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| 6 | Being a straight up perv on the street? | Outer Game | freel0der | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 02:26 AM |
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| 4 | What is wrong with me?I couple of things. The only thing wrong with you is thinking there is something wrong with you. You seem to have the upper hand in the looks department most likely getting a lot of eye contact. It’s natural to be nervous approaching girls. Most men don’t approach. You are just being nervous and the nervousness tricks you into believing there is something majorly wrong with you. First off learn to Meditate. Ross Jeffries has a free 9 minute taps called 3-3-3. Once in the field and this arises yo… | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Have good posture or mirror her's?I agree. Faking body language has never given me anything either. I don’t think people should micromanage so much. Just do some exercises and your posture will usually automatically become good is my experience. You don’t need to go to a gym either just do some basic body weight exercises at home. Squats, push-ups, Australian pushups or pull-ups and working on bridges + leg raises is enough to automatically get a good posture. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:51 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys get over approach anxiety with day game?Get a hypnosis tape and use it before going out. You can get a free one on the bay. I felt extreme difference after listening to Hypnoticas “The Attractivator“. Not trying to sell for him or anything and you can probably find it for free on certain sites. Hypnosis does not last forever though. Usually a couple days so you need to repeat it. It’s a good crutch until you get a more positive feedback loop from women. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Why am I terrified of approaching womanI don’t mean to try to get her. To assert your boundaries so she understands the behavior is unacceptable. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Why am I terrified of approaching womanThere are levels to it. Yes if you start to make a screaming match from some little bad remark that’s too much. But putting someone in their place if they try to really hurt you for no reason they should be put in their place. Not extreme just call her out for it firmly and leave. Assert your boundaries. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I seduce a guy I connected with on LinkedIn?Make yourself as available as possible. Also you can invite him to a more intimate setting like wine at your house or a movie. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 10:20 AM |
| 6 | How to you guys maintain your confidence when shit goes wrongMewtew? Isn’t that a Pokémon? | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Why am I terrified of approaching womanI never said you should go and try find exactly her, rather what you can do if you find yourself in a similar situation in the future. Some claim non reactive is the way to go, but in instances like this I think some aggression is good. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 10:14 AM |
| 3 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?Hey and I just start a normal conversation asking how her or their night was and talk some, where they have been, then just ask if she/they wants to come for an after party at yours. Or you can say a drink. If she is down any excuse will work. You can also invite her for food as well if you have some good leftovers from something. Make sure to fix up your place some with some decent beverages and snacks. Maybe get a minibar for the bedroom. I see so many guys completely neglect that part of thei… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 09:29 AM |
| 0 | Why am I terrified of approaching womanSounds like some high school bitch lol. If you keep on developing you will be able to turn around a situation like that by confronting the girl then make fun of her in front of her friends. Then you fuck her friend. Ultimate revenge | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Why am I terrified of approaching womanYou can use aggression. Go out with the intent to approach when you freeze and can’t approach tell yourself aggressively something like “fuck I lost that chance” After a few girls has passed by Eventually the emotion of beating yourself up in your head gets worse than the approach anxiety and you will be able to approach. Nothing wrong with you. The only thing wrong with you is that you think something is wrong with you. It’s a new situation being around girls. That it is anxiety inducing is com… | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Why am I terrified of approaching womanExactly what happened? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?The easiest is to do night game as the bars and clubs close down and approach the lonely girls. Talk some and invite her for “after party”. Keep a good eye on her level of drunkness though. If she is really fucked up avoid. It’s usually horrible sex and you can get a charge if you are really unlucky. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 10:17 PM |
| -1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?Yes and no. Mysteries 7 hour out rule is at least too long. It depends what you do after you fuck. If you just throw her out it’s obviously less chance to see her again. Go for brunch if she sleeps over. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?5 minutes or so from cold approach | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Everything is possible, but it sounds like you underestimate sub communications a lot. You can be the most handsome dude ever and still fail hard if you are needy. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 11:43 AM |
| 6 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Why amgry? What he is experiencing is completly normal for a guy that doubts himself. Obviously one will be needy If you think you are not enough and keep getting false negative reinforcement thinking it is true. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Was I Being Too Serious Or Was It Just A Lack Of Compatibility?No worries :) it’s especially bad for us analytical/“ocd” guys lol Exactly I have the same experience as well if I am being completely honest with myself the dates that went poorly was usually because they were kinda boring for me/ possible bad match. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Was I Being Too Serious Or Was It Just A Lack Of Compatibility?Rare occurrence. If it works to the point otherwise in your dating life don’t worry. This is sort of the bad side of pickup. It can make us doubt ourself if we start to think we did not “act right”. Over time you will stop caring about that and get the attitude of “buy it or leave it, this is me” towards girls My experience is that it’s all about the energy. Try to get a fun energy going and move it forward. That’s game in a nutshell. Good luck man | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Who to insult my girlfriend in private without photos for the moment, but I give all the details you ask, physical what she likes... in bed ectI think he means who he should spread the roumers to about the girls kinks as revenge? Or he is asking how to do it. He says without photos which could indicate he wants to press her for something, but not break the law. | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Who to insult my girlfriend in private without photos for the moment, but I give all the details you ask, physical what she likes... in bed ectDo you mean how to insult your girlfriend about her kinks in bed? as in shaming her for her sexual preferences. I am confused about this post. I see no reason for doing that and it would probably not even have the effect you want unless you live in a very conservative place. Why do you want this? has she cheated on you? If so let it go as good as you can, its not your fault things like that happens to even the best of men at times. Go sleep and see how you feel about it tomorrow instead of actin… | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says I'm very attractive, but I have 0 gameDont go to far down the rabbit hole in game theory. it will probably just make you confused right now. Try to do some routine that makes you in a good mood before going out like a run or something. The main thing personality wise is to have a positive winning type attitude when you talk to Girls and also move things slowly towards sex. just do that by touch if you cant flirt. in essence thats it really. Dont make it into an excuse of only taking to girls when in a good state though, but don't be… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Approaching a girl from a carI remember a story about David X just letting his car stand in the intersection on green while chatting up a girl in the car behind him. He just ignored the people honking their horns and stuff to make him move. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Approaching a girl from a carAs long as you dont mass approach or follow a girl while talking it is totally fine. Get her to stop and try to get a conversation going and be direct. I have done it plenty. its not much different from Daygame. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Facetiming and voice messages are VERY effectiveOver the phone you can actually build some interest and attraction. Text can't really do that. Text game is incredibly hyped. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 08:45 PM |
| 3 | How could I get women to send me nudesSay something that makes them horny and they will often send you. You could also ask what they are wearing. Keep in mind that you will lose a lot of matches if you do this before you have met them or if its a girl irl that does not look at you like an attractive guy sexually. That said You should rather focus on getting the girl over to your house if you get her horny trough text. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Work on how you feel. Dont sit and try and dwell on how to be happy though. , but do some practical routines that makes you feel good before going out like exercising, Meditation, Hypnosis. cold showers etc you get the picture. Secondly try to have as much fun with your friends as possible. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 08:58 AM |
| 2 | How to know which girls are easyMost are if you are really attractive in her eyes. I don’t talk just looks when I say attractive but the whole package. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 02:37 AM |
| 3 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?That just bad advice. Women will be flaky regardless of how confident you are. So send an indirect text getting the meeting confirmed. Unless you want to waste a bunch of time being stood up that is. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well?I noticed the same. Was July when tinder platinum came out? Thats when things started going downhill on my tinder. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Feel conflicted about approaching girls at the gym. How bad is this, and what should I be doing differently?Its fucking impossible to tell these days. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | What’s the different between being persistent and being needy?I would say needy is if you are more emotional invested and reactive. While persistant you just try a few more times and are cool if it does not work. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 06:38 AM |
| 2 | How chad-like do you need to be when you approach?Girls straight up hate you when you act like someone else. Especially fake Confidence. I did it some in the beginning and I had several women try and attack me, trowed drinks at me etc. It really put a dent in my confidence for some time until i realised I could be myself and none of that crazy stuff would happen. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | How to “Attract” or have “Attractive personality”Perhaps looking from afar the halo effect works. Like some girls see a good looking guy 15 meters away having fun with his friends thinking he might be cool. However if she approach him or he approaches her all that goes out the window and his real self is what matters. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 05:56 AM |
| 4 | As a man, success in dating is directly tied to how well you handle rejectionNo, so tired of hearing this. Looks matter. However how you carry yourself bodylanuage, energy, facial expressions, sex appeal. All those enhances how you look in a Major way and thats even before you open your mouth. Lastly you will get very few and subpar girls If you got the looks, but if you lack crucial traits that women find attractive. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Cold approachTry to use anger. Go to a place where there is a lot of hot girls going around. Everytime you chicken out get angry at yourself and think like fuck i lost that oppertunity. Eventually after a few amazing looking women has passed the frustration and pain of not being able to approach will be equal or greater than the approach anxiety itself and you will approach. Tell me how it went. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?You are scared being yourself will not cut it and if you get rejected being yourself you probably feel like you are doomed | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | recommendations for hobbies that can be done from home and make you a more attractive well-rounded person for dating?Gardening, bodyweight workouts, read up on things that interest you. I know this is outside of your home, but get a motorcycle. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Pro tip: ask for her instagram instead of her numberProblem can be when you are not super photogenic. She will often nitpick a bad photo of you and even though she has seen you in person she will associate it with you and blow you off. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I have a really deep voice, & it is something I am complimented on fairly often. How can I use it to my own advantage?Send voice memos or call when you set up dates | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | A guy is continually hitting on my girlfriend even when she tells him to stop and i am scared that she gets assaulted by him in her schoolRapport him to the police. If you can’t confront him in person buy some bearspray/selfdefense spray for your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: I would rather have honest closure than a vague easy let downI used to want this as well. Then I found out I am good enough and Women just have different preferences so it would just fuck with my head. A better way is just to roll with the punches and accept that rejection is part of the game. For overthinkers its actually better just to seal the ego away from opinions and work on yourself. Most opinions about you are probably really inaccurate anyways. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | a drug that is easily accessible or easily prescribed that can help me socialize?You should talk to your doctor about trying some adhd medication since you actually have it. Ritalin or amphetamines can quiet down those racing thoughts making it possible to focus in social situations. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I absolutely envy and despise young guys who are lucky enough to find women who are attracted to them without money and willing to sleep with them shortly (or later) after meeting without much in returnWhat happens if you invite them for coffee? I do Coffee on the first. Then movie at my house on the second date. Girls I allready know, like and have been to bed with I go out to dinner with if I feel for it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselvesWorks in clubs alone in cold approach too. Lets say some girls rejects you at first. Then you idieally find a group of girls to hang out with from there the ones that rejected you will often be open towards you and interested. If your state is really up there you can then build on this meeting a ton of girls and become the king of the venue then pick the girl you like the most. Keep in mind some guys sometimes get jelous at you from this. Me being so big it has never been a problem. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | “Hey trouble” is the best Tinder opener; Change My MindI agree canned openers are best. Crafting some personalized shit is not worth it most of the time unless it is really quick. So just spam out your opener. I don’t agree that hey trouble is any good though. Ask a question or something that does not take too much effort to answer | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What are some good resources for introverts? Fellow introverted guys of seddit, what resources/strategies have helped you?I would say master using «akward pauses» to your advantage. Get really comfertable with silence and it will trickle over to the girl. Once you talked some you can use those pauses and build sexual tension with the girl | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 8 | I became her "gay friend", now what?Use each other as therapists | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?You tell them its not your fault these young women are attracted to you. 30s myself and i think 20-24 is the sweetspot | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Are there better ways to develop a sense of humor than watching comedy?This is it. Joke around for yourself and you will most likely be funny to other people around a table as well. Self amusement can go a long way. People say laughing at your own jokes is bad, but i do it all the time because the shit i tell i find so funny myself i cant hold it sometimes. I would not worry about having to become funny like a comedian unless you want to be one. Rather learn to tease, be playful and flirt. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Are there better ways to develop a sense of humor than watching comedy?Yeah find something you actually enjoy. I sometimes find certain podcasts funny like the old Joey Diaz podcast and the older howard Stern stuff. I hate watching standup, but I can be a funny dude still. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Do short guys still have a chance in casual relationships (hooking ups or one night stands)?Sounds like you have been watching blackpill content. Get off that poison. I know 2 former «players» that where around 170-175cm which is short for where I am from. One was a natural the other was «self taught» with self development and seduction content. Other than that I see shorter guys with hot girls many places. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:16 PM |
| 0 | A stranger I met gave the perfect analogy on how to attract women: "Women are like fish. Make a net. A strong one. As good as you can make it. She'll swim until she becomes curious, and once she's caught in your embrace, she's all yours."I can choose my bait so I don’t get any catfish | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!Yes it did | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | This summer I will be alone with my 2 friends.As a noob I would bring some alcohol to loosen up some. perhaps do some drinking games with them. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Male loneliness and fulfillmentOkay I understand it i think. My answer would be that girls don’t care much for your finances in hookup scenarios. Its a definitly a plus having money in a realtionship, but if thats the main attraction you are dating golddiggers. But I think women will overlook other shortcomings of yours if you are whealthy. Height I am sort of Biased on I guess. Being 6’6. it certainly help especially with the really tall girls. How much I really can’t tell. However I do know people that have done really good… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:01 PM |
| 70 | I think two things are hurting inexperienced men the most on these dating subsYes and learn to relax. Once someone is able to relax more around a woman it will be easy to pick up on the cues. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Male loneliness and fulfillmentIs this about looks? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!Even good looking guys struggle Alex from playingwithfire recommended tuning your photos so you look around 2 points better than real life. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:32 PM |
| 15 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!Gotta disagree. Positive reinforcement and experience from online dating is certainly good and it will bleed into your other interactions with women for the better. What I do dislike about online dating is that you will not get nearly as good looking girls there unless you are at the top in terms of looks. After tinder rolled out platinum online dating does not work anymore for me. 2013-2014 tinder was a goldmine and fairly balanced. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Male loneliness and fulfillmentCould you elaborate on what they censor that brings serious damage? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsIts definitly not only based on what you look like. If you got 0 «game» I guess it is true however. How come one can have really bad nights getting rejected left and right then have nights where the girls are basicly picking you up? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:00 AM |
| 4 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?Most people become socially adjusted once they are able to relax more in social situations. That was my case at least | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Quit pornGlad you found a way | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Quit pornI got the opposite result. Major neediness combined with horniness speaking to women. It did motivate me more, but gave horrible results. Now I jerk it couple times a week. Sometimes porn sometimes memories. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | The conversation is going good... How do I ask for the number? What's your go to move?Lets continue this another time what is your number. Something like that but try using your own words. You might be really nervous the first few times. Thats normal rather own the nervousness than try to hide it. Avoid social media unless you have great profiles. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 07:32 AM |
| 2 | what do you think about this dating advice? (i want women perspective on this, but men is also okay)Its classic mystery method. Yes it works | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 04:33 AM |
| 5 | A stranger I met gave the perfect analogy on how to attract women: "Women are like fish. Make a net. A strong one. As good as you can make it. She'll swim until she becomes curious, and once she's caught in your embrace, she's all yours."I prefer using a rod | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Approach at a bar doesn’t seem working well compared to daygameOh yeah then I got you. With the alcohol the girls can be aggressive for sure. Its dependent on Location as well. Go to the UK and you might hear some fuck offs and get a couple drinks thrown your way over time. Go to Mexico and the Girls would not even dear to say anything rude or let alone throw a drink. Scandinavia would be somewhat between the UK and Mexico in this regard. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Approach at a bar doesn’t seem working well compared to daygameNot all girls on a bar/club is a party girl. You can find people from all walks of life in there. There is regulars of course, but there is also plenty of people just going out to have some drinks with their friends once in a blue moon. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Approach at a bar doesn’t seem working well compared to daygameSure you are not coming a cross fake in some way? I noticed I would get those harsh rejections As well when trying the old fake it till you make it. Once I took a step back and slowed myself down being more laidback they disapeared. Might just be your location also, where do you live? | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Statistically, what is the best time interval (highest odds of second date) to message a girl after first Tinder date?Its very simple. Nothing fancy is needed for asking for a second date. If she liked you and the date went well you can say pretty much whatever you want within reason. I usually say I enjoyed the time with her the next day or a few hours later than chat some and ask her if she wants to come for a movie date. I have very high sucessrate with this and its very simple. Pretty much all the girls agree and usually the movie will just be a background thing halfway in ;) | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:20 PM |
| 6 | If she changes the conversation when you ask her out on a date through text. Do you bring up the date once again?Its lukewarm interest from the girl maybe she just want validation. No tecnique will fix it most of the time. You can try one last time and say to her if she wants to meet at X bar or coffeshop and specify the date and time. If she dogdes that as well or wants to postpone it just move on and find another girl. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?Motorcycles. I mostly like dualsports that I can go offroad with as well as drive on the street. I am kinda into cruisers as well. I like gardening fruit trees and such and all that comes with that. Fishing is also a major hobby of mine. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Getting laid as a man has more to do with favorable circumstances and logistics than looks and confidenceOnline dating is different. The girls can’t feel your energy/Charisma or charm and other traits that makes one more attractive. You are at a major disadvantage from the start. On tinder as a guy you are often just a spec of dust as a average guy there. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Dating after Nuclear war?Can’t wait! I will glow with radiation that gets mistaken for charisma | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 01:54 AM |
| 9 | Dating after Nuclear war?Chads will become Super Mutans | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 01:53 AM |
| 3 | She hasn't seen the last text after setting up the date. What should I do?Relax, don't change any plans for her unless she answers back tomorrow with a definitive yes. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotoh good old ghosting and tinder. I got so pissed once I booked 5 dates in the same day haha Turned out great | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotImprove it by meeting other people and get better by practice. Once most your fears are greatly reduced it should come fairly natural. If not try to red a book about seduction. However I recommend you try learning by experience if you are able to first, if that fails go get some theory. You are probably just at that thin line where women will like you on tinder, but your last in line. Its not personal & Tinder is brutal. Remember that Tinder is not a accurate representation of your attracivness … | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Fat jacked guy who gets girls and now people who used to like me hate me.People often feel uncomfertable when someone changes even for the better. I had a similar situation once I got more confident. Some people would be very uncomfertable and sometimes say things like you changed you seem so cocky. I am not cocky at all and I am very emphatic person by the way. Even My own mother did not like the change in me and said I changed for the worse. If anyone experiences this don't let it get to you and just plow through. Eventually your friends and family will accept the … | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Got the girl's number. Now what?Just talk a little bit talking over text then just straight up ask her out and ask when she is free to meet, You can for example go to the park. Walking in the city or in a park is great if you are anxious because the tension is not on you or her as much. Bowling can be cool also or pool. Don't overthink it, its no magic line or tactic you need to use. Be autentic and your best self. You generally don't need Kino on the first date unless you want to fuck her that day. I usually do a Movie date a… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]most are kinda tipsy in the bar so that levels it out so I don't think so. I don't go for properly drunk chicks since I slowed down on my drinking. However people react differently to alcohol so it might be that certain ones loses a lot more of their social observation than others when drinking. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You mean just got dumped? | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I found out about it first through pua theory. The rest is experience and testing different stuff. I found for me I got a very strong prescence for better or worse depending on my mood. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I gotta completly disagree on it being minor. My pool of girls is waaaay bigger on a good night out compared to one feeling a bit meh. Girls will approach on the good ones as well. The "energy" you put out means a lot. Not saying looks don't matter though. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I Guess people take it for granted that most people got those things down. It is not me. I allmost only use the downvote feature if someone is spreading misinformation. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]yes sometimes when you give up the girls come running | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes, they differ but are connected. At least for me being in state leads to higher energy/tempo usually at least at a nightclub or bar with music. however I can be in state and super chill/lower energy/tempo also, but its less normal for me. I was actually thinking about the matching of the energy yesterday, but thanks for the tip anyways. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:44 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]yes it makes sense. I guess if she thinks i truely is her type maybe she will not care that I am not in a woho state at that moment. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 10:29 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]yeah vibe/state is allmost everything in bars. Its hard to say, but they don't nescerially have a bad vibe. just a bit lower energy usually. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What is your take on chadfishing?I guy replicated that profile on youtube and used locationfaker to try it in several big cities for some times around the world. most matches unmatched, he only got few matches. So that experiment was probably faked. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | What is your take on chadfishing?its pretty retarded. Of course women will choose looks when looks are the only criteria presented. Tinder is not real life pickup I rather have them get a really good looking guy vs another dude perhaps average in a bar and see who does the best. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Biggest danger of trp ?I even worse is fucking blackpill. its basicly redpill, but way more focused on looks and they use Tinder experiments and translate them to real life. I feel seriously bad for the amount of kids i see in the comments there believing this shit and not having any life experience just give up completly on finding a partner. The frightning thing is how many views and positive praise these videos get nowadays. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/21 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Are height so much important for women?it helps being tall, but on the flip side it does nothing if dont feel good as well. Tell me how short do you think is detrimental for getting girls and I will answer you honestly. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Is online dating a waste of time for guys?Depends on how you do it of course. If you pump and dump a couple of colleagues that can definitly make a ruckus. However if you got normal social skill and are respectfull it should be no problem. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Slid into her DMs and got rejectedLol do Daygame it will give a nice rush | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | She sends me her photos, selfies, random tiktok videos ,but upon talking to her she only replies ''yes'' ''hahahahah' should I stop talking to her?Try one last time to invite her for a second time. If there is no clear answer cut the contact. There is tons of these types of women on Tinder. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 05:24 AM |
| 5 | I have the hardest time with banter and witSounds like you come in at 1000mph then run out of gas. Try to go slower then flip it so she starts talking more. You are not there to entertain them | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?hahhaha, I can use my autism "card" if anyone gets mad. People with straight up autism have weird facial expressions, tonality and bodylanuage that is odd so they probably more likely think you are drunk or high. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | I’m just gonna shoot my shotthats the spirit. Once the pain of being ruled by the Anxiety gets more powerful than the Anxiety itself is often when people take action | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?I see, I never really seen or been with many africans. They are very rare in these parts of Mexico if not non exsistant. Good Latinas are my favorites | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?Thats what i usually do... It would feel so fucking autentic | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?There are some people that do this with cold approach and swear by it. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?Never compliment a womans natural beauty until yall are in the bedroom. But if she chooses on you then you could definitely get away with directness. But thats only if she chooses. Anyone taking a shot in the dark with this method aka cold approach is a damn fool. I have totally normal social skills. Would be fun to experiment some | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?yes I noticed some girls love it at night. I think seeing how they respond to intense eye contact is a good screen for this. African girls? David X fucked mostly white girls i think, but he is sort of an abnomoly i guess. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 06:22 AM |
| 0 | why do i attract the same type of womanDon't blame yourself for those things. Those girls are treating you badly. The girls are saying you are the bad one as well? If so that is called Gaslighting and used by people with narcecism to make you doubt yourself. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?Ìt definitly makes sense. what is up with people praising mode one then? Maybe the really direct coaches has a blindspot. They are allready really alpha by default and maybe their directness works despite them saying perv stuff. Joey Diaz is also the same way if you ever heard his stories from his coke days. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?yes aggresion from men is the biggest obstacle | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Being a straight up perv on the street?yes I have done it before in the night and it worked. But again everyone is drunk in the weekend nights. I have not seen any infields doing this. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Being a straight up perv on the street?They claim they get a bunch of shit back and they would just dont care about it. Soporno also does this, but in a more funny and elegant fashion. End goal would just be that it would be easy as hell just saying what is on your mind. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | The centered, chill guy always winsI agree and the James Bond persona is not good for pickup even though guys would love it to be that way. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | The centered, chill guy always winsYeah i hear some stories of guys back in the day (50s) would show up with roses for months untill the woman would say yes and they later becomes a couple. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 02:34 AM |
| 3 | The centered, chill guy always wins"stoic" is more the strong quiet guy I think and it works out not so good in real life even though many men think so. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 02:30 AM |
| 2 | First cold approach ever. Went well!What you did is in the end what we kind of want anyways. Having the guts to get a shot at any girl we like going down the street or wherever. I recently started daygame again also. I use anger to hype myself up when I have approach anxiety like i brainwash myself for every missed approach getting angry at myself for not going for it. after a while the pain of the anger and thought of missing out is more painful than the Anxiety and i Approach. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 12:05 AM |
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