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That's alot better. Commenting on style or vibe is way better than directly on her physical looks.
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:37 PM
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You'll have a lot better success doing this if: 1) You are physically fit, dressed well, and have some style. 2) You spend a little more time talking to the woman, getting to know her, getting her a little invested, and then asking her for her number. Usually I spend at least a few minutes talking to them before asking to have the maximum success. It's a little unnecessary to ask if she has a boyfriend. If you ask her for her number or instagram, she'll automatically tell you if she has one or n…
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:37 PM
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Funerals. Here I come.
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:13 PM
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Ignore all this bullshit of "be yourself." Being witty is simply being able to relate 1 subject to another subject in a novel way in your brain circuit. It's actually pretty simple process that you just need to practice. I read this in an ebook a while back. I did this and it made me a lot wittier in the moment. 1, Think of a random thing. I have occasionally used random word generator or just something that's on your mind. 2, List all the things you can think about it. Who, where, what, when, w…
/r/seduction14/01/22 04:24 PM
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That but also working out and just gaining confidence with women over the year. I went and checked my stats for this year and it's 8 women. That honestly surprised me since I didn't feel like it was that many this year. I just turned 31.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:51 AM
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There is a critical amount of value you have to exude before you are competitive on the dating market. After you do, it becomes much, much easier to consistently have sex with women. You are right in that it's very difficult to get to that threshold. Immediate actions: hit the gym, dress better, groom better (haircut, facial hair, shower, deorderant, etc). Go out more instead of just being on OLD. Long term: improve social skills or "game", improve social circles, stay on top of your finances, s…
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:19 PM
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That's how it should be though. You can't force individual people to not be racist. As long as the system itself isn't racist, you're in as good of a spot as you can get. I'd much rather have that than say something like what the US has.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:00 PM
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Creepy is so nebulous. If you're hot, nothing is creepy. If you're ugly, everything is creepy.
/r/seduction04/11/20 11:04 PM
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Seriously, that was my first thought.
/r/seduction04/11/20 08:37 PM
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Just google "Mark manson models pdf." It was pretty easy to find.
/r/seduction21/05/20 04:20 PM
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It's absolutely helpful in the sense that it helps in building social proof and good, pragmatic social skills. Some of the things in the book are counter productive to seduction though. Use it for what it's meant for and leave the seduction elements to the other books.
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:35 PM
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Oh wow. There's some gold on that link and on that website in general.
/r/seduction15/10/19 06:26 PM
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I've done this plenty of times. I've never had a girl actually text me later but I guess it can't hurt to set it up.
/r/seduction03/05/19 02:53 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:44 PM
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Maybe I have something to learn then. I'm saying for me personally that if a girl says she has a bf, even if she's outright lying, she's demonstrating to you that she's not interested. Regardless of her reason for saying so, it's probably a better use of time and energy to simply move on to another girl. If "I have a bf" girl comes around, then you're good but it's a horrible waste of time to wait for her.
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:19 PM
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More or less. It's kind of like job interviewing. If the interviewer says "We have decided to proceed with a different candidate" and then you find out that the position is still open, then you can be pretty assured that the company wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. The same applies for women.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:57 PM
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You posting this before you have taken any action will only lower your chance of taking that action. Research Reveals That Publicly Announcing Your Goals Makes You Less Likely to Achieve Them
/r/seduction24/01/19 05:02 PM
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You should definitely be using sunscreen at least on your face every day.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:55 PM
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/r/SkincareAddiction. The basics it to have a cleanser, exfoliatant, sunscreen, and moisturizer. I personally have the CeraVe foaming cleanser, alpha skin care glycolic AHA, random sunscreen, and random moisturizer. It definitely makes my skin a lot more clear and shiny than it would be otherwise. You want to add in 1 new product at a time as to acclimate and be able to make sure that each one doesn't have an adverse effect on you.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:40 PM
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Probably mostly 30s I'd imagine.
/r/seduction20/09/18 02:14 PM
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I watched a video by Todd Valentine a while back on this topic. Check it out. The gist of it to focus alot more on building comfort and "wait it out." I personally have better successes with European girls than American and I definitely focus more on having a fun time and building comfort.
/r/seduction04/09/18 03:28 PM
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What if you're at a party, event, bar, etc and you're trying to catch a girl's eyes? Do you just stare at her until she notices you?
/r/seduction04/04/17 08:53 PM
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Damn. I just read the whole thing. That's a bit cynical but there's also quite a bit of truth to it. Caveat. He says that it's "a funny, scientific explanation of how men and women are attracted to each other." What scientific evidence confirms this though?
/r/seduction16/03/17 05:09 AM
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I think I saw something on npr or ted that was talking about the mathematics of finding the optimum mate while not missing out. tl;dr: To find a mate that is 95%> compatible, you need to first determine your total number of years of dating (ex. if you start at 18 and expect to end at 40, you're years of dating is 22). You should reject everyone in the first 37% of your dating career, meaning for the first 7-8 years of dating you need to play the field and do not settle. Afterwards, the next one …
/r/seduction20/02/17 10:01 PM
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I think I saw something on npr or ted that was talking about the mathematics of finding the optimum mate while not missing out. tl;dr: To find a mate that is 95%> compatible, you need to first determine your total number of years of dating (ex. if you start at 18 and expect to end at 40, you're years of dating is 22). You should reject everyone in the first 37% of your dating career, meaning for the first 7-8 years of dating you need to play the field and do not settle. Afterwards, the next one …
/r/seduction20/02/17 09:57 PM
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There are two reactions that people have after experiencing hardship in their life: 1), Life fucked me; I'll only look after my own interests. Fuck everyone else. 2) Life fucked me; I do not want anyone else to suffer the fate that I did. I must do everything in my power to prevent it. OP obviously falls within the former category. I do have to say that I envy the guy. Not because he's fucked 100+ girls but of his methodical and data driven approach and his abilitiy to cut out the "wastes" in hi…
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:39 PM
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But seriously, don't move here.
/r/seduction03/02/17 02:12 PM
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Austin, TX here. Choo-choo. The surrounding areas leave something to be desired but Austin itself is delightful.
/r/seduction02/02/17 09:51 PM
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Oh, I totally get you. I grew up in the deep South in Mississippi as a minority (Asian). The fact that Southern culture (or more broadly religious cultures) promote women to pretend not to want sex/act interested. This coupled with the fact that Southern white women paid 0 interest to me aggravated that situation for me pretty badly. I'm glad I'm in a much more liberal and progressive place.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:41 PM
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This is also an important concept that I've (probably most of us here also) experienced. You don't really "understand" it until you actually do it and it registers in your mind. By reading about it, you'll understand it superficially but that deep level of conviction and enlightenment will only come from personally experiencing it.
/r/seduction02/02/17 04:34 PM
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How do you think? Go do interesting things. Have a job/career that you enjoy and that you're passionate about, exercise, do sports, do fun things like skyiving/wakeboarding/surfing/etc, travel, be well read, take good care of yourself, Have cool hobbies, Have cool friends, etc. Literally do anything but do it passionately.
/r/seduction20/01/17 12:06 AM
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Remember that all social interactions are subjective and to some degree manipulative. There are some things that are acceptable and not acceptable based on a society's view of social norms. I won't argue about whether some of these social norms are right or wrong but it is up to you to have enough social consciousness to understand which norms you should conform to and which ones it's okay to break occassionally. Ex: Talking in statements/cold reading instead of asking questions builds rapport f…
/r/seduction14/11/16 05:22 PM
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I can feel their panties moisten through the internet.
/r/seduction08/09/16 09:34 PM
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Well, damn. I love Anna Kendrick but also despise musicals. I couldn't watch the entire thing (I got maybe 15 minutes into it) even if Anna was in it.
/r/seduction18/08/16 07:24 PM
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Are you gay? jk. I personally think Anna Kendrick is adorable. That personality is hilarious and cute. We will agree to disagree.
/r/seduction18/08/16 05:23 PM
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Who could say no to Anna Kendrick?
/r/seduction18/08/16 02:43 PM
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By that statement, you're implying that you'd go lower than 16 if legally allowable. If you're older than 28, I assume you're 30+. You seriously think that banging someone on the cusp of legality and half of your age is totally okay?
/r/seduction25/07/16 11:20 PM
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Although that's nice and dandy, it still is nice sometimes to confirm the date before you drive all the way out to wherever you guys decide to meet. Here's my personal trick. An hour or two before the date, send her a text saying "hey, I'm running a little behind. Can we push it back 5-15 minutes?" Obviously, if she responds (usually with a "no problem"), she'll most likely be there. In fact, I've never had a girl flake before after she says it's cool for me to be a few minutes late. If they don…
/r/seduction16/06/16 02:31 PM
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I would be totally okay with guys not approaching girls "cold" like this if I knew girls approached guys more often in normal everyday life. As it stands at least in the west (and I dare say much of the world), guys are expected to make the first move 95%+ of the time. If guys approach women, the (most likely) worst case scenario for the woman is that she gets a little annoyed or weirded out. If guys don't approach women, we may wake up one day at 40, eating cheap Chinese take out for two, and w…
/r/seduction12/04/16 09:42 PM
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That's oddly specific. What if she was 5'8.5"? Pass?
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:37 PM
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Never did I insinuate that you be devoid of tact and social acumen in your interactions. I see your point. I think there's probably a time and place for both "dancing" and being straightforward. It just takes experience to know when is when.
/r/seduction15/03/16 02:04 PM
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That's still a game though. Yes, "waiting a few minutes after she texts you to respond" or "not asking her straight up if she likes you" or "playing hard to get" aren't ideal behaviors to do for a genuine interaction but isn't the whole point of this venture of ours in seduction to become that genuine person who will not play these games and comfortable enough in himself to call a woman out when she's playing these games? By no means do I mean not lead, not be confident, not be suave, etc but to…
/r/seduction15/03/16 02:43 AM
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That doesn't sound unreasonable; however to parrot Mark Manson, our lord and savior, "don't play games and don't put up with women that play games. You end up with straight forward people that are actually into each other" or something like that. I have to say that in my own experience having people straight forward and into me and playing no games is quite liberating. Sure, I don't get every girl I could possibly get but the ones I do get seem to be very genuine and I have very satisfying emoti…
/r/seduction15/03/16 01:52 AM
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Still, if she's interested, she'll definitely reciprocate. If she's not interested or so so, she'll play these games and be dilly dally. If being straightforward and getting an answer from her is wrong, I don't want to be right. I don't have time for those games nor do I want to associate myself with people that play games.
/r/seduction14/03/16 02:26 PM
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The caveat being that if she's really not feeling it that night and offers her phone number after a night of flirting, then just take her number. I don't think OP means to disregard getting the number but only get it as a last resort.
/r/seduction09/03/16 02:17 PM
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Ahhh. The Helga G Pataki approach. Nice.
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:56 PM
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Thank you. There was no way I was going to watch an hour and a half rant with questionable value. Thanks for saving me time.
/r/seduction24/01/16 03:32 PM
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If only men had vaginas...
/r/seduction12/01/16 10:44 PM
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I said that she'd have similar core values, meaning that she values the things you value. ex. honesty, hard work, humor, finances, etc. Of course you're going to have differences and ideally those differences complement each other to make up for short falls but it's not likely to work out long term if you have different over arching values. Ex. you are frugal with your money while she likes to blow it on purses, you are monogamous while she's poly amorous, you tell the truth while she lies, etc …
/r/seduction12/01/16 10:19 PM
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It's sometimes weird to think that the perfect woman for you would be yourself with different genitalia (meaning have similar core values as you).
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:25 PM
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Fuck I've been doing it all wrong. I should just give less fucks and approach more. I usually feel that if I get a phone number somewhere I should just call it a day and go somewhere else. I don't want to be seen as a "player" but obviously preselection works out in my favor.
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:08 PM
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I've always wondered if girls can just rub some coconut oil (or whatever oil) down there. It's a great lubricant so it'll feel amazing; however, the oil degrades the condom and allows pregnancies to happen more often. The worst thing is you won't even know until she sends that "I'm late" or "I'm pregnant" text. You can do all of those preparations but somebody psycho can think of ways around it.
/r/seduction27/12/15 02:36 AM
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Eastern Europe or Scandinavia. Scandinavian women are hot as shit and you'll be considered "exotic" in less urbanized places. It's weird to think that's the case since Asians are literally like half of the world's population but it can happen.
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:23 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/seduction16/10/15 02:35 PM
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Where are you? That may be the case in Stockholm or big places but I was in Umea. I had a girl pretty much freak out when I asked her our on a sober coffee date. She reluctantly agreed and vehemently insisted on paying her fair share. Ahhhh, how I miss Sweden. I'm American btw. I didn't really do any online dating while I was there. It's a shame. Lots of missed opportunities.
/r/seduction24/09/15 09:34 PM
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That would be decent advice in most places; however, you have to understand the culture in Scandinavia. What OP described really is the dating culture there. You get drunk. You meet. You fuck. In the morning, if you find that you can stand each other sober, you may start dating. You usually date for a pretty long time when you do decide to commit. There's really not that much sober socializing situations where you can find a girl there. You just simply don't make sexual advances on the opposite …
/r/seduction24/09/15 08:21 PM
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I think it probably matters more for the girl. Women want men of the same or higher intellectual capacities, education, earning potential, etc etc. For guys, it's pretty irrelevant. If you meet a hot girl that works at fucking walmart and still has a great personality, you would definitely consider going for that regardless of their education or earning potential
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:20 PM
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Which fraternity? edit. Really? I'm being downvoted for being curious at which fraternity he was in?
/r/seduction25/08/15 06:50 PM
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Jesus christ. I was not expecting you to be 37. This reads like a teenager problem that I had in my late teens or early 20s. I thought most people stopped giving a shit and cut people like that out of their lives past mid twenties?
/r/seduction02/07/15 12:49 PM
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What does he do?
/r/seduction26/06/15 04:00 AM
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Agreed. POF is cancer incarnate where I live.
/r/seduction25/04/15 08:03 AM
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PM me your email edit. Since I'm getting alot of messages, just attach PM me your email and I'll try to send you a copy
/r/seduction22/02/15 09:41 PM
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Cheap and efficient. You are every Jewish girls' wet dream.
/r/seduction04/02/15 11:26 PM
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Demonstrat Value Engage Physically Nurture Dependence Neglect Emotionally Inspire Hope Separate Completely
/r/seduction04/02/15 11:24 PM
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When youre on a romantic boat ride and a crab starts singing "kiss the girl," you can kiss her. Duh. Childhood 101
/r/seduction19/01/15 04:08 PM
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That's not what he meant and you know that. Stop being facetious. It's not helping the conversation. /u/Cesare_MA what he means when he says "be yourself" is to be the best version of your self. Work hard to improve yourself so that you're the best that you can be. Don't play games or tricks on women. They aren't fucking stupid (the majority of them at least) and will see through your bullshit. It's a lot easier to pull performances than it is to actually have genuine human relationships (openin…
/r/seduction25/10/14 09:20 PM
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I've read that in a little factoid.
/r/seduction08/10/14 06:36 PM
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I might be a little biased since I'm 23 but even then, it's breaking the "creeper rule." Whatevs. I keep getting older but freshmen girls stay they same age ;)
/r/seduction08/10/14 12:54 AM
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Which part do you disagree with? Alas, I am not good at making gifs. Somebody help!!
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:08 PM
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Well, it does violate the creeper rule (half your age + 7) but who am I kidding, I'd pursue her. A cute girl is a cute girl...as long as she's over 18, which she is. GO GO OP.
/r/seduction07/10/14 05:01 PM
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Why not? For all you know, OP is into that kind of shit. He could even write a book about it afterwards and call it Fucking and Punching
/r/seduction07/10/14 05:00 PM
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But he knew exactly who it was. That would be playing games and being petty. I think he is beyond that point. Good on ya, OP
/r/seduction07/10/14 04:56 PM
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From a quick skim, it looks like it's geared towards asian girls. Honestly, I feel like most of us asians here are looking for white women.
/r/seduction30/08/14 04:44 AM
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Pshhh, I live in Mississippi. Get in line. I completely agree with what you say though. Most of the girls that I've been with have been very open minded people. Though looking back, if the only women I attract is open minded and passionate women, I can live with that.
/r/seduction30/08/14 04:42 AM
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I live in Mississippi. Youre one to talk. Jk. Its bad around but you get by.
/r/seduction21/08/14 04:30 AM
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It's simple. Become the batman.
/r/seduction12/07/14 05:23 PM
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Where else did you think he got the "implication joke" from?
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:06 AM
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How old are you now if you don't mind sharing with us?
/r/seduction18/11/13 04:06 PM
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I think you're probably over reading into it. It's just a cool movie about a sociopath while lampooning the yuppie culture of the 80s.
/r/seduction31/10/13 09:27 PM
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Is he? He frets over meaningless and inconsequentially stuff like getting a nice table at the restaurant. He constantly worries about "fitting in" with among his group. He's narcissistic and misogynistic, not to mention a whole bunch of other attributes that are highly unbecoming of an "alpha male." I think the word you are looking for here is "sociopathic."
/r/seduction31/10/13 08:17 PM
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"My name is Patrick Bateman. I'm 27 years old. I believe in taking care of myself and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now."
/r/seduction30/10/13 10:29 PM
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Well, as my millionaire friend says, you aren't going to become successful sleeping 8 hours a day. Although true, I'd rather not trade my health for wealth. It's backed by a lot of science that younger people (which I assume OP is) need around 8 hours of sleep. The amount decreases as you age but adequate sleep is definitely necessary for your health.
/r/seduction30/10/13 10:26 PM
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I've also read Models. I know exactly what you mean. I have no qualms about actually approaching because I know I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I know that rejection doesn't matter and that it will happen a vast majority of time. However, sometimes I still need that little push (we all do sometimes, even the most experienced of us) to go up to a girl and the app gives me exactly that.
/r/seduction23/10/13 04:49 PM
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Harness that nervous energy to do something.
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:57 PM
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I barely need to drink anymore to approach women. Actually scratch that. I don't need to drink at all to approach women; however, I frequent some of the bars around town (small city) quite a lot and it would just feel awkward to come in all the time but not drink at all. I just usually get a beer or two just to not feel this awkwardness. It certainly helps with approaching women but is certainly not necessary anymore.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:32 PM
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Strictly speaking, no it isn't. Years ago in my biology 101 class, we discussed how sex is not necessary for individual organisms to live (we're talking on an individual level, not species level). You can go your whole life without sex and be happy. I think I recently read that the "happiest man in the world" is a buddhist monk. They don't have sex and yet he is rated the "happiest man in the world (quotes because there's obviously some level of subjectivity and happiest can't exactly be quantif…
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:23 PM
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That's not just women. It's just human nature. Boys do the same thing; however, learning to be honest with yourself and others truly is the delineating factor that separates boys and men.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:14 PM
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You say two things that seem to conflict in my mind: this girl has been very good to me and shows no signs of her previous nature and is my gut feeling justified If she really has been great with you and does not show the past behavior, then I'd say everything is dandy. If she's clean (std wise), it doesn't really matter if she's had 1 or 100. Honestly, she's probably tighter for having had sex with a larger number of people. We all make mistakes in the past. Forgive and move on. However, if it'…
/r/seduction23/10/13 07:35 AM
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No kidding. He is quite to the point in the book and it's not a very long read. The information is also worth it's weight in gold.
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:26 PM
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Soooooo worth is though.
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:20 PM
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Family? Wincest? jk jk
/r/seduction01/07/13 03:26 AM
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Ohhh Style would be sooo proud.
/r/seduction28/05/13 02:46 PM
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I went to a halloween party last night dressed like the joker. It was a really nice costume because my friend is such a pro a painting faces. I usually get alot more eye contact then I did last night. I was talking to alot of girls but then one of them told me that I looked really scary. What I'm trying to say is, it is probably better to not go in a costume. Take care of yourself and dress up nicely. Leave the paint and costumes at home if you really want to meet a girl.
/r/seduction27/10/12 03:47 PM
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For the swarm.
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:51 PM
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Nice. I'm gonna have to try a few of these.
/r/seduction28/09/12 01:09 PM
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The man's got a point. I've learned so much fucking shit about so many different topic since being on here.
/r/seduction24/09/12 09:57 AM
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You know that question is quite interesting. I'm an Asian and have always wondered if there's some sort of bias against asians from white females. I live in the South (MS) so race can be a little bit more important (I'm not saying people are offensively racist by any stretch of the imagination but the people here can sometimes be a little narrow minded). I just never had any luck with girls in high school. I hardly ever got noticed but I attribute most of this to lack of confidence. But honestly…
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:17 PM
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If she actually texted you to say that she was sorry about missing lunch, then chances are she is willing to reschedule. Just do what truth_hertz suggest and you should be golden, pony boy.
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:20 PM
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