freeshavocadew Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	1 comment with 1 downvote in the whole subreddit - okay then, feminists sure are inclusive		freeshavocadew	/r/AntiFeminists	11/02/22 08:13 PM
1	An experience of echo chambers		freeshavocadew	/r/AntiFeminists	08/11/21 05:19 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I stopped holding the door open for women and its been liberating This went from a "I didn't agree with everything you wrote" to personal attacks? Alright. I gave examples, you bumbling fucking fool. Multiple examples, of where and how courtesy may happen or not happen because you think this is about courtesy. It isn't. You think it is, but it's really about a specific action that is demonstrably by one gender for another sex where one of several reasons for it is courtesy. Holding the door open to allow people to pass through the door has many reasons from se…	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/06/24 01:08 AM
0	I stopped holding the door open for women and its been liberating I may not have agreed with you on everything but I tried to keep in mind that you've got your own experiences. If you're from outside the US we still have more in common than we have in contrast but one of the things that may or may not be are regional differences. For example, the southern US is associated with manners and old-fashioned ideas about gender. The men hold doors open, they say yes sir or no ma'am, they walk on the side of the street closest to traffic, etc. It's not universal, I'm …	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/06/24 05:11 PM
-5	I stopped holding the door open for women and its been liberating Is being inconsiderate freakish? Social courtesies vary considerably. We think it's polite to hold doors open for women when in that same area that has put a bounty on pregnant women seeking an abortion. Which is more socially courteous, not opening a door or scaring doctors about the legal limbo trying to figure out if the medical intervention of an abortion is both the medical and legal solution? I'm not saying those two examples are the same, they're clearly on different scales and topics but…	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/06/24 03:05 PM
11	Feminist study doesn't show how much the spear was used, just that it could be, focuses on this stidy instead of acrual archeological evidence (assuming it wasn't one squad or other exception) jokes about dumb brute men not knowing how to use it. We have collective historical artifacts, references, and first-hand accounts of battles, hunting parties, and cultural traditions both oral and written for a couple thousand years to reference here. We know there was a select group of warriors referred to as the Sacred Band of Thebes, which were 150 pairs of male lovers. We can tell you about how the Scythians used composite bows as the then pinnacle of military tech and weaponry. We can show time after time a truly nauseating level of "men did …	/r/AntiFeminists	20/08/23 02:32 PM
5	#Believeallwomen I count myself extremely fortunate that I've never run into being falsely accused by anyone. I try to keep in mind that most people are generally good and would not be on the lookout to ruin other people's lives, while also recognizing that in the US mental illness is a largely under-addressed problem. From a legal standpoint, something like this would be pretty difficult to prosecute and a good lawyer could tear apart credibility in a case like this pretty easily. Socially though, this could be…	/r/AntiFeminists	21/05/23 07:18 AM
0	N O E G G S. E M P T Y C A R T O N I'm going to get really vulnerable for a second. I almost cried yesterday while watching Forrest Gump while quite high. It happened towards the end of the movie where, spoiler alert, Forrest meets his son. It wasn't because of the emotion of the scene itself but realizing that 34 and will probably never have a kid or kids. I almost broke down at the realization that it probably ends with me. I'll never meet my son/daughter. A lot of it is on me, I have a lot to work on personally. However, I've …	/r/AntiFeminists	22/01/23 10:15 AM
5	Misandrist post I am very confused about the double standards that women get to have in their favor and pretend they don't exist, like association here in this image. Feminists can separate what the individual one thinks out from the crazies that claim feminism, is never really confronted about whether or not those crazies are actually feminists. However, every man who thinks that men at least occasionally get a raw deal in a divorce or bring up statistics about pay or whatever, he's no longer a guy talking but…	/r/AntiFeminists	11/12/22 03:15 PM
2	The Word "Incel" Is Becoming More And More Meta and Misused In the subreddit BestofRedditorUpdates in the topic OOP - AITA for not wanting a ring my fiancé already gave to another girl I rephrased what the OP woman wrote from my interpretation based on what she wrote and called her an asshole for acting materialistic. One of the responses to my comment was the common rebuttal of "tell me your incel without telling me you're an incel" which I said basically the same thing about calling someone an incel on the internet because you disagree doesn't carry th…	/r/AntiFeminists	31/10/22 10:10 AM
1	Toxic Feminism Ruined Dating Oh, I see. I did not see the word adults originally. Census.gov does indeed clarify that there is an estimate of 258.3 million adults and 73.1 million under 18 year olds. How foolish of me to just use an entire population, you sure didn't. Numbers vary, but I'm only trying to play your game by your rules on the numbers, but the numbers don't actually matter to me or my points made. If you need them to figure out how much you should care, by all means. There are a number of highly successful peop…	/r/AntiFeminists	05/10/22 08:22 PM
1	Toxic Feminism Ruined Dating "When OnlyFans is the rule rather than exception in terms of a "job," there is something wrong." I wrote that line to be the start of a "this isn't a job" thought. At least, it's not a comparable job to working in a warehouse or whatever. It's one of the rationales used to normalize it. The risks and maintenance required alone, but like the path to those things, the support systems we have, the difference in values required to sling boxes onto a pallet versus slinging asshole onto a traffic cone…	/r/AntiFeminists	05/10/22 07:46 PM
1	Toxic Feminism Ruined Dating My point was that OF is still sex work, and there is a pretty clear push on social media for people to accept OF in particular. My experience on Reddit, one of several social media sites, include fairly frequent messages asking or telling me to subscribe to some OF or premium Snapchat from some profile that I've had little or no interaction with, which as far as writing my thoughts here, my anecdotal evidence is perfectly acceptable. The idea that it's the same as working in a warehouse, and it'…	/r/AntiFeminists	05/10/22 03:30 PM
1	Toxic Feminism Ruined Dating I don't have anything critical to write just now, though I might advise being careful to not let frustration affect your relationships with others. Women are a lot more plugged into culture and social standing, you wouldn't want to give them a reason to cancel you. We all know that men don't all think the same and neither do women. Women are not held accountable enough for their decisions, and I would be very unsurprised if there were statistics indicating slipping out from consequences, includi…	/r/AntiFeminists	05/10/22 02:41 PM
11	What do you think about abortion? Welp, since it is a medical procedure for a few conditions including to save the woman's life, I would say it should be as accessible as any other medical procedure. Making doctors, nurses, and medical staff choose between the health of the patient or the letter of the law seems very wrong morally and from a legality perspective. Almost as if outlawing a thing doesn't make it stop, only shifts the risk.	/r/AntiFeminists	08/08/22 12:36 PM
5	A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it. Man. I remember being called that on FetLife. I was aware of activists and feminists before I joined FetLife but I had a different expectation. I figured they were focused on women's issues but we're, overall, trying to advocate for either recognition or some progressive policies that benefit women. I figured that was okay, I also thought there was a balance there somewhere. FetLife showed me that feminists had a problem with echo chambers, flawed assumptions (wage gap myth, SA and rape statisti…	/r/AntiFeminists	19/07/22 12:36 PM
3	As always, feminists stealing other women's achievements for themselves. What? This is the first and so far only comment I've made about snipers or mentioning Hayha. I did it because his record is more impressive and he was from the same war.	/r/AntiFeminists	17/07/22 08:40 AM
22	As always, feminists stealing other women's achievements for themselves. Opened this thread to mention Hayha. Estimated 500 enemy soldiers. That's about 200 more than Pavlichenko. Who has the bigger dick now? War, especially when it is a threat delivered to you and your loved ones on your land, will have heroes. Men and women that do extraordinary things compared to peace time, and some that go beyond even ordinary wartime measures. Pavlichenko and Hayha are both national heroes and they have earned the respect and admiration through their deeds taking the war to the…	/r/AntiFeminists	17/07/22 12:52 AM
2	feminism has made my life worse Funny thing, and I can't speak for everyone else here only myself, but if the original ideas of feminism and my ideas were put on a comparative and contrasting list, I think you'd be surprised how much I agree with feminists on. Like, I think abortion should be legally protected, especially if there is even a hint of a threat to the woman herself. I think voting is important, I don't want them restricted and would prefer a more robust system to make it so not voting was more difficult than just …	/r/AntiFeminists	16/07/22 08:45 PM
4	Stop paying for Only Fans Happy to say I've bought nothing from OF girls and never plan to. Thanks, Spankbang!	/r/AntiFeminists	07/07/22 10:10 AM
2	Sums it up I tried looking for examples elsewhere, the suffragette movement and first wave feminism are not a simple Venn diagram with circles that barely overlap with just a few members in both camps but is just a single circle as it's two circles on top of each other. This is not a Lesbian sex euphemism. Truth be told, I'm having no difficulty finding women assaulting politicians, religious leaders, and influential men (and even a few women I think) over their desire to vote but I can't find any quick an…	/r/AntiFeminists	18/06/22 05:30 AM
2	Sums it up https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffragette_bombing_and_arson_campaign	/r/AntiFeminists	18/06/22 03:14 AM
7	Sums it up Man doesn't know his history. The first wave used bombs and actual terrorism. The modern womyn don't even like guns.	/r/AntiFeminists	17/06/22 02:28 AM
1	1 comment with 1 downvote in the whole subreddit - okay then, feminists sure are inclusive By the way, I responded to that message I was permanently banned. Mod confirmed, it was solely because I identified as male. See for yourself	/r/AntiFeminists	12/02/22 10:02 PM
1	1 comment with 1 downvote in the whole subreddit - okay then, feminists sure are inclusive Okay? What do you mean?	/r/AntiFeminists	12/02/22 09:55 PM
9	Catcalled Your experience is valid. We may not agree much with feminists here, but we don't hate women. What you were wearing is only important as far as context goes, it never means you deserve to feel unsafe. Did you feel unsafe? Like were the circumstances more than just some random dudes being creepy?	/r/AntiFeminists	05/02/22 11:08 PM
10	Catcalled Are you trolling or serious? I ask because I saw the video, it was like 10 minutes long I think. She was walking around clearly less maintained areas of NYC and such, the guys I saw looked black and Latino. I heard some of the guys were actors, and I noticed a good number of the catcall's were from guys not seen and were implied to be directed at the woman walking in front of a camera. The whole "experiment" seemed kinda bullshit to me, but I'm open to learning more.	/r/AntiFeminists	05/02/22 10:43 PM
2	She put into words women's toxic attitude towards men. It sure is something to see a woman be aggressively hateful about a male behavior which is tangential to the topic. If a woman is uncomfortable doing something, she's given protections and treated delicately so as to avoid a lawsuit. If a man is uncomfortable doing something - fuck you, stop making WOMEN uncomfortable? I don't believe that all men have the same problem, or even a majority of men do like this. Most of us, in a position to mentor someone, realize we'll be spending a lot of time wi…	/r/AntiFeminists	08/11/21 02:52 PM
5	The way this sub likes to blame literally all men for the actions of an extreme minority is exactly why our sub exist. Fuck everyone on that sub. I see several problems here. I heard and read the title for this story a couple times in a couple places - a guy raped a woman on a train while some people saw and did nothing. Nothing clarified if the guy was armed or not and none mentioned the sorting identities of the witnesses. If he's got a knife and if I, a bystander, am another woman - I'm not intervening just so I can be victim #2. As a guy the armed thing concerns me. Additionally the fact this guy is reported to be an illegal Congolese…	/r/AntiFeminists	20/10/21 07:35 PM
3	Wanting a young adult wife is apparently “grooming” now. This is hard to hear as a man that has a slight preference for women a little older than him	/r/AntiFeminists	10/07/21 03:23 AM
5	Truth right here You would have a good point if things were equal. If the average man had the average support and comparable relationships that the average woman has - I'd agree the genders add no value to the discussion. There's social butterflies and then there are the people that are less vocal and seen as less friendly. We, in the US, attribute far more malcontent, malfeasance, and evil to men than women. As in if a woman is quiet she is more likely to be viewed as shy whereas if a man is quiet he is more li…	/r/AntiFeminists	08/06/21 12:08 AM
3	In the mind of the Average FDS believer. Calm down, friend. It is all alright.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/06/21 11:21 AM
4	In the mind of the Average FDS believer. No need. There's no points lost, no one is upset. Now you know and won't confuse folks with double negatives in the future, maybe. Or not, I'm just an internet stranger, not the language police. :)	/r/AntiFeminists	06/06/21 11:15 AM
8	In the mind of the Average FDS believer. You are right - how that should have been phrased.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/06/21 11:07 AM
15	No money for you. ::channeling a user from female dating strategy sub:: YAAAS YOU GO [KING]!	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/06/21 08:06 PM
2	Feminist Mommy I...I did not know what I was expecting but it most certainly was not this. Motherfucker hit all the talking points like he hit that skillet.	/r/AntiFeminists	03/06/21 11:40 PM
2	Food throwers get stitches..... This is both black on black and woman on woman crime. The videos I usually see with this usually resolve their issues with lesbian sex though...	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/03/21 01:38 AM
1	To Davy Jones' Locker she goes i wasn't able to read this, only saw what looked like a classless motherfucker at a grave. once i reddit though, i chuckled. this is good. RIP AH's career.	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/04/20 10:35 AM
1	Wife caught cheating on husband in a grocery store parking lot...... These are some impolite Canadians...	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/10/19 04:59 AM