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| 1 | How to bring up STD’s without killing the vibe?First take Prep meds, with an anti-bacterial at home, and maybe continually take Valacyclovir. Get all the shots too. Also get snipped. Then you stick it in her in the heat of the moment. Rejection rate (she tells you condom) will be high, like 50-60%. But that's still a fair amount that let you feel that puss raw | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong if women make the first moves and push towards sex?Yeah especially in India whee it's supposed to be strict, that means they're sluts. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I deal with my strict ass parents.In my case moving out didn't even help as they began harassing me remotely, stealing my identity to manage my affairs etc. I had to completely cut contact. Even now, 5 years later, they're trying to get at me, I'm considering filing a restraining order. My dad in particular appears to have some sort of control related pathology. Just to give you perspective, your parents are not the worst. But yes, follow the other advice to move out even if it makes you poorer. Some parents just don't get it an… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 08:25 AM |
| 7 | Hood girls vs high class girlsLet's be real, there are few 9's in the hood for obvious reasons. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Hate to admit it, but the key to great sex for a man is *variety* of partners?5 is quite low on my scale but i agree that a new 6 is a fun time | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Ways to BS your SMV on the financial sideBecause SMV rests on 3 pillars, not two. Financial shit helps a lot too | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How can I compete in the SMV as an ageing ugly man?Post an ad on ThaiFriendly.com in bangkok and see who responds. Online really works for white guys. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 10:28 AM |
| 3 | How can I compete in the SMV as an ageing ugly man?I'm in Thailand, a 6/10 guy in the US is an 8 here. A 3/10 guy still gets laid like a rockstar due to $30 whores everywhere | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a random chick that approached you?I'd do it. Random women don't want to murder people. If I still had executive function I'd say "here we'll take my car" and i'd stop by a motel, telling her to be quiet if she starts offering her place again. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I honestly feel overwhelmed with the amount it takes for me to be attractive to womenYes, although India is a tough market for other reasons (have friends over there) | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/20 11:42 AM |
| 2 | I honestly feel overwhelmed with the amount it takes for me to be attractive to womenSad but true, I'm 6'2" but Indian. Got to 11% bf and muscular. it did help a little but overall interest still hard to come by, I have to work hard for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/20 10:07 AM |
| 63 | Red Pills from A Working GirlI'd be careful drawing general lessons from a hooker. Sure some advice is unfiltered. Other thoughts they have are mixed with a jaded mind that may also be deranged in some way (abuse etc) | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Are female standards going up?I disagree with you on this. I don’t know a single guy who finds looks acquired via plastic surgery procedures to be even remotely attractive. Generally, it just detracts from a woman’s attractiveness. I think you're basically saying the entire cosmetic surgery industry is a con, outside of work done for accident victims and deformities? Or some kind of detached solipsistic fantasy for certain women? Look up Eimi Fukada before/after on Google. I give her a 7 before, around a 9 after. Beautiful g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Are female standards going up?I think there is a case to be made that the physical attraction qualities men seek are partly socially derived too. In older times a heavier woman was seen as more attractive. In modern China they want porcelin-pale women. Plastic surgery may be filling a biological itch but also enhancing it. In a past without orthodontics or skin care a man's concept of a 7 had to be different too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Negging is Dumb.Even asking if second hand is kinda harsh for a cute girl who prides her looks, who you just met. I'd be more subtle here: "Let me guess, Forever 21?" (Implication is she follows the herd, at a subtle level, by shoping at a big box/generic store) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/20 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Getting Laid for Ego Validation is Perfectly OkayThe problem with your line of reasoning is that ego validation is... validation seeking behavior. I think you kinda know this and justify your position as just tip toeing into validation seeking to build self esteem at which point you can then mostly focus on yourself. I say practice what you want to become instead of doing these multi-step things. Don't get laid to try to woo others. Most people don't care anyways. Define your own reality and live in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Pothead Girls - Turnoff? Red flag?It doesn't matter how safe or good a thing is, it matters what types of people indulge in that activity. Which has more to do with the perception and culture of said activity than its merits. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 10:13 AM |
| 2 | I just realized every girl that viewed me as a fwb or hook up potential were girls i barely had any inclination to talk to even though they were more attractive and more fun than a lot of girls who "went for" off of tinderWhat do you think it means? At fisrt I assumed some sort of alpha/beta behavioral hierarchy. But it just sounds like online is harder (which I feel myself) | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | How To Get A Girlfriend Or Fuckbuddy Even If You Never Had One BeforeSo more frequency (of sex) makes them want you sexually more. I did not expect that. I tend to hold to once/week/plate, maybe I need to revisit this | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 01:58 PM |
| 6 | How do you activate her inner slut?The key is to progress her naughty side. Most guys don't do this that well and so their experience stays vanilla and easily swappable. My loose formula: Kissing/groping in public Quickie BJ in public or other forbidden area (library, church). I don't give time to finish, it's more getting them to do it Kinky sex involving wrist restraints, spanking, light(!) face slapping etc. Key here is to make them start to feel controlled Some sort of rite of passage into your possession. My personal favorit… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 04:32 AM |
| 81 | The Problem of MarriageMarried guys are happier on average. If you look into why, they tend to eat better, have more money, and most importantly, have more social relationships. Plus a natural legacy to build up. I think a guy who does the above, plus fulfills the giving back part of becoming a tribal elder later in life, can have it all without the deep commitment of the marriage contract. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 02:08 AM |
| 3 | I really don't understand frame.Someone who holds tight standards like that will also get into more scuffles, sometimes in situations where he's out-alphaed. So it's not a risk free way to go, compared to being unaffected | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 05:36 PM |
| 3 | I really don't understand frame.A girl throws a cookie at you Frame 1: "How dare you! That's assault!" Frame 2: {Smiles sheepishly. Guesses she took the dirty joke a bit harshly} Frame 3: {Laughs} I'll have some milk with that Frame conveys where you are in the hierarchy because higher status individuals live better lives. This is conveyed by how they process things. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 03:33 AM |
| 0 | I fucked a girl that ditched some dude who tried to beat me up in the past for the same reason. Fucking another girl he tried to fuck. What to do if he tries the same shit again?Just run away from any physical situation, confrontations just aren't worth it | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Would you live a fun life but be poor or work hard and be rich?The goal is a fun life so everything should optimize to that end | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Why did some women fight for sexual liberation?That's one reason. Of course they'd give more high minded reasons to the judge. Independence and such | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Why did some women fight for sexual liberation?More like so they could choose not to have sex with their husbands | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 05:12 AM |
| 5 | How to shit-test people?I slip into these tactics when I get into arguments with people. Something I'm trying to just walk away from. That said, when you ignore their prods and get them to defend against yours, it's optically an auto-win | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 04:15 AM |
| 7 | How to shit-test people?Say something that evokes defensive responses to cover for an insecurity. "Trying to sound smart?" "You just love doing that whenever {some tick they have}, so predictable." If they try to cover for it they fall into your frame. As a general rule strong alphas don't need to bait people into frame loss. That is insecurity in another form | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 03:59 AM |
| 3 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?Where does the line get crossed? At some point, you are a man, and sex must be part of your life. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Why do women get "heartbroken" when their man cheats...Pair bonding chemicals tend to fuse people together mentally. When a sudden breach occurs it can be quite painful for either side | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever wish you were gay so wouldn’t have to deal with women?Gays are like the rich, we chastize them out of envy | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | She’s asks why she got “soft nexted”For me hiding behind "busy-ness" feels like frame loss internally. I'm always kind of busy but I make time for those I enjoy. Is it wrong to just say that? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?I disagree with some of the tactical considerations being put forth, specifically wanting her to hamster. That's beta shit, trying to backdoor find ways to wound her back, or get her to think about you. You don't need that, you have your own life to run. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Why when I treat women good it never turns out good?Women don't want good treatment for someone they produce offspring with. They want status. Do bosses and kings go out of their way to act nice? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Why Does Game Attract WomenConfidence, upbeat attitude: Conveyances of status Humor: Political skill, the highest power a man can have Unphased: Communicates high options and therefore desirability | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Why does a good career mean women qualify you as beta bucks?A tinder guy with elite genes only has sex value whereas a tinder guy with genes and money has provider value too. Now drop their looks 3 points. The 2nd guy will have a more consistent flow. But, girls will try to slowroll him due to societal norms around what type of woman is worthy of being a long term mate. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Please explain this bullshit from the main sub...You see this fairy tale line of thinking in other fields too. "Don't lift/make money/seek status for others, it's not worth the effort" (sometimes adding in "it won't get you the results either"). Obviously they're wrong and those things do get results, if the other boxes are also checked. The counterpoint is that doing those things exclusively for puss makes you superficial and dead inside. But generally people are able to take in all the benefits that come with health and wealth promoting acti… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | What's going on here? Girl acts bitchy until realizing dude is a sugar daddyThat was my takeaway too, creepy is basically a euphamism for low status | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 08:24 AM |
| 1 | At what social status/wealth level does it start working in your favor?I think it's relative. At her family's income you're neutral, you gain/lose points from there | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Do sex ultimatums ever work?That guy widened his advice into people and women in general. Seemed to me he mistook making a tactical mistake with having a totally corrupt worldview. I thought you said you don't want to come across as butthurt. Mentally as I was replaying the event, I thought I'd just tell see her out and go quiet over the phone. Then if she shows interest I feel her out for sexual interest and just keep ignoring unless she came around. Essentially a soft next | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Do sex ultimatums ever work?ultimatum should be perceived from your actions, not words That's what I needed to hear, I'll keep this in mind thanks | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I think slutty girls are coolJudgmental behavior is just that, an action. It is not a person (the behaviors can and do come and go) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I think slutty girls are coolQuite common in a covert sense. Overt shaming also common by catty women, jilted ex's, and older conservative women (using body language in a disapproving way). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/16 02:12 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Why are both sides of the equation so ferociously desperate to convert the other side to their views when it comes to the The Slut Dilemma?There must be a deeper issue at play. I think it has to do with one's sense of how culture should be ie open and sexual vs defined and traditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/16 11:17 AM |
| 1 | I think slutty girls are coolI'm down for prude shaming, anything to help normalize female promiscuity! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/16 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Why does promiscuity matter so much to some people (including me) and are we bad for thinking this way?It is mostly old wiring, not wanting to raise some else's kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4redpillers why do you always discredit a woman's rape accusation , if the accused is white or a frat bro , but immediately beleive them when they accuse refugees ?Well think about it, would you rather have sex with a fit athletic girl or a scraggly homeless girl from a poor country? The same applies in reverse too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?I can tell you're trolling me from the anger comments :) I will walk away from this now as we clearly have nothing of value to offer one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?The quote does refute your position. It suggests that the bio clock is the explanation. "The very source you used (copied from me actually) backs my position. Clearly and more than once. You haven't understood it well enough to realize that, because you didn't read all of it, and have nothing to back your assumption." I will consider this a coverup for a debate loss as you are unable to make a specific point. There is no reason for ambiguity otherwise. "Just a lot of irrational anger towards wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?I think you are looping around in your own rhetoric now :) The quote in my last post refutes your position. You offer no support for your confidence argument other than these claims of proof, which now appear to be bluffs. I challenge you to quote a source that backs up your position. I don't think you can do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?Looks like your 2nd link was blocked in my country. I Google searched the words in the url and came across another article which states the following: For women, a ticking biological clock may be a downside of progressing through the 30s. Perhaps because of this phenomenon, women reach a sexual peak at this time of life, according to research. Women in their 30s and early-40s are significantly more sexual than younger or older women, reporting more sexual fantasies and more actual sex. The resea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?The prior post specified sexual value. "The fact of the matter is that women over 30 don't care what society thinks, are happier and more confident for it, and have better sex lives" Can you back this up with a cite? I think this sentence gets to the heart of our disagreement. Beyond the above I'm still not hearing a why behind your position. Why do you think it takes until the 30's for women to become confident and cast off the judgments of society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?Women are the more socially constrained gender. There's a reason you don't see a lot of 20 year old models in the feminist movement; the incentive structure behooves them to cash in on the patriarchy. It should be suspect that a large amount of women suddenly develop self confidence right after their sexual value peaks. What is the driving force? Could it be that once again, changing social circumstances creates an impetus to support oneself from within rather than from a society that cares less… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?But society values women in their 30s less sexually. Also, what is your explanation for needing 30 years to gain confidence? I once read an article that said 50% of women experience depression by the age of 40, and yes a decline in social standing is part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?The correct answer is closer to 10 sessions, 20 or 30 for a slow learner. The rest is likely due to "holding back" for the aforementioned reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/16 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Why are women in their 30s more sexually adventurous?Why do women seem to care about other's thoughts the most as young adults? That is what strikes me as a heightened subconscious sensitivity to social status (and why not? If I were extremely valuable I wouldn't rock the boat much either). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/16 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile sexual desire with just ideals?People of that mindset are undermining their own desires to see less fetuses killed. Indeed it may even normalize such practices. In the same vein, wanting to allow women to have the option of a more free role in society may contribute to a society which I find undesirable emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile sexual desire with just ideals?I was going to respond but the last couple of sentences was overly dismissive and signals an unproductive discussion chain to follow. I suppose you can follow up retort me being too weak for the women I seek out if you'd like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 09:21 AM |
| 3 | How do you reconcile sexual desire with just ideals?I live in Asia now and I can tell you that the mentality of the women here is completelely different than the US, where "submissive" women are really "submissive light." As a whole, American girls are louder, less "house-wifey," more individualistic and aggressive. Society makes a bigger impact than I think your post suggests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 12:21 AM |
| 5 | How do you reconcile sexual desire with just ideals?The two are jointed connected though. If you wish for a freer society you are likely contributing to a social direction that makes it harder to find submissive women. If many other men are also competing, you've created a big problem for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile sexual desire with just ideals?Good answer, thanks for sharing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile sexual desire with just ideals?Your last paragraph sets up a false dichotomy. At the same time it points out the problem: there are women who would benefit from a more rigid social structure, and others who would benefit from greater independence. And in general I think a freer society is a more just one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What is the evolutionary explanation for stereotypically unattractive male sexual deference?Now that I think about it you are right. Isn't it interesting that it has lost power? I would have guessed it would still work, but when over-indulged, the stimulus really does lose effectiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What is the evolutionary explanation for stereotypically unattractive male sexual deference?Great answer. So it sounds like under evolutionary conditions, pedestaling a woman was a reliable path to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Lifting: bulky vs cut lookThanks. I'm about 7 months in and I def look like I workout with my shirt off or even with a fitted shirt on. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 06:03 PM |
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