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I think we agree for both men and women the "exercise options" mindset is bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 07:29 AM
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The men who have the possibility to "exercise options" are the minority. Most men I talk to (age 20-30), have a very hard time dating modern women, and don't even think about getting to the point of making out or having a serious relationship. Most men I talk to in that age group have just given up on women and focus on their own lives instead. To the average man, receiving "serious" interest from a woman happens maybe once a year. From there on, the chances dilute rapidly: going on a date (with…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 07:12 PM
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It already exists for me: try to build contact with a modern young woman and 9 out of 10 times any affection I felt towards her will disappear in less than 10 minutes. After that, I can focus on other things again.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 08:07 PM
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Yep. I have a female friend from high school who hates most women, yet has some of those of the 'hate' category as close friends and indulges in the degenerate behaviour she disapproves of in others. Same goes for her female friends. "But this is different, it happened to me! And I'm just trying things in life. She however ..." She's fine to spend time with, she's also kind, but whenever dealing with modern women, make sure to understand their nature first and react accordingly.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 06:41 AM
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Yep, just waving their hands in idiotic ways and pointing at sentences such as "Remember when society said blah women blah and blah".
/r/MGTOW22/07/21 04:29 PM
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Because nowadays their behaviour goes against their nature. Must be hard fighting yourself every day.
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 08:53 PM
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A woman I was friends with, used to say "I only want a special man! Yes, I went through 50+ dates, but they weren't my type! Yeah, they bought me dinner and stuff haha but I deserve better. No, you're not my type, haha." This was in her late teens to early twenties. Now, she's 28, and after two years of dating dozens of guys from apps (I'm not kidding you), she has settled for a guy from overseas. (Notice I wrote 'settled for', not 'settled with'). She's suddenly all "I notice I'm getting older …
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 07:22 AM
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Reminds me of a date I had. No troubles whatsoever. Out of the blue, she blocked me everywhere. Ok, I sent her a text "You could've just told me it wasn't working out for you, all the best." Within minutes, she replied: "Oh, I'm so sorry, should we catch up this weekend?" Nah, thanks. Six months later, she adds me on Facebook. She has a profile picture with, what looks like, her boyfriend. She sends me a message: "Hey! Do you still want to do the hike we discussed last year?" I replied: "Nah, ma…
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 05:57 PM
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As soon as you've seen the light, you cannot deny what's happening. Girl posts her so-manieth thirteen-a-dozen selfie, receives 100+ likes and comments from other girls "beautiful baby <3" and guys "who wouldn't want to date you". Same day, an ex-classmate who was obese posted his fitness progress since March last year. He decided to improve himself over the "covid crisis". He went from obese to ripped. He received about 20 likes and 5 comments. Of which 1 female ex-classmate and 4 relatives. He…
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 05:51 PM
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Girl: *dances half naked* "Still not asking for it!" Girl in next video: "When you're trying to impress your crush, but he doesn't understand/react" Correct, you told him you weren't asking for anything with your impressing behaviour.
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 07:11 AM
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At the Tour de France, this girl stood along the road with this sign in her hand, which reads "Hello grandma and grandpa!" hoping to get into the view of the camera. She suddenly leaned over the road and some of the front cyclists crashed into her, making half of the peloton of cyclists crash into eachother.. Look up on youtube: Fans sign causes MAJOR CRASH at Tour De France (Original Video)
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 07:08 AM
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How do we know they are women? They might be men on hormones as well, you never know in today's world.
/r/MGTOW28/06/21 09:01 PM
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Because they didn't want to be saved, duh.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 11:37 AM
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I've yet to find a mid-30s woman who doesn't complain her life is so hard. "I have to work a job, it's hard, take care of children, do groceries, cook, no time, blah blah". You were the one who has decided yourself that you wanted to add "male roles" to your biological "female roles", and you're complaining life's hard and you've got no time left? No shit, you're living double duty but blaming your "female roles" for making life hard. But, it's female empowerment, so the problem and solution mus…
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 02:57 PM
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Nowadays I use Tinder to play "red flag bingo" with friends when we're bored. We make a list of red flags, open Tinder, and whoever is the first one to tick them all wins.
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 02:50 PM
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She's already trying to run away in that picture.
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 10:54 AM
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I know a guy who's attracted to "alternative girls" and has had his fair share of issues with them. Including a girl filing him to the police over "rape", because she was too afraid to tell the guys(!) she cheated on him with that she already had a boyfriend. So her boyfriend suddenly was the stalker and rapist. Over half of them just scream issues already by seeing them, not to mention multiple dudes simping over her. Some just never learn.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I've had numerous conversations with a friend of mine, who says he's a "romantic". Meaning: he fantasizes for months about some girl he's in love with, never takes action besides "we enjoy having conversations together" in fear of "what if she rejects me". Well, then you've found your answer and you know you can go on with your life. "But it will hurt me, it'll break me" then you've already made yourself way too dependent on your fantasy... Ask her on a date, if she rejects or flakes, so b…
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 07:11 PM
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I forgot what the previous days were about, often the story is only 3 pictures long. But the context is, that it's a series about three middle-aged women and their endless endeavours to find the right male partner. Stella has frequent one-night stands, much to the frustration of the other two women. She is also offended when men guess her age correctly, instead of thinking she's younger than she really is.
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 07:01 PM
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Seeing this comic in the paper made me grin, I wonder how many readers understood its message.
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 08:44 AM
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Yep, I tell people the same: I don't need to see all of that rainbow gay shit propaganda everywhere. "But, hetero sex is everywhere in advertisements as well, blah blah!" Yes, I want those gone too.
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 09:47 AM
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What on earth is she even trying to write? It looks like a bunch of words thrown together without cohesion. Is this woke language?
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 04:48 PM
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Decent result. So it's back to primal instincts again. Become as close to the top 5% as you can, or go extinct. Can you explain what "top 5%" means to them, except for height, muscle and professional modeling photos?
/r/MGTOW30/04/21 04:35 PM
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There was a dude like this in The Netherlands a couple of years ago, women were divided in "awh so cute" and "that's kinda weird" camps. He later turned out to be a creep posing as a good guy, who was stalking young women and hoped his "virtue signaling" on the internet would help him hook up with them lol.
/r/MGTOW24/04/21 10:12 AM
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Yeah, once dated a girl who claimed she was fed drunk and raped a couple of times. Never wanted to meet at one of our homes, because "I'm afraid of that". Whatever, we'll see in a couple of months then. Two of her family members who died during the time we were dating, she had to sell their homes and belongings because other relatives didn't care. At the same time, she was in her exam year. Drama all over. I supported her (although distantly, didn't want to get caught up in emotional shit). One …
/r/MGTOW22/04/21 08:08 AM
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Yeah, you can see their brains crashing when you try to challenge them.
/r/MGTOW22/04/21 07:53 AM
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It's good to have projects to work on in your spare time, I cannot imagine to live without. If financials allow it, driving and maintaining at least one oldtimer is one of my childhood dreams.
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 09:39 AM
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Yep, their behaviour has made me uninterested towards them. After 15 years of pursuing what should come natural, my enthusiasm has disappeared. I used to have a female friend who kept saying "You just gotta keep trying! Try harder! Some girl will like you eventually!" And I asked her: "You quit your study after you kept failing re-exams, didn't you?" Her answer: "Yes, but..." I: "Why did that make you quit?" Her answer: "Because I couldn't win, and it made me feel depressed. I was better off spe…
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 08:34 PM
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I have a couple of those coworkers. When I'm tired of them, or need a small break, I usually play along or checkmate them. Female coworker, who earlier said she didn't know why she married her husband: "Look at that guy outside, walking the dogs!" (Guy with tank top) Me: What do you think? You fancy him, don't you? Female coworker: *blushing* "What? Do you think I'm into THAT kind of guy?" Me: You can't hide primitive instincts, and besides that... you're blushing. Other male coworker: Yeah, I n…
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 05:37 PM
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Indeed, lol. I'm 27, yet the best male-to-female conversations I have are with coworkers over 35 years old. They seem more genuine than women my own age or younger (they're like pogo sticks, all over the place and you never get to know them). Ironically, I've heard most of those coworkers tell stories such as "I wish I had stayed with my boyfriend back in my teens, instead of leaving him to explore better options" and "I'm not even attracted to the man I'm married to and have children with".
/r/MGTOW16/03/21 06:26 PM
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Yep, makes it easier to weed out weirdos since they're openly displaying it.
/r/MGTOW13/03/21 03:29 PM
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I only pay if I enjoyed my time with her and think the time and fun was worth that amount of €, or if we'd spent time at her place before (and ate her food etc.) and the bill is reasonable compared to what we did at her place (because I hate to freeload as much as I hate being freeloaded). Else, I split the bill. I must say, I've had women offering to split the bill as well, or who stepped up to pay the whole bill themselves.
/r/MGTOW27/02/21 04:41 PM
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She probably didn't have her phone ready for the obligatory immediate social media posts about it.
/r/MGTOW13/02/21 06:45 PM
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This is beautiful. Is that a short-throw projector in front of the screen? What kind? The distance seems under a metre, hard to believe when I'm only used to projectors which need to be metres away from the screen.
/r/MGTOW13/02/21 10:46 AM
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I've even noticed people who started using it like a new Facebook, posting non-work related BS.
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 09:00 PM
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It's already pretty woke. Around the time that Floyd guy was killed, you had to accept a window stating you agree with BLM - else you couldn't enter your account anymore. Also lots of feminist / gay / gender BS in Bumble their terms of service.
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 08:58 PM
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This is f*cking cringe, and Bumble is no better than Tinder. Only difference is the women have to start the conversation, 4/5 times that means "hey".
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 07:16 PM
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I've seen multiple women on Tinder of which I knew they were in relationships or at least seriously dating someone. Makes you wonder what kind of sky high expectations those guys must be facing to "keep" her attention.
/r/MGTOW09/02/21 06:51 PM
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Yeah. Tinder hasn't ever been much, but the quality declined rapidly over the last few years. Half of the wahmen now are only advertising their instagram or only put in their profile "make me laugh or swipe left".
/r/MGTOW09/02/21 06:49 PM
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From The Netherlands here. Yes, it's legal, but only in legal brothels (singular 'bordeel', plural 'bordelen', might help you on Google). The "Red Light District" in Amsterdam, also known as "De Wallen", probably rings a bell. Without a permit, prostitution is illegal. Never visited one, seen window prostitution often enough when taking a shortcut through Amsterdam or Alkmaar. I found a short list of window prostitution locations in The Netherlands : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Window_prostitu…
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 07:41 PM
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At least the one you're paying for doesn't have a 1000+ body count.
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 06:44 PM
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You'll notice them losing interest the moment when you set standards. "You're not one of those girls who've slept with half of Tinder already, have you?" - Ew, no, why? "Because my previous dates couldn't even count the men before me anymore, and I'm not into that, so I left after our first meet up." *crickets* Every time, except for a rare few.
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 10:36 AM
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So you... hit it off with a guy about which you knew he is crazy, and you're surprised that weird stuff happened? I'm not sorry for you.
/r/MGTOW02/02/21 04:34 PM
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I went to a weekend camp with folks from my study association. One night, we went out to a bar. When we got back at the camp, we missed a couple of women. Some didn't pick up their phone, some did and those all replied with "I'm with some guy, I don't know where we're going, but... you'll see me back at the camp at some time".Camp leaders were p*ssed off, as they had responsibility over everyone.Middle of the night, one by one, the women got back at the camp, showing no accountability towards th…
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 05:01 PM
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"Only after positive vibes" translation: "Only date me if you can entertain me."
/r/MGTOW29/01/21 04:04 PM
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It would need 20 years of training first to only understand the womanual.
/r/MGTOW26/01/21 05:13 PM
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Next version: "Womandatory arguments" will be introduced.
/r/MGTOW25/01/21 10:48 PM
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Apparently. Harsh realisations are best. Not going to be anyone's therapist.
/r/MGTOW24/01/21 12:35 PM
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Instagram and Tiktok never taught her that.
/r/MGTOW23/01/21 08:59 PM
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Touch my stuff, and you're out. Only touch my stuff with permission. Am I authoritarian? I have every right to be.
/r/MGTOW23/01/21 08:55 PM
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Yep, that has become one of my top criteria. Slightest hint of mental issues = I'm out.
/r/MGTOW23/01/21 01:36 PM
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This. Last year I dated a girl who had a history of being fed drunk and raped. Summarised: men are scary. I said: "Alright, there's no need to rush, we'll see how it goes" and it went pretty well for three months even though I had to hear her shit every day again and carefully plan every move through a minefield to prevent her trauma getting triggered (for example, never mention meeting at her/my place). One day sh*t happened in my life which did remind me of sh*t in the past, I told her, she sa…
/r/MGTOW23/01/21 08:16 AM
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It seems like some kind of status or 'cult-like' behaviour. One out of 5 girls their Tinder profiles in my area only have 'Inked' or 'Inked and pierced' in their description. Nothing else.
/r/MGTOW22/01/21 09:40 PM
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Woah, she's realising she has to be a responsible human being for a change?
/r/MGTOW22/01/21 07:14 PM
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I think it's mostly a new way to get attention for young people. 15 years ago everyone was an emo, 10 years ago everyone had a depression, now everyone is either gay/lesbian/helicopter (and it's promoted by the media and who knows who control those puppets in turn).
/r/MGTOW22/01/21 10:17 AM
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Great job man! I love how there are no walls separating the bedroom from the garage. But where do you park the rolling apartment/garage? Over here, in The Netherlands, only special locations are appointed where it's allowed to park if you have a permit. Else you'll have to move it to another parking place every couple of days, and living on a parking lot isn't allowed.
/r/MGTOW22/01/21 10:15 AM
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A women at my job threatens to report men when they have fun at work, or do something not 100% safe. You're not the boss here, neither are you the manager, you're just a worker like everyone else. Why be such a b*tch?
/r/MGTOW22/01/21 09:14 AM
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I drop hints of knowledge from time to time, and see how they pick it up. Sometimes they're beyond saving ("crime stats are racist, whiteys are our problem!" the irony), sometimes their brains still show a little plasticity (clarifying "400k covid deaths in the USA, that's the worst of all countries!" isn't a measure to compare countries, but deaths per capita is, and USA currently ranks 10th sorted worst-best). Brace yourself for mental gymnastics and emotional off-topic replies from their side…
/r/MGTOW22/01/21 08:55 AM
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And when they can't find a job which suits their degree, they'd rather have no job "I only did that study because I thought it was interesting" (but still hold on to the same standards for men).
/r/MGTOW20/01/21 09:57 PM
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How on earth did she get pregnant? Seeing such a doll makes my little friend shrink and crawl inwards instead of the opposite...
/r/MGTOW20/01/21 09:52 PM
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"Why don't men make a move anymore?" because we like to get f*cked, not f*cked over.
/r/MGTOW20/01/21 07:23 PM
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Starting a family was a dream for me from a young age. I had expected to have found a long-term girlfriend in my early twenties and stable situation to raise children in. Now I'm 27 years old. Four out of five dates sought attention, backstabbed me, or were post-wall and wanted to have kids ASAP (get out you degenerates). Still virgin (and quit caring about it). My dream was to have a family in my early thirties, so my kids would've had grandparents and great-grandparents who they could still sp…
/r/MGTOW19/01/21 08:03 PM
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They're like bouncing balls - their mind changes every second. Their personality changes continuously. Her interests change every second. She's everywhere but nowhere. And if, if you think you got to know her... she's someone, somewhere else already. Until they're "ready to settle".
/r/MGTOW19/01/21 06:45 PM
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Imagine being so insecure about yourself, feminists are able to make you do such sh*t. Why can't these girls be just... human instead?
/r/MGTOW19/01/21 06:40 PM
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We are already falling apart, it's just people their coping mechanisms and 'blind leading the blind' which keeps the strings tied together. Add "we're in this together" and "it's the future" bullsh*t.
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 09:19 PM
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Imagine him having done the same, just because he felt like it. She would've destroyed his life by killing his reputation at his friends. On the contrary, he's now told not to be a wuss, cause she's empowered and shouldn't be told what to do by a male.
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 09:18 PM
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I knew a couple of med students. Some didn't mind to show up half-drunk or hungover at surgery practicals. Those people offered their body after their death to science to have med students practice on them. And those are to become our future doctors.
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 09:15 PM
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I think if the idea to cheat is in her head, she'll cheat eventually. You could delay it, but you'll be holding on to a losing trade. I don't see a way to pass that 'test'.
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 08:45 PM
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But... where has gender equality gone? I cannot have periods, so I cannot get the same benefits you do! Oh, wait, it's in favour of women, so we conveniently forgot about that equality thing.
/r/MGTOW02/01/21 09:29 AM
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This is what I also answer. 9 out of 10 women (age 18 - 28) aren't worth the time and neither are they looking for a traditional relationship. Not saying I'm the easiest person to get along with, but they aren't looking for something serious or mutual investment. I've been screwed over way too often, and no way I'm gonna spend my spare time trying to have a chance at women who aren't interested anyways. "But what about girls slightly older than you, aren't they more serious?" I've had a couple o…
/r/MGTOW29/11/20 11:56 AM
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Simple dating rules these days (unfortunately): 1. Do they make an effort to get to know you? -> proceed. If they're only trying out who's giving them the most attention -> move on (this is 95% of Tinder, concert and pub girls). Watch what happens if you limit your attention to (say) 1 text per day. Happens automatically if you've got your own stuff to do - hobbies, job, etc. Does she turn away? -> move on. Does she start sending all sorts of stuff out of herself? -> proceed. In one case I've ha…
/r/MGTOW03/09/20 05:13 PM
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And he won't wonder why the price was higher on his bank statement end of the month? Lol. That's why my bank account remains my bank account.
/r/MGTOW22/05/20 08:33 AM
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