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Arguably those women who were "surrendered" already had this knowledge. But you're right, there are books for women. Another book on that line would be: Men are from Mars, Women from Venus.
/r/RedPillBooks24/10/21 05:13 PM
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there is none; the Red Pill is all about knowledge they already have.
/r/RedPillBooks17/10/21 07:41 PM
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You're in her frame. The definition of "friends" is not always clear cut. You don't need to have "we went to war and almost died together and now we're best buddies ever" kind of friends. Start meeting with people in social events such as Meetup, going to conferences, workshops. As long as you do it honestly, doing stuff that you like, they will be your friends.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:35 AM
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the more things change the more they stay the same
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:04 PM
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OP's probably 15 yrs old
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:59 PM
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They contradict with themselves, just look at Gina Carano. She's a popular, strong, and independent woman but none of the so-called feminists did or say anything to support her while being fired (cancelled?) from Star Wars. They all remained silent. That's double standards right there: they support women as long as women follow suit.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:58 PM
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I prefer the evolutionary view: historically since the beginning of time, men went to war and/or hunt and gather food, and women stayed home. Men would occasionally die during this process (war, hunting, fall of a cliff) and women would have to find a new male in order to not die. This male would possibly be the one who killed their male. To do this they need the moral detachment of what we call today the oldest job in the world. There is genetic evidence to support how this process worked. A bu…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:17 PM
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She's allowed to be creepy, you are not.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:42 PM
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It's on the side bar -->
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 04:29 PM
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I think it's evolution, back in the day of paleolitic if you lie you'd die of hunger or nature. That's why even today for some lies are a big deal. cooperation and team work was the only possible way to survive
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 04:28 PM
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The Red Pill is about honesty and truth, not lies or scheming
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 06:21 AM
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the extreme male is autism, saying what you mean and meaning what you say, contrary to females who do not say what they mean. This simple fact is the whole point, purpose and origin of The Red Pill (ie, the Michael story)
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 06:19 AM
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Mind control Telekinetic powers Make Objects Appear Out of Nowhere Make men three times her size tremble in fear Women don't (generally) value those things, and as such don't make plans accordingly. Its men who care about that.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 10:31 AM
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Lack of logic you mean
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:47 AM
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I don't drink alcohol, but I do drink alcohol free beer. Once at lunch, I pop one of my 0% alcohol-free beers from the fridge. This girl asks me how come I drink beer at lunch, I say it's 0% alcohol-free, and offer her one. She rejects my beer and says that she needs to go to work and can not drink alcohol at lunch during work hours. Forget facts, forget what happens in the real world. Some people are just totally disconnected of what happens in reality and in front of their eyes. They just live…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:38 AM
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The fact is men escalate and women don't. Cheaper escalation means more of it. She now has to randomly choose from 100's of guys a day instead of previously perhaps 1-10. A girl in online dating told me this. She was overloaded and confused by who to answer and who to ignore. She told me: if I answer you, I have to ignore someone else. What if he is better, how do I know who to talk to?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 09:19 AM
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My sister told me that when she gets divorced does not want to have a housewife resume. That's why she wants a professional career. Yet She is not yet married and does not have a stable boyfriend. But she's already planning to divorce. Maybe she wants to marry her current plate? Get free money and move on?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 10:38 PM
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The red pill has its origins in a bunch of guys trying to get laid. One of them nickname was Tyler Durden. He's Asperger
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 10:27 PM
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My issue was that after we started discussing marriage she was already making financial decisions on her own that were going to affect me. I thought that was completely wrong. [...] Anyway, my ex-wife sends me a photo of a text message where my ex-fiance tells her that I was just a means to an end. My ex GF, she did not care about anyone but herself. She wanted a family and I was her sperm supplier
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 03:24 AM
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AF BB.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:35 AM
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Shit test. Its likely they have their own internal circlejerk with prejudices from people and you in particular. They may be making fun of you without you realizing it.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:44 PM
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Yes, we agree on that. It's funny, I was just thinking about the reason why there are so few CEO women. They don't care about power in the workplace. And yes, the care about power in relationships, but only with beta and only women. You have to look the entire picture, not only betas. Yes, they make fun of beta guys and they love the attention and compliments and free stuff they get. It seems they want that power. But they don't. Because they don't have sex with betas, only alphas. With an alpha…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:22 AM
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Girls see these things as power play, so u gotta operate in that realm. That's where the problem is: it is not a power play. That's the thinking of a man, not a woman. Women have the emotional stability of a 12 year old girl. They crave feelings, not power. The answer is simple: 1. hold frame. 2. agree and amplify. With the Israeli girl I did both things: I said that I can handle her quite well, and that we know each other for 10 years, there are no secrets between us. Which is not true, because…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:07 AM
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Remember, it's all about the social dynamics: she probably wants to show off to her friends about her pussy pass: "look guys, I can misbehave without consequences and get away with my childish attitute, can you do the same?". she probably wants to test you how you behave in that situation: "can you deal with me and my friends?". There was this girl I met some time ago, she was from Israel, and she told me: "How will you live in Israel? you can't handle one Israeli, so 7 million...".
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:44 AM
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Where I live, in the big supermarket/mall place between 9am to 5pm, 90% of people are women, half of them hot.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:17 PM
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Women don;t want the same things as you. They want someone who can hold their feeling in line, so they won't have to. And when you show yourself as insecure and afraid, she stops being attracted. For me, in an LTR, it pisses me off to be the one who has to be emotionally stable, secure and show strength. Because men and women are the same, right? That's what feminists they want you to believe: it's not true. The last time I had a disagreement with my LTR she gave me shit in a moment that was sup…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:25 AM
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FRAME IS EVERYTHING. Why do you want to know, are you afraid?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:27 PM
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The book: Influence: The Psychology for Persuasion by Cialdini is one of the original PUA/TRP reading advice.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:21 AM
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those who answer yes many times in a row are more likely to say yes one more time. do you like chocolate? yes, do you think the president is an idiot? yes, I hate when people listen to loud music in public transport, yes yes yes, lets have sex, yes.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:19 AM
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it's the usual tautological thinking of: "no hookups with guys who I don't want to hookup with".
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:53 AM
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"Leaders must make tough calls, and I am fortunate to work with a team who trusts my judgement. We must never accept a risk that can instead be mitigated. Safety of the crew and execution of the mission come first." The central concept in Economics is the study of the opportunity cost: resources are scarce and for every choice you make, the cost of doing it is the cost of not doing the other things. This concept goes exactly in contrast to the abundance mentality that women and feminists have. T…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 10:29 AM
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My son has always needed to be pushed to achieve. One of the Big Five personality traits is Conscientiousness (efficient/organized vs. easy-going/careless). Tendency to be organized and dependable, show self-discipline, act dutifully, aim for achievement, and prefer planned rather than spontaneous behavior. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits I am low on conscientiousness, and as a kid I had to be pushed around by my parents. But I also have a lot of initiative and when I l…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:12 PM
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You have to adapt your game, but AWALT. I know this ultra-feminist pink hair girl that she's always talking how hot guys are, that guy is so hot and her girlfriend is not really that hot. They just want a free pass to have sex without taking responsibility.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:52 PM
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Now I'm in Argentina I'm sorry for your loss. I'm from Argentina.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:36 PM
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“functional programming”, They are the most bucket heads of all.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 02:40 PM
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Yes, well, my mother lives in her little own reality. My father was a stereotypical beta provider. This is the first Google search result for health children on young mothers: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3881604/ The best outcome is for the mother to have children at the age between 25 and 34, to reduce the likelihood of children with health problems. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10815-016-0663-y Older men have higher chances of having children with more diseases.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 07:36 AM
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Username checks out! Life promotes people to the level of incompetence.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:29 AM
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I know an Argentinian lesbian post-35 green-handkerchief girl who wants to have kids. She's driving her whole family crazy, to the point that family dinners are about weather and how wonderful the food tastes. And then she leaves the room and we can finally have a normal human conversation.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:23 AM
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how fragile male ego is I've seen this concept quoted a few times, specially on Facebook posts. I understand that this is a form of s*t test, probably a dominance or fitness test. Any idea where it comes from?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:17 AM
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My mother was born when my grandmother was 41. Thus, my mother argues that if her mother could have children at that time, then all and any women have the same possibilities. Also, there is no reason for women to start worrying about pregnancy while being below 40. My ex LTR wanted to have kids. We tried once, she did not get pregnant. Her sister, at the same age, had to try for one year and was about to go to in vitro fertilization until she got lucky. Women have no understanding of statistics …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:09 AM
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The thing that worked with my narcissist mother, by far, was to keep contact to minimum and stop giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:39 AM
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The hamstering that my mother and sister can do gets multiplied when they are together. They lie to my face with complete impunity. That attitude of twisting reality to save face and not accepting facts is disgusting. My dad is a blue pill beta bucks regarding women and made a lot of bad life choices. But I'd rather spend time living in his place than in my mother's.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 08:01 AM
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I spent a week with my mother. I don't wan't to go back there ever again.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 12:24 PM
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Leaders take initiative. Even if you always give the right frame-holding answer, as long as you give the answer only as a consequence of another guy shit-testing you, you'll never have the strongest frame. You have to take the game to the next level, and have the initiative to shit-test the other guy as a first strike. Otherwise, you will still be in the other guy's frame.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 10:11 AM
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Men here. First, I think it's great that you want to support your husband. It seems that you love him and you care for him. My ex was not like that. Please, continue with that approach. Having said that, your husband has a different measure of what "success" means compared to you. You are both talking about different things. He cares about money, you don't. And that's pretty clear because you say that you're doing great but then you had some credit card expenses and clients issues. And that's no…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 10:10 PM
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even better, have them train with you. That's a great idea. /u/SammyGomez you should TEACH them how to do what you do.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:42 PM
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Show, don't tell.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:20 PM
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Do they know this? Have they seen you in action? I'm not saying you become physically violent, but just the possibility of violence makes some people become more friendly. Not only because they are protecting themselves, but because they actually respect you more: your presence is a positive contribution to the group and they know they can count on you when bad things happens to them.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:50 PM
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I have a question for you: have you ever boxed? Do you think that people who do boxing enjoy when others punch them? The answer is YES. They enjoy being punched, and they enjoy it a lot. But when only one side is doing the punching is not fun anymore. "Man you need to go home and write some better comebacks." What you described sounds like banter / bantering. Don't confuse it with bullying, many people interpret it as friendship bonding, and you should too. banter: the playful and friendly excha…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:42 PM
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As a rule of thumb: in case of doubt always assume she's shit-testing you.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:10 PM
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Women don't understand statistics. My mother was born when my grandmother was 45, and thus was convinced that any women was able to naturally get pregnant like my grandmother. She did not understand what "probability" means, and she still doesn't. Then my mother, being the grown-up person she is, still complains about she being overweight, and asks every day "why is there people that eat all day and don't get fat? what do they do?". She believes that is it just a matter of wiliness, that all peo…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:58 PM
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but no relationship is ever 50/50. It's an engineering problem: you can't. That's why there's a number 0 in the casino roulette, to account for manufacturing biases. Betting on red or black does not have a 50% chance but a 48.6%.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 11:11 AM
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Respect is always given. The moment that you have to demand respect, you've lost respect, and there's nothing you can do about it. That game she's playing, sleeping in another room, means that she's looking for excitement; she wants to feel something strong in her life. She's probably cheating on you already, and sleeping in another bed is her Anti-Slut Defense mechanism (ASD). She will cheat on you but she won't cheat on herself. ​
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:55 AM
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Find a wing/mate/social circle that is in tune with your new lifestyle. People around you can get jealous, put you down, or simply keep treating you like before.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:32 PM
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Good job! You should become a Youtuber giving advice on how to pass shit tests by felines and such.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:44 PM
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In CS there are a lot of trampoline jobs that you take for a few months until you find something else. Move your ass. Find those trampoline jobs. Don't wait for things to happen by themeselves because it won't. Stop making excuses and don't make excuses to your interviewer. If you want to practice interviewing about computers, PM me.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:46 PM
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Everyone here's missing the point: your mother's shit testing you. You are in her frame. You find your passion by not being in her frame. For example: my passion is computers. Not only I have three university degrees in STEM, an amazing job, but I actually enjoy and have fun working with computers. It is my passion. When I was younger I was every day in front of the computer. And my mother would tell me, in sneaky and manipulative ways, to get out of the computer and do something else. And I alw…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:03 AM
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I can recommend some books about it: 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos, by Jordan B. Peterson The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, by John Gray The topic is, in general, taking responsibility for your own troubles and not trying to change other people. ​
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:57 AM
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Pook would say "Perfect is boring. Don't be boring". Have activities of your own, and the other person would want to be close to you. And that's actually one of the Tinder strategies: show pictures of you doing cool stuff, like cooking, sailing, flying, parachuting, diving, etc.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:11 PM
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Every strategy out there is a variation of the Mystery Method: you meet, you build rapport, you sexually escalate. You keep until you either manage to advance or meet a dead-end and next her. That's quite simple. There are not many books on game actually. Roosh-V are good ones. Please let me know if you know any. It sucks because, how do you learn game? IDK The problem with learning game from books is that it makes you look like a robot. And the whole "being a robot" concept is as old as PUA its…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:34 PM
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I've realized that, in order to talk to girls, I need a purpose. Cold approaching is fucking difficult. What I say in the original post happened in a museum. After that, I was pushing to talk to girls randomly. In the museum, There was a trivia/game to get a prize, and some questions had to be answered in a sheet of paper. There was this russian girl and I said excuse me and without any hesitation I start talking about one of the questions. I usually have a deep strong voice, and the russian gir…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:58 PM
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Hey, thanks for your comment. Do you have any concrete answer about my two questions?
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:33 PM
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Dont drink.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:52 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPT5dFHK3wo ​
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:10 PM
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spez has been asked many times about why The_Donald has not been banned, and his answer was always along the lines of: Generally the mods of the_donald have been cooperative when we approach them with systematic abuses. Typically we ban entire communities only when the mods are uncooperative or the entire premise of the community is in violation of our policies. Check out his latest AMA.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 06:38 PM
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He was asked about when will T_D be banned. His answer: http://archive.is/FIVCO Generally the mods of the_donald have been cooperative when we approach them with systematic abuses. Typically we ban entire communities only when the mods are uncooperative or the entire premise of the community is in violation of our policies. In the past we have removed mods of the_donald that refuse to work with us. Other answer: As long as the mods of that community continue to cooperate with us in enforcing our…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 11:32 PM
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Because otherwise they'd have to take responsibility for their actions. It also boosts their ego when some dude hits on her. I know at least two girls, whom I banged many years ago, that like to silently make fun of beta Nice Guys. The first one confessed me that when she was feeling down she'd go to the Facebook profile of a mutual friend, who is a great beta loser, to have some fun reading what he writes in his profile. The second girl has an instagram profile where she posts conversations of …
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:29 PM
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men going their own way: men without woman. It's all about women.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 08:24 PM
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My previous LTR never did this to me. I don't know what you mean by unicorn, but this girl is kind of one to me. She almost never shit tests me, but she has this childish behavior from time to time. When she does that, I'd just make fun of her saying "ohh someone needs attention! come over here".
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:57 AM
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She was upset, that's not conscious. And yes, I have autism. As a kid I've never been able to pick up the social cues. For three years now, TRP has been a gold mine of social knowledge to me.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:32 AM
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It's called banter / bantering, some people confuse it with bullying, others interpret it as friendship bonding.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 11:05 PM
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You're not making any sense. Please, try to provide some value to the conversation, you're just behaving like a cynical millenial.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:42 PM
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We went to one of the largest cities in Europe. Public transport works like clockwork and there are a lot of activities to do without doing any complex planing. I'm not building a rocket here, I was on vacations trying to relax.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:52 PM
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She's afraid of her future. She's probably subconciously testing my frame to see if I can deal with shit.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:49 PM
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She's not LTR material btw. I agree with what you said above, my only excuse is that I've been more stressed than usual regarding my work and I was expecting some nice time without having to care about shit. I was wrong. My real question is what you just described: should I keep tolerating this childish behaviour for an LTR?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:33 PM
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If you're on vacation in an unfamiliar place then plan ahead. Plan out the route before you even leave the hotel. That's just silly to me, I never do that on my own. Your advice just seems an after-the-fact comment to me.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:52 PM
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This best describes what happened. I just wanted to scratch my balls and she wanted to do museum crawl.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:46 PM
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You're right, my mistake, I screwed things up. I got comfortable into thinking that we could go on vacations together and it will all be just fine. She's afraid and I didn't handle that correctly. Instead of showing her that she can be safe with me, I show her that she can't trust me. She usually throws tantrums like that and I'd just talk my way out of it, making fun of her, or just ignoring that until it's gone.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:23 PM
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One year. It was my mistake to assume that after all this time we could go on a trip together and everything will just be fine.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:20 PM
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This is probably what's pissing me off.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:19 PM
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We’re all here because we bet on the wrong horse Can you elaborate what you mean by that?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 02:27 PM
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I try not no enter to /r/asktrp because is like asking for a price of an expensive car: if you have to ask, you can't afford it. And I think it's actually one of the rules of /r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:29 PM
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Rule #1 of The Red Pill: FRAME IS EVERYTHING.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:21 PM
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My GF is quite smart with a PHD and a job in a large tech company, and when she's not in the mood she behaves like a 12 year old throwing a tantrum out of a whim. It's funny how she can twist fact and reality just because she's smart.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:20 PM
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But he's not talking about men, he's talking about girls. It doesn't make it less annoying. You're just creating a strawman here.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:16 PM
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It's a shit test, like everything else. Keep up doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:36 AM
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This is a corollary of the Briffalut's law. A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male (which is not bloody likely).
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:22 PM
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cognitive dissonance If not dealt properly, cognitive dissonance can screw people over. Because the natural tendency of people is to make up some ideas to hold both true at the same time. For example, thinking that she's a victim of society and she's not responsible for her actions. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance In A Theory of Cognitive Dissonance (1957), Leon Festinger proposed that human beings strive for internal psychological consistency in order to mentally function in …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 02:43 PM
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You have two contradicting ideas colliding inside your head. On one side you still "love" her, and on the other you see that she's no good to you. That contradicting feeling is awesome, it means that you are opening your eyes.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:16 AM
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I can’t date ugly or fat girls. Nobody can. Not guys, not girls. The thing is that the definition of "ugly" is very much different between the two. Good experience, it was great that you went through it.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:47 PM
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How do you write women so well?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 06:58 PM
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Social value is about experience. That's why Justin Beaver fans will go to a concert to listen the guy sing, even tough they already have all his songs in their cellphone/music player/youtube/etc.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:30 AM
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Your happiness was not real. Welcome to the real world, Neo.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:21 AM
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Just by reading the title my first reaction was: "yes, you are". After reading the body of text: "yes, you are".
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:20 AM
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That's very interesting. You have inadvertently played the game of tribalism, and she realized she's losing the game.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:16 AM
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social validation: you went on a date with someone in her close circle of girlfriends. Your ex is afraid that your date would like you, and she will tell other girls about you, she will look bad, meaning that she made a mistake by breaking up with you. she wants to lower your smv. good job
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:54 AM
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There are no girls on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:17 AM
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Today, poor people are dying of overweight. Eating good is more difficult and expensive than eating bad. If you want to be healthy, you have to be smart and responsible. Being slim and fit is a consequence of those things.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 12:35 PM
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Attraction is not a choice. It is an instinct that can't really be measured. It also changes over time. For example, on average women past 30 stop looking for having sex as the means to have fun and start having sex as the means to settle down, have a family, etc. The instinct is evolutionary. We still feel, think and desire like we did thousands of years ago. We still share ALL the genetics of the humans that lived both the paleolithic and the time of Jesus Christ. You may not be religious and …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 06:25 AM
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I’m reading The Surrendered Wife, which – to be honest – contains good relationship advice. Just by that statement I can totally ask you to be my girlfriend and eventually marry you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 07:04 PM
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The specific problem about telling someone that "you read TRP" is about frame. You want to show yourself that you do, say and think with freedom. If you repeat and follow what a book or an online forum says, you are not "being youself". You are "being manipulated". You want in general to show yourself as someone who can make choices out of free will. You do and say those things because you want. For example I had a friend whose girlfriend was following Cosmopolitan magazine to the letter, and to…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 06:52 PM
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The Rule #1 of Rollo Tomassi: frame is everything.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 08:06 PM
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You're being honest and also understand the difference between sexes: that's great. And you also honestly show your disgust against unattractive people. That's great too. The whole point of what The Red Pill teach us is very simple: men and women have different definitions of what "unattractive" means. This is exactly what alpha and beta means: women feel naturally attracted to alphas, women proactively seek having sex with an alpha. Alphas will receive female attention without asking for it. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 06:21 AM
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This is so true. I've seen it with my own eyes. When a man breaks frame the woman is automatically disgusted. She just like that flips a switch and her feelings are totally different. And the sad thing is the man was just being honest and sharing his own feelings. Women like men in control who can lead.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 06:11 AM
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Oh man I wish I was 22 again. My Testosterone levels were damn high and had I read TRP back then I'd be so much different today. You have the gift of being young and knowing about TRP, don't waste it. I agree with comments here: losing weight is difficult but is the best strategy. I lost ~33 lb since I started lifting and doing exercise AND HAVING AN APPROPRIATE DIET. I was eating a lot of junk food but also I like boring food like rice and chicken cooked in the oven without oil. Also, it is jus…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:36 PM
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stress eating. It took me between 6 and 12 months to stop stress eating. It was fucking difficult. The only solution was to not have any junk food at home.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:29 PM
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Our brains love seeing patterns. The main reason behind confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:45 PM
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The best lies are half truths. She's looking for an excuse to get your attention and she's using her dead father as the means to get it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:10 PM
3

This is basically the argument that proves that gender pay gap is myth.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 12:00 PM
1

Ha, you reminded me about this quote: Put simply, men warn me about challenges. Women try to help me solve them. https://medium.com/@HBCompass/men-warn-me-about-things-women-help-me-7457ca6b2583
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 11:58 AM
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My mother immediately chimed in, "Isn't she lucky? She dated Mr. Pop Singer for years and had never received any expensive gift from him, he's such a scrooge. But Mr. Moneybag is different, he's treating her right, don't you think?" My sister best female friend was dating the son of a rich businessman who operates a very large business. And when they broke up, my sister was complaining that the guy would never give her friend any gift, not even a perfume. What a douche!
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 11:55 AM
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I've been interested on buying a motorhome/RV/trailer for some time now. It always felt an awesome idea to have a moving cave-with-wheels, where I could go to have a personal space of my own with all my books that I don't have the time to read. time that I don't have because I'm usually too busy reading reddit and facebook. I'll think about it. Thanks for posting this book.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 09:38 PM
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I think is was this one, at the OkCupid sub http://archive.is/m71oY TL;DR: Guy trolls OKCupid sub hard by copying a woman's thread from a year ago with the genders flipped and getting opposite responses, takes the opportunity to post about it and call them out and their heads explode.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 10:53 PM
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I remember that someone actually did a very similar experiment intentionally, posting a sex-flipped post on relationships, and it may be that this could be the one. The older story was real but the newer one was fake, to show how people actually responded to differences in sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:45 PM
1

Also to call Bitcoin a good investment is like calling roulette a good investment because you can make a 50% ROI It's actually 48.6% for roulettes with one zero, and 47.3% for the ones with two zeros. All-or-nothing bets are never a good investment. Bitcoin is not the same as a roulette, because the prices keeps going up. The Bitcoin the bet is whether this trend is going to continue.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 08:20 PM
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That said, there is nothing preventing women from attaining that same knowledge in the exact same way all those men did when they learned about bitcoin, I believe called google. All you need to do is to follow this flowchart.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 08:15 PM
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Haha, you're missing the whole point. Yes, it's risky, people lost huge amounts of money. While hindsight is 20/20, we're not talking about Bitcoin here, but women. There are no women in Bitcoin, yet there is no more levelled and fair playground in town that Bitcoin. Women don't like taking risks and prefer to follow safe, mainstream advice.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 08:12 PM
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... and why aren't there more women computer nerds? are you implying that computer nerds drive women away?
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 08:09 PM
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Even my GF with a PhD in STEM won't event touch Bitcoin. And we do talk about it a lot. She was, however, very impressed when I mentioned that I went into Bitcoin when it was still cheap. Anecdotically, the only girl that I know that it is very invested into Bitcoin behaves like a male in every way. We had sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 05:45 PM
2

I did the pause a few days ago. She loved it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 10:10 PM
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I stopped going to the gym for a week and my gf got upset and dissapointed.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 05:58 PM
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feminism is about equality!!1! we want your rights, but you can't have ours!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:10 PM
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Yes, I agree, I probably didn't express my idea correctly. Ross, much like many other people, had to consciously learn how to do all those things. And this is great, because it enables him to share his knowledge with others. There are no more lousy teachers than those who can do things intuitively without a conscious understanding of the subject. I believe that the concept of "frame" in seduction and PUA is relatively newer than the Ross Jeffries video. I think it was Mystery who coined the term…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 05:53 PM
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if he truly understands trp, This is from the 90's (i think), there was no such thing as TRP, only a bunch of random people beginning with PUA. This is from even before what's told in the book The Game of Neil Strauss. This guy intuitively understands what frame means, and he is showing that on camera against a full audience of women. Which was good advertising for his seduction training business.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 11:08 AM
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The best video about frame control is from Ross Jeffries from the 90s : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d28usWdvmSg Just look at the guy, his reactions, attitude, and answers while those women are bashing and humiliating him.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 09:52 PM
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I am a virgin but I know I can get laid No, you don't. Until you actually get laid, you don't know.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 07:00 AM
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Actually, no. There is nothing in this sub that mentions nor implies this idea. It is your broken understanding which makes you see this sub this way. Please provide evidence if you think otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 08:00 AM
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It helped me a lot to read: Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 08:38 AM
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Alpha male is a relative concept, that needs to be put in context. Bill Gates is the alpha male of Computers in Microsoft, and George Clooney is the alpha male of actors. But neither Bill Gates is the alpha male of actors, not Clooney is the alpha male of Computers in Microsoft. Outside their tribe, they are very much beta. The same logic goes with relationships, and Bill Gates being an alpha male in Microsoft doesn't make it an alpha with his wife. I don't know, thought, and I don't care what G…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:00 PM
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And, by firing him, they've done irrevocable damage to their brand. Nobody cares. Those who agree with Damore, already had this view of the world from long time ago. And those who disagree with Damore, already had this view of the world from long time ago. In any case, nothing changed.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 11:57 AM
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If with your intelligence you imply that women are stupid or sluts or for whatever reason they feel bad around you, then yes, they will get turned off. I met many girls who were turned on by my intelligence. I'm very smart, and as such, I've always did my best to make them feel good. This is really a no-brainer.
/r/MGTOW01/08/17 09:03 AM
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Always append what women say to "right now". For example, "i love you right now", "i'd never cheat on you right now", etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:52 PM
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on the contrary, you'll be more interesting!
/r/seduction25/07/17 07:02 AM
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"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win."
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 08:15 AM
1

It depends on your skills, computer programming is easier when it clicks on your head and you fill the gaps correctly. I learned to program with a 20 pages book two decades ago, but YMMV. The normal way of learning to program is to pick the big three programming languages (Java, C++, Python) and learn about data structures and algorithms. Write your own thing at least once in most of the big three. And that's it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 07:24 AM
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BitBucket is owned by Atlassian which sells Jira, the most popular issue management software in the world. Jira gives the company huge profits. In November 2015, Atlassian announced sales of $320 million,[18] and Shona Brown was added to its board.[13] On 10 December 2015 Atlassian made its initial public offering (IPO) on the NASDAQ stock exchange,[19] under the symbol TEAM, putting the market capitalization of Atlassian at $4.37 billion.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 07:17 AM
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I'm plating my LTR ex, but I guess that she is plating me as well. Every once in a while she stops talking to me for six months and then she returns, which I guess that she found/hitting on some other dude. But I don't really care. But, whatever man. Just continue with your life and find new girls.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 01:34 PM
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I don’t know how the fuck you get rid of the validation issue. You just wrote my life story. My dad and mom both blamed me for the failed relationship with my father. I've been always told that I should put more effort in being closer with my father. And that I should be both grateful for what he did to me (provide food and a home) and at the same time understand that he is ill and clinically depressed and unable to connect with people. This is why I should be the one who should work on the rela…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:52 AM
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His comment is very TRP: amoral. You are interpreting it as angry.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 08:48 PM
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Obviously the woman cant be in a fat suit that she magically takes off after the break up. Still missing the point: he never changed. There is no suit or whatever. It was all in her imagination
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 08:43 PM
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More like the guy appeared to have no motivation or interest to better himself. Only in her eyes and before she realized he was rich. Then she suddenly is in love with him and wants to be back. But nothing changed in his life, except she was not a part of it anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 05:27 PM
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It is non comparable. Your analogy is flawed: he was always rich, and only in her imagination he was poor. She then spins it by saying that she "couldn't come to terms with his lying by omission". And this is the root of all her conflict: she regrets dumping him, not because he changed after the break-up, but that he never had this "issue" in the first place. The only deception was done by herself in her own imagination. She saw him as a person without life purpose, when in fact he had his life …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 03:20 PM
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Part 1: http://archive.is/afKa8 Part 2: http://archive.is/ytz25
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 03:08 PM
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You're poor? You don't have any life purpose, I don't like you. Oh, I'm sorry, you're rich you say? I love you and miss you and want to have your babies!
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 02:53 PM
1

When people have a powerful TRP experience (as most of us did before finding TRP), combined with exposure to a complete framework of TRP, they are able to review their previous experiences in a new light. This is how one can overcome the cognitive dissonance. At least for me, I had an overwhelming and bad experience which made me revisit all my life choices and preconceptions. I eventually found No More Mr. Nice Guy, then the PUA movement, which led me to TRP. I believe that many RP people end u…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 01:32 PM
1

I look at the eyes to others and bite my lips all the time yet I rarely flirt with people.
/r/seduction14/04/17 06:35 PM
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You're clearly attracted to him. You were right from the moment you too met. There's nothing wrong with that. That's how you feel and it's great. And this is were you and I disagree: you believe that's wrong, just because he is married. It would be wrong if you were actively pursuing a romantic relationship with him. You should not apologize for your feelings, you're only responsible for your actions (as long as you don't take drugs). From here I can't tell you if he likes you, if he is flirting…
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:23 PM
0

Then this week, I flirted with him You're projecting. You said that you flirted with him, and for that now you think he's flirting with you. We can't know for sure if he's flirting with you, but we know for sure that you flirted with him.
/r/seduction14/04/17 05:15 AM
1

What does a woman want? What we all want: the freedom of choice. Back in the day whay women were staying at home, they did it because they had no choice: they could not find any husband who would support her being outside the house, nor any job willing to take her. It was socially expected for women to be at home. Today, they have to have jobs since it is more difficult than ever to find a husband who would have a job to support the entire family. And society keeps pushing for women to have a jo…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 11:21 AM
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This is it. People invite you to their parties because they want to be invited to other parties.
/r/seduction24/03/17 08:24 AM
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After a few months of squats people told me I was taller.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 08:56 AM
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It also happened a month ago with Harvard soccer team: http://archive.is/Pmgi6 The school cancelled the rest of the men's soccer season because one of the players "created a nine-page document in 2012 with numeric ratings, photos and lengthy evaluations of the freshman recruits of the Harvard women’s team based on their physical appearance. Men on the team referred to the document as a "scouting report.""
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 12:59 PM
1

It seems we end up here after some harsh experience.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:41 PM
2

How did you find TRP? What or who brought you here?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:42 PM
0

you can do whatever the fuck you want. but you should go to lift weights and nothing more; stronglifts 5x5. and then become yourself a personal trainer.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:46 PM
2

I've tried already with two of my closest friends, to introduce them to some of TRP ideas. One just ignored me: I gave him an edition, in paper, of How to Win Friends and Influence People, and never read it. I'm sure his ego prohibited him to read a book about making friends. It is funny because that very same day he told me he only had two friends in life, and I was one of them. My other friend, when I shown him passages of The Rational Male book told me "You know I don't like it when you say t…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 01:55 PM
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http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/donald-trump-president-women-voted-for-white-college-educated-working-class-reasons-terrifying-a7409596.html In fact, when you break down the polling data, there is one specific group of American women that leaned away from Clinton and towards Trump. Overall, women were more likely to vote for Hillary than The Donald – except white women without a college degree. That group, however, accounts for a large proportion of the US electorate and, in the end, it swun…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 02:30 PM
1

You should have said that in the first place. But you didn't.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:54 PM
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That's why my sister haven't had any official boyfriend over the last decade. It is impossible to find a guy that her 20+ friends would all approve.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:20 PM
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...so be careful to date / marry women who wants to be treated magnificently and with respect and treat you likewise? You are twisting the argument just to comform with your view. Trump says "guys who treat women magnificently and get treated badly in return", but you are talking abut "women who treat guys magnificently". You are talking about a different group of people.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:11 PM
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The guy says that his wife has the most important job in the world: raising their kids. But people only like to read that he hates women.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:53 PM
0

The cause of my personal oneitis are laziness and social validation. I want to have one very hot chic, I dont want to work to find it, and I want people to be jealous of me for the gf that I have.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:49 PM
2

I stopped eating junk food and drinking alcohol a year ago, and the last few Kg of belly fat are very difficult to remove. GOD I MISS EATING CHOCOLATE WHILE DRINKING BEER EVERY DAY. Done, I've said it. Ill be back to my green tea.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:47 PM
1

Three of them are as PDFs in LG.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 11:49 AM
1

trigger also trigger for data acquisition systems.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 04:28 PM
11

It is also told in The art of Seduction.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 12:09 PM
6

You are actually getting more dates now than ever before. This is called Simpson's Paradox.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:53 AM
1

Give me a link!
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:40 PM
1

Which second comment? inorder, preorder, postorder? Comments are a tree, there is no total ordering.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:39 PM
1

I agree with you, but you also need to work on your skills for making comparisons. The equivalent of a murderer in relationships is a rapist.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 03:46 PM
1

I am white, more or less good looking, clear eyes, I lift, and my success with tinder is zero. Don't measure your success with Tinder. I don't have abs and I don't have a fancy car. That's probably what they are looking for here (one of the most expensive cities in the world).
/r/askTRP04/09/16 10:30 PM
2

Don't let tinder or other social networks trick your mind. The Social-Network Illusion That Tricks Your Mind: Network scientists have discovered how social networks can create the illusion that something is common when it is actually rare. https://www.technologyreview.com/s/538866/the-social-network-illusion-that-tricks-your-mind/
/r/askTRP04/09/16 08:20 PM
2

The general idea is to not to easily give away a smile. You want to make the other person feel special, and if you are always smiling you are not giving the other person something unique from you. You can practice the smile in the mirror, but be aware of the different kind of smiles. The nicest smile is when you half close your eyes and smile at the same time. It usually helps if your smile follows the topic of conversation, otherwise you will creep people out.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 08:17 PM
2

Clint Eastwood
/r/askTRP04/09/16 08:10 PM
1

and learn game to save yourself time The question here is: How and where?
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:01 PM
1

I have depression Have you been to a doctor? You should I also found a really good book about it: "The Depression Cure: The 6-Step Program to Beat Depression without Drugs". I'm following to the letter+lifting and I feel better most of the time. I have a stressful job and it is taking its share.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 05:54 PM
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You are a jerk, but you also know your shit. I work in a place where no one gives a shit about reading my facebook, I have the freedom to install whatever SO I want. I edited my top level comment with some clarifications, let me know what you think.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 12:34 AM
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You are contradicting yourself. If it were possible to list the specific URLs, the case of OP would be the same as your bet. You are either wrong about what happened to OP, or wrong about your bet and you are either bluffing, cheating by using a non-up-to-date system, or askind a Judge for the Reddit dot com access logs by IP address. Or you know not backdoored via a local administrator... woah.................... ssl doesnt protect from that too? Also that was never mentioned until now I specif…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 11:55 PM
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With DNS sniffing they can only tell that you visit Reddit dot com but not specific subs, and neither your username nor password. And with a DNS forgery request (where they fake DNS answers) with a custom HTTP proxy (ie, sslstrip), if you force HTTPS Everywhere your web browser will detect that the website is illegitimate, because of a fake SSL certificate. This is assuming your computer is not compromised, is up to date with software updates, and you are using HTTPS Everywhere ( https://www.eff…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 11:41 PM
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Yes, you are correct. They will be able to tell that you visited Reddit dot com but not specific subs, and neither your username nor password. But as others pointed out, yes, even using HTTPS has its risks. If they try hard enough they can also tell the specific URLs and for example specific Reddit subs. This is specially a risk when you use computers from your employer. With your own computer if you are careful enough the risk is low.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 11:17 PM
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This is The Red Pill. If you have something to say just say it, don't go around circlejerking and condescending me. Your attitude reads like this: "I know something you don't but I'm not going to say it because I now I am ego invested in showing that you are a shitty IT guy and I am better than you"
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 06:47 PM
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If in your computer you locally install a root SSL certificate of your employer, you're screwed. They can self-sign any SSL certificate and fake any SSL connection of any website. This is MITM 101. It is pretty easy to do that with Firefox, Chrome, IE, etc. You need to manually check the fingerprint of the SSL certificate of every website you visit. This is hardly done "easily".
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 03:26 PM
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Yes. They'll have to do MITM with fake SSL certificates. Detecting this practice is probably beyond the technical skills of most people. But if you have your own computer (ie, laptop) it is very easy to detect by not installing any crap, whatsoever, from your employer. Never, under any circumstance, give your personal computer to the tech staff of your company. Source: I work in IT.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 02:53 PM
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You should browse Reddit via HTTPS. Upgrade your web browser (ie, firefox) and install HTTPS Everywhere just to be sure. Edit: as someone pointed out in a comment HTTPS is not a silver bullet, specifically for employer owned computers. In your own home or from your cellphone if you don't have crap/malware/backdoors running you should be fine (for example you got a virus in your pendrive: you are screwed). Never stick in crazy, and never ever accept your employer to put any software or configurat…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 01:15 PM
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plot-twist: /u/Thewelshpill is OP boss.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 01:15 PM
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What is your native language? Practice is only half. Knowing is the other half. You need to sit down and study. Study grammar, verb tenses, phrasal verbs. Talking to people will not improve your language skills. Learning a language works in two steps: 1. learning the rules, 2. practicing the rules. You can't practice what you don't yet know.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 10:54 PM
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“Begin at the beginning," the King said, very gravely, "and go on till you come to the end: then stop.”
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:43 PM
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Is it on Youtube? Do you have the link? Edit: looks like its this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:18 PM
1

I've been reading about seduction and PUA and now RP for one year now. When I started it was with No More Mr. Nice Guy and it was addictive to read in words so clear what I felt for mostly my whole life. I had many breakups and heartbreaks and learning that the whole experience is shared by many people made me really curious to see what can be changed in my life. That I could change and it was under my control. I can't but understand all the people devouring TRP posts. It is even written in Neil…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:48 PM
1

Same cultural background Are you saying this is the reason why I haven't been able to find a partner? I've moved continents two years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 11:26 AM
1

It is a bad idea to be yourself. You should be/show your best self and let them fill the rest. Example: I snore while I sleep. My ex gf hated that. If I approach people I don't know and the first think I say is "hey! i'm Frank and I snore while sleeping" they will think I'm a creep.
/r/seduction17/05/16 06:19 PM
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