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If it's just looking, what is the problem? It gives you joy and usually shouldn't bother them either if you're not too obvious.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:48 PM
7

No, why would you need to read it? If you want to learn to make a cake you read a recipe and follow it. You won't read it every day just because you like cake and the recipe was good.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:46 PM
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Soo I don't see the problem. If they are adults they can do what they want and so can you. Obviously it feels weird because there is a natural hierarchy in addition to the normal male/female hierarchy that you don't have when talking to girls your own age. But a lot of women like that, so don't feel bad about it.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:47 PM
0

She'll most likely just be annoyed and you'll waste your time trying this.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:10 PM
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If your wife is doing a girl's night out every week with a potential to cheat, then you're doing something wrong lol Unlike most modern relationship things, gender seperated partying and going out is much much more common in more conservative cultures and in the past though.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:00 PM
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Well it's easy. Do you want to keep her just as a friend too? Yes? Then invite her. No? Then disregard her.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:56 PM
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Yes it is bluepilled. And for the girls it's annoying. Whenever you try a male dominated hobby, every guy is like "this is my chance" and swarm the girl.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:52 PM
1

Yes you should probably ask her to hang out again. Don't talk too much about it. But she probably thinks you didn't find her attractive enough and feels like it was her fault.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:55 PM
1

Okay maybe it is my language and culture barrier here that I don't get it 😅
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:53 PM
2

Sorry I am French but what does that even mean? How do they know if you're awake or not?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:46 PM
1

A case where we can't really help you on reddit. So be honest the most reasonable thing would be to just wait and go on with your life. Maybe she'll send something in a couple of days or you could send something but don't attach yourself too much to her now. If you don't want to text again and she doesn't either, you can still message her when you're back and you're still interested.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:45 PM
1

Well I can't tell you about quality but I myself and like even a big chunk of women don't ever do any type of casual dating and sex, so yes, a lot of women are just invisible to most men including those ranting about women online.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:11 AM
0

You know, if you already know now that you'll feel miserable don't do it. If you don't like doing art as a job then don't do it. Maybe you just need an option three?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:49 AM
3

Looking at your edits and the fact that you are a black rather conservative person, I think church would be a good place to try? If you believe in God to some degree. Of course I know there's a ton of churches in the US and other countries but I think you might find someone in that context?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:55 PM
-1

I never told you to discard them. For me personally I think people who sleep around that much can't be good to your growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:41 PM
-1

Okay. If you share that worldview, then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:34 PM
5

I am the same. I need dominance in a man to feel happy and safe. I always try to find the good in relationships. I believe all men are naturally dominant if they believe they can be. He probably needs higher self esteem and to some degree you can help him with that. He might be a beta male but we can't all marry the top 10% of alphas.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 05:32 PM
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I'd like to give some hints but you didn't tell us what your values actually are. This will define where you have to look for the right partner. Also if in doubt: Discuss these things early with them and don't date if it doesn't seem to work.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:20 PM
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Hey that's a difficult topic and no one here can say do this or do that in this case. The things you added about his mother are very typical and I think you figured yourself that this is a bad sign. But then again: He is only 21, so he needs more time. It's hard to get away from your parents and to "grow up" especially nowadays. Feeling like a mother happens sometimes and it is okay - if you feel like he is your father too sometimes. I know it sounds weird but a bit of "parental" love is normal …
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 05:16 PM
1

I obviously have no clue whether ball size says anything but I do know that all the phrases about balls (in English they have "grow some balls" for example) is not about the size of the balls but about having them at all. The saying is basically "Don't be a woman/eunuch" and tells people to man up. So it says that if you show fear, you act like a woman.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:57 PM
1

That is true of course, I didn't mean it that way. I just think that life gets better if you don't deal with people like that more than necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:47 PM
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Haha well that's an option too. The best way of not failing at casual sex is not having casual sex though. That's what I was saying.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:35 PM
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If you are friends with people who slept with over 100 people, then maybe you just have the wrong friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:33 PM
2

Best option is to wait long enough before having sex, so that this won't be an issue. But if you are not the patient type, then you have two options: You either don't care because you don't want it to last or you continue doing other sexual stuff that doesn't require you to be hard.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:26 PM
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Sorry to hear you had these experiences. I think the easiest way for you would be to primarily do real life things with girls and text as little as possible. On most apps you can send voice messages, maybe that would be a solution too? Really overcoming a trauma like that can be hard work.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:17 PM
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Sometimes it will make girls go crazy positively. Sometimes they'll just think you don't care. Validation is important for both men and women. Where are you contacting them? In real life or online? If it is tinder or a similar app, then yes, a lot of women use it primarily for validation.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:52 PM
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Wait? So she still has contact to other guys from tinder? Definitely a big big red flag. Is there any exclusivity right now between the two of you? I usually don't say this, but in this case, I would break it off and keep it that way if you don't want to get hurt.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:50 PM
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While I can't contribute much, I must say I disagree with this part: I feel like women these days watch more porn than men. I don't even enjoy fucking their tits but they want it because porn tells them to. I am 99% sure that men watch much more porn than women. But women do watch porn and it affects both male and female perspectives on sex. While some time ago things like anal sex or using the tits to jerk off would have been rare, it is more common now. But men still watch way waaaaay more por…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:44 PM
3

This is true and not a good thing. We have to work against this.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:25 PM
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It is not just about female nature, it is about true gender roles in general. To realize female nature, you must realize male nature. For me personally, I think I am still learning and developing.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:19 PM
1

Message me about it if you like. Can only tell you my personal preference, but it is something I guess.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:01 PM
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I don't know how much you guys are talking about feelings and your relationship in general. But you should try talking about it. She seems to want more (unless you are horribly misinterpreting things) and if you think she could be the one, then go for it. Often the girls who aren't your initial first choice for a relationship end up being the best choice. (I won't lecture you about fwb relationships now)
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:59 PM
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Try to talk about it, yes it's the easiest way. Of course it is about wording too. Don't just say: "You should do..." or "I want that..." - Always explain yourself and he will understand. Do you have a specific thing you want to talk to him about?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 02:53 PM
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