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| 1 | Can you help me ? Or just talk. | Lifestyle | freakyfeb97 | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 10:36 AM |
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| 3 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidI did everything that guy said not to do and I still got dates on Tindr. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to loose your virginity😅 ? | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | What’s the fastest way to loose your virginityAre you a male or a female ? | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | I have no idea how to approach girls and really need some helpThanks man ! | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 11:21 PM |
| – | I have no idea how to approach girls and really need some helpAs a 23 year old who had your same problem, you just have to stop putting so much pressure on yourself to be liked by every girl you like and just be yourself. Now I understand that it may seem quite vague, confusing and frustrating, as I too received this advice when I was 19 without anyone elaboration on how to apply it, why it works and what to expect. So lemme elaborate it for you. There is a video by the Youtube channel "Boyinaband" titled "How being ugly can make you more attractive". Now … | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | The 4 focuses that will change any life.Yokay. Thanks a lot ! Really, you have added much needed wisdom to my life ! Thank you !!! | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 01:55 AM |
| – | The 4 focuses that will change any life.THANK YOU MUCH MAN/LADY ! I swear that you are a God send. The emotional issue that you have brought up was the exact thing I needed. Also, one last thing if you don't mind. What do mean by using martial arts and physical exercise as "diversion" ? I mean how to differentiate between an outlet and a diversion ? | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 12:58 AM |
| – | The 4 focuses that will change any life.Ahhh ! Yeah the line by Mark Manson things made much more clear. I realize now that (and have been realizing) that I have had quite a lot of anger built up due to expectations (I dealt with them through martial arts and physical exercise. Is that healthy ?). And I shall read the book you mentioned. THANK YOU so much for your time and effort. Would you mind if I copy this text on to my online notebook ? I like to keep things that I find very helpful and insightful there. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 11:49 PM |
| – | The 4 focuses that will change any life.Thanks a lot man ! Also if you don't mind, can you elaborate a bit more on the emotiornal strength aspect ? Because what I essentially got was "Don't be needy" 😅. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask him to meet?Ok sorry, should have been a bit more elaborate. Start a conversation (how to do that, I leave it to you), remind him of whatever you remember and ask him if he does remember you and ask him out on a date (doesn't matter if he remembers you or not). Now mind you, two things can happen(in my mind atleast, not a dating expert): If he is a decent guy, he will treat you like a lady and not some dick hungry whore (basically he will also put effort into the date). If he is an ass, he will treat you li… | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 05:19 PM |
| – | How do I ask him to meet?Just tell him you want to go out on a date. That's it. As a guy I tell you, don't come off as a slut but don't be so mysterious, especially about something so casual as a date (which can then lead to sex without you looking like a slut). Wanting to ask a guy for date is fine. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | 23 When is the best time to slide in the DMs?I did the same. But I commented witty comments on her posts abd that's how I am talking to her now. Don't look desperate. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Thanks man ! | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 12:10 AM |
| 21 | How to subtlety ask a guy if he wants to see my tits?If you think you should go with subtlety with guys, then honey, you are not ready for guys. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 03:37 AM |
| – | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.Thanks ! | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | If women aren't getting enough validation from the guys in their own city (without ever intending to meet them), they can now waste the time of international men for free! Nice one Tinder...Well, what the fuck are you doing if women in your city have to seek "validation" elsewhere ? | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | If women aren't getting enough validation from the guys in their own city (without ever intending to meet them), they can now waste the time of international men for free! Nice one Tinder...Good one 🤣 | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | what do you do when your crush friendzone your ass but keep filtering with you?Thank you ! And nice to meet you too ! Take care ! | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 11:22 PM |
| – | what do you do when your crush friendzone your ass but keep filtering with you?You're welcome man ! I am glad I could help you. And my name is Riicho Tilling Bamin. I am from India. There, no longer a "stranger" XD ! Good luck and Godspeed man. I hope you do well in life. | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 11:14 PM |
| – | what do you do when your crush friendzone your ass but keep filtering with you?See, if her looks are the only or the first thing that come to you which you can use to justify to yourself and others as to why you cannot let go of her, then you deserve and NEED whatever heartbreak and other bad things that will happen to you because of your shallowness. Now I don't mean it in any malicious way, but in an "elder brother" sort of way (I am 23 year old, and a male too). You have obviously not have been emotionally damaged enough to be mature. To be mature enough that you will A… | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 10:59 PM |
| – | what do you do when your crush friendzone your ass but keep filtering with you?Definitely ! Go and meet OTHER WOMEN ! And LOTS OF THEM (both the criterias should be fulfilled). | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 10:13 PM |
| – | what do you do when your crush friendzone your ass but keep filtering with you?Because it feels good. It feels good to be wanted, and that's why she keeps flirting even if she has refused you. How old are you dude ? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a guy to try harder?Thanks man ! Btw, if it's okay with you, may I know where you are from ? | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 02:43 PM |
| – | How do you get a guy to try harder?No need to apologise. I mean you are talking in a very civil manner to me. Which is MORE than I can say for many people, both on the internet and off it. 👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a guy to try harder?I know that. I have other reasons why I want to keep my interactions with women to a minimum. And also, rape allegations aside, even eve teasing incidents are taken WAY TOO SERIOUSLY. In Delhi a woman had accused a man (in a bike, and she was sitting in an autorickshaw) of eve teasing her. He got acquited later but still has problem finding jobs. And this happened 4 years ago, but he is still umemployed. Na man, too many risks. Also aren't women always clamouring about "equal oppurtunity" ? So h… | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 02:20 PM |
| – | How do you get a guy to try harder?Also man, I am not sure if you know, but India is VERY conservative sexually. It's not uncommon (in cities) and downright prevalent (in rural areas) to blame women (the victim) for rape. EVEN THEN false rape allegations make up 53% of rape allegations. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a guy to try harder?You're being wee bit too idealistic. You cannot ignore reality and live your based on your ideals alone. You have to look at real life. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 01:36 PM |
| – | How do you get a guy to try harder?*Lose I didn't say we don't have sex at all. I just said that I will wait for a VERY VOCAL AND OBVIOUS green light to get physical. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 01:35 PM |
| – | How do you get a guy to try harder?And of course it's matter of Principle. Principles are like programs on a computer, it's the basis of operation. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 11:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you get a guy to try harder?Dude, there are women who think that if a woman regrets having consensual sex after the fact, then that qualifies as a rape. Need I say more ? | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 11:37 AM |
| – | How do you get a guy to try harder?Ok, I am not sure what you're exactly trying to say, but my fears aren't based on fantasy. I am from India and the Delhi Comission for Women found that, in the NCR (National Capital Region), between April 2013 and June 2014, 53% of rape allegations turned out to be false. Now I am not saying that every woman is lodge a false rape allegation, but every woman has the potential to do so (just like how every man has the potential to physically harm a woman) and apparently a LOT OF WOMEN are misusing… | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 10:18 AM |
| – | How do you get a guy to try harder?For me personally, a lot of it has got to do with the current social climate. Before I begin, a bit about myself to contextualise the situation: I am extremely awkward around girls, just had one relationship (the girl approached me), cannot flirt to save my life and am VERY bad at reading people. You see I always see feminists say that "Don't question a victim of sexual assault as to why she didn't speak up at that time, women get very scared in those situation" and I can sympathise with this ex… | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 06:56 AM |
| 3 | How to be more interestingThanks a lot man. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 12:40 AM |
| – | How to be more interestingOk. Thanks ! | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 11:52 PM |
| – | How to be more interestingWhat's PUA ? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 4 | How to be more interestingOhh my brothers 😂 | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:45 PM |
| – | How to be more interestingThanks. For a very "matter-of-fact" person connecting emotionally with people has always confused and frustrated me. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 6 | I am 26 years old virgin female. I am super cold and unable to feel any intimacy even when hugged or approached by people I am particularly interested in. It hurts me not being able to enjoy any warm feeling. What is wrong with me? I lost my sexual desire and I am super cold.Maybe you need some other kind of fulfillment in life. You know some kind of achievement that is strictly "yours". E.g. a medal for some competition etc. Breakups are hard, and they can sap away at our self worth ! And if you're not confident about yourself, getting comfortable with someone new can be hard. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 4 | I am 26 years old virgin female. I am super cold and unable to feel any intimacy even when hugged or approached by people I am particularly interested in. It hurts me not being able to enjoy any warm feeling. What is wrong with me? I lost my sexual desire and I am super cold.Okay. So before this break up ? Did you enjoy getting intimate with your ex ? I mean, how long has this "problem" (I don't think that this is necessarily a problem, but don't have any word to describe this 😅) been going on for ? | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 03:44 PM |
| – | I am 26 years old virgin female. I am super cold and unable to feel any intimacy even when hugged or approached by people I am particularly interested in. It hurts me not being able to enjoy any warm feeling. What is wrong with me? I lost my sexual desire and I am super cold.Maybe, you have some emotional "issues" that need to be addressed first ? Also the person you like, have you thought about "how" you like him? | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 03:31 PM |
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