francis_sandow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
56	Once a Widow, always a Widow.		francis_sandow	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/16 05:36 PM
54	BP actions can destroy any goal. ANY goal.	Field Report	francis_sandow	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 06:53 AM
27	Burst the Bubble. Don't be a media statistic.	Meta	francis_sandow	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/16 12:33 AM

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26	[Red Pill Theory] A perspective on the nice guys and jerks. (I'm a bro) I see where you're coming from with your post, but I think that experience around LOTS of women will change your philosophy. Through career and chance, I've been around tons of women at work and with side interests. What I've found is that 'bad boys' and 'nice guys' can slay pussy like a porn star. Nerds and jocks can slay pussy like a porn star. Selfish bastards and altruistic saints can slay pussy like porn stars. Confident men and insecure wimps can slay pussy like porn stars. Under no circum…	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 08:39 PM
8	A little help How about "make a decision and own the consequences." How is that for advice? I've seen a few threads pop up where someone wants advice, trying to figure out what the "red pill answer" is, and to this subs credit, most of the advice they receive is solid common sense along with general life-improving suggestions. But I don't think that's what you need. You make it very clear from what you've written that you already know what to do, and even the guys you work with are telling you what your brain…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/17 07:59 AM
1	Fat? You either lazy, a liar, or mentally weak. (Unless you can show me the sonogram of a 40 pound tumor.) I come to trp for motivation. Are you sure? Because OP is trying to motivate people who are in danger of becoming stagnant, bloated slobs. He's motivating people by telling them their actions and willpower have a direct influence on their wellbeing. Their strength of character can change their life. Basic TRP mantra. You seem to want to motivate waddling butterslugs by telling them weight loss is a psychological process, and no two people are going to be equal like that, and hormones are importa…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/17 05:05 AM
1	Fat? You either lazy, a liar, or mentally weak. (Unless you can show me the sonogram of a 40 pound tumor.) From the comments to the review you sited: First off, I almost spit coffee on my monitored when Lyle summarised with “Put bluntly, the people who started the diet half-assed, ended up doing the diet all-assed” a sentiment i’m sure the researches wished they could to portray a bit more antagonistically. and from the admin on the board There is also the water issue which clouds this massively since it has no caloric value but can easily mask true fat loss and make it look like a thermodynamic mira…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/17 04:25 AM
12	Fat? You either lazy, a liar, or mentally weak. (Unless you can show me the sonogram of a 40 pound tumor.) Morbidly obese people will tend to stay morbidly obese even on a calorically reduced diet. C'mon, you know better than that.	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/17 10:13 PM
12	The mission: do NOT get a number. Get a fuck or get the fuck out. While most replies you're getting are just drivel, I'd like to highlight one thing in your post which deserves to be read by everyone: Shut your phone off. This is for two reasons. The first reason is that you don’t want to be whipping it out just because you’re bored or nervous. You’re out to socialize, not to stare at a screen. This is critically important, and yet it's surprising how many people forget this. I hate phones in general, so it wasn't too much of an issue for me to break the habit…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/17 05:33 PM
23	Oneitis rejected you and it hurts? Read on. Normally I don't think that a subreddit would be greatly improved by adding age-verification before posting, but damn if your post isn't making me reconsider. I'm just so glad that I'm keeping up a positive and strong image in front of her. I don't want to let her think that she has affected me. Whoever gets her will either be one of the luckiest men in the world or one of the unluckiest men. This feeling I have for her right now. I want her to be in the same room. I just want to feel her presen…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/17 06:00 PM
5	Tell Us Your Sacrifice And Pain Definitely read the sidebar and browse the threads. I don't think you'll find a lot of threads about post-RP pain and suffering for a woman for a number of reasons: First, woman aren't worth it. Women aren't worth pain and suffering at all. Getting a woman to clean for you, cook for you, and not treat you like shit is baseline behavior. If you're in a relationship with any woman, no matter how casual, these should be the minimum expected behaviors. That isn't boasting or bragging, just common se…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/17 05:50 PM
2	Using the blue pill as a way to get out of a relationship I have to keep checking the name of the subreddit to make sure that I didn't accidentally stumble onto another board. I understand what you're doing with this post. I think you're showing how someone can use blue pill behaviors to further his own ends. But there is nothing that can be done the 'blue pill way' that couldn't be achieved more easily and successfully the 'red pill way' I mean, the whole goal you had was to have her break up with you, without breaking your lease or losing out on time…	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/17 10:26 PM
2	Using the blue pill as a way to get out of a relationship A man's power has nothing to do with women. It isn't dependent on her, regulated by her or (God knows) something that comes from her. Get your life in order, lift and make something of yourself. Women are a byproduct.	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/17 10:17 PM
3	Using the blue pill as a way to get out of a relationship I believe the story. The TLDR is he burned time that could have been used in improving himself in order to spare the feelings of a fat BPD woman. There is so much wrong with this post I don't even know where to start. I'd recommend OP lurk more if that advice didn't just come off as trite.	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/17 10:15 PM
1	My preferred pronoun is 'Master' I really do think the ignore approach is the most appropriate. There is no winning arguments like this. Some people have posted here that they love torquing SJWs in knots of nonsense, or love seeing them cry. The bottom line is that the second you engage in a debate about pronouns, you loose. I see it like debating which feminine products to use. Women will say soft gentle earth-friendly cotton is the best, SJWs say the environmentally friendly 'cup' is the only thing to use. People who enjoy ri…	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/16 07:31 PM
13	Speaking to women is speaking to your dog. Speaking to men is briefing the president. I'll be damned, a wall of text that was worth reading through twice. Well done! You've phrased the difference in communication patterns better than I could, and I'm a damn good writer. I've recently added a few stock phrases to my vocabulary that saves me a low grade headache when talking with women. It goes like this: Woman: " Random thought random observation, generic babble, half-finished thought, incomplete sentence... And that's how I see it. How about you?" Me: (while making strong eye con…	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/16 11:30 PM
9	"I'm a Feminist, but I Like When He Comes on My Face" If you love her and want to be her captain in life, get her in therapy How about "if you want to be the Captain of your own life, don't get shackled to a woman that needs therapy in the first place." I'm not trying to be sarcastic. You're suggesting that the woman listen to the advice of someone else so she can understand how to get her shit together... so she can be good LTR material. What horrible reason could justify planning to marry (don't get married) a woman who is a mental mess (all of t…	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 05:55 PM
17	"I'm a Feminist, but I Like When He Comes on My Face" have left me with this insecurity to clean up. I don't want to derail OPs thread to address this because his post is a good, quick read. But you're not saying that you're obligated to fix that girl's mess, are you? Fuck her, pump her and keep her spinning. It sounds like you stumbled across a broken women (and the landscape is littered with millions of them), who isn't worth your time or effort. There's just no way that she can be that special.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 05:48 PM
12	You didn't win, Trump did I'm glad you posted this because it's a message worth repeating. If you're serious about self improvement, who is occupying the Oval Office is irrelevant. Women are crushed that Hillary didn't get the job. Woman are shaken to the core that seeing the first woman President take the Oath of Office won't happen for at least four years. Women are mentally shutting down because of the results of the election. And that's because they're women. Their world is determined by the success and failures of o…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/16 04:53 PM
1	Yep. AWALT no matter what you do. I'm not going to dump on you too much because even though your relationship path wasn't as decisive as it could have been, you ultimately made the right decision and are seeing it with more clarity than before. Not perfect clarity, but more clarity. For example: Just a really sweet girl It was having a person treat her right for once that let her give herself to me completely. She didn't give herself to you completely, she gave herself to the next guy. She's a really sweet girl who will go from …	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/16 10:42 PM
2	The Real Another great article that I'll be thinking about for the rest of the week. I'd like to see you expand on: One of the reason why modern society is comparatively peaceful compared to antiquity, is that the natural male predilection for violence has been harnessed or subdued by the state. Violence is dangerous and male, so both must be discouraged by the state unless they serve the state. I'm in the States, and there's an overabundance of state approved aggression and worship. There's nothing more…	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/16 04:04 PM
1	Burst the Bubble. Don't be a media statistic. The drawback about dismissing the media because its so purile and shallow, is that there is a genuine need to be informed about the world. Political news aside, knowing about developments in other countries as well as scientific discoveries is a vital part of the human experience. It shouldn't be so difficult to get quality information, but anything worth getting isn't easy either.	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/16 05:27 AM
1	Burst the Bubble. Don't be a media statistic. I agree with you completely. As much as NPR is labeled as 'liberal media', they are actually pretty good. The problem I have with them is that the range of issues that they cover can be very narrow. I'm sure it for a lack of funding more than anything. Their Washington reporting is good but you can almost tell when a program director says "We're losing the audience, time to cut to another obituary about an obscure jazz player..." If anyone does have reputable independent sources for news, I woul…	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/16 05:23 AM
1	Depressed because of lack of results for long time Have you thought about using hookers? You'll quickly realize that having a woman around does nothing to cure 'loneliness'. Being comfortable with your own company cures loneliness. Women can only relieve surplus semen. I'm serious about looking for escorts though. You'll get more comfortable around women and they can get your mind focused back where it should be; yourself.	/r/askTRP	25/09/16 01:39 AM
1	Anyone feel like TRP has ruined them? Are you actually listening to what you're saying? Red Pill or not, what would your advice be to a friend who said to you: "She started freaking out because she knew she would have to get out of her current relationship." "she really needed to end her relationship anyway as it was already basically non-existent but, afterwards, she wouldn't be able to just jump right into it with me." "fear that if I stop giving her attention, she will just start fucking someone else." "I always end up at her pla…	/r/askTRP	22/09/16 04:20 PM
3	The Reason Men Are Unhappy With Women Today Is That We Expect of Them Things That They Can't Fulfill. I see where you are coming from, but I think this line of reasoning starts falling apart when put on a practical level. Balance is good, but when talking about masculine and feminine attributes then large differences are more desirable. What do you find attractive about women? Is it their lack of an Adam's apple or large tits? What do you like about being a man? It it the ability to grow ear hair or is it found in developing shirt-shredding biceps? Ear hair and Adam's apples are less extreme dif…	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/16 04:58 PM
3	BP actions can destroy any goal. ANY goal. When you are sharing an experience or activity. This can be either a good or bad experience, but mainly something that has brought you together through no actions of your own. For example. If you're stuck at an airport because your flight has been delayed 5 hours, you might chat up another passenger who is in the same mess as you. The two of you can laugh and groan about how bad the airline is or how much is sucks to waste a day in an airport while carrying around luggage. For the most part, thi…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/16 04:08 PM
3	BP actions can destroy any goal. ANY goal. I'm very glad to hear you got something out of my post. I didn't want to make the post specifically about sexual strategy, but thought this example was worth pointing out because of how often I've seen it tried and subsequently failed. It seems obvious at first that by highlighting the fact you do oral well would be a turn on for a woman. Oral feels good, previous partners might have hated it or not done it well on your target, so putting all this together means she should be interested, right? …	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 05:33 PM
2	Once a Widow, always a Widow. I'm literally reading your response for the fifth time to make the information stick. You've really hit on a vital truth. I value people who I have shared struggles and hard times with. Women can easily see struggles as weaknesses which undermine a masculine image. I'm not phrasing it as well as you did, but the truth is there. A guy can lose a leg in combat and men will view him as a hero. Women will view him as broken.	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/16 08:43 PM
26	Once a Widow, always a Widow. Way before I found TRP (dammit, why didn't they teach this stuff in HS?) I was with a woman who openly admitted that her 'one true love' was some guy who she knew for two weeks in college. She would bring it up every now and then to show that she was a sensitive spirit who could recognize magical connections with others, or was in tune with the forces of fate and destiny that shape our lives. Whatever. What I understand now is that her emotions were so strongly tied to her 'tingles', that she ac…	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/16 07:31 PM
13	A long term solution to the clothing-imposed SMV problem I can't tell you how glad I am your posted this in response to the swagger-jacking suggestion. I read the post, generally agreed with it, but didn't think it belonged here. The advice was generally good, but nothing like the ponder-over-the-day articles that I come to TRP for. I think the 'shortcut' mentality is what separates this forum from others. When we are taking steps to improve our lives, some ways are more efficient than others, but the actions which are most helpful aren't shortcuts. T…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/15 08:17 PM
1	EvE Online: Red Pill evidence? I agree. While there may be some value in this one, there a dozens of other subreddits that would be more appropriate for the subject. Just because you can discuss Netflix at the gym doesn't mean you should. Let's stay focused in our workspace.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/15 02:30 AM
17	Guy rejects woman because of her weight in the nicest way possible, gets socially eviscerated by hamsters and white knights. This has to be fake. There are just too many warning signs that indicate this event never happened. The woman writes articles about body acceptance, and has a blog where she discusses society's hatred/shaming of fat people. The article about this message she supposedly received from a bad date appears in The Mirror and Huffington post. Not exactly paragons of journalistic integrity. Also, the language of the guys "letter" is completely feminine in tone. If you read the letter and her response, y…	/r/TheRedPill	08/07/15 04:21 PM
2	The world's biggest & proudest White Knight: "Men are the primary agents and sustainers of rape culture." I'm glad you clarified that part because this was the one issue that I had with your post. Stepping in is a, normally, a white knight move. I look at it this way: If there are two guys fighting, would you step in to break it up? Two men fighting usually ends with one getting his ass beat and the other walking away. It's short, violent and ends with something being resolved. If a guy is beating on a woman, there's a whole other level of things going on and none of them are going to be helped by c…	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/15 03:43 PM
4	/rant/ Caught a glimpse of my beta reflection in the mirror of my last ltr. Texting as a method of communication is pitiful at best, but it does a phenomenal job of keeping an accurate record of your conversations. If anything, this is what will give you an clear reflection of who you were in the past. Think about it as a benchmark to measure your progress as you improve. Keep this text with your ex. I'd imagine that in 6 months you'll look over the whole thing and shudder. You've probably unintentionally captured tons of personality traits to work on.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/15 05:47 AM
10	Prepare for sabotage attempts & how to keep this sub up and running by reddit's new bullshit policy. THIS is why I love TRP so much. Everything can be improved, and it's the individual's responsibility to initiate the improvement.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/15 07:52 PM
1	Discussing the horror movie "It Follows" when I get my rp thoughts manifested into words by a redditor. OP beat me to the punch. I was going to put up a long post breaking down this movie but never got around to it. I've been a long time lurker to this board but didn't want to put up a huge chapter after only having an account for a few months. This movie is almost a must see for anyone who wants a theatrical example of RP philosophies in action. I'll put up a longer post if anyone is interested but the main takeaways are: SPOILERS Blond HB8 explains to her orbiter why she had sex with bad-boy alp…	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/15 05:41 PM
1	Being in control question. Look for fit girls. Most women don't comprehend that alcohol=calories. Thin women may drink, but I can guarantee you they don't drink as much as thick women.	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/15 03:43 PM
6	FR: Married Guy and The Family Vacation to Disney Some women will feel like you're disregarding their opinion and others will be thrilled you are taking the lead. BOTH types of women will give you a shit test about it. Even the 'indecisive' type who is relieved not to be making any decisions will make you prove your ability to take command. From my experience of using RP tools over the past few years of lurking, BOTH types of women will enjoy the man taking charge at the end. The amount of dust they kick up before they reach this point differs …	/r/TheRedPill	27/05/15 04:37 PM
45	This sub has changed my life, literally So true, and yet so damn pathetic at the same time. Was involved in a theater production last year. Cast consisted of fit coed dancers and pudgy "theater types". My role had me lifting and carrying some of the dancers for all of two steps during one scene. Every girl I carried for this herculean feat, EVERY one got the tingles and said how strong I was. Could only shake my head to realize how pathetically easy it is to get women interested. The pudgy guys could spout Shakespeare at them all day …	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/15 05:58 PM
11	Insatiable desire for sexual variety: one of the hardest drugs to give up I agree. Sex is great, sex with many hot women is even more intense an experience. I've had twisted, depraved sex with more women post RP than my pre RP self would have ever imagined. But the thing is, I'm not sexually successful because I made it the ultimate priority of my life. Self improvement is my priority. I've turned down trysts because they interfered with more important things in my life, and each time I've never regretted it. Like it or not, there are only so many hours in the day, an…	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/15 04:28 PM
18	TRP has shattered my world and made me realise what a sexually grovelling beta I've become. Uncoordinated rant. Absolutely. Don't even bother with dread on this one. Throw her shit on the curb and change the locks. I'm not kidding.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/15 04:38 PM
5	TRP has shattered my world and made me realise what a sexually grovelling beta I've become. Uncoordinated rant. Look, it doesn't matter if you posted this in TRP or relationshipadvice or whatever, the response from every rational human being who reads your post is going to be the same: burn the bridge with that bitch and never look back. There are so many red flags and warning signs I thought your post was written by a traffic cop arresting the Soviet May Day parade.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/15 04:36 PM
3	"I hope you find someone who loves you one day" and why it's important to stay on top of your appearance Implying realistic, therefore logical. Sure, it's not realistic to think that every woman is going to be attracted to you but I'm finding that the reverse is closer to the mark than I'd ever thought possible. I work out, don't look like an Adonis by any stretch of the imagination but I'm healthy. It helps being American because I just need to be 5 pounds lighter than the next guy and I start getting looks. Here's what I've found: A good smile, cool (borderline aloof) demeanor and dressing sharpl…	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/15 05:17 PM
2	Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything). Another benefit of this sort of relationship is that it reminds you not to rely on your woman for anything that has to do with responsibility. I had a gf who baby-talked all the time. It was sort of fun and a turn on in bed when she called me daddy, etc. But when 'life stuff' happened I knew not to turn to her for anything important. Turn to bros for help, turn to more experienced people for advice, turn to alphas for a reality check. But for the woman who is baby-talking and cooing while she sh…	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/15 05:02 PM
4	Adult women who baby-talk: experiences, theories, cautions, and what do to about it (if anything). I understand where you're coming from, I really do. But keep in mind that is a LOT of work for pussy. It can easily become a full time job. Although there are obvious benefits to that sort of scenario, I can't imagine it's worth it. Think about it this way. If you're spending 3 hours a day doing cuddling and other emotionally supportive actions, what's the difference between that and being with a woman who needs 3 hours of confidence building, ego supporting, relationship reassuring work? The en…	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/15 04:56 PM
58	Listening to the girl (approximately 24) across from me at work confirm what we already know. I didn't think it was possible to actually hear a woman dry up over the internet, but your post proved me wrong. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/15 04:52 PM
8	Your Blue Pill Friends Will Turn On You My girl and I do our own thing as well, much like you described. I'm in charge, she happily follows along and everything is working the way it should. But as far as being more lonely the more successful you get, do you think that applies to all relationships or just BP ones? I'll tell on myself. When I was BP I turned on my friends and sold them out just to uphold the dignity of the pussy. It makes me sick just thinking about it and fuck, it makes me feel like shit. But I did it time and time ag…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 09:47 PM
14	(FR) Don't be ashamed of wanting sex No question that all black women, in America at least, are incredibly sensitive about their hair. It makes for a natural pressure point in a conversation and can be used to great advantage like the OP did here. This almost goes without saying, but breast size makes for a natural area to put your woman off balance. If shes small chested, admire another woman's more ample breasts. If she has incredible cleavage, mention you've always gone for the lean,trim shape. She will do everything including s…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 09:01 PM
1	The Bluebit: there and back again I'm agreeing with your tone. The guys a man, he needs a man's feedback. If he wanted to get sympathy and tender support for the situation he went through, he wouldn't have posted here in the first place. I'm thankful he did post, and put in all the backsliding detail as well. He clearly shows that when that unicorn comes along, it's not the exception to the red pill rule. The second that he started to do everything he'd been told was the 'right thing to do' to keep a woman happy in a relationshi…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 07:18 PM
8	Men Just Don't Trust Women -- And It's A Huge Problem [HuffPo male hamster comes close to RP truth] Worst thing is driving. I'll be on the freeway (CA traffic, usual bad driver crap all around) and she'll take a sudden intake of breath. I immediately go to high alert and it will turn out to be something like a puppy in the next car caught her eye or something printed on a billboard. Had to instruct her that unless she sees we're about to get in an accident, and THERE'S SOMETHING I CAN DO TO AVOID IT, she needs to keep her mouth shut.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 07:06 PM