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| 1 | Did girls notice you or take interest in you before you "upped your game" ?Just because you never had confirmation doesn't mean you don't try. I mean the fear of rejection is a tough thing to deal with but you won't know unless you try. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How bad was your first approach?I don't remember my first approach but I remember a really bad rejection at a club. My friend wanted to talk to this girl and was too shy to talk to her so I offered to talk to her for him. Went up to her and introduced myself. She looked me up and down and gave me this look of disgust. I actually was shaking as i was affected that bad. Didn't try to talk to anyone else that night. She wasn't even a girl I myself thought was attractive. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 04:55 AM |
| 2 | I don't drink...help.I wouldn't worry about that you don't drink. Just tell her you don't I doubt she would find it as a turn off. It might even work in your favor. I drink but have friends who don't drink and they still enjoying going out to bars and club in as much as those of us that do. Just have fun and relax. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Did girls notice you or take interest in you before you "upped your game" ?Before I became comfortable talking to the opposite sex I already had an idea I was not bad looking as I would have confirmation from females but my major problem was I was extremely shy among girls and people in general. Once I decided I didn't want to die a virgin things changed as I made an effort to put myself out there. It wasn't an easy process that saw results immediately but once I got the ball rolling good things happened. When you go out to try to talk to girls you are interested in yo… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Adding her on Facebook?Any chance you can elaborate on how u know she is into you? | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 03:53 PM |
| 4 | [FR] First night out attempting the game. 22yr MaleFirst of all major props for putting yourself it there. It takes guts to do what you did and you did it alone. Next time you go out just talked to who you are attracted to without waiting for some confirmation from the girl if she is interested in you. If you get lucky that does happen but most of the time you are going in blind not sure of the result. Keep at it you will get better. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Girls with boyfriendsMorally you shouldn't mess with that like the other guys said you wouldn't want someone to do that to you. But..... if you have this insane chemistry and she has it to with you. That is not an easy thing to find. Maybe she see's it also. That's a slippery slope u need to decide if she is worth it. Best case she leaves bf for u. Worse case u get hurt and she goes back to bf. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:55 AM |
| 1 | My problem with SedditI understand where u are totally coming from. I was like that before. Basically kept to myself and was extremely shy with the opposite sex and people in general. I'd go to college and go home being content to play videogames. I was a late bloomer. But it got to a point I was thinking to myself at this rate I will never kiss a girl if I don't do something about it. I made it a priority to put myself out there more. Now this didn't exactly happen over night but took a couple of years till I finall… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Find proof you are attractive to women!Does one really need proof? I mean attractiveness can be a lot of different qualities and not just physical. I would assume you would know already if women find you attractive physically or not with out needing any confirmation. But I've notice that shouldn't stop you from approaching women. You can't bank on the thinking that I will approach so and so because she finds me hot. Women don't' make it that obvious. Its better just to go for it then wait for some indirect hint that she might be into… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:33 AM |
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