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| 1 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.For you. Skill issue for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Do women like both masculine and feminine traits in a man ?Define feminine and masculine first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 01:03 PM |
| 10 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Yea, most women want kids because humans are organisms and organisms on Earth have instincts to reproduce. And to have kids you have to find a partner to reproduce with, and most women want a monogamous relationship with their partner to help with pregnancy and taking care of their offspring. So of course being childfree and single is the literal exception in the human population. 'Normalizing' childfreedom and singledom, however, is about portraying those choices as normal alternatives to havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you live friendless forever or without the chance to romantic relationships forever?Def different strokes. Lol I just find the idea of relying on 1 person (in my case; childfree) for social interaction and fufillment to be a huge risk. Something could happen to them or the love could fade and then comes isolation. Not ideal to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Would you live friendless forever or without the chance to romantic relationships forever?Id give up romance and sex easily if i could always keep my friends. Having a circle of friends and being able to make some along ur life is so much more vital to your health and stability than a life partner. Pros to friendships are just so much more than partnerships: more people to socialize with instead of just one, differing opinions and personalities to embrace and challenge you instead of the same ones from the same person, different people to rotate between for certain interactions or br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | why don't women love-bomb men? how do women make effort towards liking a man?Siri play Cater 2 U by Destiny's Child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:00 AM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.This whole post is a strawman to the complains women and many feminists have about mens sexual behaviors, starting w the strawman about women and feminists veing mad that men have a sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:18 AM |
| 3 | No, women don't wanna be mothers not because environment is bad.An economy in crisis by womens autonomy and childfreedom/latent motherhood should be replaced with something far better and more stable; something that doesnt require a 'baseline' of 'low skilled' (read: exploited and underpaid paid) class of workers to function, grow, or be sustained, and something that doesnt theoretically require women to feel obligated to make more workers at ideal replacement rates like some sort factories. So basically, fuck capitalism. Ppl vrag about their careers for man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?I dont understand why the mentality of 'theres more to life than sex' would be different for men. Yall arent a different species or something and live in the same society as women. Sure you have different gendered pressures but are generally pressured, like women, to revolve ur life around being in a relationship. The idea of living your life beyond those pressures and even rejecting partnership (and procreation) as ultimate life goals is pretty radical of both sexes in a society like this. So n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thingI feel like personality and charm is missing from this analysis..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?Its a mix and sometimes depends; male attention for some more revealing or form fitting clothes and mannerisms, and female validation (praise, encouragement) for fitting whats considered 'sexy' according to social standard (among heterosexuals at least) female validation for hyping up each others self esteem in outfits that they know will garner compliments or attention according to a specific fashion style (modern, experimental, vintage, etc), subcultire, or provacativeness (revealing, eccentri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?So why do you think media shames men who struggle to conform to the status quo? And do you think that shaming of non conformity in men is most represented among media messages? Personally, I dont think it would be rewarding men to want their reform. Everything happens for a reason, literally, so even men with sexual entitlement had reasons that can be broken down to a fundamental motive. And that motive can be changed esp when their conditions are improved. And as ppl part of society, but respon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?I dont believe men are ontologically evil? Wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?Its not nonsense unless you believe men are inherently antagonistic toward women (and thus always at odds w their specie's counterparts) and patriarchy can never be abolished. Marriage is an institution of property exchange. Marriage is not an inevitability in relationships between men and women and their respective families. We see that today with how ppl legitimize their unions in different ways or not at all. Sex (as a material category) is just how human bodies evolved to reproduce; dimorphi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?Who is 'society'? Are men not part of society? Why arent they helping themselves and who do they expect to help them if they dont want to help themselves and realize they are responsible for their poor image? And what is 'socially well adjusted' exactly? To me thats just ppl conforming w the status quo, which glorifies all things that stifle men's growth as ppl and rewards and/or fosters anti-social behavior and suicide. Liberalism/individualism is the default social view in a capitalist society… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 03:24 AM |
| -3 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?Lost me at the second paragraph. Women care far more that men are violent societal liabilities and energy vampires than being rich and fit. Dont rlly understand the question either, as it seems loaded and the answer rlly simple. Men should address their serious issues w violence, entitlement, lack of discipline and ambitions, and other anti-social issues that afflict them as a class and be revolutionize their worldviews and behaviors toward pro-social, anti-patriarchal, non-violent, and self-awa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 02:47 AM |
| – | "He just needs to be taller than me" yet women, if given the option, set the height filter at 6ftIve worked w a guy who was 6ft or taller. Tbh i couldnt believe he was only that tall. 6ft is wayyy too fucking tall a standard for me for a guy 😆. He was like a palm tree, towering over everyone. I prefer a guy not to be too much taller than me actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 09:15 AM |
| 1 | What is it you actually like about men?Care to read past the first paragraph? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 12:20 AM |
| 2 | What is it you actually like about men?Men are attractive to me. I like their physique for the most part (some parts i dont like). Comes with being bisexual. Very easy to be intruiged or aroused by a nice male form; fit legs and broad shoulders, especially. Deep voices are a favorite of mine and men are muscular in a different format than women due to sheer sexual differences that I find particularly attractive (though I find muscular women hot too. As a sex we just dont bulk up the same way). When they behave, men can be rlly intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 02:36 AM |
| 21 | It’s a women job to cook for her manSo you desire a domestic servant you can fuck, not a partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 12:02 AM |
| 2 | I don’t think it’s a man job to protect his girlDef agree abt it not being someones 'job' to do anything bc of their sex. Sure women are more vulnerable than men in some ways naturally, but like you said, we can arm ourselves with defense skills and weapons to keep ourselves safe as individuals. However, in the context of a relationship, someone who loves their partner should want to protect them in the ways they can bc, in a relationship, the love exchanged between partners brings the expectation of protection from both parties. If ppl love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 10:14 PM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.Posts like this are just the result of some men who believe they are never the problem and believing deep down that they are entitled to whatever they really want bc theyre a man. Sigh. Implying that the gov not protecting men's liberty to 'get' sex from women forcefully as it protects women from that violence is exactly how u get everyone to shut down ur 'concerns' abt male lonliness bc it makes u sound like a rapist. Lmao, even. Instead of whining abt how ur whole self-worth is tied into how m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety.Ok but its not likely that [heterosexual] men are concered that the women theyre dating will rape, assault, or kill them. It doesnt reflect statistical likelyhood. The concern of women who date men have with men being physically and sexually threatening lies with the risk of literally living with and becoming vulnerable to a man in their house and body. Its basically PTSD to live with and be sexually vulnerable to an abuser/rapist intimately, and has a historical precedent of being likely for fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Why are you in this sub ? And what make you stay there ?I first saw this sub suggested in a comment from a post about the wildest/extreme subs and visited out of curiosity of the name (notable since I refused to look at other subs mentioned in the comments lol). Its not really 'extreme' here other than the handful of misogynists that constantly post rage bait comments and posts (and that keep appearing on my feed cuz they get attention quickly lol). At least not anything Ive never seen said before. I stayed cuz i like discourse and bc i have strong o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesAs for why 'womanhood' (the experiences of being a woman/ female person) and 'manhood' (the experiences of being a man/male person) are defined by biological markers, such as, but not limited to, sex chromosomes, its because sex is a real, observable, material trait all humans have, and sex divides the human population into biologically evident, dimorphic reproductive classes based on these traits. Sex also significantly affects a person's experiences in life to give them different perspectives … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesUh yea lol.... patriarchy backfiring even looks like men (who historically barred women from lawmaking) creating and maintaining a notion of rape that specifically excludes male victims, and then largely perpetuating a social system that frames sexual penetration by a man as degrading for men, but not rape. Patriarchy doesnt opeate irrespective to other systems of oppression like capitalism and white supremacy, so goverment judicial systems that fail to prosecute female rapists and assaulters ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesYes and no. In marxist feminist terms, women are the proletariat of the proletariat; the means of production being seized by the oppressor class (via sexual violence as I mentioned. This is essentially patriarchy. Patriarchy's supremacist ideology, however, is ideologically sex-based. Its divided by sex class and sex relations between men and women are enforced violently via rape and sexual abuse. The idea that anyone is inferior or superior is not inherent to the mere analysis that there is a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 11:01 AM |
| – | Women's dissatisfaction with modern dating stems largely from their reliance on makeupMen who prefer women that theyre attracted to to wear makeup: women would find it easier to get me[n] if they wore makeup. I cant with this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesWho is arguing or even implying that PPD is a GC subteddit lmfao. This place is the exact opposite of any gender critical forum. Gender is glorified here. Hence posts like this, protecting the concept of masculinity (and femininity subsequently). I mentioned radfem to op because they seem to think theres one giant feminism rather than extensive branches that cares to preserve femininity at masculinity's expense when this isnt true (radical feminism expouses both concepts entirely). Radical femin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesNo? And I dont ID as any feminist label bc im not an activist. Though my morals align moreso with radical feminism and marxist feminism. What makes you say this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesOnly if you have beliefs antithetical to radical feminism and gender criticism lol. I definitely dont think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesYes. Radical feminism is more organized and principled, having a notable acedemic and activist history with notable feminist pioneers of the movement since the 70s (Gail Dines, Andrea Dworkin, etc). They are typically characterized as critical of and against pornography and kink, the sex industry, gender and gender roles (including transgenderism), surrogacy, the beauty industry, the nuclear family, and more. Theyre a little notorious for political lesbianism, a major flaw in the early movement,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesUm, no theyre not? If anything radfems are usually the ones w short hair lol. Radical feminists tend to be homosexual women and GNC women. Are you thinking of conservative women or homophobic gender critical women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Women expect men to deconstruct male gender norms, but aren't willing to break away from normative femininity themselvesOk. Review radical feminist texts. Gender as a whole (femininity, masculinity, transgenderism) is criticized extensively. Even the abolition of it entirely is advocated for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex?There is no need as in you will not die if you do not have sex. I didnt think id have to spell that out. She doesnt have the dollar? The john does. Very easy to say as a thought experiment. And it doesnt matter how easy a sex act is. If its coerced, its not consensual (safe, sane, non coerced, mutual, respectful, enthusiastic). If someone can coerce a person into sex in any way, including financially, then thats rape. And I dont think sex should ever be coerced. Because its rape. Personally I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex?Bc there is no biological need to have sex and someone offering their dollar to a woman in need of cash in exchange for a blowjob is the one with the leverage in a society where human rights are commodities. Dont know what you mean by that last part since women dont need men to feel loved and warm, safe, nor protected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex?Sex is recreational bc its something ppl do for fun in leisure time outside of sexual reproduction (having children) and work. It being a form of employment is irrelevant since many unethical forms of employment exist and should not be considered labor, like child labor and slavery. My morals about what sex should be are antithetical to the idea of sex as work/employment since, as I said, I dont believe peoples bodies should be bought or sold and that sexuality shouldnt be subject to market forc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 10:40 PM |
| 11 | Women getting “compensated” for “duty sex” is totally fair.Tbh idk how a connection with someone is necessarily transactional. But ig it becomes that way if a woman lays down with her man as a 'duty' and not out of mutual connection. Personally id rather not be used as a prop for masturbation esp not by someone who claims to love me. I dont think this dynamic is healthy or fair. Sounds miserable tbh. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Do women look down if you have less wealth ?Not really, man. I can look around at many examples of women with men who are average earners or poor. Several examples in my family and many coworkers too. Personally, I dont require that my partner make much since I dont make much either, and dont have particularly expensive goals in my life. I wouldnt want my partner to be a drain on me financially by being irresponsible with money or a liability (making money illegally, immorally, etc); to be able to pull their weight to afford living expens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?Trans is a gender not a sex. Gender are social roles in society of women and men, socially 'assigned' by sex. Trans people are people who identify as 'trangender/transsexual' and try to live in the gender role of the other sex. Trans 'exists' in the sense that gender roles 'exist' and women and men follow and impose gender roles among each other. Trans ppl identify as trans for varying reasons but the main ones tend to be dysphoria and internalization of gender roles to the extent that they beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 12:05 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedI think some do, ultimately. Because thats where their logic leads. But from what ive seen, I think a lot of them here seem to think their 'suffering' is unique and that their bad evo-psych is legit science that explains hard facts rather than confirms their already biased beliefs with extra steps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 08:43 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedWait, why are they booing you! Youre right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex?I dont take on any polical label, no. But people could fairly describe my views as left leaning, even radical left. Idc. Women are adults with autonomy and agency, yes, but humans are not commodities. Do you think people should be bought and sold in a fair society? Also in this current society (economic structure) where every human need, like food and shelter, are behind pricetags, its hard to believe that prostitution of any sort is a 'free choice' and not a resort people do out of financial co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex?Buying is def worse since someone is purchasing another person, and using money to coerse sexual favors (coersive sex is rape). On principle that is unethical since humans arent objects to be bought and sold, the human body is not a workplace, and sex is not labor. Sex buyers are sexually entitled and take advantage of people's desperation and the surrounding rape culture (which condones sexual entitlement and buying and selling people) to fufill sexual gratification they arent getting organical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by FeminismAgain, which feminists? Radical feminists and marxist feminists dont say this. And any opinionated woman calling themselves feminist isnt necessarily one, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by FeminismI think thats moreso due to people not studying it and familiarizing themselves with feminism as a civil rights movement with many sects and ideological, largely acedemic framework. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by FeminismLMFAOOOOO 😂 (fr) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by FeminismThese types of posts really need to be specific on what type of feminism theyre referring to. Because the one I support does not define sexual freedom, reproductive autonomy, nor financial independence in any of these ways in opposition to gender roles and sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What complaint *COULD* a man state about being a man, that you would FULLY agree, and sympathize with? And you your first thought IS NOT: "But it's because of other men and the patriarchy..."The only one that comes to mind (because of the last requirement lol) is being treated as more disposable and as work horses. Sure we live in a society of power tools, but men are often the ones peppe go to to expect them to literally carry heavy weight. Even if a woman is strong an capable most people expect men to take over tasks and jobs requiring lifting and carrying or otherwise moving bulky and heavy objects. I sympathize with that a lot because its not mens fault theyre bigger and usually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband?If I were to date a guy for husband material the main things I look for are: reciprocate affection and love to me (NUMBA ONE) make me laugh (NUMBA ONE AND A HALF; the rest are in no order lol) share a lot of my interests or at least be interested in mine (id share interests in his) be kind and helpful (to others, to animals, to me especially) share similar politics (this is a major one) be intelligent, emotionally in particular childfree and open to sterilization u/leosandlattes here described b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you place men in 3 different categories?No, no categories. Just 'attractive' 'not attractive'. I think most men have potential to be handsome, but not necessarily sexy. And sexiness isnt the only think that gets me going for someone. You gotta be a good person; some sort of close relationship or good rapport had to be formed between us prior. I feel like I can find guy hot but thats it. I dont want him necessarily, especially if he turns out to be a huge dick or we dont have similar interests or if hes doesnt find me attractive back l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | The same instinct and drive that makes men want to sleep with women is the same instinct and drive than makes women be extremely selectiveWhere are people in this sub getting the idea that only women are choosey with their partners and that men will fuck anything from some sex-exclusive sex drive? I really dont understand these theories. Like I dont have an 'instince' to not select most men (heterosexual side speaking). Ideally, Id want a monogomous relationship not because Im the choosey sex but because I dont like polygamy and I dont want to share attention in a relationship with multiple partners. Thats not something Ive ever s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Can someone be a feminist while thinking men have non-fabricated, deterministic struggles?Personally I dont think men can be feminists, only allies. So no it wouldnt make you anti-feminist to believe these things simultaniously Even if I thought men could be feminists, Im not sure why you think these beliefs would make you anti feminist? Unless you believe in 'natural roles' (gender roles), then yea, I'd say so hypothetically, since most feminist branches fundamentally oppose gender roles, particularly those at the expense of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?Im excited for you! Love to hear that Land Back! Its seriously my dream to have something I can take care of myself on. I hope everything goes well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?I wanna be you when I grow up (jk but its awesome that you mill, grow, and cook your own food from scratch! I want to do the same. Do you have a homestead?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I wasnt referring to casual sex in general. Only to the risk of having sex with men that dont want to have a meaningful, satisfying, and respectful sexual experience on online dating. Thats a subset of men not sex in general. And I mentioned that in context of explaining why having 'more options' that are shit in dating isnt a perk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I dont though? Im still not understanding how youre thinking im doing that? Why is virginity suddenly relevant? Im really not following.... considering my comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Well yes, you can explain to me your opinion on something lol. You didnt mention this survival context at all initially, which is why I answered the way I did; afterall, apple trees are bred and farmed to be harvested from for enjoyment; to make products that are fufilling but not always nutritious for sustience (like pies, cakes, cider, fragrances, etc). Its not a primary food source for most people and not the only food people eat for nutrition in non-survival contexts, which is what I assumed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 09:24 PM |
| – | What do you think of progressive folks using the term "gender essentialism" as something akin to racism?A lot of lefty people use gender essentialism incorrectly tbh. And it doesnt just mean men and women are different. It refers to the idea that gender (ie gender roles) are innate and those are what make women and men physically and socially, and thus morally different. Gender essentialism is basically used to justify sexism of right and left-wing spheres, namely the idea that women and men are supposed to present/behave femininely and masculinlely respectively to be 'real' women or 'real' men. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'I live in the Southern part of the USA. People absolutely still do think having multiple sex partners is degrading ('slutty, whorish, loose, spent, used up, etc'). And considering the porn that men watch and the way the most famous RPers talk about women and how to 'game' them, the idea that having sex can be degrading, particularly for the 'recieving' partner has not gone away at all. What makes you think no one believes sex can change a persons integrity? (If I understand your statement which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Depends on what the chance is? Is it positive or negative change of something? Youll have to be more specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'But the apples arent edible. Theyre rotten from decay, poison, infestation, or contamination. So what good is a barrel of apples that cant be enjoyed? Similarly to 'having options', what good comes from having more people (or just men in the case of hetersexuals) lust after you when most of those people have malicious or otherwise exploitive intentions to 'score' you? I didnt feel valued when men who only wanted to hookup or introduced themselves with sexual messages popped into my dms. They cle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Having optipns means nothing when so many of my 'options' are shit lol. Why would I be grateful that a bunch of men want to degrade me? Thats really awful to think. I literally described how that conern was not a main concern I had. Ofc I still had to consider my safety, but I wasnt driven by fear. Why did you say these things? It feels like you didnt read what I said and are coming in with really bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'While what you said is largely true, especially because it was vague, all I can say is that when I was on a dating app, I had to constantly filter through men who wanted to sexually use me, particularly the unicorn hunters, guys who clearly only wanted hookups, and guys who seemed to only want a hookup because of how litte they cared to build rapoort with me. I also had to keep in the back of my mind my safety against any potential rapists or killers, because, while they arent every man, theyre … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:41 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ?I rlly think its more a social reason than biological. Especially considering women are not considered fully persons in many 'conservative' leaning societies, women were and still continue to be physical and particularly sexual collateral of wars, men commit the most sexual violence against everyone (even on an institutional scale), and sexist ideas about male superiority over women prevail in society. I think there is some biological component as to why women can seem more picky about their par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageDo you think its likely a woman would want to offer unaconditional love to you when you admit you want to be treated as god-like even when you are behaving and performing poorly, and not contributing materially to her life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageThats a bit naive. Most women want s guy who can add to her life, not hinder it. Do you think you have anything to offer a potential mate for them to be attracted to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageOk. What do you plan to do to get a gf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:22 AM |
| 8 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageWhy though? Do you expect to find someone who will want to take care of you like a child? And treat you as a god even though you plan to offer and provide nothing in return? I can relate to not wanting to work (or be employed, rather), and having the freedom to be lazy or just have days where I dont have to do anything. But to live my whole life that way? No thanks. I was a child once, who needed to be taken care of, not anymore. And personally I want something for myself in this life. Not much,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageOther people explained the obvious well (why obsession is actually toxic) but Id like to add you def dont want someone who treats you as perfect even when you are behaving and performing poorly in your life. Thats enabling you to be unhealthy, below your potential, and potentially toxic as a person. A partner should want you to be at your best and help you thrive in your life as you do the same for them. A one sided relationship like youre describing can easily become toxic or abusive (particula… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:45 PM |
| 12 | Sex work is the way of the futureNgl Im really not sure how you could come to this conclusion if you just look around... And why is it womens responsibility to cater to mens lonliness by putting themselves up for sale? Thats very bizzare logic to me. Not many people want to have sex for money anyway. And most people want love.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Women who cycle through "criminal losers" instead of dating a "good guy"This is true but also women can be ignorant, naive, or really desperate, too. Ignorant of red flags, naive about a mans capacity to change or the magnitude of the crimes he commits and behaviors he exhibits (otherwise ignoring red flags), or desperate not to be alone and thus more willing to put up with shit-tier behavior. And tbh, a guy doesnt have to be criminally involved to be a 'bad boy', so to speak. He can be a perpetual liar, disloyal, a drunk, financially irresponsible, distant, etc but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is a man acting "masculine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by him? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act masculine arousing, so long as he looks hot?Thats interesting. Do you think that ls also informed from their sense of gender roles or expectations of a guy or do you think that being protective is something theyd find attractive in their partner as their partner? I think it would be the latter, bc for me it would be attractive for a guy to stick up for me if I was being bullied or harrassed, or help me in the face of adversaries since that would show that he cares about me foremost, and also that he is willing to help me using his advanta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their TwentiesIm ngl I didnt read all of this (I will later though) bc I just find the idea insane that people 'peak' when theyve just 'graduated' childhood physically (teenage and joven/young adult years) and are barely grasping adulthood socially and mentally. Ive always found myself attracted to older people (including women) because they look and behave maturely. Thats whats sexy to me. Not necessarily the person near my age who still looks young and supple lmfao but maturity. Having grown into ones face,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Is a man acting "masculine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by him? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act masculine arousing, so long as he looks hot?It really depends on how you define 'masculinity' since thats a social concept that looks different in every culture. You kinda defined it but only vaguely. As for me, it not a prerequisite for me to be aroused by traditionally American masculine identifiers, like 'dominance' or, hell, drinking beer and caring less about hygine, and wearing darker colors (??). Gender roles arent innate to anyone and I dont care if someone defies them or lives their lives irrespective to them. I do. I think this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 07:21 PM |
| 17 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.This. Men throughout history have defined their dicks as weapons or magic wands that can physically or spiritually 'damage' a person. I think thats pretty violent and degrading but also really sucks for men cuz now they have this standard where theyre basically liabilities to anyone they have sex with or come into contact with. Thats def got to change first more than anything. Edit: typos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.I cannot speak for het women or bi women who dont wanna date bi men let alone bi men viewed as 'less masculine' cuz thats exactly what Id want in a guy lmfao but you bring up some good points. I def think a lot of peoples sense of attraction is based on how much they conform to gender roles and het-attracted women do expect most men to be traditionally 'masculine' to a certain extent to be suitable. But thats moreso the ubiquity of gender roles and the power of their reinforcement via socializat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansI don't know all the Red Pill theories and so I find it hard to remember things off the top of my head, it's much easier when I see one and then I can analyse it one by two with my current knowledge :D. Its ok! I dont expect you to know them all. We can chat in DMs since I saw below that youd prefer to since this is getting long! :-) . But ill continue to answer here for this last comment since its here. So it's no use being yourself if your self is a shy unconfident person with few social skill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansThey don't use it, or I wouldn't say consciously. A lot of men find the red pill and the reality is that the truth is often painful and unpleasant. What exactly is 'the truth' or 'reality' if TRP isnt meant to be absolute or scrientific? How can a man use TRP unconsciously if TRP is a guide for critical thinking rather than a dogma for seeking absoluted like you described? The woman for "being the way she is". Which, again, I think is just silly because the nature of a thing or women or men is j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansIt's interesting that you are interested in this topic because most of the "material" or writing is for men on how to get women. Well part of why I like to understands different perspectives is to analyze how other people think from their perspective. There is RP for women too, but Im interested to learn how RP men think since their ideas are more prevalent, esp here, more materially prominent (gaining popularity among men, who I encounter). I wouldn't call it science really, I mean it's more li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do women hate guys who use OnlyFans when it’s pro feminist?Really depends on which feminism youre referring to. OnlyFans is completely anti-feminist and misogynistic according to more 'left' forms of feminism, namely radical feminism, marxist feminism, decolonial feminism. Conservative feminists or 'tradfems' are against OF because of more moral and religious reasons which I hesitate to call feminist in the first place lol. Other feminism sects are more open to the idea that prostituting onesself is financially 'empowering' even under current economic a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansCould you explain what you find useful about those concepts specifically? 😅 If not thats ok, I know this is just reddit and I dont wanna seem like im sealioning or something. But itd be interesting to know what you specifically find accurate about some RP concepts wrt explaining female and male behavior. Since its supposedly a science, could you explain which RP theories you think are most accurate to reality? Like for starters, what contexts could 'looksmaxxing' and 'solipsism' reveal the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansYes! I dont agree w much of any of it but I always strive to understand why people believe what they do and where theyre coming from. And no sense in joining and participating in a sub like this just to hate-read or whatever lol. I appreciate the good faith replies and your detailed response. :-) I will def check out these channels and the study author. To be more specific, what aspects of TRP ideology or tenets do you feel are most reflective of womens and mens behaviors? Like, do you think the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansForgot to ask: How do you use TRP in your life? Do you use it to improve your dating prospects or as a general guide for interacting w the other sex? What scientific sources from other RP or RO adjacent writers helped you solidify your agreement with the ideology? Like what specific papers or theories did you read from which authors (if u can remember or not, if not they dont gotta be specific, just what u can recall) that made you go 'this is so true/this explains it so well'? How much truth an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansI know theres probably more than whats typically shown (not all posts on TRP sub are about sexuality either, Ive read some about motivation and finances), but unforch theyre the ones that get the most attention and its not bc theyre not talking about TRP ideology or taking things out of context. And theres much of TRP ideology that is already in line with traditonal gender roles, like the idea that theres objective sexual value women and men have in essence that can be discerned based off physic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Most People Don’t Actually Know What the Red Pill MeansTRP seems to just be a reactionary anti feminist movement tho, with rlly bad evo psych at its basis. It seems another movement that claims to be 'truth seeking' or all emcompassing based of its own circular theories about men and womens roles in society, which seem like an offshoot traditional gender roles. Even its glossary of terms on its subreddit describes much direct opposition to feminism. What sort of truth and 'clarity' and 'reality' does this movement base itself off of that can really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Who has the nicest things to say about the other gender?A man can give you that strong ass hug and youll feel it for the rest of the day. That shit rocks :-) When men are sincere and try their best at what they do a d do it with love and compassion, its really admirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:06 AM |
| 5 | Women, would you be okay with your man getting eggs from another woman and having a baby in your womb?It wouldnt be her kid bc the egg is genetically different from her. A woman would be a surrogate in this scenario. So if she didnt get to choose sperm then why would it be ok for only a man to be choosy wrt the egg? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Women, would you be okay with your man getting eggs from another woman and having a baby in your womb?(Answering this in a hypothetical way sincd I dont want kids): Probably wouldnt be ok w that since hed have a problem with my traits showing up in our kids. Like to me that signals he doesnt think Im attractive or at least doesnt think my body would contribute to making healthy children, which assumes a lot of arrogant and pseudoscientific bs about himself (he contributes half his genes so what makes him think hes so perfect and wouldnt pass down recessive or otherwise undesired traits to our ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?Did you keep your eyes away from my avatar for this one. Lol Why did you say this anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Would You Date A Man With The Following Qualities?Depends. Im not really extroverted and can really enjoy silence in someones company. I find it peaceful and a sign that someone likes you. But Id need to be able to have deep, long lasting convos with him pretty often and for him to be expressive about his feelings and interests so we can talk about them. Which 'quiet' or introverted people can do, ofc. No. I dont like alcohol and I dont like what it doesnt to peoples minds. I dont really like being around drunk people either and wouldnt enjoy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Would You Date A Man With The Following Qualities?Probably not. I dont smoke and dont like smoking. If only once a month and if he only smoked outside, changed his clothes and showered after coming back in (if he smelled strongly of ut) and brushed his teeth and washed his hands before kissing or touching me, then sure. But thats asking for a lot and its unlikely a smoker would do all that. No. Im athiest and anti-religion, particularly abrahamic religions. Our beliefs would likely clash. I dont care to be involved in religious activities, he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?I realize that lol. And thats unfortunate for men. 🤷🏾♀️ Though theres always a chance they can improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 11:51 PM |
| 0 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?Nobody is butthurt here, sir. And porn will one day be on the fringes again. Everything can change. :-) Hit dogs sure hollar, though. Lolll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?Porn isnt necessary for a release. One can use their imagination and focus on their sensations. And married and partnered men watch and become addicted to porn too. Plenty. r/loveafterporn is full of womens testimonies of their husbands and bfs being addicted to porn. Shockingly people do things for reasons beyond simpe urges. A persons behavior can be analyzed as stemming from psychological and even moral motivations, even self reported ones. Edit: and we live in a society as complex social bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?It depends on why they got addicted and if they want to stop. An addiction can sometimes reflect a persons values. Some guys are groomed into it and others are peer pressured, which are evident of social problems. But some guys get addicted because theyre pedos, or they dont care about their partners, or they think porn is ideal sex or because they hate women and seek out videos of their objectification and violence to get off to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men who can’t attract women are losers?Not really. I think man is mainly a loser when hes a shitty person: selfish, rude, violent, misogynistic, unkempt, addicted to porn, moocher, doesnt pull his weight, financially irreponsible, manipulative, etc. I think having a shit personality and making that everyone elses problem and having like no friends and poor financial proscpects and maybe even a criminal record because of that too could be related to a guy not getting with women but doesnt define why hes a 'loser' to me. Those negative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Why wouldn't you date a police officer/cop?Not interested in someone whos more likely to beat me than other professionals and also not interested in supporting their role as a ' private property protector '. I dont feel safer when cops are around tbh. Wouldnt want one around me basically 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.Ah interesting. What do you think about the way tech is helping guys access opportunities to start relationships or hookups? Would you say its better or worse as far as prospects and quality of interactions? And what social contexts make their pursuits via tech more or less better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)I view invisibility in varying degrees and contexts. For example, women are experiencing abuse, and nobody cares. Their humanity is not perceived and, therefore, invisible. Ok. The context now is female sexuality and its supposed power and female relief in social invisibleness, though. Women feel more humanized when the sexual and social pressures to be traditionally 'beautiful', sexually receptive, etc finally erodes. If this is what a considerable amount of women are reporting of their feeling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Would you describe yourself as an autosexual?This exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you identify as a feminist?No. I used to because I treated it more like a general identity than a political identity. Feminism isnt just vaguely agreeing with the movement and its principles, its being principled and changing ones lifestyle not only according to the political tenets but to actually do activism and studying, criticizing, and developing feminist theory. The most 'activism' I was doing at the time was resharing posts and engaging in debates and discussions online. Well, thats not useless in this digital age … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 08:03 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sMen in general are less likely to get STI tested; straight men are the least likely group among men to get regularly tested. 1 in 3 men globally have some form of HPV. This phenomena is due to a few reasons, including mainly men being less likely to get screened until symptoms arise, STI pathogens giving men less overt symptoms compared to women, and STI testing and guidelines underfunded for straight men in particular (since theyre not considered an at risk group for dealing w STIs despite bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 11:12 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sGuys dont take their own bodies seriously. See: less likely to get STI tested, more reckless as drivers, graffiti of dicks everywhere, constantly mentioning their dicks as jokes or show of prowess, esp in music, etc. Circumcision is an issue that men need to address themselves since its literally a man-made issue. Patriarchal religion is the primary motivator behind such useless and invasive body mod of children, and ofc that shit was made by men for men. And unlike circumcision of the penis, FG… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.but I think younger guys need to recognise they had much more social lubricants and a healthier landscape to find good partners in What were the ways that guys had it easier to find a partner before millenials? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 11:58 AM |
| 7 | Why do some women seek Egalitarian marriages instead of partial or full Financial dependence on a man?I think it still stands that a risk of financial abuse is still there. Because making more money than her can be relative, especially if she makes on a lower end and him on the higher. I dont really see why a woman would seek out a man only for the amount if money he makes if shes trying to seek out a genuine long term relationship. If she makes her own money she can pay for things herself. Personally I wouldnt want my partner to pay for everythinf because I wouldnt need them to, and I dont want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 04:34 PM |
| 10 | Why do some women seek Egalitarian marriages instead of partial or full Financial dependence on a man?Yea but its more likely when a woman sets herself up to be dependent on a mans finances to access basic things or otherwise invest in things on her own terms. Things can be held over her head coercively, and she might end up having to 'earn' an allowance from him, which could turn into sexual abuse. It could be hard to seperate financally from a man if all finances are joint, or if she doesnt have a job or makes significantly less than him, and pregnancy and being a primary caretaker of children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 04:24 PM |
| 11 | Why do some women seek Egalitarian marriages instead of partial or full Financial dependence on a man?The risk of financial and sexual abuse are likely the main reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterTbh if misogyny werent a thing and if men werent such a statistucal threat to women and didnt think of humans sexual differences as indicators of moral value, then men, as the other half of the huma species, could offer women a lot of things humans need: companionship, love, mentorship, a listening ear, sympathy, family, reassurance, physical aid (ie moving furniture, helping with projects), etc. Even with womens vulnerabilities, men could offer their support to women when we are on our periods,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 07:50 PM |
| -2 | Women tend to greatly underplay the validity of men's worries about being seen as a creep.I really think its hard to empathize when men consistently turn out to be a group that churns out creeps lol. From priests raping boys, to male gynos assaulting patients, to military guys raping their own, to guys obsesse w hentai and loli, to guys who sexually harrass and catcall women..... many victims of rape (a crime category where men are like 98% of offenders) knew their attacker. IPV is common. At one point women couldnt divorce their husbands even if they beat and raped them, etc. Guys n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 05:29 PM |
| – | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodTbh I dont think marriage as an institution will end that soon just because women will be more represented in more career fields. I think too many (or rather the majority lol) women still value traditional gender roles and marriage with men and religion to give up on marriage especially if they want to have children and raise them with a male partner. And, by design, tax benefits are offered to married couples and a lot of society is socially marketed toward couples and families, so theres still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Why do women usually judge women and men sexually more harshly than guys do ?The first one is most likely because the sex industry is rife with abuse and trafficking and disproportionately victimizes women, so someone engaging in porn consumption or someone who buys women for sex coukd be looked down on as 'part of the problem'. Also considerable amount of women consider porn watching to be morally degenerate due to religous reasons, it being emotional cheating, having their partner compare them to porn, or because they despise the 'porn-brainrot' (or, more medically, se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)But your point comes off as dismissive of the negative aspects of misogyny (objectification, sexual violence, etc). If becoming invisible is a relief for many women, then the context of them experiecing misogyny in a misogynistic society matters to define their invisibleness as positive rather than negative. So the fact that humans are social creatures is less relevant to women in the context of navigating as a woman in a misogynistic society because the sexual attention that comes from a theori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)The RP guys replying to you are literally ignoring that you described the sexual attention as unwanted and a deliberate violatiom of your boundaires. They seem so sex obsessed and view women so sexually that they cannot fathom how a woman who doesnt revolve her whole life around sex and sexual attention could percieve unwanted sexual attention as threatening and violating. Thats so dehumanizing tbh lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Its uniquely positive because sexual objectification is an overwhelming experience women face in society because of misogyny, though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 11:42 PM |
| 0 | What makes a man a bad man'Bad' is pretty broad, but usually when I hear 'bad' I take that as 'irredeemable' or otherwise 'perpetually dangerous to be around'. So the main things that make a guy 'bad' to me are violent behavior and explosive temperment, especially of a sexual degree (rape, molestation, etc) senseless cruelty, especially to animals and those weaker and smaller than him selfish, entitled, and exploitive behavior, particularly to people serving him or doing him favors (service workers, parents, partner, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.That really sucks man. Losing a family member warrants crying because its tragic or just sad. Death is sad and funerals are usually places where people cry. What was the other case? Why do you think women find it lowly for men to cry in your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.It has been my experience that very few women “understand that mindset,” fewer still are able to recognize it in themselves, and even fewer still will openly admit to it if and when they do. This seems like confirmation bias, though. Have you really never met a woman that doesnt believe in notioms about male vulnerability and weakness? I for one, dont believe in it. Im not sure why id 'admit' to something that doesnt apply to my beliefs and behaviors. Theres logic behind what everyone thinks and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.Personally I really have not seen much of this happen and perhaps thats because Im in different circles than you. Ive def felt very emotionally moved by men crying or tearing up, like at expressing sentiments about their abuse and losing loved ones. I cant really relate to the women in your lives who have deemed you 'weak' for expressing a jormal human emotion in a normal way. I dont believe in the idea that men should be stoic while and emotionally concrete and never really have. I think the id… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.Interesting. Im not a liberal feminist myself nor really adjacent but I'll def check this out. Bell Hooks was a notable feminist writer/activist/womanist. Ill get back to you when I review it. :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.That sucks man. I hate that those women are like that. Sounds like women in your family were raised with more traditonal values? Personally I dont lose respect for men that cry and show vulnerability, esp when the context warrants emotion, like stress or sadness. Why do you think those women view men crying as weakness? Thats honestly such a strange concept to me and one that doesnt make much sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.Im sorry that happened. And trauma responses are fair. Its definitely a risk being vulnerable with someone. But I dont think this proves that women dont like men being emotional and vulnerable at all. Have you had other experiences with women in dating that resemble what op is describing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.What have been your experiences with women to say this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:08 AM |
| 24 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.What makes you think this? I dont know many women who want a man to be stoic or otherwise emotionally constipated. I know I def would want a partner that comfortable feeling vulnerable around me. Its a huge sign of trust, and therefore love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 10:32 PM |
| 6 | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.I think an orgasm gap arises from men expecting women to be that passive subject to their movements, and just not reading a womans cues and considering her sexual perspective wrt anatomy. Penetration for women isnt the end all be all of sex and being in a position of recieving from someone larger and stronger, and that delayed gratification from men is less prioritized. It can feel good but not even most women can get off on that alone. Women have a whole organ dedicated to orgasming (the clitor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women?Women don't understand the male sex drive [...] What makes you think women cant empathize and sympathize with mens sexual experiences? Are women not human? Are men not human? Are mens sex drives so nebulous they cant be explained to women? What do you think is impossible for women to understand about the male sex drive because of the differences in perspective caused by sexual dimorphism? And what 'girl power' reasons are you referring to? I really dont know what youre talking about here tbh. No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:36 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, do you watch porn? And if so, what kind of porn do you watch and where do you find it?I used to then stopped for ethical/political reasons and personal reasons. Mostly 'romantic' stuff when I did tho. It transitioned to more 'hardcore', regressive shit as my consumption progressed and porn degraded aspects of my sexuality as it developed (dont give your kids unfettered internet access 🙏🏽). Im bi, maybe 60/40 F/M attraction, but seeing a woman get pleasured was 99% more important to watch than anything the guy was doing lol. I even prefered not to see his dick and would always ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 09:13 AM |
| 2 | The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back.Right. And theres no 'invisible hand' determining anyones 'market value' bc people arent products. Relationships can also be a net negative at times and people still choose to 'invest' or rather stay in them not because its necessarily 'profitable' to do so (like making more with joint finances or having more opportunities to do things with another perso) but because theyre happy and fufilled with whatever relationship arrangements they have with their partner, which cant really be priced since … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women?What do you mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women?How is it a good explaination if its not rooted in empathy ? Do you think only women are harmed in the sex industry? Also I mentioned how porn effects mens health with ED and addiciton, and how both women and men are misinformed by subliminal messages about sexism in porn. Is ED supposed to be positive for men? And does it help mens dating prospects to be misinformed about sex and relationships that they learn from porn? Are you really implying that men need to consume sexual exploitation of wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women?And what was your comment about brevity supposed to be? Insightful? Relevant? Significant? Lol..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women?Dont care. This is a discussion post on a forum website. And this is not a simple topic. Lots to say and I could have said more. Care to contribute to the conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women?The assumption is that no one is hurt in the process, which is generally wrong. Pornography is objectifying. Doesnt matter if women (or whoever else) objectify themselves, pornography, similar to prostitution, is the sexual sale of womens bodies for consumption. The idea that there should be a class of women in society who takes on a role of sexually placating frustrated or lonely men to 'protect' other womens relationship prospects or otherwise keep them safe from exploitive men implies that wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulThis is a great comment. :-) Im athiest but, in the context of this subreddit, Im glad you found external validation that gave you hope and purpose. That book sounds interesting (even though Im a woman lol. Im curious to read a different POV regardless). And what you said about it in reagrds to your life is really sweet. Do you mind elaborating on what you learned from that book? Im intruigued. :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:48 PM |
| – | Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having themThis doesnt answer the question tho. What about expressing sexual desire communicates to a person that they are human specifically, and not just attractive? Im asking this because I think its a very strange conclusion to say women dehumanize men by not expressing sexual desire to them because not having sexual desire for a person is not dehumanization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:58 PM |
| – | Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having themHow are men not getting anything from society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:54 PM |
| – | Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having themIt would be easier to sympathize with men who are frustrated from lonliness if so many of them didnt resort to violence at worst or pseudoscience against women as second-worst to coping with their lonliness. Many men here who complain of lonliness express extremely misogynistic views of women thats difficult not to interpret as entitlement. And youd be suprised how many level headed men sympathize with or otherwise adopt ideologies that propose that men are entitled to sex for their 'sanity' or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:53 PM |
| – | Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having themWhat makes you think women dont contribute to the upkeep of society? And what makes you think women dont already know that men dont owe then relationships or sympathy about their lonliness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:40 PM |
| – | Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having themHow does being sexual desired correspond with being viewed as a human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:27 PM |
| – | Women don't "owe" men relationships...But it's reasonable for men to be upset about not having themWhat should society supposedly to about mens 'sexual dissatisfaction' in particular? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Rape jokes aren't a sign of systematic oppression, like internet feminism thinks it is.I think you should consider rape culture as a concept (by serious feminists on and off this website) has merit firstly and learn more about its subtleties. Also think about perspective and context a bit more; about who the listener is and who is telling the joke and what sort of society they live in: 99% of rapists and sexually violent criminals are men, around +90% of violent criminals are men. Historically around the world, men purchase womens bodies on a systematic level through marriage and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one.So is this post like rage bait or do you actually live ur life with this mindset? Because wow... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 11:21 AM |
| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highI think the assumption that makeup and fashion makes women 'more attractive' is flawed, since makeup doesnt necessarily make a woman more attractive unless you already think it does, and this logic of makeup better a person isnt applied to men, who can also just wear makeup to 'be more attractive' but theyre not expected or encouraged to. Also the idea that womens beauty standards arent as high as mens is pretty absurd when you consider how much abuse 'unattractive' women get for their looks (pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Money standards between two adults when it comes to dating.Youre welcome. :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's humanOmg you made a whole post about this incoherent, insecure stuff again. Dude you really just gotta shift your paradigm. Set yourself free from womens validation. Theres so much more to life than the unhinged standards you hold yourself to lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.Its a debate bro lol. Op's last sentence is a conclusion statement after their arguments. Women on this sub get scrutinized by men all the time about how they basically 'suck' for various reasons related to dating, behaviors, and even moral superiority compared to men and they debate back. Why cant you? Edit. Grammar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.Yup. Ive def encountered those men. Theyre somehow never the problem because women literally control their behaviors with sex or men are physically incapable of being irrational or cuz men are infallably 'nice' and virtuous. Its a really sheltered worldview. Interacting in this sub is certainly full of interesting characters to say the least. Itd be less alarming if more and more men didnt sympathize with or become radicalized by such beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 01:08 PM |
| -1 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.His arguments were his statements, made from observations and considering what women are saying and observing about mens behaviors. Just refute the statements since its clear you are offended and disagree. Cant be that hard if you think op is clearly wrong? I mean, this post is literally tagged as a debate. Make an attempt to counter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.Yea, i think life would be better for everyone if more men had better emotional awareness and empathy. The two things are skills that people have to refine in their lives, but I fear men as a class dont value them as much, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:57 PM |
| -1 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.Op made his argument pretty accessable and clear. I didnt feel the need to decipher what he said and he didnt use large vocabulary really (unless your reading level is lower grade??). Women can understanably get offended by a term directed that them without much basis lol. The difference between that and what youre doing here is many women actually attempt to refute the claim to discredit the idea/term. I dont see where op insulted anyone either. He made observations and considered oppositional … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.A bold post to make on a sub that seems like r/ incel2.0! I agree with a lot of your assessment (though fashion is a bit subjective imo). Lol i await the comments eagerly Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:44 PM |
| -1 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.Are you even trying to make an argument here? You seem really defensive. Is it cognitive dissonance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:39 PM |
| 0 | Questions for redpillersI broke up my responses into multiple comments. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Questions for redpillersEven if I give you that, as long as you have rights, men are not trash. Period. If your right to work as a man was barred by women in a hypothetical, violently misandrist society, and also your right to medical treatment and your sufferage were denied, but you still had your other citizenship rights intact, like right to freedom of speech, entitlement to due process of law, etc would you accept that you are not a full citizen or person in society? Would you not have anh resentment against women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Questions for redpillersI don't care about the reason. It gets in the way of what I want, therefore I don't have a reason to support it. Well the reason for the implementation of quotas was an issue on a mass scale that affected half or more than half of a societys population from accessing wealth and opportunities and experiencing disenfranchisement. Quotas are not about individuals nor are they about you individually. And how would half the human population being legally alloted chance to be represented halfly in are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Makeup skews the dating marketRight. And its strange they supposedly cant tell when a womans face isnt what theyre socialized to prefer. So youd think theyd be more keen on how to spot a beat face from natural but nope. The amount of layers and products that gritty or dewy look comes from is lost on them.... even 'looks better'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Money standards between two adults when it comes to dating.I sympathize, but at the same time, youd have to understand where a woman who has plans for her life and fianancial goals is coming from to get why financial liability in her life is just as detrimental as emontional compatability when finding that 'right guy'. Hopefully one day youll have a better idea of what you want out of life and goals, even if small, that a woman who may share your path finds to be enough and compatable to grow with you as a compliment to her life, and a growth of yours. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Questions for redpillersHow can behavior be universal of all male demographics of all cultures if you and the source of your quotes recognize that culture undoubtly and significantly molds behavior? Have you considered that many cultures throughout the world have been historically violent on the basis of supremacist philosophies and conquest, particularly of patriarchal sexual domination? These cultures, especially major empires, used extreme violence and hierarchies to mold family structures, institution, and ultimate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 02:43 PM |
| – | There is a certain behaviour ("damselling") in public that I see exclusively done by women. What is the real reason why those women are doing this?I guess one could think of deference to the elderly as the elderly feeling entitled to honorary treatement lol but most people dont see it that way since the elderly are whom most people consider to be respectable figures in society (for varying reasons, from ancestor worship to valuing their lifetime, to honoring their wisdom, to respecting their needs in aging, etc, but its normal for all age groups to have their niche in society). And i think op was trying to frame the entitlement option of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 06:42 PM |
| 8 | There is a certain behaviour ("damselling") in public that I see exclusively done by women. What is the real reason why those women are doing this?Tbh i doubt its any of the reasons you listed except perhaps shyness. Women do have on avagerage less upper body strength and muscle mass than men (and often arent encouraged to be strong as much as slim). So perhaps the women youre witnessing are genuinely struggling to manage heavy luggage rather than,—more often than not—seeking attention or feel entitled to a mans aid in particular, and are looking for help from people who usually have the strength to assist them (men are typically stringer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Questions for redpillersI think this quote you may have copy pasted (though idk) literally proved my point, though: [...] Although testosterone is not a direct cause of violence, its influence on brain structures related to aggression and impulsivity offers a biological framework for understanding some of the observed sex differences. [...] While these patterns are averages and do not predestine behavior for all individuals, they provide measurable biological correlates. [...] Although these ideas are contentious and r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Questions for redpillersno because the part of men who have power or perpetuate violence is a tiny fraction of all men. The top 1% of wealth owners and powerful authorities deciding war and economic decisions in society are men, who indeed, when compared to the world population, only represent a fraction of men. However, these men have men who work for then and answer to them below their status. These men reign over most men who navigate a top-down society ultimately structured for male defaulting and favortism, partic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Questions for redpillersI dont believe this is hard biology because theres no evidence to suggest men are naturally prone to be sexually physically violent, particularly on the philosophical basis of male superiority (which is a belief, not an instinct). To rape and commit violence are learned behaviors, with some people being more predisposed to violent temperment and low impulse control than others, though this is not a strictly sexed phenomena. To suggest that men are hardwired to be more physically and sexually lia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Questions for redpillersWhich feminists want to become the oppressors of men? Ive certainly never seen any feminists genuinely advocate that womem should become the majority of rapists, violent criminals, and exploiters of power against men on an institutional and societal scale. Even the more 'blackpilled' and openly misandrist feminist types Ive seen have more seperatist beliefs than motives to overpower and reign over men lol. The article you posted doesnt support the assertion that most people equate feminism with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Questions for redpillersHow so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Questions for redpillersYes, so wouldnt the fact that men are the primary perpetrators of senseless violence and war against everyone be a concern about a culture among men to perpetuate violence? IMO I dont believe its inevitable or mens 'nature' to be violent and overrepresent violent and sexual crime stats. I think its largely sex socialization among men to encourage and reward domineering and impulsive behavior which leads to more propensity to to commit crime and enact violence as a form of expression. And isnt it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Questions for redpillersOh ok 🤷🏽♀️. I dont know his diagnosis history or conditions, but his views arent much different from non-medically diagnosed men that frequent this sub. I really just think its the misogyny that rots the brain. But im fascinated by the rot nonetheless. You can make even the most deranged misogynist guy self aware if you debate them in good faith. I find that worth my time since I like debating and this is a great mental exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Questions for redpillersThe use of quotas is because of the historical precedent of women being barred from economic contribution to societu in various work industries on the basis on being women. Married women were once discriminated against by employers as recently as the 70s in the US because it was assumed marriage made them inelligible for work. Pregnant women and mothers faces the same discrimination and still do so today. If it werent for this sex based precedent, then quotas for ensuring women are fairly repres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Questions for redpillersWhat self interests as a man do you have that feminism opposes? Most rapists, sexual offenders, and violent criminals are male. Theres historical precedent of epidemic sexual violence against women by men, an statistics show that women and children are particular targets of male violence, particularly of a sexual nature. Why do you doubt this is true? The 'western world' still has ways to go to secure womens place in society as equal with full human rights. In America, and some countries in Euro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Well you said it yourself: women with certain body types often manicured by extreme diets, drugs, and surgeries are shown in porn taking very 'large' men in extreme positions and fast paces that dont resemble most womens interests or capabilities at all. And porn actresses are actresses.... they moan and whine because theyre acting (nonetheless feeling what theyre put through during the sex, but exaggerating becaue theyre performing for an audience). Thats why they seem to be enjoying what theyr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Makeup skews the dating marketThen Id say thats pretty problematic of them and they have a lot of cognitive dissonance about what they claim to support and actually support. Because feminism as a general movement is historically against the upkeep and validation of gender roles. Perhaps theyre new to that organization and are still figuring out what they actually believe and what branch of feminism they fit into. Sometimes feminist college geoups welcome any woman whos interested in learning but not necessarily feminists on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Makeup skews the dating marketBecause you didnt make that point in your post lol. Have you considered what you wrote and the implications of what you wrote may not have came off as what point youre trying to say??? Lol Youre still not making youre point regardless, you havent brought up womens feelings about makeup. You havent asked women how they feel about makeup and its role in dating. You literally just stated what you believed about how makeup effects womens ability to score better dates and then said theres not way aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Makeup skews the dating marketWere they really self subscribed feminists that subscribed to a specific branch of feminist ideology? Or were they just general advocates against gender roles? It doesnt take a feminist label to oppose gender roles, which is why some women who support feminist concepts can still reserve anti-feminist beliefs. Feminism is an active political stance and lifestyle rather than just an identity or name for a half formed opinion. Also what is 'male deconstruction'? Male is a sex and thats not possible… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Makeup skews the dating marketI dont think you made that very clear since you werent talking about womens feelings about makeup and how they think it makes them look. Your comment was largely about how women look better with makeup from your perspective to then support the assertion that women who wear makeup are more successful at getting better dates compared to men who partake in beauty rituals a different way like working out and not getting the same results apparently So again why do you believe makeup improves how a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Makeup skews the dating marketHave you considered why those women made disgusted faces at the idea of a man wearing makeup? I mean surely gender roles are enforced where they are. And gender roles can be broken by simply doing what you want and finding women who dont care about them so much to think a man wearing makeup to any extent deserves a visceral reaction of disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Makeup skews the dating marketRight. Makeup is very easy to tell on a persons face. Makeup gives a person a gritty texture on their face or a rubbery, matte look from hiding their pores, peach fuzz and skin lines. Creases of the skin often give it away. Makeup also gives a person a completelty different texture and often color than their normal skin texture on their arms and neck/chest, which is where makeup application stops. Overall makeup doesnt neccessarily make somebody look better and I think op should reevaluate that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Makeup skews the dating marketMakeup only makes a woman look 'better' if you believe that makeup makes a woman look better. Clearly you do, so why do you think women look better with makeup? Also surely the same beauty tool giving women 'stunning' looks would work on men? If its just makeup in itself that enhances a womans looks, then it would enhance a mans looks, too, according to that logic. I think it would help to answer your question about makeup affecting a womans 'dating market value' or whatever if you simply consid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel threatened by women more attractive than you?First of all, I aint got time for wanting no man at my job LMAO. I got shit to do and clock out when its time to gtfo I like my solitude and would rather be attractive to another woman anyway. I can look quite masculine and its a nice look on me. Feminine too, and its cute! I know Im good looking either way and its because I like my own features. Thats all who should matter to me. And its easy for women to be attractive, imo, I love our diversity. Nothing to be combative over, tho. Thats childis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | No, you are not "unempathetic", Women's emotional expectations are just unreasonableWhat about womens that men do not possess feel, supposedly makes them more irrational? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 01:25 AM |
| 0 | No, you are not "unempathetic", Women's emotional expectations are just unreasonableIn what situations are women overly emotional and dramatic to the point they cannot solve an issue? Is this trndency a trait exlusive to being a woman? If so, what makes women more emotionally volatile and apparently less rational than men? How many more expectations are men valued against than women? Would you say they compare to whats expected of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 12:52 AM |
| 15 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenHow do people genuinely believe that adults stop being attractive below their prime years lol..... at 25-30 youre basically just starting to figure shit out as an adult. Women still look pretty young at that age and some can still pass for teenagers. To me a person can only get more attractive after that age range before becoming elderly due to your body changing to have less features associated with childhood and more with adulthood, like a longer face and fuller fat distribution, and with age … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Money standards between two adults when it comes to dating.I think a date is the effort two make after hitting it off with each other and gaguing each others interests and goals over some encounters. Now that social media and phones are a thing, getting to know a person before an official date is a less risky way to gague someones compatibility with them since texting or video chats take less time and energy than dating in person. Dates can be long distance, though. So perhaps is more likely that women that have certain ambitions and financial goals in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Money standards between two adults when it comes to dating.Finances are a major aspect determining quality of life. Most women care about being financially stable because poverty is really tough and stressful, and being able to afford a life of choices offers more chance at fufillment from increased access to opportunities and resources to build a happy life. So naturally, many women who want to date men care that a man has similar financial goals so they can build wealth together and afford a life they both can afford together. A man who doesnt have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are mismatched libidos a problem if sex is not that important and you would rather be single than in a bad relationship?Sex should be an expression of love, connectedness, fun, and empathy in a longterm (assumingly monogamous) sexual relationship. If a couple isnt on the same page about what they find fufilling sexually together then I dont see how that would work out between the two. Cuddling is intimate and can also express the aformentioned things but isnt the same method of intimacy nor outcome and involves other acts that cuddling wouldnt suffice if sexual sensations and reciprocity are how a person also wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 07:35 PM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereOh ok Im not assuming that, this is what you are describing lol. Your second comment vilifies women for supposedly victimizing so called 'nice guys' by not choosing them in relationships with them that they somehow feel entitled to for being nice and wanting one and instead choosing so-called 'Chads' and 'bad boys'. This is a typical incel narrative that places the emotional fufillment, acknowledgement, and respect you mentiomed in the form of romantic and sexual commitment from women. Again, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 03:47 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereHis comment has been removed, so I cant exactly quote it, but from what I remember it was entirely based off the premise that sex is what women value the most in our lives when its literally not. So his assessments of womens behaviors —using incel language at that—were based off proving what he assumed to be true about the value of sex and supposedly what women believe about sex by default, which apparently warrants a final judgement of women as deserving of our problems and our perceptions with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:41 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereIt would help to have read and considered where I literally stated several times, including adding my own annecdotal knowledge, that sometimes women dont choose or prefer men to be financially wealthy. I also listed those things as good indicators of financial standing for anyone, because finances determine quality of life. Its not a contradiction that many women, despite previous choices or the differing preferences of other women, prefer stability in a relationship with men in the form of fina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:58 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereI mean..... whats wrong with saying that? Some people dont want what is considered a 'family', like children or partners/spouses. They know twhat really makes them happy and that may not be it. Those that do seek to build a family but struggle to have a relationship usually reconcile this and/or and seek other avenues of fufillment rather than ruiminating on it and making their failures about this goal their entire sense of purpose and being with a scapegoat to blame. Lol I simply dont agree wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:08 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereHonestly no, I dont believe thats true. I dont agree that theres any such thing as 'womens nature' in general (and by contrast 'mens nature'). Firstly, I really dont think sex selection for certain traits and genetics by womens choice in men strongly determines which men they may choose to be and procreate with. For example, considerable amounts of women dont want children or (male) partners. Others have self hatred or trauma that leads them to settle down with men who treat them poorly or other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 12:50 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereIt seems you may be projecting the idea—among many other presuppositions— that sexual and romantic relationships are the most important goal a person could achieve. Isnt there more to life than just... seething about not getting female validation or sex in relationships? Is this bitterness at women and these fantastical theories about womens behaviors really helping you grow emotionally and intelligently as a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 12:00 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereWhat exactly is 'womens nature'? Sounds very prescriptivist and not objective, but Im curious how you percieve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 11:50 PM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereWhy do you think womens lives revolve around sex? Your comment honestly sounds like a major projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 11:48 PM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereGenuinely curious what makes you say this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 11:35 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't make sense when women claim that most men just want casual sex.It makes sense because men lose way less when sex is early in a relationship. On dating apps, Id say majority of males are looking for hookups and certainly only want sex. IRL, ive heard many stories from women who are more sexually active than me of men who seek partnerships for the benefits of being in a relationship, including the sex, and dont reciprocate the same emotional, sexual, and financial care. Stories of men cheating on their gfs or wives once theyve tied the knot for domestic and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.Older males that want 'younger women' are generally either addicted to porn, pedophiles, or looking for trophies to display and flaunt. Normal men look for women in their age and experience range as well as compatable with their interests and life goals. Humans are more cognitively advanced than many animals that dont exactly have complex ethics on age gaps and sexual violence, but I imagine that animals have some awareness of 'age gaps' in their sexual selection preferences, particularly of ani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 09:55 PM |
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