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You seem to already be dateable for the most part. But how about your personality? How do you behave when you interact with the girls? Are you fun and laidback? Can you make the girl smile and laugh? Are you relaxed and confident? Aim to just interact and have fun with the girls, skip the sex, kissing and dating to begin with. Just interacting does wonders as you get experience and confidence over time and then you can try to aim further step by step. My journey went something like this. No girl…
/r/seduction05/08/20 01:09 AM
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https://app.leadlock.pro/temp/57ea394664694.pdf Thanks, will check it out!
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:51 AM
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I have watched A LOT of pua videos on youtube and gone through programs. Ive seen lots of RSD (especially Max and Julien both on youtube and their paid programs), Todd, Alpha m, corey, based zeus and so on. Luckily ive gotten the paid programs for free because i felt the same about all of them after i finished watching: overpriced af and EVERYTHING you find in the paid programs, you can find it for free on youtube. Trust me bro and save your money.
/r/seduction05/05/20 05:37 PM
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Thanks bro! It is possible, and im so happy my case is one of the exceptions where the guy does end up beating the friendzone. And yea i never understood the text-only-for-logistics-part. Everyone texts nowadays. Imo you can text a lot, just dont force it if the conversation stalls. Stop for a while and reinitiate with something else. Also let her initiate because when she does it means she wants you to text her. Also all texting is a form of investment, and all investment is good.
/r/seduction01/05/20 12:29 PM
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Easily worth it for many reasons. i gained lots of experience for almost a whole year now just by hanging out and talking with her on the phone, and now i gain even more since we started being intimate. Like ive had more sex in 2 weeks than ive had in my entire life. She tells me and points out exactly how she likes it and what she wants me to do, so i learn a lot from that too. my girl best friend as you said and now she is the driving force wanting things to progress further she is very sexy a…
/r/seduction01/05/20 12:20 PM
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Hmm, i think it depends on the situation and how you look at it. I've been "living" with this girl for almost an enitre year. If we werent hanging out, we'd be chatting on the phone literally every day. I enjoyed it because she is an awesome person. I was ok with all the texting and with being just friends back then, but as time went by i started developing feelings. I confessed them to her and told her how it would have to be if she wanted to have me around in her life. I agree oneitis in itsel…
/r/seduction30/04/20 05:07 PM
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Thanks! It was tough and it did feel a little awkward to suddenly start hitting on the girl ive been just friends with for so long, but im glad i forced myself through it and that i didnt back off in fear of losing her completely. If i did, this surely wouldnt ever have happened and i’d just be there feeling like crap when other guys eventually come around. Thanks again for reading, hope some of it helps :)
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:48 PM
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Trust me buddy i dont know exactly how i managed to do it, but i will post a thread with what i experienced, what i felt and learned. Hopefully it will be of help to other guys in similar situations.
/r/seduction27/04/20 05:42 PM
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I can be patient, hopefully my girl doesnt get tired if problems keep occurring. I'll have my penis go without any attention at all of another week and then try sex again and hopefully it'll be better. If not, i'll go for another week (will be a full month by then). We'll see what happens...
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:47 PM
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Well in that case i hope my girl is as patient as you. Thanks for reading and replying, feels good to know im not the only one experiencing these problems.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:46 PM
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I'll have my thingy go without any attention for another week and then try having sex again. If not, i'll have another week and then i'll have gone a whole month without porn and jerking. If i still have any kinds of problems, guess i'll have to see a doctor. I'll post an update ofc haha :)
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:44 PM
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Thats the frustrating thing about this, i didnt think about anything performance wise and yet it happened. We were doing the missionary and as we were switching to have her on top of me, it suddenly decided to go soft. yeah porn seems to be the source, hopefully it will get better soon.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:40 PM
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I feel totally relaxed, that is why its so frustrating. I didnt for a second think about omg how will i perform, will i get it up etc. We also tried with me jerking it when it went soft, unfortunately it didnt work, it only got softer and eventually died out completely. I think its the porn. Thanks for reading and replying.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:38 PM
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Sounds cool, could you post the link here or pm me? Thanks, appreciate it!
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:35 PM
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Thanks for a great reply! How long did it take for you to stop getting soft all of a sudden? Im just like you i have no problem getting it up during foreplay and while entering her, but it goes soft a few mintues in... I mean its insane, i get hard by just having her casually sitting on me, having a few kisses or if she rubs it with my pants on for a few seconds. Logically i should explode when im inside her haha but nah, it goes soft... Also kegel exercises, could you post a link that you think…
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:34 PM
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Oooh yes, she is incredibly sexy and i've been fighting to get with her for almost a year. I dont know why or how, but i managed to beat the friendzone and now i get to have her for myself :D I'd easily put her on a 9 or 10/10.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:29 PM
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Yeah, i know wat you mean. I did, as i said further up intend to use a condom but when she wanted to go without i was like lets gooo :D because it was my 1st time, and i had the chance to "feel it all the way" so i went with the flow. I know her for almost a year, we've been hanging out A LOT and if we werent hanging out we've texted literally every day since we met, so i trust her.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:28 PM
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Thanks for wording it that way. I was already ashamed of myself being a virgin for so long, and add to that maybe having to meet a doctor when i finally do get to have sex... A little encouragement means a lot. I'll wait to see if porn is the problem. I've almost been 2 weeks off now, aiming for a month. Hopefully things change till then, if not, then i will have to seek help.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:24 PM
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It went soft once during missionary and once when she was riding on top doing the work.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:21 PM
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I've seen guys on youtube uploading videos about porn and how it screws your brain up, but honestly i havent seen any of them, nor the website you mentioned. I didnt have any girls around so i didnt care because that was my way of "unloading". I've calmed down a bit since i realized this is most probably the source of my problem because it most def was not nervousness or anxiety and such, so i know time will probably do its thing sooner or later.
/r/seduction27/04/20 04:20 PM
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Feels good to not be the only one with problems... Hmm might be worth a shot with a little vodka. Will try if 3rd time doesnt go well.
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:51 AM
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Tbh i usually watched porn and jerked 2-3 times a day so yea my brain is wired to that kind of stimulation. I had no interest from any girls so that was my way to ”unload” everything... I’ll stay off the porn and hopwfully it’ll get better in a week or 2.
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:47 AM
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I dont know, but i feel good and healthy so... i dont know what to say or think. We’ll have another try once her period is over and hopefully it will be better. If not, then yeah i might have to call a doctor unfortunately.
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:33 AM
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I feel relaxed and comfortable. If im not, it is unconsciously. I swear i am totally relaxed and im not thinking about me not being experienced or such. Yeah i felt she was understanding. First she was disappointed af but a few minutes after she was fine and tried to comfort me because she saw i was upset, disappointed, mad, sad all at once. Like oh babe its not unusual, it happens to everyone, it was good last time bla bla... i actually love you even more now that you are brave enough to expres…
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:31 AM
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Nope. Or atleast not when watching porn, but i quit both jerking and porn at the same time so i dont know if there would have been any difference if i jerked without porn. Problem might be that my brain is used to being stimulated by watching 2 ppl having sex on the computer. As i said i recently lost my v card, so i’ve been watching porn and jerked off like 2-3 times a day for a very, very long time.
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:23 AM
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Nope, i was about to the 1st time we had sex but she wanted me to go without. I was like omg 1st time sex, all natural without condom? Woooo lets gooo :D So we are doing it without.
/r/seduction26/04/20 10:48 AM
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Im 1+ week in. She’s about to have her period now so it’ll be quite a while since my last ”jerking session” next time we have sex. I hope it will help. I thought even this time it would cause me to explode as soon as i put it in her because of no porn and jerking but no.... guess we’ll see what happens next time.
/r/seduction26/04/20 10:46 AM
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Im not on any meds so yeah, if same thing happens next time i might have to see a doctor. The girl was going on about working out less and eat more junk since corona started as the possible problem, what do you think?
/r/seduction26/04/20 10:44 AM
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Nope, i didnt have this problem when i jerked off. And nope, i dont have this problem during foreplay. I get hard when we start making out just before the sex, or when she gave me a bj. Also when i go down on her, i get hard without any problems whatsoever.
/r/seduction26/04/20 10:42 AM
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Got them for free, and im so glad i didnt pay for any of them. There are good tips and info in both courses, but you can get everything for free on youtube. Yes some of the tricks you learn, how to think and act etc is good to know (again all of this is available on youtube) but i realizied the most important thing though, is your inner game. So if anyone wants to buy a course, i’d recommend they rather find and buy a good inner game course than some pickup game stuff.
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:29 PM
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Been there done that. Dont wait for ”perfect opportunities” because they will 9 times out of 10 never come. You either create them or you take action no matter the circumstances. Trust me i’ve been through this so many times i’ve lost count. Like i want to do something, but now is not the time... hmm i’ll just wait till this happens... what if she reacts like this? It will be better if i do this first... no thats too early... and so on. Just stupid pointless overthinking that leads to nothing bu…
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:53 PM
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Absolutely. Again - common sense. If she ghosts you dont double text right away. Wait a day (i'd wait 2-3) and send a short low investment text and make sure to not seem upset or needy. If she responds - great, shoot a few texts and try set something up. If she ghosts or responds with something lame you just leave her. If she has any interest, she will eventually initiate a conversation.
/r/seduction02/02/20 12:29 PM
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There are no rules. Just use common sense. Dont bombard her, dont send wall of texts and dont double text if she doesnt respond.
/r/seduction01/02/20 03:38 AM
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Yep, just a little like what i summarized in the tl/dr. You can be and mean everything in the universe for her, and its still not enough to go all the way. So its been almost 2 days now, i'm starting to get over it a bit already but she has reinitiated the contact 3 times now because she cant take all the pain. She cries a lot and cant calm herself down, i'm running through her mind all the time, she cant sleep because she cries so much in the bed, this is the worst thing thats happened to her f…
/r/seduction29/01/20 01:08 PM
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1 on 1 would be perfect for me as well and to just show her that you're a cool, normal, nice, fun and friendly dude but that is unfortunately not how things work and the sooner we realize and act on it, the better it will be for us.
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:27 AM
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Thanks for taking your time man. Thinking that i ended up beating the friendzone made this hurt so much more. I was certain because she initiated the kiss. I was like fuck yeah things are finally starting to happen and she seems to have realized she wants it as well, why else would she do it? But no... that was just her trying to convince and force herself to feel and want something. I appreciate her so much for trying, but too bad it didnt work out the way we wanted... Thanks for the tips man. …
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:06 AM
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Yea, its my own fault and i take full responsibility. As i said further up girls were always there, i had 100+ matches on tinder, me and my friends found cool girls on parties and so on but i simply had no interest because i was stuck on this one. I just couldnt help it. Yeah that is what hurts the most apart from losing her completely. She genuinely did try her best and did everything she could. Let me have my hands all over her, kissed me to try to convince herself, tried to force it through b…
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:50 AM
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Damn man, i can relate. Im the same 1 on 1 type. Like i said in another post this girl made me have absolutely 0 interest in everyone else. There were girls both on parties, tinder etc it didnt matter who and how good looking she was, i just didnt care. At all. I also had a few convos going on tinder when she was too busy with school but again... i simply had no interest. But bro... this is how it actually works and something i obviously need to learn the hard way. All PUAs, books and videos say…
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:29 AM
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Well that is actually true. It wouldnt matter at all if this was just a girl and she didnt happen to like me back (this has happened loads of times) but man this was just on a whole different level. Apart from my 2 closest friends that i know since god knows when, she is the person ive become closest to and that i've spent most time talking and hanging out with since 8 months back (she said the same to me)... we were literally a big part of each others everyday life and now i dont know if i will…
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:00 AM
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Thanks for taking your time man. It was painful to write. I can get girls attention, but i obviously need to take action much faster, and yeah i also need to get over the nice guy mentality that i have, and i need to do it asap. There is lots more to be done, but imo i've become a little better and atleast i know this: - Dont be the nice guy (obviously) - Make your intentions clear as early as possible. Dont beat around the bush like i did. This girl asked me what im looking for and i was like "…
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:40 AM
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Yeah, i know that i am and that it is completely my fault, i take full responsibility. Even told her im angry af on myself and that i wish i did things differently and that we met at another point when she wasnt occupied with school and i was more able to act and actually make things happen. Thanks for the link, will read it.
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:23 AM
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Yep, completely agree and i have only myself to blame. I threw away 100+ potential meets ups on tinder ffs. I know there are girls out there, but i just couldnt help it getting stuck focusing on this one. Nope, i will never be able to have her as a friend... i'd rather not have her in my life at all which is sad and stupid because she is such an amazing person. I simply dont think i would be able to stand seeing her with someone else because she fits me so well. Besides i dont want to risk endin…
/r/seduction28/01/20 01:21 AM
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Thanks for readin and replying man. Trust me i went along with being just as it is (friends) for as long as possible. In the end i just couldnt do it any more which is why i told her i either need to see progress towards intimacy or i would have to leave. My feelings kept growing so in the end i would feel even more like shit if i was still being there and then for example another guy came in the picture to try to "steal her away". Yes she means the world to me and cutting the contact is the las…
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:46 AM
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Yeah im fully aware of that. I was just thinking that i just need to do what i've been doing now + moving towards sex/intimacy faster, which probably means that i need to do kino right away and sexualize my interactions with girls as early as possible. If i can do that i should start seeing results. Yep, guess i'll have to resort to tinder again and actually approach when on parties etc. I'll try to take every chance i have from now on.
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:37 AM
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Knew more people... as in knew more girls? Well i agree. And its even more messed up because i've had 100+ matches on tinder but i ended up liking this girl so much that i had 0 interest in other girls both on tinder and when outside with friends, parties etc even if i tried i felt nothing, i just didnt care. Its dumb because im in need of experience but i just couldnt help it... so guess i have only myself to blame. Few positive things i bring with myself from this is - I am almost there. My pe…
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:21 AM
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