This one hits close to home! I actually have an ex friend who is an ex friend for this very reason. It disgusted me that a married mother would constantly need validation from strangers and pretend to be single.
Out of all the topics we cover in here - I hate this one the most. A woman *choosing * a terrible partner and getting knocked up . Knowing what a difficult life the child will have without a father around or one into drugs. It's like she doesn't get the gravity of the situation. People who act like having a baby just somehow happens to them through no fault of their own.NO!NO! NO!
What scary levels of desperation. " you might end up worse off than before " Totally agree-how will she feel after the paid date and she has only regular hot men or no men barking up her tree ? And what about when the family /friends asks questions like how they met or why they've never heard of him before or where he went suddenly ? Did she think this through at all??
I feel like a bit of a traitor saying this, but I always found it funny that the women that I knew from FB mom groups that were going through a divorce, 99.9% claimed abuse from the husband ( everything seemed fine on fb before deciding to divorce 🤷♀️ ) AND were dating very quickly after coming out as getting a divorce . ( as in ink not dry on the post they made about filing for divorce )
She has to be self sabotaging, I mean she's not smiling in ANY photos ,they are taken from a terrible angle. Does she want a man or is she trying to be a man ??
Ex -cam girl, has a dysfunctional family , health issues , untrusting of men , and put up every excuse in the book about why she makes bad decisions . please work on yourself and your life before you do ANYTHING else.
" life isn't a movie. That wild and carefree needs to be balanced by sober and responsible, each in their own measure. That "listening to your heart" doesn't always put food on the table and that sometimes your heart is an idiot." THIS
All I needed to read was her title. How could she be this unaware ?! He told her what he wanted and she gave it to him ! End of transaction. He just not that into you
Used her my ass. She banged the second guy for 5 hours the first time they hung out ! I have no respect for women like her. She doesn't command respect for herself than they will not give it to her.
I found it weird she associated all her past relationships that didn't work out (particularly in the guy who moved across the country for a new job ) as abandoning her. As if he and the others had a responsibility to her. Edit to add : I kept reading - so when they leave her =abadonment. If they do want to stick around =pressuring her /moving too fast.
He certainly isn't a friend but I do think more of the blame lies with her . She has the ultimate choice to sleep with him or not. He could try 7 ways to Sunday to convience her and if she was loyal to her husband it would not have happened.
Jfc....I can't with her. Her first mistake was accepting the invitation to go out with her husband's bestfriend ( which seems really suspect to me from the jump ). Her husband was gone for 3 months, You couldn't keep your legs together for 3 months ?!?
I now hate the phrase " take life as it comes at me " I feel like she is actually saying " I fly by the seat of my pants without a worry about the future .No long term goals here , yolo"
Why does the Info never add up ? Isn't seeking a relationship but is Looking for a man to date .Puts God first but has boobs out selfies. Edit to correct format.
Bodysuit ,weave , blue contacts , murdered the English language. Ratchets gonna ratchet Omg edit to add " if you don't drive don't inbox me " BUT YOU DONT EVEN HAVE A CAR
Her relationship was not working out yet she had 2 kids anyway. Why do they always make stupid decisions . Babies are not a fix for a broken relationship !
How do men use you for a hook up ? If you're sleeping with them 2 hrs after meeting on an app and then crying because they didn't stick around , that's kind of your fault for not requiring more from them. Respect yourself more.
Does she ever fully show her face without a filter ? If you look you can see she always has her hand or something covering it or a filter . But she has no problems putting her cleavage out there .
One of the articles she posted (or wrote?) "How to cope when you love someone all wrong for you " I skimmed it. Useless platitudes about "letting it all go on the breeze" and " you're love and light".
I never understand the women who say "I'm not looking for a dad for my kids " but the goal is a LTR , aren't you expecting him to take on the dad role at some point?
"Surprisingly ... I have 5 kids and recently divorced. Tried out a dating app explaining my situation... And had 200 messages within 24 hrs.... So 200 milwaukee men would date me lol" Date or are you their booty-call when the kids are at their dad's for the weekend ?
I loath any terms like "Queen " , "boss bitch" , " making boss moves " , or " several streams of income " . It's so vague and I believe a dead giveaway for someone who has delusions of grandeur.
I can just see it now : her husband dealing with random men coming up to her ( and the children) recognizing her work and gushing over her. what about when the kids grow up and class-mates realise who she is? I'm sure that'll make for a fun school experience and they won't be teased about it.
I have also noticed that IF the side-piece does get him to leave his wife for her then it's no harm -no foul on her part. It must be destiny and therefore wasn't morally repugnant. After all she's not married so she wasn't the one cheating.
