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ADVICEfoxy_heterodoxy/r/RedPillWives09/02/20 04:55 PM
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Not to be that guy, but the term you’re looking for is postpartum, not postrum. :) I didn’t really mention postpartum effects on the body with my husband on purpose; I just mentioned it in passing as a joke like, “Get ready for my mom bod!” He expressed that he thought it would make me more beautiful to go through something like that. I’ve now had 2 babies in the past 2 years and he tells me how beautiful he thinks I am because of it. If a man loves and values you for more than your appearance (…
/r/RedPillWives31/12/21 11:45 PM
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It really does sound like your husband is going through depression or something similar. How long has this been going on, exactly? Many people have been slipping into depression since the lockdowns have occurred and our ability to control our environments has diminished. This can be especially hard for a man who saw himself as a leader and whose capacity to do so is now greatly hindered by forces outside his control. Has anything markedly changed? Is he working from home? Working less? Did his j…
/r/RedPillWives06/10/20 03:56 PM
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You can wear longer shirts without looking frumpy. You can wear a belt at the waist to cinch it in and give you more of a shape, or you can wear them with a dress that would normally be too short, but looks modest when paired with leggings. I would say most leggings are a bit immodest if you aren’t covering your butt. They tend to go a bit see through on areas where they stretch more, depending on the material, so it’s best to pair leggings with something that can cover up exposed cheeks, pantyl…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 07:19 PM
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ManEatingMatzoBall? I had a feeling she was trolling...at least I was hoping because... geez, what a life.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 01:53 AM
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I am not sure in what world one’s sexual prime is at age 15. It is unlikely you know your body well enough for that statement to mean anything. And, you likely do not have extensive sexual experience to be able to make that assessment. (I hope. You have so much more value you than what you offer sexually, ESPECIALLY at high school age.) Perhaps you mean your sexual attractiveness, which varies based on men’s opinions anyway. Some men prefer youthfulness, some prefer a more mature look. Additiona…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 12:03 AM
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Are you 22 or 24? Not that this makes too much of a difference, but I’m gathering from your comment history (and your username) that you are 22. Personally, I continued to develop my style and aesthetic between those two ages (and beyond), and I met my husband when I was nearly 24, married at 26. I don’t think he would have found me attractive (physically, emotionally) at 21 or 22 based on many factors. That said, you are quite young to be feeling so hopeless about finding a mate. My assumption …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 07:39 PM
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Wow. I feel like you know my story intimately. (An update: I am pregnant now (yippee!!!!!), and COVID has made it so that I am now working from home, which has given me a “free trial” of being a SAHM. It has been an absolute blessing.) My husband and I have had many serious conversations about everything I had word-vomited above. It came down to I need to trust him, and he needs to be able to rely on me to make our home calm and soothing. Especially right now in this crazy time we’re living, he …
/r/RedPillWives03/04/20 03:28 AM
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I’m guessing she hasn’t had an official boyfriend or one who has committed to her. Sounds to me like she’s gone on dates with men, but nothing has panned out, so she’s wondering if she can use RPW strategies if she’s just dating.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 03:27 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion. My husband and I both attend therapy, separately and together. I have been seeing my therapist for several years, and I have come to terms with a lot over that time. As an aside, quarantine has people digging pretty far back, huh? :)
/r/RedPillWives25/03/20 01:10 AM
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Yes, he used it to get off injectable testosterone. He takes injections of HCG weekly. I don’t know exactly the details. He’s getting checked again at the end of the month, so we’ll know next steps after that I suppose.
/r/RedPillWives15/02/20 12:19 AM
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My husband’s life changed dramatically after getting on testosterone—we have sex daily when we used to do it every few weeks, he has high energy, and he seems more focused and confident. Obviously, this is anecdotal, but never underestimate the power of a good endocrinologist! However, if you’re planning on having kids, make sure to get his sperm count checked and monitored closely; exogenous testosterone can lower sperm production and reduce the quality as well. This is our current struggle. He…
/r/RedPillWives14/02/20 12:28 AM
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My brother knows, but my mother would never understand, so she has no idea.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/20 12:49 AM
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I appreciate your straightforward response, and am certainly NOT wanting a “you go girl”. I need reality so I can get my bearings with all of this. Our reason for IVF (likely IUI first, but I’ve heard the effectiveness is questionable) is male infertility, likely caused by low T. He is set to get his levels checked again at the end of the month, but last time we found out the motility was still low. I am fertile and come from a family of pretty prolific women (and lots of twins). I have a very p…
/r/RedPillWives11/02/20 12:48 AM
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I have never been religious... my mom bounced us from church, to atheism, to Wicca (yes, that means my mom is a literal witch), and round and round the carousel goes. Currently I’m undergoing somewhat of a spiritual awakening, although I wouldn’t say it jibes with Christianity exactly. The allegories of Christian lore have always spoken to me, but I have yet to feel the surge of faith I imagine others feel in Christian church. I have been able to tap into that feeling, I believe, through meditat…
/r/RedPillWives10/02/20 03:44 AM
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I really feel this response and it means the world to me to know I am not alone. Virtual hugs :)
/r/RedPillWives10/02/20 03:38 AM
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I’ve recently started watching Mrs. Midwest, but I’m glad to see there are more for me to delve into!
/r/RedPillWives10/02/20 12:39 AM
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You absolutely hit the nail on the head. It doesn’t matter what these people think as long as my Captain and I are happy and it is right for us. I’m working on shifting my focus and priorities so others’ opinions do not define or cast doubt on my decisions. As for the “strong, independent woman” schtick, that was more tongue-in-cheek. I thought I was strong and independent, but I was (still am) very wrapped up in what others in my life thought of me. It was a very shallow, skin-deep view of what…
/r/RedPillWives09/02/20 11:30 PM
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That’s it. We literally are the same person, except I’m not a SpEd teacher. Middle school in a high SES area, though... entitlement ain’t even the half of it. Glad to hear it’s not just me, and I’m glad to see there’s light at the end of the tunnel. :)
/r/RedPillWives09/02/20 07:57 PM
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That may be part of what makes me anxious about it, certainly. My family is unaware of his diagnoses, though, so it’s not so much how it affect what others think as it is my uncertainty about relying on him. I am working on this in therapy, however.
/r/RedPillWives09/02/20 05:42 PM
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I needed to hear this. Literally brought a tear to my eye. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWives09/02/20 05:27 PM
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I also have the added challenge of living in CA... makes the pickings even slimmer!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 02:51 PM
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I would be interested in this as well! I’m also a non-religious person (and I’m a public school educator), so I’ve struggled to find like-minded individuals in the flesh.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 04:28 AM
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