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yeah if you're in an enclosed social environment (like I'm in grad school and I have to encounter the same women repeatedly, and we all have mutual friends), it may be advisable to not show intent right away. If this is like a bar type of setting we're talking about, I find that usually, if she is willing to leave her friends for an extended period of time and talk to you alone, it's a sign she's reciprocating (not 100%, but it's a sign).
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:13 AM
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you need to find a consistent social circle. Something to do everyday, a goal to work for that involves people. I think finding a job or enrolling at your local community college can help a lot. Granted rn w/ social distancing guidelines it's going to be a bit different. But once this blows over I strongly recommend doing one or both of those things. The girls will come naturally as you get a consistent social commitment/circle
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:04 AM
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I've met Brad Pitt too. I called him earlier asked him if he knew who you were and he said "nah who the fuck is that?"
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:01 AM
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we do it all the time. Being "real" is nothing more than a figment of your imagination. Literally every study done on social psychology related to the self has uncovered the fact that human beings are social chameleons. Let me ask you, do you act the same way around your boss as you do around your boys? Or your clients at your job? Chances are probably not. You probably act more professionally to clean up your act.
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:59 AM
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this guy is dumb af he's just doing it to stroke his own ego lmao as if someone who is a 25 year old virgin has never tried "smiling" before. LMFAO like amazing advice bro, who would've fucking thought this guy should become a relationships coach
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:54 AM
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lol such stupid advice. You really think someone who is actually a virgin not by choice has never smiled and approached a woman before? I know some people who just got dealt a very poor hand- they're short, bald at 20, and have poor skin. I used to have the same perspective as you, and would tell them, "dude just stay calm and smile when you talk to women, it's easy." Just like yourself, I didn't realize my own bias. this has worked for me, so I figured it'd work for them. We went for a night ou…
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:53 AM
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Ehh nothing you say seems like you’re being too nice or it’s your behavior. Maybe you’re feminine looking (lack sexual dimorphism). Sorry, just being dead honest here cuz if a bunch of girls are saying you aren’t the guy that’s hook-up material, then it’s either something physical (e.g. lacking sexual dimorphism, looking too young) or behavior (e.g. acting too nice). More often than not it seems like it’s something in the physical department, unless you’re acting way, way too nice which doesn’t …
/r/seduction18/05/20 12:50 PM
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Having a boyish face is not bad, but if a lot of women are saying you look like a little boy then that’s not very good if you’re an adult. Studies show that women look for high-testosterone facial characteristics when choosing “one-night stand” partners
/r/seduction18/05/20 08:31 AM
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bro we can't even see your face
/r/seduction18/05/20 03:52 AM
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either you're being overly nice and showering her w/ compliments, or you have a certain look about you that exudes little boy
/r/seduction18/05/20 03:50 AM
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90 videos to learn about texting seems excessive. Is Todd V really legit?
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:15 PM
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the biggest bs men tell themselves is that somehow despite the fact that women invest all that time in make-up and clothes to make themselves presentable, they somehow dgaf about what men look like. Looks matter, it may not be everything but it certainly matters
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:07 PM
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Thank you. I'm generally a very confident guy, sure of myself and can deal with social situations easily. I think the fundamental issue I face is I get scared of confrontation thus wimp out. I've had instances where guys have intimidated me into backing out and I've frozen, legit frozen mentally. just being real here my dude, cuz we can all improve. If you're really confident in yourself, you wouldn't be so intimidated by other men. It's fucking easy to be confident around women, we're automatic…
/r/seduction13/04/20 07:55 PM
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I've seen plenty of posts from a woman's pov asking for advice and I've never seen someone say "you're a woman get out"
/r/seduction13/04/20 07:42 PM
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the key thing is in that article, the expert says ""The kind of normal where we go traveling, we go to restaurants, we go to concerts, we go to religious services, we go on cruises, until we have a vaccine that protects everyone. That's 18 months, it's not going to be sooner," There's a big qualifier there. When he's talking about "normal life" he's literally referring to doing EVERYTHING we were doing before the virus hit, AND with a vaccine that protects everyone. But being able to go to a res…
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:25 AM
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I'm sorry but all I heard was humblebragging lmao
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:19 AM
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On the first one you should do all the planning, unless she specifically says she wants to do XYZ. In fact, not knowing what you wanna do can be a turn-off for her if it's the first date.
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:16 AM
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the crazy thing is FDS is full of people supporting and championing this so some people are saying that this is somehow equivalent to anti-abortion laws. The problem w/ this thinking is that w/ anti-abortion laws, there is a choice. You can avoid having to abort your fetus by practicing safe-sex or staying abstinent (I believe most anti-abortion laws give the woman an out if the baby was due to rape). However, this proposed bill takes away that choice completely. Every man will be FORCED to be s…
/r/MensRights02/03/20 03:33 AM
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this type of advice doesn't help him at all, and sounds condescending tbh. At 5'11 you're still considerably taller than the vast majority of women, and taller than the average man in the US. Very few women are 6'0, and even then that's only a 1 inch different. OP says on any given night there may be 10 girls taller than him, so i reckon he's considerably below avg height... somewhere around 5'5 I'd reckon. Your advice is equivalent to a person making 500k a year, dating a woman making 600k a ye…
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:52 AM
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if a girl strictly tells you you aren't her type it's likely a nice way of her saying she just isn't attracted to you. But based on your post, I don't think it's good to presuppose the notion that X girl has a certain "type" due to her ethnicity or background. It can be toxic, and essentially you may even lose the battle before you start. I have an example- maybe you're east asian yourself, but I'm Korean. Us East Asians tend to have the shorter end of the stick when it comes to perceived attrac…
/r/seduction25/02/20 06:37 AM
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I mean technically you wouldn't be an incel because the "in" part of incel implies that you are trying but nothing is working. Seems like for you, you aren't even trying. Are girls really giving you attention like this, or are you exaggerating it in your head? Idk I'm not trying to sound like a doubter but I've seen/heard way too many of these "oh I have all these girls into me but I never try but I want to lose my virginity" posts that I find it to be pretty tiring, and usually the guy is exagg…
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:39 AM
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oh yeah dude, totally pay 10s of thousands for the "social aspect." Nah seriously, posts like these are pretty retarded imo. People think college is this wild American pie experience but in reality, unless you're in a frat AND going to a party school, the "social aspect" may not live up to your expectations. I mean, don't get me wrong- I love the social aspect of it even as an introvert, and I've certainly had way more opportunities to hook-up here than I would have in the "real world," but I wo…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 10:33 AM
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r/femaledatingstrategy is imho unrealistic af. I don't go there often but I've seen reposts of women wanting guys to have model-tier looks, 6 foot+ and making 6 figures at least annually. i'd say it depends on your age, the girl's age, and your looks. If you're 20 working as a cashier is normal, and most 20 year old girls don't care about your job. But working as a cashier at 35 isn't nearly as acceptable, and women in their late 20s-30s consider job/status when looking for a potential mate. I a…
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:21 AM
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this is lowkey r/humblebrag. Bro if you had 50 girls approach you and you didn't try even w/ one of them you may have some issues.... get over yourself cuz no one cares about your "perfect" image. This is just what's called the "spotlight effect", we exaggerate the extent to which people recognize things we do b/c we can never view ourselves from a 3rd party perspective. I guarantee that there is no one that gives a shit about this perfect image of yours other than yourself
/r/seduction04/01/20 08:52 AM
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I think you gotta get yourself fixed and find yourself rather than trying to get in a relationship for her to guide the way. It's great to have a support group, I've dealt w/ addiction myself so I know where you're coming from man. However, and excuse me if I misinterpreted your post, but I don't think it's a good idea to get involved in a romantic relationship so that girl helps you thru your journey to find yourself. I encourage you to find friends instead to do that and a genuine support grou…
/r/seduction04/01/20 08:34 AM
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yeah absolutely. I follow r/psychology and there was a study posted there somewhat recently on humor. Apparently, males have a higher tendency to produce humor than females b/c it offers a sexual advantage. I forget what the nitty gritty is and how it tied to the ancestral environment but it suggests that, in general, women see a man's ability to produce humor as sexually attractive. I'd say it's only "looked down" upon if that is all you've been doing for like 10 years and it's not going anywhe…
/r/seduction04/01/20 08:25 AM
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dude truerateme is fucking aids imo maybe I have low standards (dont think so, I live near Beverley Hills where every other girl you see is a model) but I've seen gorgeous girls get rated 5s all around
/r/seduction04/01/20 03:42 AM
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dude you didn't have "no results"... it seems like some of the said yes. three out of 15 saying yes to you isn't bad at all, especially considering the fact that it seems like you're asking these girls out from the get-go and sometimes in inconvenient places (like in class). I'm in college myself and I've found that sometimes you may not wanna ask out a girl right away (I know a lot of ppl think a girl has to be attracted to you right away, but I don't think that always has to be the case), she …
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:24 AM
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Yeah dude you gotta just consciously remind yourself to reframe the situation. It takes baby steps but there's is gonna be a huge pay off! And I agree, I think you should have definitely optimized on these opportunities. maybe w/ the library situation you went too deep right away, doing that isn't good for everyone. It's actually funny cuz I really know everything you're talking about (like the shame about going back to the library/approaching more girls) cuz I'm still working on it myself. You'…
/r/seduction19/11/19 06:41 AM
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I actually really feel where you're coming from. I'm currently trying to get better too. That pit in your stomach is the worst and while a lot of ppl on this sub say that "rejection is good" it's still a shitty feeling. I think it just comes down to reframing. I've had a habit of reframing things to the worse scenario/intention. For instance, a friend would ignore my message and I would automatically interpret that they don't care enough to hit me back. I learned what this was after I took some …
/r/seduction19/11/19 06:12 AM
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I wouldn't write the poem, not w/ your intentions that is. If you're writing a poem to cheer up a friend, then sure, but obviously if you like this girl and you're trynna get in her pants that's not a good move, given the situation. You're clearly just a friend to her bro, like an orbiter as red pillers would say. She might call you sweet for writing the poem but it isn't getting you any closer to getting w/ her, that's almost certain. Any girl that has any romantic/sexual interest in a guy woul…
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:46 AM
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nothing. if she's interested she'll hit you up, there's nothing you can do at this point
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:29 AM
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What do you mean tho? dude you like this girl and you're gonna fuck yourself psychologically if you keep refusing to make a move b/c you dont wanna make it awkward. trust, I've been there and it's way better to be awkward and rejected versus liking her and refusing to make a move.
/r/seduction18/11/19 07:47 AM
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As others have stated clubs just aren't for everyone. I personally am a fan of rap music so I like going to clubs that play hip-hop, but if I wasn't a fan I probably wouldn't go (music is very big for me). You have to go w/ a group cuz other girls always go with a group of their friends or their bf. You're not gonna have much success trying to chat up girls who are occupied w/ their friends when you're alone (not saying it can't happen, it just isn't very likely). I've found that going w/ a grou…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 03:15 AM
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It's definitely ingrained in us to fear rejection. In the ancestral environment, if you were a male and you were rejected, you didn't have much opportunities/choices to begin w/, so there was a good chance your bloodline would've ended right there. So it makes sense for us to have that fear ingrained in us, tho it may not make sense for the modern environment, w/ the sheer number of opportunities that you have at getting women (a couple rejections now doesn't mean nearly as much as it did thousa…
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:21 AM
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I felt like OP just wanted to brag tbh. Not every girl who is interested will message you first and make themselves super available, tho obviously it happens
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:16 AM
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not necessarily, but sometimes I find that girls who are on the more average side actually reject more guys/have a big head cuz they get approached more. I knew this girl that would always complain about how her straight guy friends all went for her. Shit was kinda annoying tbh, i mean she was pretty cute but nothing amazing at all. I just think she got approached a lot b/c she is approachable, she looks like someone the average guy thinks they have a very realistic shot at. On the other hand, g…
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:14 AM
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you can get her name by asking for her snap or some type of social media, instead of saying you forgot her name. You could always just say you forgot tho i guess lol
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:10 AM
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just cuz a girl likes your pic doesn't mean she's DTF, doesn't mean she isn't either. It just doesn't really mean much by itself.. maybe if she liked a number of your pics, including old ones, that might mean something. Some girls like pics just so guys will follow them. I don't see why you don't dm her tho, nothing to lose
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:08 AM
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average looking guys can get phone numbers no problem on campus... you just gotta approach women the right way. Dress right and don't be a creeper. At my college campus as long as you don't creep them out/ look crazy you can probably get numbers of 3/4 of all the girls you ask. Of course getting a number doesn't really mean shit tho tbh, only time it means something significant is if the girl approached you and gave it to you
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:34 AM
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son if you're really 14 how do you know if personality matters or not. Like boyyyy you haven't even finished puberty yet
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:35 AM
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forreal... had a girl I was talking to recently tell me she hated social media and using her phone. Yet her snapchat score went up tens of thousands within a couple months. To put that into perspective she'd have to be sending/receiving over 1000 messages a day to get that
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:09 AM
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tackling oneitis at the core may be better than purposely going for certain girls. W/ oneitis it's usually the individual, not the qualities of the woman. Cuz basically w/ oneitis you're just putting all of these qualities on a pedestal, and many of these qualities either don't exist or are greatly exaggerated. I would know cuz i've had issues w/ this!
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:13 AM
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probably depends on the age group, no? I'm in a college rn in LA and i swear that reputation helps. Obviously girls will never admit it, and they might not even be conscious of it themselves, but I feel like they like it cuz it shows that you are desirable to other women. Obviously this is not the same across all women in their 20s and some will be repulsed by it, or think too highly of themselves to sleep w/ a man w/ such a reputation.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:03 AM
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you guys pretty close? it could be she initially did not have anything planned and then last minute decided to go. Or she just lied. Some girls love to downplay how social they are, for some reason. Like they'll say "oh i never go out, im like a grandma i'm so boring" yet they go to the clubs every weekend and get blasted.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:56 AM
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is this a troll? If you're being serious do anything but that. Makes you look suuuuper desperate
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:47 AM
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