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Bro bite the bullet and quit the porn. It will help immensely in this and other areas
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 04:01 AM
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Yes. Then he got into alt right, literally white supremacist politics. I would never be able to address the hole inside him that his movements "filled."
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 07:10 PM
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What did I just read?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 07:59 AM
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Statistics on the general pop show a small percentage with that kind of wealth, but most people socialize and marry within very close economic brackets. Even very rich people marry each other. In several zip codes near me $200k is the bare minimum (yay for wealthy investors scooping up all the homes). It IS unreasonable to expect to meet these people on a dating app. Looking for single guys in the community is a better idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/23 05:56 PM
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Sounds like he went down a rabbit hole. In this day and age, many many people are dealing with loved ones who radicalized overnight in one extreme or another. I suggest r/exredpill for some support, they have a lot of insight into people like your husband (edit--I thought this was TwoXChromosomes in my feed, nvm!). Generally these people will not de-radicize without facing real life consequences--Only the threat of making you unhappy or losing the relationship might spur him to reconsider. It's …
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 07:51 PM
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15 views? This has gotta be a self promotion
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:59 AM
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Hi there, you benefit from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy before thinking about relationships. I highly recommend The Feeling Good Workbook by David Burns to address why yoi feel stupid. After some work on yourself, Feeling Good Together by the same author really really shed light for me on relationship dynamics (both romantic and other)--he talks about how Perceived Perfectionism is detrimental and a cognitive bias. That's when you assume people won't love or respect you unless you're perfect. I'…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 08:53 PM
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90% of being an interesting person is just asking someone questions about themselves :) This takes practice to do in a way that feels natural. Focus on what they say, not how you seem or any expectation from the encounter (eg hoping they'll want to see you again). People love talking about themselves and you will learn SO much. Talk to enough people and in future conversations you will be well armed to chime in gracefully and seem interesting.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 05:52 AM
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Idk man I can't speak to your relationship, but I'd run. One of my exes left me for his ex and it really hurt. Not that she is going to leave you or cheat on you. She might just want this man's validation, which means she's willing to violate your trust to get that.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/22 06:53 PM
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I've never had a female friend say anything to call out.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 03:53 PM
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You're partially putting the blame back on the woman, "well she should have talked about it beforehand."
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 07:39 PM
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Other people here giving you dating advice when it seems obvious that right now you just need to be around women in a social setting. You talk about women as if they're one entity-- you love or hate "them." Hang out in some friend groups. Compare and contrast how women talk with how guys relate. Start seeing them as fully dimensional human beings.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 07:36 AM
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Yes, I had an ex get into this stuff and it was absurd. One day got mad when I swallowed because I was "stealing his life force" and tempting him. Zero science behind any of it. He was usually a nice guy, then suddenly he was jealous that I, as a woman, could orgasm without losing life force. Also very misogynist to think that the child is formed by the man and the woman is just a field. It seems very much like an idea made by men who are uncomfortable that women are in control of growing new pe…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 07:28 AM
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I love it. But be sure if you want to feed them to look up what foods are safe for them. Bread and some other foods can hurt them
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 05:22 AM
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You'd be surprised. Women have a variety of preferences, and the flamboyant, effeminate, and sensitive archetype is one of them. Oscar Wilde is a bit special because he also had masculine qualities that made for a very intriguing contradiction. Look at the KPop stars. They have wild clothes and VERY pretty faces. Many adult women love them. There are plenty of examples like this, and not just Justin Bieber teen heartthrobs--Tom Hiddleston is not super masculine but has a massive and rabid female…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 06:21 PM
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I personally wouldn't date someone I know to be actively promiscuous, but habits can change whereas the age gap will always be there.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 05:58 PM
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IME with age gap relationships it's not always about the money as much as you'd think. The relationship dynamics tend to be very dysfunctional. Maybe the man is filling some sort of role of protector or even parent, often without providing protection or good parenting, but the hope draws some women in, especially those with insecure attachment styles or bad childhood environments. Frequently one or both are a sucker for pain and actively sought a critical partner they could never please. Usually…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 03:30 AM
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Well said
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 09:40 AM
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In these regards you're definitely trying very hard & clearly feel very strongly. She probably senses that you think that you're the best she's ever going to get. When people feel their partner looks down on them, there's a natural desire for fawning (to earn approval), fight, or flight. It sounds like she's chosen flight, emotionally distancing herself from you. Sadly the fact that you love her so much doesn't make up for damage caused by sending messages that you think you're the best she can …
/r/ExRedPill21/02/22 09:02 AM
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Can you think of more mainstream places? That quora thread is an absolute disaster. Like big dick joy there are clearly many men roleplaying as women, men I suspect have cuckold and penis humiliation fantasies centered around black men as "tyrones." Look at female communities like FDS. You'll see a group of women being completely open about what they want. Not once have I seen black men fetishized, or women saying they want a husband who will let them sleep around, or that they intend on sleepin…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 12:05 AM
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Asshole is regardless of gender, yes. My point is that I've never actually heard a complaint that a man's penis was too small. Size distribution has a pretty small standard deviation and most guys are quite average. I'm sure it happens though Edit: r/bigdickjoy is clearly a fetish sub for men. Probably self-congratory hung guys who make no effort in bed, and small dicked guys with a humiliation fetish. The texts look staged. Women (anyone) obsessed with massive dick probably watch too much porn.…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 10:34 PM
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Women like most people lust over guys actually in their life, as opposed to broad racial categories, and white women are mostly around white guys so that's who they lust over. Classifying men into porn categories as if they're horses is simply less common, though it's done to us constantly. As for masculine traits, women absolutely have preferences. They're just not as rigid as RP thinks, and "AF/BB" is very very rare. I've seen two women who dated around then married "meal tickets" and they are…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 10:32 PM
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I've never once heard a woman say "his penis was too small" or a white woman say "I like him but I'd rather have sex with a black guy."
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 10:22 PM
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I've seen white women lust over black men but only one actually preferred them over whites, and zero of them cheated on bfs to sleep with them or had a cheating fetish of any sort.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 06:41 PM
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FWIW there is no guy from my twenties that I will "always look back on" as the best sex of my life or even remember as good sex. Most women have their best sex in loving relationships. Real life is not Sex in the City.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 07:16 AM
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Am I missing something that autism means you can't be confident or assertive? Because that's not my experience with autistic coworkers and friends
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 08:59 AM
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Run as fast as you can. He doesn't deserve your love, and you'll find someone who does. He's not going to change. r/Codependency may help
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:03 AM
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Part of it is helping myself fight off the internalized misogyny by weakening the destructive voice in my head that fears some TRP things are true and de-esssentializing both men and women to see all of us as human beings while still acknowledging some very real and often dangerous gender dynamics. This is an important fight. I encounter horrible evidence supporting TRP, not just in niche online communities, but in everyday life. It's very easy to get bitter after a string of first dates have tu…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 08:35 PM
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You're still brave!! Brave is doing what's smart, not never feeling fear.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 06:33 PM
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This is so badass. I aspire to have half of your ability to call out anyone trying to prey on you.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 05:48 PM
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Thanks for saying I had some good points, that's rare on the internet haha Yeah it's all about context and if someone used "beta bux" unironically it would be more of a "this is probably someone I don't want in my life, I better watch out" than a "this is for certain a terrible person" situation. I'd find it a little cringey and also sad that they probably have extreme RP views, they're probably suffering, and they're probably going to hurt people they interact with or date. Especially early red…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 02:16 AM
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I'm not sure how OP is acting stupidly, doing silly things, or even acting righteous. Language is a choice. The gender you were born with (or feel you should have been born with) is not a choice. We judge people based on choices. Agreed, you can't understand someone 100% based on their language, but if someone straight-facedly uses the "femoid" or an ethnic slur, I will go right ahead and judge them. That doesn't mean they're not a devoted father or some other good thing, we're all a mixed bag, …
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 01:46 AM
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The downvotes weren't for your solid advice I'm guessing, but because you said facial attractiveness doesn't matter that much for men, which threatens their belief that nothing they can do will ever get them anywhere.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 01:32 AM
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If you're going to judge people, the words out of their mouths are fair game. Words, language, rhetoric... these have real world consequences. We don't know if OP has an "ethical spine" but that doesn't make their criticism less valid.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 01:29 AM
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I did not, no. Your second paragraph is semantically meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:25 AM
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Most women don't want to fuck guys after their friend has. You think a woman has a hot fling tinder and her friends say "ooh give me his number" or hunt him down? Even the epitome of promiscuous women in Sex in the City don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:23 PM
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As if women "refer" men to their friends like books. What planet do you live on? Anecdotal, but of the dozens of women I've heard talk about good vs bad sexual experiences dick size was mentioned as an afterthought or not at all, except by one woman who had...issues. Even the women who said "yeah that guy had a great dick" go on to have great sex with their next bf whose dick size wasn't worth remarking on. if it matters the vast majority of these data points are women seeing men within their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:17 PM
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That study was of COLLEGE students, which they completely neglected in the title ofc. The results could possibly transfer to the real world, but college is a unique, hypersexualized, and artificial environment where sexual behavior is highly linked to the male to female ratio as well (more overall promiscuity when there are more men than women, for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:01 PM
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There's a lot of fear around "if I'm with a woman with high n count, she's had a dick bigger than mine" or some variation. If she's with you, your dick is fine, you're hot enough. Check out women's spaces. I've heard "my guy's dick isn't big enough" rarely and "he doesn't try to get me off" a thousand times. Similarly most people don't end up with the hottest person they ever dated, but there was some other drawback that ultimately was a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:54 PM
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I had in mind a serious long term relationship which for most people includes sex unless unmarried and religious. My questions were targeted to your statement that sex was the only confirmation she's into you. I'd say sex is indeed the most important sign, because women these days are under a lot of pressure to sleep with a guy they're interested in to even be in the running for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:20 PM
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What about her love, devotion, bringing you soup when you're sick, not laughing along the time you embarrassed yourself in front of your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:58 AM
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Charisma on Command is great advice and very positive and nontoxic IMO. Most are building social skills and "leveling up" in the way RP should have been. They're digestible, entertaining, and practical. All the ones I've seen are done by a guy, so I imagine he makes his content in a way that appeals to men as well as women. I haven't tried their podcast or online courses. Some are dating related, some even for men specifically. I watched the latter and from a straight female perspective they wer…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 04:31 PM
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Often not specifically, but adjacent topics. Eg OP is probably familiar with Jordan Peterson and she has a whole video on him. Her vids on Men, Incels, Feminism may interest OP. Plus once you start ContraPoints the videos you didn't think you were interested in become worth watching because she's so great.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 04:24 PM
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Most women who aren't over 5'6"ish (and remember average woman is 5'4") will not reject 5'9". A good therapist will put this in perspective for you.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 08:32 PM
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Good God, you need therapy or something. You're attractive enough to have girlfriends and find women to cheat on them with, but feel deformed because women will only have sex with you if they want a relationship? You have to let go of casual sex being this magical thing. It's bland at best, nothing at all like the movies. Afterwards you realize how annoying or unpleasant this person was. Neither really cares about their partner's pleasure. It is not what you see in porn. Unless you like the idea…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/21 04:29 PM
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I honestly believe there are parallels between trying to help a pickme friend (as a pickme in early stages of recovery) and a newly sober person trying to convince their former drinking friends that alcohol is ruining their lives. If they're not receptive the only thing you can do for them is show them how much better life is this way. When their SO is ignoring them and you dump your LVM for a man willing to invest in you, when they can't commiserate about flakey commitment-phobic men because yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:54 PM
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Some other points in the article are good, but this paragraph is a pickme self-sabotaging attitude: "No matter how close you are with your honey, you have a little mystery appeal. He doesn’t quite know how that dress looked without control tops. Or how long you spend tweezing your eyebrows. Or how you sing every lyric of Sir Mix-a-Lot’s “Baby Got Back” when you shower. Keeping up a bit of a mystery is crucial until you get that ring. Once the X-factor is gone, you don’t have any bargaining chips…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:25 PM
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Interestingly, Maeglin's father Eol was the ultimate LVM. After Maeglin and his mother Aredhel ran away from Eol, Eol tried to kill Maeglin but hit Aredhel instead. Just goes to show how each generation is burdened by the way their parents fuck up. The greatest predictor of a man becoming controlling and abusive is whether his father was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:25 AM
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