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 03:54 PM
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I don’t say this lightly, I think you should leave and go home, if you need help returning home get your passport and contact your countries embassy. If he’s taken your passport contact the police. This is domestic violence. Your husband sounds like an addict, don’t touch his computer again. Erasing his porn is the equivalent to pouring an alcoholics drink down the drain. I went through domestic violence before and it was awful, nothing I did ever made the situation better and I should have left…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 01:45 PM
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I think you should work on yourself, take up a hobby and develo your own interests or work out or something, somewhere where you can find your peace When I had a bad breakup I played full contact sport (roller derby) for a while, I wouldn’t play it nowerdays but you could absolutely find something like that And for books, maybe Laura Doyle’s surrendered single?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 05:30 AM
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I don’t like nightclubs at all, I worked in one once for one shift and never went back 😂 I’ve hated every one I’ve ever been into socially and usually ended up gossiping in the toilets with my friends I guess I understand to an extent why some people like them, honestly for me personally it just starts to be a bit tragic after a while like your trying to relive or recapture your youth, time changes and you can grow and adapt, look back and smile at your memories whilst enjoying new things. I don…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 07:23 PM
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After Christmas we’re going to tackle immigration, I know he’s the one and he’s so worth it so even though it’s not the perfect situation, its or going to be okay!! I’m hoping the best for OP aswell 💕
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 04:29 PM
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I’m in a LDR and I have to say this is top advice especially about communication being consistent over constant Also to add, you have to at some point plan for an end date. A LDR can’t be strung on forever and ever, you need to make a decision (not immedietly but eventually) about what’s going to happen and who’s going where. At least in this case OP and her prospective partner are in the same country, my partner and I have to go through visas
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 12:09 PM
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I wasnt a virgin when I first slept with my man and neither was he. I remember after the first time we both giggled and said it felt like loosing our virginity. Reflecting on it I think it’s because before we slept together we were so emotionally connected that we were really sharing such an intimate experience together Neither of us had a high body count either, I’ve only ever slept with boyfriends. You don’t have a high count and your married now. I think you should reframe it in your mind, th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 08:54 PM
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I’m trying not to be judgemental because I appreciate that this is Reddit and I’m likely not getting the full side of everything. You cannot undo what has been done. You’ve told the ex that you want to breakup so even if you changed your mind now you’ve damaged the trust with him. Please take care of his pets or find alternative arrangements for them until he returns. Regarding the new boyfriend as I said before. Actions speak louder than words. You won’t be able to tell him to trust you you’ll …
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 08:20 PM
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This all seems like a massive disaster unfolding. You need to be honest with your ex and at least have the courtesy to explain to him why your leaving. I don’t think you should move in with the new boyfriend, especially as you’ve been cheating (i don’t think there’s a way to reassure your new boyfriend you won’t do that again, actions speak louder than words) I think you should get your own place and do some serious self reflection. Also don’t abandon the pets you were entrusted to take care of!…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 08:02 PM
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He has a hospital bed and lots of equipment with hoists and that that’s taking up the room, she’s in her late 70s and doesn’t have the mobility to climb into the bed with him ans there’s not enough room for a second bed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 05:28 AM
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I work in social services, I’ve been in lots of older couples houses who’ve been married a long time. No, they don’t all become roommates. I’ve lost count of the amount of times someone has had to put their husband or wife into a care home because they can’t care for them anymore and cried their heart out because they’ve been with them for 60 years and can’t cope without them. Just last week I visited a man and his wife, the husband had become paralysed from the waist down and had the home adapt…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 10:44 PM
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I will apologise for that, generally I try not to say insulting things about other women, I’m no glass rose myself. I think that she’s good at what she does, she knows her audience and I’m sure she’s making bank, she also gets heaps of attention from men. She doesn’t offer up any productive or helpful information, she doesn’t tell men how to screen for a more valuable woman and how to find her she just talks down about other women as if we’ve all got a parade of men in and out of our houses. I a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 03:18 PM
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I don’t know much about her - she comes up on my timeline a lot for some god forsaken reason. I’ve seen her have one or two good takes but I think that’s more “a stopped clock..” rather than anything else. I’ve never looked deeply into her but I’ve heard she doesn’t practice what she preaches and I can’t help but wonder where her man is if she’s such an expert. I think girls who cape this hard for redpill men are grifters and some of the ultimate pick mes. I try not to talk down about other wome…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 10:44 AM
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I’m so glad you posted that because I was really getting some troll fetish vibes from this. It’s not the first time wierd fetishists have come into this sub
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 07:32 AM
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Thankyou!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 03:52 AM
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So our relationship is long distance and we’ll have to get married to close the gap (I need a visa). I think we’re looking at around 18 months and so then I’ll be 34. I’m just trying to be conscious and realistic that we might have fertility issues
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 05:39 PM
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I think it’s the idea that words become thoughts. I’m sure everyone can think of a time when someone said something to you that was so mean you started to believe it. The reverse can also be true, you tell someone good things about themselves and they start to believe it I think peoples issues with the “white lies” is your telling someone things that arnt true so it comes across as manipulative. But your not being mean to him, your not telling him he will never amount to anything or he’s not goo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 06:10 AM
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At 26 I moved in with my ex boyfriend/situationship because it worked out cheeper, I didn’t want to live at home and I didn’t want to live in a houseshare. It was a move in of convieniance and I knew there was a spare room so I figured that if we broke up I’d just go in there It turned into a living nightmare. I was with him four years and he ruined my credit rating, had a history of crimes that I didn’t even know about for the longest time, he turned physically abusive towards the end I’m 32 no…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 05:42 AM
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I dont really have much advice but I feel you on really wanting to have your baby now. I’m 32 and I have to go through the immigration process before we’ll be together and I know that he’ll want to wait a bit 😣
/r/RedPillWives10/09/23 07:52 AM
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You said in other comments he’s only 22 so honestly I do think this isn’t that unusual for a 22 year old. I definatly knew people who had never worked before when I was that age and I come from a very working class background. I would not help him nor would I offer too. The university will have amazing resources for helping to write CVs and apply for jobs and if not there are loads of resources in the community and online. As Laura Doyle says, this is not on your paper. If you start getting invo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 12:43 PM
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Yeah that’s what I was playing (sadly the team I played for is now full of men) I think sport is such a healthy outlet!
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 12:28 PM
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I think you should take up a hobby, when an ex boyfriend of mine really upset me with his stupid dramatic exit and then trying to tease me ong like someone waving a string at a kitten I took up a womens full contact sport. Really helped me get over it
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 06:13 AM
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If you can understand English better by listening rather than reading you can get her book as an audiobook?
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 05:26 PM
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This! I think it’s so important to aknowledge our own behaviour! I don’t know if it was the same for you, but for me when I talked to people about it and they talked about how I was a victim it made me feel so lost and helpless, I think acknowledging my own behaviour helped me take back power over the situation. Here’s how I messed up, here’s how I won’t do that again.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 05:18 PM
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Tbh I think the variables is what makes it so challenging and the internet is full of stupid advice. For me, when I met my partner in person, I paid attention not just to what he said but the way he acted in all sorts of situations. A lot of people quote the “being nice to the waiter” thing but I’ve known people who are lovely to wait staff and awful behind doors. My partner visited me during the school break and we visited a museam, the place was full of annoying and unattended children. It str…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 05:16 PM
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I think there’s proberbly several women here who can speak from experience, I will share some of my own Prior to my current man I had a long term relationship with a boyfriend I lived with. I ended it. I believe whole heartedly that I made the right decision and wish I had done it earlier or not entered into the relationship at all. The relationship was abusive on his part. I’m not talking some bad habits and grumpy toxic masculinity or whatever people call it these days. He damaged my financial…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 07:37 AM
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I changed a lot for what my ex liked which was this very alternative, goth style. I dyed my hair florecent colours or black how he liked and I felt like a fraud My current boyfriend doesn’t care what I wear. I ask his opinion on some things and he generally seems to like what I like, sometimes he’ll point out he particularly liked something I wore (usually dresses, if I dress up a bit that really catches his attention). He’s not bothered about makeup hair or anything. I also like that he will dr…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/23 04:31 PM
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It’s partly going to depend on where you are in the world, I’m in the UK and I’m not getting paid a nurses wage (I make about 5k less a year) but I am getting paid very well considering I don’t have many qualifications and my last jobs were as a professional bum wiper Three things went in my favour. One, I’m very well written and well spoken, what I’m doing now requires a lot of writing and working with various professionals and I can really come across well. Two, I have a lot of experience in t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 06:44 PM
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My boyfriend doesn’t care what I do so long as I’m happy so maybe my point stands for nothing. I was at university training to be a nurse but it fell through for multiple reasons and I took a basic job in a care home making minimum wage. I wasn’t sure if I was going to go back to university to finish my training. I started looking for another job and my boyfriend gave me some tips, I ended up finding myself an amazing job that’s still within social care but isn’t direct patient care, better hour…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 06:00 PM
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This sounds like British dumplings! We make them with suet and they’re best in a hearty beef stew
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 08:00 AM
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I’m with you, I like the YouTuber “think before you sleep” though I think he’s more MGTOW than redpill. He talks very straight and I can see why he has a lot of male listeners and I think he’s actually very balanced. He always tries to at least pick one positive thing about the person he’s talking about no matter how much he disagrees with them which I like and he backs up a lot of what he says with good research
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 06:00 PM
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Not the OP but I’ve heard the six month thing anacdotally since I was a teenager. I was raised by my dad and hung out with a lot of boys and men though, I’m not sure what’s in Laura’s book (I’ve ordered it just waiting for it to arrive) but essentially most men can make a decision, they might not nesesserily share those thoughts and ideas with you but they will have some kind of plan in their head. Within six months they’ll have decided what future they want with you, again they just might not t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 08:26 AM
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Thankyou! I’m so very excited, I’m off to get the train shortly 💕
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 03:08 PM
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Oh yeah he went to university a little later lol, I wasn’t 100% sure what to include in my post
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 02:59 PM
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I’m 32! But yeah I’ve been through all the safety stuff especially with my dad who I’m very close to. I’m really familiar with the area where we’ll be staying as I used to live there. I do have a special day planned but other than that I didn’t set too much in stone, just thought we’d see how it goes
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 02:41 PM
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Just thought I’d say (cos I used to be a dental nurse) apparently for dentists it’s because they work long hours doing lots of very tiny, tedious work. Also their offices often are lit by artificial light and they don’t always have windows (especially here in the UK). I actually loved being a dentist aid but I certainly wouldn’t have wanted to have been the dentist.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 04:02 AM
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I understand it’s only a temporary style, but if you don’t wear wigs regularly and it’s not a style you would wear then it feels like a waste to purchase one. I’m not sure if there’s any resale value on them. Wigs that look good are expensive and it’s a time of high living costs. It’s one thing to pay out for a dress you won’t wear again but also a wig you won’t wear again? I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being graceful about declining to be a bridesmaid if it really crosses a line for…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/23 07:39 PM
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I’m six years older than my partner. I’m 32 he’s 26
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/23 05:27 PM
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I’m not going to dive into other previous posts that other users here have made and just deal with the questions at hand. I have a number of large tattoos, some of which are very visible. When I met my partner I had blue hair and several piercings as well as the tattoos. I am Also a few years older than him. I hit a lot of the “undesirable” markers. Red pill from what I’ve read about here and in men’s groups seems to be a lot more about facing reality and a lot of the time that can form some gen…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/23 01:46 AM
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