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In other words they talk in into oblivion and do nothing.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 08:51 PM
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As you gain confidence in yourself, she is finally questioning her automatic position of queen ( a position you gave her and she took ownership of). It is IMO the simplest indication of her submission to you. Build on it like the gambler that never puts a won chip back on the table in play. In every interaction, a sale is made. Coffee is for closers. None of this would have ever happened if you had not finally started believing in yourself and making yourself a priority. Now you are finally beli…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 10:09 PM
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Your progress is yours, and is on an upward slope still. Her progress is hers, and is on an upward slope also, just not as steep as you want. She knows where I stand. She knows what I want. Right now I need to stop focusing on her and solely focus on meeting my own needs, period. Looks like an ongoing plan that is working, as long as you continue accept that she is on a 5000 foot rope.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 12:47 PM
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Yes, and along with "Don't eat Paint" and "that'll show her" classic Stone that evolved before our eyes.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/19 01:58 AM
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Was that part of the Carpenter Zombie story?
/r/askMRP21/06/19 01:10 AM
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Great post Stoney! Frenchy told you to get your writing skills in order and the world would be yours. Well done. What you probably won't like: your writing is getting more like your nemesis, old Jack10's style. Regardless, it works well for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/19 01:07 AM
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It's the first time she's outright deceived me (that I know of) in 9 years. That you know of.... Besides you just haven't been paying attention until lately. Then only because things have spun so far out of control. Credit yourself for finally noticing. Now get to work.>>>>>>( on the side bar) Suggest you read NMMNG twice. I've read it more times than that.
/r/askMRP17/06/19 07:44 PM
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That would be you... I personally admire the man that works for years to master a craft, then keeps on improving.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 12:02 AM
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You are the definition of a troll. You are wasting the time of these men that actually care about the manosphere. You are just feeding your bottomless need for attention. Attention whores like you, can just get fucked.
/r/askMRP16/06/19 02:23 AM
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I know you do martial arts. In the end, it is your actions that you train to do that matter. Understanding how your opponent thinks, will only get you hurt. DUDE...BRO...I have watched your journey from the beginning. The only person you need to follow is you, and, until you do, you're just going to waste more of your time. Even worse, you really know this and keep ignoring it. In other news, GLO will feed you bullshit, then laugh at your confusion. But ignore good advice again, get one of GLO's…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/19 01:28 AM
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Re-read what you just said about GLO. So you like wasting a lot of time with intellectual bull shit? You have enough issues without taking on some of his IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 03:42 PM
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Thank Bogeyd6. He says a lot with a little... Just for grins and giggles, I will predict that you are going to grind for a long time. Many here have. That's not a bad thing. I personally admire the man that works for years to master a craft, then keeps on improving.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/19 03:21 AM
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Separating the issues might help you. Dealing with your relationship with God, your religion, your wife's religion, your wife's frame, and last but not least your frame. Separate them, simplify them, and take charge of them one by one. Unless you like being on the hamster wheel. Ignore the simple minded idea that dumping her, God, or religion fixes you. u/Bogeyd6 says it well: Life is what you make of it, so the more you expect someone else to provide you something the more you will never be sat…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/19 02:56 AM
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Which is exactly why I didn't threaten divorce. She did. True, but you set her up. u/Sepean is dead on about dread. Slow your roll.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 02:50 AM
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A church is run by people. God does not run it. His name is just used as a free endorsement. Aside from your wife, your problem is with church people. Try not to confuse that with your relationship, or lack of it, with God. Seriously , re-read your post, and, try to recognize how reactive you are to your wife's frame. Think about cooling your jets a bit, you are showing some Rambo macho mind here. That seldom ends well for anyone. Once you see how you've turned over way too much of your frame to…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 02:41 AM
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I just love sittin' around a dumpster fire with my friends....
/r/askMRP05/06/19 09:16 PM
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It's possible. Believe me .. Okie Dokie I believes you.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 09:14 PM
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Great flair dude.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 09:13 PM
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Agree. The old idea of go to "X" general education school, prove their ability to succeed, and transfer to "y" is still a proven method. Not only does it increase the unproven scholars chances of success, it gives that time they need to find a passion. I wish I had done that with my third child. Incidentally, three stories along this line: The first child had a passion when he entered college. Got his degree in it and never looked back. Has enjoyed and excelled in it. The second child had a real…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 03:15 AM
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No doubt about that. Take care.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 02:18 AM
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double check
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 04:03 PM
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check
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 04:02 PM
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My take on colleges - having paid for lots of it... Let the kids pick the colleges they don't want to go to. I pick the colleges that I will pay for, and they will end up going to. Also because I think they could succeed there, but the success is up to them. Too big a decision to let them screw it up for everyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 01:24 PM
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Life is what you make of it, so the more you expect someone else to provide you something the more you will never be satisfied. You sure used a lot of words to finally get down and make the point! We're strange creatures that we taste every bar and broad in the world, only to return home, even to Texas.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 03:44 AM
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I'll double that!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 09:06 PM
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Yup, oldies say the darndest things.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 09:06 PM
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I am doing very well, but wife's health is fading.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 08:01 PM
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That’s all you get. so familiar....
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 08:01 PM
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Nice post Scurve. Your post gets double weight for living your words. Now we walk away. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 01:32 PM
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Great explanation here. Something for everyone. +1
/r/askMRP14/05/19 01:27 AM
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I read the BPP book, Like MMSLP, when BPP wrote the book, money was not a primary goal. Both are great books IMO. The problems with conflicts of interest in messaging came later.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 02:14 AM
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Mine gives me porn quality handjobs and lots of ice cream and lots of strong painkillers when I'm sick. I think she's just betting that she'll get lucky and I'll die, quickly.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 01:41 AM
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Yes, we are...:) Seriously, What's the "AK" about?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 01:31 AM
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If I gave you $100 for every time you said the word "skunk-shaft" guarantee you would say - often. Financial incentives work, that's why conflicts of interest matter. Don't take my word for it, look at thousands of years of human history to prove this point. Does "Game of Thrones" provide some insight?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 10:56 PM
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My belief is that everyone that has tried to monetize the red pill, has left it behind. I'm still waiting for someone to prove me wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 01:06 PM
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That's not to say it didn't confuse the fuck out of me, too. Doing my best to not get caught up in the chemical overflow. I think you got this. Those are exactly the points I was trying to make.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 03:06 PM
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Thanks "Rosebud"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 02:22 AM
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Bingo - we have a winner, that refused to play a rigged game.
/r/RPChristians06/05/19 12:15 AM
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I remember a story from crazy old u/Over60_Stupid_Loner. If you don't remember him, it matters not, he deleted it all. He'd was about where you were, things going great with the long term wife, and he got handy and fell into some pussy at Lowes. It confused the fuck out of the old guy. Like you he snorted some NRE and he almost stroked out. Point is, it's just pussy and if a ONS means more than that to you, you just got high on validation. What happens with a LTR has NOTHING TO DO WITH what happ…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/19 11:32 PM
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Good on you man. You're making decisions about what you will do. Not perfect, but deliberate and thought out, and it suits you. Best part of your post: I really don't care what some assholes on the internet think about this post. I'm living my life on my own terms how I want to and I'm happy. If you don't like it, fuck off. ..now that's red pill porn to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 10:16 PM
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Actions for others enjoyment vs actions for your own enjoyment. This choice we make every day. What else is there to know.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 03:18 AM
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The premise of overly empathetic is your self cover for the real issues of codependent, self indulgent responses to others. Try giving those types of "over-empathetic" responses to a stranger and they will call the police on you. OP it's time to accept the fact that your behavior is creepy and off-putting, and generally will give a woman Sahara crotch. Your whole post screams of your struggle, but put it in the correct perspective. You are not the hero in this story. Pull in the ego and do the w…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 03:02 AM
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A Prodigal Son returns...
/r/RPChristians28/04/19 03:25 AM
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A golden frame, above all others, so special.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/19 04:16 AM
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In the active adult retirement community I live in, it would be over 90% dead or dying bedroom. In fairness, many of the men and women let themselves go so bad that this is all very predictable. The healthy ones seem to find each other....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 07:57 PM
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bitch management is the real game Every pimp knows this...
/r/askMRP24/04/19 12:47 PM
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A lot of things need to be in place before I’m ready to do that with you. A girl’s feelings start way before the bedroom.” (clearly referencing the money stuff) Ouch, that's some serious whoring.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 09:47 PM
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Here's a link to what an old fucker did to stop the bleeding. It's never to late to find your balls. https://redd.it/588e5o
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 04:17 PM
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DEERing is habitual for the weak, non masculine dude that is trying to befriend and make “passionate love” to his LTR and not wanting to just fuck her lights out in a rage of testosterone. Owning his life and embracing the fact that a man is masculine and is very fundamentally different That's getting to the core of it...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 03:41 PM
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Objection handling = DEERing ..and how's that working with your wife? It may sound the same, but it's not.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 02:13 PM
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No one is going to shed tears here for you. Any tears will be yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 01:48 PM
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You can start living in reality, as things actually are, right now, or you can continue to do mental gymnastics to try to reconcile a realistic, non-self-sacrificial approach to life with that of being religiously altruistic. In other words, your crisis is a philosophical one Lots here in so few words. I call it my "core". Lifting is easy compare to building your core.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 01:47 PM
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The girlie version is, "you go girl"
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/19 02:58 AM
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to me lead taste a lot better If you are still able to hold a gun, if you still know what a gun is. By the time, most people, are ready to take a bullet, they can no longer do it themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 05:32 PM
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There are many older men that are agreeing with you. Just don't forget a well written DNR to alleviate the suffering of the last days.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 01:44 PM
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You mean it's one of your goals?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 10:36 PM
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u/GayLubeOil EC on The Red Pill sub
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 05:57 PM
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Good to know. Your comments remind me of GLO.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 02:28 PM
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Just for grins. Is there anything that Rollo has posted that you agree with?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 02:02 PM
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Seen this with my retired friends. Overseas brides in all versions. He is just a steeping stone for her. But he might die happy although deluded.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 01:44 PM
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A hero doesn't have a hero, but most followers do.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 03:59 AM
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isn't just about attracting the highest value man but keeping him. and the lengths they will go to is amazing.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 03:51 AM
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Again proving you are nearly a sage, in spite of your youth.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 11:32 PM
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As we age the dynamics of femicontrol change little other than the context. Here's a conversation I overheard: Age 60s widow telling about her woman friend going through a breakup. Her Friend complained that she never dreamed she would be going through this at age 68. The conversation centered on the assumptions that her STBX was a dirt bag and that she was assumed blameless and she was entitled to continue to be married to him. Later in life the existential fear transforms to the fear of being …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 02:57 PM
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I'm not sure how sold she was on kids in the first place (having a kid was important to me - I never specified multiple, because I didn't know) I wasn't too interested in taking care of baby when she was a baby. I would've rather put the kid in day care or come up with 3rd party solutions. As a consequence, wife did almost all of the taking care. It caused turmoil because she felt abandoned -- she also didn't like my solutions, so I said "fuck it. you do it your way and you take ownership." Soun…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 02:16 AM
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Of the three points, if you could magically fix only one, which one and why? Would that be enough? If not, which one next and why? Do you think your interest in side pussy is really about changes at home?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/19 03:15 PM
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Nothing can fuck with your mind any more than the thrill of side pussy. IMO you are struggling with your value system on this. Slow down. You are young, you have time, use it. u/SorcererKing once (basically) said to me, "what do you value? ..and what are the risks to what you value"... I have the same question for you. On the one hand you say the NRE has heated things up at home. First, this shows you're not keeping your game tight at home, and with a willing player, too. Second, do you think sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/19 04:08 AM
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Oh the irony His actions betray his words.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/19 03:41 AM
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I you limit it to Columbia, what could go wrong? No tail risk at all (: This is the first post you've made in a while where you're deluding yourself some. I have more to add when I get time.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/19 02:56 PM
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Just a few things: She has more to lose than I do. This is usually going to limit you to married women. New Relationship Energy (NRE) Like cocaine, just lasts much much longer. More addictive. But really what I learned is that with no family risk, pulling the trigger is pretty worth it. First, married women will manage most of the risk for you. Second, if you have no fear of the consequences, there is no risk. These elements are the foundations for a serial cheater. You've snorted NRE once, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/19 04:20 AM
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youth is wasted on the young That's why old farts are so crabby.
/r/askMRP30/03/19 03:47 AM
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i for one believe that male age plays a significant albeit smaller than women's age in the ever escalating rates of Down Syndrome, autism, and other defects If I had a child at age 67, I'm sure I would have acquired all these.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 01:12 PM
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Yup - painful.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 02:14 PM
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So much for a better man than when your RP journey began.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 01:21 PM
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Great post skillfully executed. +1 Imagine for a second this guy said no and his worst fears came true? She left him then over him saying no? How in the world would he not be in a 1000% better situation now. My favorite lines.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 03:30 AM
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Oh Shimy, how you've changed.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 03:25 AM
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u/Taipanshimshon makes not one single allusion to being a victim here. Another take could be that happiness seldom coexists with victimhood.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 08:43 PM
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First, I don't get my panties in a wad over internet locker-room discussion. Edit: removed Personal Information The self motivation part was hardest for me. I had this superman thinking that I beat death. Instead of triumphant, I was depressed, in pain, got addicted to pain killers. The lull and void overtook me. I knew the pain killers were killing more than pain, they were killing me. I quit them and decided to live with physical rather than mental pain. I realized that the lull and void were …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 04:43 AM
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...ending a post with any viariation of "what do now" is askin' for a trashin' that Merp's will deliver.
/r/askMRP23/03/19 04:20 AM
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I faced this some years ago. I died then came back to years of rehab. Surviving the unsurvivable is hard to surpass. The void, the lull afterwards was when I had to have a mission completely defined. Best luck, the hard part comes now. Feeling happy is the least of your problems now.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 01:43 AM
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You could be right that I'm a terribly lame, smarmy, gay-ass, and my opinion is of little value to you. I should consider keeping my opinions to myself and try not to irritate people, such as yourself, that could be much smarter and wiser than I am. Have an upvote+1
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/19 02:58 AM
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Feel better? You might consider offering some, "how I got there" in your travelogue. Edit: OP don't double down your faggotry and remove this post. Own it, it's important.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/19 04:20 AM
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AKA Bloops.
/r/askMRP17/03/19 04:16 AM
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Religion, politics sex and RP. Off limits. Way more downside than up.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 04:14 AM
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hows your spreadsheet going to help you? Wrap your dick with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 02:15 PM
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Oversimplified... A pig is a pig. You do not have the right to change the pig. If you try anyway, don't blame the pig. Now, insert "human" for "pig". If you still don't get it, …insert your name for pig.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 11:49 PM
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I’ve never hidden anything, other than occasionally frequenting massage parlors, which I stopped How long will you keep this secret? How is it any different?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 07:49 PM
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Please write another FR when you present your findings to your wife. If your wife wants to write an FR about it, we might even make a exception for her.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 07:30 PM
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At least you set your boundary and acted on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 08:34 PM
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Don't understand how you attracted so many downvotes. Either you just got lucky, or the bloops woke up.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 04:48 PM
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Why would anyone want to game women when they're happy? Yes, quit working out, gain weight, avoid your friends, don't go out with wife, stay home a watch old movies instead. So many things to do when you are happy. But for how long?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 04:17 PM
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Women will put in the work if they feel threatened. That’s why you need to keep lifting , looking good , stfu, and get out of the house Nope, not really. You should be doing those things for yourself, because you want to, anything else is a covert contract. If the only way she wants to f--k you is if she feels threatened, you might as well use a weapon. Be attractive, for the sake of being attractive. Your wife needs the social validation of others finding you attractive. It makes her feel good,…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 04:03 PM
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OP, so much to unpack here. Think I'll just write until I get tired of it.... So you were unattractive and weren't getting laid. You find the Red Pill and get attractive and start getting laid proper at home again. Now you don't need to work so hard to be attractive. Guess you used RP to achieve your BP goal of getting laid regular, just cause you're so special. Maybe you can learn that it's not about the pig. The Pig Story, just for you. My alpha-as-f--k dad once told me a story when I was just…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 03:42 PM
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$20 is $20.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 02:48 PM
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Flair?
/r/askMRP03/03/19 04:52 AM
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I have watched your progress from the beginning. Every one of us shit on you now and then. You just wouldn't die. Good on you. Did I over think that?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/19 03:12 AM
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Good post. The processes for getting control of our emotions all follow a similar path of self awareness. There is a post in the WIKI about getting past anger. It can be applied to any emotion and the process is very similar. From my personal experience using that process, it can build on your excellent post. https://redd.it/4br3sm
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 03:13 PM
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Follow her actions, not what you think she thinks about you; that's just an endless hall of funhouse mirrors reflecting warped versions of your own ego and insecurities back at you Great line. A book in summary.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 04:42 AM
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But I like that pause. Keeps me edging that much longer. Must be an old guy thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 05:33 PM
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I prefer beta blockers.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 05:21 PM
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Age related illness
/r/askMRP22/02/19 05:18 PM
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Yup, whey ova thar.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 04:00 PM
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What'd e say?
/r/askMRP22/02/19 03:57 PM
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Used to be coconut oil for everything, until it wasn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 03:55 PM
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It's just your turn. It's just her turn....
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:59 PM
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WTF? I like tools that can draw blood, and you write a lace covered languid language puke. Geez, all those prissy words just say you'll give it a shot?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 05:11 AM
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Motives matter, man. Are you needy and supplicating, or do you do what you want because it makes you happy? Thanks, needed that stick sharpened today.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 07:17 PM
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Nice post. You played a mean sax on the big notes. My favorite line of your post: you want her to get her shit together. But how can she get her shit together when she is married to Captain Fucktard? Ignore the nit-picking comments from the noobs. Well done. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 07:05 PM
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Edit: banned for 66 days. I couldn't take the she statements anymore. Too bad. His painful to watch shit show has some lessons in it. Give him an "emerging serial ___" flair for a warning.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 03:36 AM
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soulmate and love at first sight Yes, it's real. slutty women always make me feel that way for at least an hour, sometimes longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/19 09:10 PM
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I made her a cake: https://theluxuryspot.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/1000_750_csupload_49125580.jpg
/r/askMRP14/02/19 07:16 PM
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her competency was sexy as fuck I've fucked competency and it was good much better than expected.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 01:21 PM
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Crap, I think they all have some daddy issues. And, yes, when I treat the one's under 40 with some contempt, many of them like it so much they make obvious plays in front of wife. I literally spanked one at a party.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:59 AM
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the older I get the company of younger women gets annoying really fast under age 35 is like a nail in my ear.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 08:24 PM
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So many questions. You are probably trolling, but here goes away... you could find someone else who also helps you on your mission who is also younger and hotter, so why stay? Is younger and hotter better? Does SMV and money have a lot in common, is there ever, ever enough? Your premise of what is best, lacks depth and maturity. Next question..... Do you never desire variety? If you are an alpha, you could get some strange and then settle down again. Of course. It my decision to not play around …
/r/askMRP12/02/19 08:17 PM
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Couples counseling is precipitated at the end of a relationship. It is a method of making somebody feel good about ending the relationship. AKA Marital Hospice. Hospice care is a type of care and philosophy of care that focuses on the palliation of a chronically ill, terminally ill or seriously ill patient's (relationship) pain and symptoms, and attending to their emotional and spiritual needs. No matter the intent, the flow is down the drain.
/r/askMRP09/02/19 09:27 PM
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Exactly - which is why I see men who try to ascribe it up to malicious intent as weak men who are looking to be victimized Describes almost every noob ever......
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 04:31 PM
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You're still paying attention to what she says. You let her judge you so much that you come here for validation. It takes two people to have an exchange. You can stop your side of the exchange at any time. Or keep it going until you no longer get something out of it. The problem is you. The solution is yours.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:59 AM
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Dump her ass twice.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:54 AM
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There once was a "Vampireissa" or something like that. Her faggy mate posted too. Super funny shit show.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:52 PM
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When a woman wants to show herself off, with you, in your presence, with your permission, what more could you ask for. Assuming you are secure in yourself, why not let her make herself happy? I just ain’t cool with dressing slutty in public. It's not your body, it's hers. She wants to have fun and enjoy the party, too bad you're so uptight. Worst case, she attracts another guy. Best case, she keeps you horny for the whole trip. If either of those are a problem for you, you got some work to do.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 09:47 PM
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You're proving my point.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 04:52 PM
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When someone important dies, it takes a while, sometimes months, to get over it. If you can't oak up that long, exit left. She might be "wrecked" because she's feeling guilt over distancing herself from now dead dad. Suddenly her mind can't let go of the fact that there is never ever going to be another chance at a reconciliation that a daughter would likely want. For this she will need time, if you don't want to do the time, exit right. There's an old saying that you get out (of) things what yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:57 PM
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Worst advice I've seen here in while. There's always some Rambo trying teach someone how to shoot himself in the dick. Aim low Rambo.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:47 PM
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a mod so you can see how many there really are Thank you. Thanks to all the mods. "Great Job!" How often do you guys hear that?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 02:56 PM
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YES We are unique assholes. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 02:37 AM
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We all are supposed to leave eventually. Best
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 01:45 PM
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I agree, but in my state, the financial results are not going to vary much. No fault, equitable distribution rules don't leave a lot of room, unless you can get your STBX to give something away, and get a judge to approve it. In that vein, having the moral high ground of the "poor offended husband, and the cheating wife" could play well for getting a quick settlement. That could even play to a slightly better financial settlement for me. My kids are grown, but if they weren't, I could make a cas…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 07:25 PM
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Nope, swift and bloody for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 03:51 PM
2

More like buying more garbage.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 03:50 PM
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Yes, so many men come here with all kinds of "reasons" to make their shit show work. Usually it's "for the children". Strange to me the number of grow ass men that have their lives being dictated to them not only by a shitty wife, but their bratty children too. Once you give your power away, it runs deep and wide.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/19 08:33 PM
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You are still knee deep in the dreaded "getting divorced mentality" as noted by your statement: though she is trying to blame me for the divorce which I am amused by That you even care enough to mention this is a big blue flag. Keep dating, and avoid LTR's until you get past this bullshit thinking.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 12:22 AM
1

At same time would be interesting....
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 12:12 AM
1

Pulse and blood pressure isn't so bad. What I hate is when my hamster spends the night spinning my wheel. :)
/r/askMRP29/01/19 02:15 PM
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If you had listened to her before, you wouldn't have to get another car. That should answer your question. So far, you are the problem and you solve problems that don't exist. Are you retarded, a control freak, or just one of those that steps over dollars to pick up dimes?
/r/askMRP28/01/19 05:20 AM
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In the event of a mid-marriage emergency, put the oxygen mask on yourself first.....
/r/askMRP24/01/19 11:31 PM
2

I'ma disappointed. Is that all the downvotes you Rambo retards have?
/r/askMRP24/01/19 11:29 PM
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its 6 month affair, not just a drunken mistake, she probably would have left me if the other guy would have left his wife. Quit thinking about her, what does the above quote say about you? Anybody can fuck around on anybody else. What can you learn about yourself here and stop focusing on her. If you spend your life reacting to the actions of others, then you have no agency and you might deserve to be cheated on. Change your focus from outer (her) to inner (you) then your path might become clear…
/r/askMRP24/01/19 07:07 PM
2

Ouch....Then he shoots his off.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:58 PM
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my anxiety, I Care, My self-confidence, I don't hate..... Great examples of changes to your "point of origin". Now keep it full throttle and don't look back.
/r/askMRP24/01/19 06:53 PM
2

Only four months in, at least you quit beating your head up against the wall. Progress is progress, right?
/r/askMRP24/01/19 04:32 AM
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You made the right decision. Don't ask me how I know.
/r/askMRP23/01/19 10:00 PM
2

Bravo! You packed a lot in that little paragraph. Not just a great view of Persaeus's story, but, more importantly, the difference between an increasingly blue pill PUA pussy chaser, and, the growth of intimacy that comes with inner growth.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 04:46 AM
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but they hate it when I throw them.... :)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 03:27 PM
2

Martial arts will yield similar results. If your aggression level is high like mine, it's more fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 03:05 PM
1

Tips and tricks day is every other Thursday...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 03:01 PM
1

Roosh actually started to go down the same path. Sadly, every single time a monosphere writer monetizes his game, it blues out, then fades out. I think it's a new rule now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/19 03:36 PM
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While I cannot agree with you that Rollo is a snowflake, I completely agree to only focus on my wheelhouse, and give less fucks about the rest of the retards in this world. +1 While it is important to understand the trends around us, it doesn't define us. IMO your downvoters are the retards.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/19 03:09 PM
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After serious consideration and debate I made a conscious decision that has brought some clarity and peace to myself. If you do this again, you might find yourself your frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 05:17 AM
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winner
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 05:11 AM
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In other news, Rambo blew his dick off today.....
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 05:09 AM
3

I'm mad as hell, and I'll fuck them up first. On a softer note..... Rage Rules.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 02:25 AM
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If you think 40-46 Is a problem, think about 60-66. No way.....
/r/askMRP05/01/19 03:05 PM
1

What he said..
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 05:12 AM
3

In other news.... PUA is not Red Pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 04:46 PM
1

Standard MRP, allow at least 1-2 months for recovery for every year of betadom. It is a painful process. Do you really think he has enough years left to achieve any level of red pill behaviors? Are you going to make your parents life better? Are you certain?? If you break it son, you own it.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 11:54 PM
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You could break him. If you break him, will you take care of him and your mom for the rest of their lives? Or manage the arrangements for a demise at your (indirect) hand? Butt the fuck out. He is the dad, not you. Try to respect his ignorance, as he respected yours growing up.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 11:49 PM
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u/bluepillprofessor has many stories of blue pill to red pill awakenings ending with man suicides out.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 11:44 PM
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With hard work, you will.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 04:03 PM
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It's a long trip from validation seeking man-whore, to a man centered on his own mission. There is no doubt from your words, that you have much farther to go than you realize. Once you move from asking for help here, and blindly accepting the good, and bad, advice of others here,....to digging it out on your own, and, posting your progress, or lack thereof, on the "Own Your Shit" plan....then and only then; do you have a snowballs chance in hell of becoming the man that will stop your personal r…
/r/askMRP29/12/18 03:57 AM
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Even her brother or daddy would not put up with her. She just wants it all, expects it, and gets it all, AWALT. Stupid men that provide, AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:25 PM
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over 30 different women per year for three years. Unbelievable. I've known some validation seeking man-whores that had no problem doing this. It's not a credit to his manhood, just his PUA game. PUA and telemarketing have a lot in common......numbers, script and effort. Edit: I'ma validation seeking man-whore.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 08:18 PM
1

It's also worth noting that your time frame is not same as the smart money.....
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 03:58 PM
1

am I missing something from a mindset or point of origin POV? Yes, and you know it, or you would not have presented it. You are 50 and 3-8 yrs from possible retire. You have an admitted 10% chance of total loss of $200k from your $2 mil pile. The chance of total loss is not known, it is an estimate, and it is probably higher than that. The chances of gain as the same made up nonsense. You have presented only one fact: you can sell your shares NOW, in a limited time window, and take a tax deferre…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 03:38 AM
1

Leading those "head strong" sisters, dictator style, is a battle worth winning, for everyone involved. Prepare yourself in order to win. Review the Laws of Power. Make compromises costly for them. Yes, I have been through this, and my greatest regret was not being as forceful as I am capable. Pulling punches will hurt everyone. Make them all own their shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 03:44 PM
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Man, the family dynamic here is an extra large size can of worms. That being said, someone has to take the lead. Taking the lead may not make you any happier, but at least you have a chance of surviving it. Caretakers often die before the one's they are taking care of do. Depression and health problems are rampant among those that take on, or get handed the task of elder care. Your SIL is hurting and your wife thinks that she can survive 1/2 time hell. The other family members seem be in the env…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 01:08 AM
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It has been a long time coming for me, but I’m finally beginning to believe I CAN be a prize. Finally. Catch up, you're wasting your time.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 02:44 PM
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coming to the conclusion that a shot of direct-demonstrated dread is required every once in awhile to keep it from getting stale. not going to lie, i find it sort of depressing that i have to figuratively smack her over the head with...... agree, I call it holding her feet to the fire. Direct in her face interest from other women is, required. my fantasy of just being my awesome self and living happily ever after is dying a slow death. again, agree. The only reason that death is slow, is all the…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 08:49 PM
1

You haven't read much here, have you? You haven't read much here, have you?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 02:37 PM
1

Once you fail yourself in the self-care department, everything else goes south. You already know that, and you've started correcting. Now execute like your life depends on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/18 05:24 AM
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I told her if she wants out, the door is right there , and I meant it There is a unique relief, lightness and release that follows that moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 02:48 PM
1

Go one step further: You are not hers, it is only her turn.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 02:42 PM
1

The wild card is if she turns into a vengeance devil - which, while always possible, I assess as unlikely. Really? Based on what? If you are that delusional on this, maybe you should take a breath before you light the fuse.
/r/askMRP03/12/18 05:45 PM
2

The stay plan and go plan are the same, but you think they are different paths. They are the same path. Following a new path you cannot know the distance, and, you certainly cannot know how long it will take to get there. You will know when you get there, on your path. Even if you are already there, you have to come to know it, no matter how long that takes.
/r/askMRP02/12/18 09:10 PM
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Your tail is wagging the dog. Your tail will just get tired. You are wasting valuable time. If you only had 5 years to live, what would you do now? More importantly, why?
/r/askMRP01/12/18 02:55 AM
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He's the elephant with a little tether chain on his leg, that holds him captive.
/r/askMRP29/11/18 10:35 PM
2

bottomless rabbit hole
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/18 03:27 PM
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What are you fucking up? Let's see....... She's might stop screwing you. (Laugh, that's funny) She might start screwing you, since you weren't getting results with your prior behavior. You could hit the jackpot, and she divorces you. What are you worried about????????
/r/askMRP28/11/18 05:00 AM
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Maybe this will help..... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yWcEhtg7W3s
/r/askMRP24/11/18 01:57 AM
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Never bedded a woman that did not believe she was at her peak. Solipsism.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/18 01:54 AM
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K
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 10:04 PM
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I think you're on the wrong sub. This isn't u/deadbedrooms .........
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 04:29 AM
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because I'm fucking awesome No need for you to post on OYS. Serious answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 01:39 AM
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Anger is the active form of grief. Like forgiveness, losing anger benefits you more than the objects of your anger, or, the objects of your forgiveness.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 11:40 PM
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He was never hers, it was just her turn.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/18 08:36 PM
1

Too much beta works, until it doesn't. When it quits working, you will not understand it, because it's working now. Then you will do more beta, thinking it will improve, because it worked before, and, it will get worse. If you weren't such a lazy fuck, you would read the stories of all the men that came here before you, and, you would already know this.
/r/askMRP19/11/18 04:18 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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