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Spot on man. Read me like a book, but you're 100 percent right with everything. I know now what i have to do
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:32 PM
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Right on the nose with the mommy issues. I had a terrible childhood fueled by a single mother My issue isn't so much not being a jerk, i figured that out and it works well. For me it's the "Not being a creep", as well as the fear of rejection and awkwardness that will follow, AKA cowardice, which i think stems from one time when i got a hand in the face as i tried to go in for the kiss... But whatever, quit being a bitch is the right answer.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:17 PM
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You're telling me cus I feel like a fucking loser rn, and rightfully so.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:09 PM
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No porn and no fap increased my libido. But meditating 40+ minutes for over two months has, at least for me changed my life significantly: Less anxious, Less depressed, more empathetic, living in the moment more vs. in my head. It's definitely improved my quality of life, and i'm gonna continue doing it. That being said YMMV
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:10 AM
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My logic in this new way of thinking, which i'm still torn about and am very much open to counter arguements, but it goes as follows: Empathy is feeling what others feel, right? When people are distressed or upset, and you listen to them, and you empathize with them, such as by using the word sorry, which as you'd pointed out would imply that i am feeling distressed by what they are saying. Doing this strengthens the connections and relationships you have with these people, which is a very power…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:08 AM
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Yeah, i agree very much. That being said, my crippling loneliness is killing me... And the desperation is pushing me towards option A. I suppose, it takes time.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 08:43 PM
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Negative, or at least not in my immediate area. I suppose i have acquaintances who i party with, or will grab a beer, but i'm hesitant to call them friends. I have one female friend (She's a Lesbian) who's kinda integrated me into her social circle, but i don't really hang out with anyone but her. I have a hard time connecting with people, period. Especially males I think it comes down to feelings of inadequacy when im contrasted to them: I only lost my virginity 6 months ago, never had a GF, ha…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:47 PM
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6'1, 185lbs, bf:~17 (I've been eating like shit lately) 325 Squat 235 Bench 355 DL Dumbell OHP (75's) Physical attractiveness isn't my problem, i've been lifting and dressing well for a while, been reading TRP for 3 years. My issue is terrible social skills and game, and my location a bit. It's easy to go to the gym, that just takes will power, theres no risk of emotional pain from failure (aka, being a puss). I just read Roosh's Daybang and been working on my social skills and even did a few ap…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:28 AM
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Fair enough, point taken. Back to working on day game i suppose.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:17 AM
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You're jumping the gun a bit I figured someone would call me out as oneitis. Not really the case, it's more so a missed opportunity in my mind, rather than fantasizing about the girl. As for frame or SMV, again, jumping the gun... I've made no mention of my present frame or SMV at any point in the above. But i invite a counter argument.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:07 AM
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The unfortunate part being that, what i called "Monk Mode" was mental justification for Autism Mode. I barely had any interaction with her, despite having been around her a decent amount. I don't know if i can pull the band or the employee discount card.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:15 AM
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That seems awfully passive, just waiting for something to fall into your lap. Have you had success doing this
/r/askTRP20/12/17 06:23 AM
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I suppose you're right May i ask what the alternative would be? Social circle game? Or just go about my day to day and wait for the universe to do me right, while having my social skills razor sharp 24/7?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 06:13 AM
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Don't go out actively looking for women May you elaborate? Essentially, my day to day is almost devoid of single, good looking women. Going out and actively approaching doesn't sound like a bad idea (To ease the soul-crushing lonliness) to me.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 05:40 AM
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I’m not a fan of building a rigid, unrelenting structure in your life Flexibility is the key to Air Power, my CC used to say Ultimately, keep you eyes on the prize (yourself), but if along the way you find a girl worth plating, go for it
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:19 AM
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Dude told Jane, Jane asked me if I was serious, and I doubled down, Jane then told Emily
/r/askTRP14/12/17 03:27 AM
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Yeah, that’s what I’m banking on atm Though, she won’t be able to get around seeing me, as she’s gonna be roommates with Jane and I hang out with Jane at least once a week (purely platonic, I enjoy James company, and vice versa) But yeah, distance and time is my best bet Otherwise, move forward
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:42 PM
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Yeah, that occurred to me shortly afterwards, doubling down would’ve done less damage than being a bitch and apologizing And fuck that dude, my first instinct was reprisal, but I think I’m gonna keep improving and throw it in his face
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:37 PM
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