fransquaoi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Only 10% of divorce settlements include alimony		fransquaoi	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 02:43 PM

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1	Some users on PPD doubt the existence of the female social matrix. Is there such a thing and if so, what are its most salient features? I think you're conflating multiple things. Status. Basically, the same as status among dudes. Who has the hottest partner? Who has the best career? Who's the most attractive? Whatever. Different subcultures care about different things. Some people are more or less competitive. Most people are aware of the "scores", but only losers care very much. Emotional labor. It's being aware of and tending to the emotions of others. If someone's sad, you comfort them. If you hear someone got a new job, you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 10:07 AM
1	Some users on PPD doubt the existence of the female social matrix. Is there such a thing and if so, what are its most salient features? 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:57 AM
5	The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in dating Men invented this terminology. FDS just showed up, and they're tiny compared to PUA. Are you kidding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:52 AM
7	The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in dating FDS doesn't reflect most women or mainstream feminism. Also, FDS borrows ideology from the redpill, so you're throwing stones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:50 AM
5	The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in dating idk the actual rarity matters a lot here. Is it a lottery or, like, a dice you can roll over and over?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:44 AM
1	CMV: RP men are in denial about the reality of older bachelors Words coming out of your brain are not facts. Give me actual statistics or gtfo. Actually, gtfo anyway. I'm done with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 01:32 PM
2	CMV: RP men are in denial about the reality of older bachelors My worldview is very well backed up in facts Where are they, genius? You haven't provided one. Subsequently it would make sense that women who in large marry for resources would not be as interested in re marrying afterwards since the initial resources were already acquired. You're presupposing that many women marry primarily for resources. I don't buy that and you haven't provided any evidence to make me change my mind. Also -- again -- if you get divorced, you don't get to keep the resources. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 09:30 PM
2	CMV: RP men are in denial about the reality of older bachelors You keep hopping topics because you're unwilling to update your worldview to match the facts. Call it what you want. You started with alimony -- which I addressed, and which you won't. Then you tried to switch to custody and child support (Which I agree is a huge issue, but also, off topic). Now you're switching again to government wellfare queens (also ridiculous. 27% of single parents live in poverty. Not exactly a lucrative scheme.) Either concede that divorce and single motherhood aren't jac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 08:13 PM
2	CMV: RP men are in denial about the reality of older bachelors You're moving the goalposts. The idea that a woman can divorce a man and expect to live off the spoils is ridiculous. You believed that. Do you still?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 02:46 PM
2	CMV: RP men are in denial about the reality of older bachelors alimony awards have always been very rare, going from about 25% of cases in the 1960s to about 10% today, said Judith McMullen, a professor of law at Marquette University. In one study of Wisconsin cases, she found it was only 8.6%. x You believe a fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 09:26 AM
1	CMV: RP men are in denial about the reality of older bachelors 70% of divorced and widowed men are open to marrying again (compared to 46% of women)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:50 AM
3	Q4All: Would men rather be wanted or needed? I think this is just one of many patterns, but it is an interesting one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 08:46 AM
1	Is there any "systematic" way to get the average guy to stop being such an unfuckable loser? I don't accept your premise that men are so awful or worse than women. But a lot of shitty behaviors in all people -- insecurity, addiction, laziness, etc -- are triggered by anxiety and depression, and our shitty education system is horrible for our mental health. So, yeah, let kids be kids. You'll get much higher quality adults.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 03:57 AM
5	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? lol source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 03:38 AM
1	The other shoe of the nice guy phenomenon...is it going to drop soon? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 11:01 PM
1	Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad. Do a minority of women prefer there partner to mistreat them due to not having a good father or some other underlying psychological reason? Yeah. I'm a woman, and I believe this. It's only, like, 3% of women, and less common as we get older. I think it's because they like the chaos. There are more highs because there are more lows. And the bad parts can feel perversely good to them, like cutting yourself. And then the effort they put into making up after a fight feels good to them and ultimately…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 08:06 AM
1	Men are attracted to a more universal standard of beauty in woman, while woman have more distinct tastes on average than men. He’s famous because he’s been a great actor since he was young. lol have you seen Titanic? He was very bad. The only “chicken-egg problem” here is that you have both of them stuck in your ass. Did I strike a nerve? Chill. This is a debate sub. His character was poor in the movie but he himself was attractive, ch.... These are good points. Otherwise they’re just cute guys. So you agree ... you think women are attracted to guys who are really pretty.. Anyway, I still contend that young Leonardo Di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:59 AM
1	Why would a woman lie about their n-count to her partner if "insecure", "misogynistic" men are the only ones who, in her view, would care about a high n count in the first place? When men care about it, they're being insecure and misogynistic in that moment. Nobody expects their partner to be perfect. Everyone's partner is sometimes insecure and most people (men and women) are occasionally misogynistic. Being imperfect doesn't disqualify you as a boyfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:47 AM
1	Why are 30% of Gen Z women not attracted to men? I mean... if they've been identifying as the opposite sex since they were 4, they can probably make that decision. And there's research to back it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:42 AM
3	Study: Men suffer most from being single over a long period of time, while women were more negatively affected by being in an unstable relationship but were not affected by being single for longer periods. Before you're in a bad place -- depressed, recently dumped -- try opening up to friends about the little things that make you anxious or insecure. Some guys will be receptive, try to reassure you, and open up in reciprocation. This will strengthen the relationship early, so that when you get dumped, you have the social structures in place that you need. Some guys will probably be shitty. Then you know they're not a good investment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:38 AM
1	Men are attracted to a more universal standard of beauty in woman, while woman have more distinct tastes on average than men. You still haven't grappled with DiCaprio. You're saying women want to fuck him because he's famous. But he's only famous because women want to fuck him. There's a chicken-egg problem. Also, women were wetting themselves over his character in Titanic, who was utterly low-status. ... maybe a lot women just like guys who look like DiCaprio, who looks like a girl. (Especially in Titanic.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:11 AM
3	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Monkey brain or 20th Century America brain? We're assuming this is nature not nurture. (Could be either imo)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:02 AM
5	The other shoe of the nice guy phenomenon...is it going to drop soon? So, the idea is that being nice and kind to women DOES NOT get you sex or close to sex or even factor into that calculus. Is anyone saying this? Being nice doesn't guarantee you sex. But it obviously improves your odds. Don't come at me with the 'to just be a decent person' angle because...please, lettuce be cereal. Kindness is effort and effort without reward is wasted energy. Most people care about morality. If you don't, there's something wrong with you. Look at it evolutionarily. Humans evol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 06:57 AM