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| 2 | Bank and credit card statementsFirst, check with your attorney to see what is required to be produced, otherwise you could be subjecting yourself to a motion to compel and/or sanctions. Having said that, I was on the other side and was able to make good use of my ex's full credit card statements to show a number of things based on her specific transactions (where she was traveling, how much she was spending at bars, etc.) that were detrimental to her. So I'd limit your disclosure as much as you legally can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Settlement MeetingProbably overkill, but I prepared a binder file for my mediation with all relevant financial information organized and ready. I had bank statements from last 12 months, budgets, credit card statements, mortgage statements, receipts from children's expenses, pay stubs, valuations on different assets (kelly blue book, etc.), her income statements, etc. It was a lot of information, but was helpful in showing objectively what I was arguing for. Granted, this was a separate-room mediation, but I had … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/21 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Asking the Divorced Men for some success storiesStarted this new account for the sole purpose of posting here (and another sub) and hopefully sharing some advice and positivity, so your post is timely. I separated ~30 months ago, and finalized the divorce ~27 months ago, which was then followed by another 7 month lawsuit. Easily the most traumatic experience I've been through, and by far THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME. I made so many mistakes, in my marriage and after, and I am still working through why I made them, but I am grat… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/21 06:21 PM |
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