foxylady45567 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
55	Religion is by men, for men Religion is key to confining women to certain narrow roles, by having women self-police their thoughts and behavior. Within the Christian tradition, girls/women are taught that there is certain behavior that places them in the 'good women' box and all other behavior is considered rebellious/disobedient. Good women are nurturing, submissive and meek while challenging male authority, sexual agency and independence are qualities of bad women. I grew up with a deep internalized misogyny because I ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 04:53 AM
12	Self-Care, decoupled from consumerism, as a strategy: discussion Thanks. This is really helpful approach and I do already use it to some degree. Going to bed earlier for example so I feel more refreshed next day, or exercising because it helps me to be more mindful and focused. Biggest pitfall in the past has been subscription services where I feel like I "deserve" certain things, but in reality I would probably be happier with less financial obligations and saving the money for more important things like a house or medical expenses	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 05:08 PM
20	Self-Care, decoupled from consumerism, as a strategy: discussion How can I reject consumerism-as-selfcare when I struggle with ADHD? What are some alternative ways to reward myself for working hard that do not involve new clothes, skincare and new hobby sets. I feel like it's so hard to distinguish between self development and performative self care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 04:47 PM
78	Had to share this Damn. If this isn't a spot-on analysis of the 'abortion debate'. pro-life men are hanging onto the biblical "sinful whore" narrative and pro-life women are just insecure pick-me's trying to be "not like all the other (promiscuous) women". Men know what they are doing and some of the women as well are fuck-ups getting off on crushing other women's bodily autonomy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 12:22 AM
37	A lot of criticisms of women are just male projection when you really think about it. Anyone have this experience but with their father? Makes so much more sense that my father would make disparaging comments about my intelligence, since he never attended college.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 02:31 AM
32	Why This Isn't Working: They Can't Reconcile Their Image of "The One" With Their Fundamental Contempt for Us We are neither angels nor beasts, but humans. We refuse to be worshiped as goddesses and we will not allow the denial of our essential subjectivity by men, either. Give us respect and empathy, not a twisted form of love that makes you both be obsessed and disgusted with us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/20 03:15 AM
30	Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back! Spot on analysis- it's just a protection racket where the situation always escalates. But "We don't negotiate with terrorists"as Nixon said in response to the Black September hostage-taking event, 1973. Money is the lifeblood of any terrorist organization's structure, and we cannot afford to keep fueling that particular terrorist organization that we call patriarchy. The threat of violence, and the promise of protection/subsistence are but the two faces of patriarchy; it all serves a purpose in …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 04:06 AM
10	Never let them get comfortable! Classic projection by men. They are pros at it, because they are able to position themselves as the neutral, balenced voice, and women as 'annoyingly irrational'.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 05:17 AM
129	I'm not easily accessible anymore. My energy is something not everyone gets to experience. I feel like a Queen having a say on who I even allow to enter my personal space. Southern ladies need to hear this. Cultural conditioning is to ACCOMMODATE ACCOMMODATE ACCOMMODATE whether man or woman. It's so refreshing to hear people say that guarding your energy is okay.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 09:05 PM
9	Unconventional red flags Yep they are hot and heavy, then they drop off the side of the earth for weeks- not replying to texts. Took me the second time around to figure out that I was being used, not a friend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 03:49 PM
9	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020 Amazing progress girll! I've stepped in that trap of being a therapist to the 'sensitive type' guy, too many times and even dealt with ex's throwing their mental health problems at me. Like wow, dodged a bullet there! But letting go of people/letting them manage their own emotions, is so freeing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 07:10 PM
5	Why do so many men find women boring here? Yeah they probably only notice the ‘basic insta’ types and lack the social intelligence to get to know a woman on more than surface level. Top-notch projection going on here. You are not expecting to find intelligence in the opposite sex, so are mostly attracted to dumb vain types- thus receiving confirmation of your pre-existing beliefs that “women are boring”. No sir, YOU are BORING.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/20 11:13 AM
1	Why are males always the ones who end up isolated and lonely in society? Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/20 10:44 PM
7	Miss sparrow gotta point Put it on Etsy- I'd buy it...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 08:55 PM
55	Elon musk LVM tweeted “take the red pill” and Grimes mom called him out. F**k that guy. And all the neoliberal asshole men that look up to him! edit: At least some people are starting to come to their senses as to what he actually is, in this comment section: https://www.reddit.com/r/OutOfTheLoop/comments/glnf5o/whats_up_with_elon_musks_recent_tweet_take_the/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 01:30 PM
61	Elon musk LVM tweeted “take the red pill” and Grimes mom called him out. Haha...same. Satisfying praxis, here- that's what it is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 01:28 PM
1	CMV: It is a myth that society is anti-male and anti-masculinity 1 ,2)Your top two examples are of women being abused on camera for the benefit of male enjoyment. Maybe women make up more prostitutes and porn actresses because men are paying to see porn, and get “the girlfriend experience”. Yeah men getting off to sexualized degradation has nothing to do with gender-it’s simply female privilege. /s 2)As for homelessness this is probably because women are more likely to be caring for children and they might get help from charities and strangers. So that’s just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 01:41 PM
6	Is low self-esteem a LVM trait? I dated someone with low esteem once and that was definetely a factor(although not the only one) in why we broke up. Maybe it is unfair but in the west we definetely put a premium on a strong masculine presence. As a woman, I am drawn to men who have this kind of strong presence, where they have confidence in themselves and are not afriad of other people's judgements on them. To look to a person to be your strength- someone you can be real with, and finding that they are deeply insecure, is a bi…	/r/askFDS	26/04/20 06:13 AM
3	What does a HV relationship looks like Love this answer. The last paragraph about working though personal issues while partnered, really spoke to me. Looking back on past relationships, that is one thing that I wouldn't want to compromise on like I did- that 'maintaining a sense of self love' and interests outside it. I think that it would have put less pressure on the guy and made me more happy, if I kept prioritizing my own goals.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/20 04:51 PM
3	What are 5 things you love about yourself? Yay! Bring in some optimism into these dark times. -I read a LOT of books. Never stopped reading big dense books even in college. I love BIG BOOKS and I CANNOT LIE. -My daring; moved over a continent just because I had that faith in myself to adapt. -Knowing how to listen to my emotions. I am dealing with my emotions in a healthier way than ever before, rather than concealing it under shame and anger, like I used to. Therapy has been a godsend. -My ambition. I want to enter politics or public po…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 02:57 AM
9	“Come over, let’s cuddle” Saving this comment as my internal translater...for next time a man uses this on me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 09:25 PM
2	Vintage FDS from a 90s Dateline episode <3 Take this energy into the weekend, ladies! I know RIGHT. He sounds salty as hell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 09:43 AM
2	r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious! Yeah I'm not sure what it is, but date rape culture is strong there. And so many unkempt country boys who think if they get you drunk enough, they can do what they want to. Where does that brand of entitlement come from, I wonder? Right, typical male narcissism! Quite scary!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 03:38 PM
20	r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious! Yes, do not recommend North Carolina for its dating scene. Pick me paradise there. Where I lived, there were a high level of domestic abuse incidence and sugar mamas providing for broke-ass drug addicts. Memorably went on a 'date' with a guy who I had to pick up from his parents house and drive back again. Besides being mentally unstable, I think he was involved in meth. That was was a "nope" from me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/20 11:28 PM
61	Reminder that it’s not your fault how people react when you set your boundaries. Yes, healthy boundaries shorten useless relationships with insecure manipulators. In the grand view, their reactions have showed you who they really are- their inability to adapt to higher standards shows you what they were always going to, early.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 01:37 PM
11	Just imagine. Same girl. Same. I got that oneitus BAD!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 07:40 PM
13	I love my freedom Congrats on living the full single life!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 11:22 PM
11	This is your friendly neighborhood reminder I know. I also experienced this with men. Like they want you to play into some sick sexual fantasy in their heads, where you act like their mommy to assure themselves of your continous attention. Or using their 'submissive' role as an excuse to be low-effort, while you do it all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 09:47 PM
42	Stumbled upon this post in my feed. Has anyone heard of this? The rape sympathizers are strong here Here's the official site, in case anyone is interested in donating: https://rape-axe.com/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 05:57 PM
12	Man rejects woman who then finds another boyfriend. He suddenly wants her after she’s in a new relationship and asks Reddit how to get over his feelings. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men! Reason why most women in a relationship create the fantasy that they are somehow the only one or unique. Its all to stave off the reality they all know of men loving superficially.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 03:06 PM
0	Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from? Men do not care to understand women, so they choose to not try. It profits them to pretend like women are "mysterious", "unreasonable" creatures , utterly unconnected from the male subjective experience of the world. In the service of practicality, they make up strategies for how to manipulate or control women, so that they get the 'access' they want. All this to avoid actually having to actually see women as whole complex individual consciousnesses that have individual agency. This entitled s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 11:00 PM