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freebase1ca/r/MGTOW29/11/17 10:40 PM
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They don't necessarily have to marry. Just by cohabitating for many years common law usually kicks in that would also ensure she gets half. I had a rich cousin who was concerned with this. He was in his 70's with a long term girlfriend for 20 or 30 years. He made her maintain her own residence. She was not allowed to receive mail at his address. She was not allowed to stay at his residence once or twice a week. This arrangement makes it clear that they do not have a married or common law arrange…
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 02:49 PM
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I would respond with "Let's see how you like being bombarded with questions." Then proceed to bombard her with similar questions. She may respond for a time, but ultimately she will just say "You're just being annoying" - "exactly". You may have to do this more than once. Also, keep in mind that people who don't trust, often have a reason for that. Whether it be past hurt or guilt....
/r/askMRP27/09/18 05:06 PM
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My cousin (25m) went through something similar. They were deciding the strategy on buying their new home. Do they get aggressive on mortgage payments but then have nothing left for leisure? She (25f) voted for aggressive repayment. He warned her that it would prevent trips down south and nights out to restaurants. She still insisted because she wanted to save the interest and wanted the early freedom that would eventually come. Two years in and she's complaining that he's boring and that they ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 01:20 PM
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Great post - I couldn't agree more. The light went on for me when I completed a renovation project. Rather than appreciate it or dwell on it at all, she immediately started looking at the next upgrade. WTF!? I had been bending over backwards to make that happen! That's when I learned to give myself me time. Renos happen when I want between the skiing and BBQing. Now she is very thankful when I do some renovation work. It was amazing how standing up for me got me more respect from her. Win win.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 09:31 PM
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If only life were that predictable.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 01:25 PM
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You make a good point about the attraction from the get go. If she displays no emotion in the beginning and is very logical about everything, she may have missed the window where they were open to something more. If she only starts showing interest well into a friendship, the whole thing might just feel contrived or too calculated. No guy wants to get involved with a girl who didn't seem interested in them until she found out about their good job or nice apartment, etc. No one wants to be a safe…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 03:18 PM
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How does this trusting, intimate friendship manifest itself? Is it just a mental/emotional feeling you have? Or are you spending time in each other's homes talking about personal things? What form does your flirting take? Is it truly not noticed? - or is it just not reciprocated? (Huge difference) Maybe one of your potential suitors can answer that question. What is the nature of your offer? "Let's go to a movie?" or "Want to be my boyfriend?" or "Want to come to my place and get naked?" Without…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 03:08 PM
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Give us an idea of how an ongoing interaction with a love interest might unfold for you? Can you lay out an example/timeline of a rejection from the first time you met until you worked up the courage? What does your escalation look like? Does it come completely out of left field or do you warm things up with some kind of flirting preamble? What does the shoot down look like? Is it a cautious no or a surprised recoil?
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 02:52 PM
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I always found this phrase useful: "It doesn't matter how gorgeous she is, someone somewhere is tired of her shit." Helped remind my friends and me that everyone is just human - get over them. You never have a shot if you put someone on a pedestal anyway.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:57 PM
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I also don't like how there is no "Reddit" presence in the design. Try to find the name Reddit anywhere on there! Reddit isn't a service provider like Wordpress that just hosts your content. Reddit is a community that TRP is part of. Reddit needs to be acknowledged and represented in the design. :-(
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:00 PM
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I think she's the ideal candidate for learning a great deal from RPW. I think the community could really change her life. Unfortunately, if it doesn't align with her outlook, she rejects it like oil to water. I'm not sure what if any granules of truth she has absorbed. I feel like I'm an atheist arguing with a devout Christian who just responds "The good book is correct because it says it is." It's a shame, because she is investing a great deal of time in the forums and gives the indication that…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 08:57 PM
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I've noticed that trend. I try to give a person the benefit of the doubt. But there are a number of interactions she has had in various comment threads that haven't gone well. I've seen a few replies to her that could be interpreted in various ways depending upon the voice you give it. I think it is safe to say that in the majority of the cases the person is trying to be helpful and the appropriate voice should be used. But often, if the content of the message isn't aligned with her outlook on l…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 08:23 PM
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Post history and offline conversation. I can only begin to imagine the challenges in that part of the world these days. But the information I have seen doesn't mesh. I share the same red flags and curiosity.
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 06:11 PM
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I totally agree. The regular schedule is more important than most realize. I remember when I was younger commuting home from school on a bus. Somehow caught the eye of a beautiful woman and we had a great 30 minute conversation. We really connected. I felt like a creeper asking for or offering a number though. So instead I became a real creeper and tried to catch that same bus at that same time of day for the rest of the month :-) I never saw her again.
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 06:04 PM
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Agreed. I've also seen a number of contradictory statements. At other times she has said "I have plenty of friends". She is much happier if you agree with her perspective and support her in her time of need. Providing an alternate perspective will often result in a defense of her own position rather than an exploration of yours.
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 05:58 PM
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This is the correct thinking. But when in "monk mode" don't hide in your home. Try to find a way to do the same thing in public. For instance, there was a year when I "was done" with the scene and basically checked out - your "monk mode" if you wish. But I liked board games. I couldn't play those by myself in my bachelor pad. So I went out to a pub every week that had lots of board games. I met some people and had a great time. This pub was by no means a meat market or anything (we were playing …
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 05:55 PM
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I would agree that you definitely shouldn't do things you don't want to do. I think that would come off as highly transparent and fail miserably. Perhaps you would consider it "monk mode" to do something you actually enjoy just for the sake of doing it, but that is actually how going out in public and pursuing interests works. Imagine the scenario where you are in a woodworking class and you catch the eye of a fellow classmate. You go out. He wants to make small talk so naturally starts with som…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 05:49 PM
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I think I'm one of the guys you were referring to. Unfortunately my comments were mischaracterized, but I was unable to respond with any corrections at the time. Perhaps I'll be able to do some of that here. In this case you indeed don't count as an "older man". She is currently 29. She has said in the past that she has been interested in older men - perhaps even in their forties. I think in that age group a V-card does present some "issues" - even if that is an unfair stereotype.
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 05:44 PM
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I think what you are describing is called infatuation instead. It's my belief that love is not just a raw emotion as you seem to be describing. It's a complex, developed emotion that is by definition rationalized and exists within the whole of life's circumstances. That's not to say that it is a calculated choices. But if the emotion is just raw or just IS then it exists without context. It is then something much more base like lust or infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 02:53 PM
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Well, the best real world comparison to your hypothetical would be meeting someone in a chat group. Age, looks, smell just don't enter into it until revealed. Two people have a great opportunity to develop very strong feelings for one another based on their discussions only. Many people often try to transition that into the real world by flying to the ends of the earth to meet. But despite this strong, developed connection, the relationship often doesn't survive once the looks, smell, etc. are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 02:42 PM
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Interesting questions. I'll tailor the answers a bit more to your specific situations based on our past conversations, but if my assumption or understanding is off, please correct me. How to flirt with men without being vulgar, desperate or ridiculous? It sounds like you already have the beautiful/confident men covered. So I think you're thinking of those meeker men who might need a bit more encouragement. It really doesn't take much effort on a woman's part. In every new male/female interaction…
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 03:10 PM
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Very true! I had an unfortunately gifted friend. She looked very plain and like a 12 year old. She decided to study hotel management (a profession filled with hot people). To her surprise she graduated top of her class yet couldn't find a job. So then she decided to study to be a travel agent. Strangely with the same result. She eventually got the message. Unfortunately, rather than choose a lucrative profession where looks don't matter, she gave up and started providing daycare. Poor girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 01:48 PM
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He, like many men probably doesn't understand women. But at the end of the day he is sharing his impression based on his experiences. Based on the delay he will think the woman mustn't be interested in him and he will move on. Keep in mind that although you are a woman, you only have the experience of one woman in a relationship. He is drawing from the experiences with women from all his previous relationships. He may have taken a virginity or two. He will have had women give him sex quickly or …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 02:20 PM
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After being on this planet for a half century and being in a number of relationships I have naturally come to recognize certain red flags. Your fiancé has raised a huge one. We all need sex. It's inescapable. For her to use it as a bargaining chip is a huge, serious problem. You shouldn't feel guilty for wanting sex - or more sex with her. You need to question why she doesn't want more with you. Are you incompatible? Is she being influenced by the alpha males in the office? It comes down to this…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 03:38 PM
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