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| 16 | Ginger Dean @lovingmeafterwe on Instagram is an absolute queen. Following her page on healing from narcissistic abuse and codependency saved my life. This post of hers reminding everyone why she makes woc/female specific content and honestly resonates to why I think FDS also is a female only sub. 💜👑“Identifies as such with the feminine experience” this could include literally any man on the planet if he decides that he “identifies” this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:29 PM |
| 9 | Absence is your best, most declarative weapon against men’s misogyny.This mindset drastically improved my social life and mental well-being | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 11 | Safe spaces for women CANNOT have men! If men are included it ceases to be a safe space for women.I’m really glad people are finally acknowledging this issue. Leftists don’t give a damn about women’s safety and will allow men into their private spaces because of how they ~identify~. You never see a woman in the men’s room in a jock strap and XXL tee shirt because women know it would be incredibly dangerous. It’s always men pretending to be women, getting off on others’ discomfort at his presence. Only men would have this kind of audacity and lack of shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 7 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..I was thinking this too…hoarding bodily fluids, hair/nails, etc. can be a symptom of severe types of mental illnesses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 309 | Why do so many men have bad breath?Some of them have probably never flossed in their life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:18 PM |
| 157 | Irritating mannerisms are a red flag and your intuition telling you that something is off!This post does a great job of explaining something that I’ve never quite been able to put my finger on. I remember being so annoyed by my exes’ mannerisms (weird laugh, how they walked, etc) but told myself I was just being petty and judgmental, and that they probably felt annoyed at my quirks too. The resentment kept building and building. When you’re legitimately attracted to someone, it’s not like this at all. I’ve only been truly attracted to a handful of people in my life, and I found their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 10:37 PM |
| 30 | Menopause liberates women from the hormonally induced "caretaking" role. In short, menopause makes women act a bit more like men, and men can't handle it.Exactly. This article makes it seem like women are these lovesick, dopey creatures who’s hormones make them subservient. As someone who is not naturally “nurturing” in personality, it pisses me off when people think that women are nAtUrAl CaRe TaKeRs because of eStRoGen Lol it even says oxytocin is hormone that “women” get from sex, holding a baby, etc 🙄 As if men are completely emotionless and invulnerable to bonding hormones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 08:34 AM |
| 8 | Only a scrote takes it personallyI can attest to this. I’ve dated autistic men and without exception they’re insensitive to my cues, no social skills, or hardcore gamers. Not “logical” or any of that BS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Diamonds Are ForeverLose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:08 PM |
| 23 | My Adaption of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: HVM vs LVM/NVMSex is at the bottom but sexual intimacy is in the middle 👎👎👎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:51 PM |
| 89 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughGives You Hell by All-American Rejects 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 08:59 AM |
| 40 | You deserve to be someone's first choiceA week ago I made plans with a new guy to go on a date tonight. He hasn’t checked in to confirm our date and has barely texted me the whole week. Looks like I’ll be taking myself on a nice dinner date✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:00 PM |
| 7 | "Do you want to hang out sometime?"I was scrolling through the comments trying to see if someone would suggest an appropriate way to respond to the “do you want to hang out” line, and you hit the nail on the head! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Having a really bad few weeks in NovemberThis is me right now. Lonely as hell and stressed out from grad school and job hunting. Haven’t been hugged in months, I live far away from family/friends so no one is there to comfort me. Life is a constant barrage of stress from every angle and the only way to relive it is things I can do alone, like exercise and my hobbies. Just no emotional comfort whatsoever. It’s tempting to think that dating would help even if just by allowing you to talk openly to someone and cuddle and enjoy being with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:27 PM |
| 138 | Waiting tables tonightI’m a waitress in a pub/sports bar and I always set the check down in front of the man. It works most of the time! It’s also a good idea to take the woman’s order first and serve her first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 39 | 🤣🤣🤣Agreed. I’m a huge classic rock enthusiast and I love wearing band shirts, and when some bro wants to quiz me to prove I’m a fan, I just don’t engage. Why would I care if he thinks I’m a “real” fan or not? Also when they insist on lecturing you about the band you can be all sarcastic like GEE I had no idea, thanks PrOfEsSoR!!!🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Healthy things to do when you’re horny but have no partner? 🤔 (Other than the obvious)I’m really struggling with this at the moment. You have to find the same chemical release in other things besides sex. I run a lot which is a great physical/emotional outlet for all the tension. As cheesy as it sounds, learning a new skill or hobby helps too because it gives you the little “yay” boost when you make progress. Try to avoid using substances to cope. I often make the mistake of drinking to escape feeling lonely/horny/unfulfilled and it’s not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 03:26 PM |
| 8 | Are men not attracted to women they respect?How do you cultivate this vibe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:48 PM |
| 316 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?I work in the restaurant industry and have casually dated a chef or two…without exception they’re alcoholics and extremely immature and intellectually dull. They’re also statistically likely to be psychopaths lol. I have some fun stories | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:02 PM |
| 51 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌Well aren’t you special 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:39 AM |
| 150 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.“I’ll fuck pretty much anyone” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:57 PM |
| 7 | Jewish Women- Please Be Careful Out ThereWhen they ask your opinion on Israel IMMEDIATELY after they find out you’re Jewish 😂 leftist wokeboys are the worst about this and it’s literally just a different flavor of antisemitism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 355 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!Anna Marie really dodged a bullet with this one. While she was off getting an education and building her career, he was binging on cocaine and blatantly cheating and now he has an unplanned baby on the way😂 Mulaney is a huge POS but his career will remain unscathed because he acts funny and charming. Also look how chubby he is in this pic—I know recovering addicts are supposed to gain weight as they get healthy again, but now he’s lost that boyish/cute thing that was part of his public persona. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:08 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?This is it. Just like men, women are attracted to good-looking people. We’re just as shallow and hedonistic when it comes to choosing sex partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Beware of self identifying 'feminist' men and performative feminism.Wokeboys are the WORST. My ex was very into social justice, BLM, Marxism, and was even anti-porn. Then he started calling me a bigot for wanting female-only public spaces. He would straight up ignore me when having conversations with other men. Called himself anti-Capitalist despite frequently and shamelessly indulging in McDonalds, Amazon, etc. when there were many other options available in our town. Used any excuse to talk about politics to show everyone how smart he was. Looking at his ridic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 11 | What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks?I’m very picky about weight. If a guy had even a little bit of a stomach, it’s a huge turn-off. I prioritize my own health/fitness and work hard to stay in shape, so to me a fat body looks slobby and indicates a lack of discipline. I like wiry, not too buff. Delicate, pretty facial features. Tattoos are a nice extra. No significant preference on height, general aesthetic, or circumcision (I’m interested to hear your opinions about this in particular). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Weird Red Flags?My ex was super into The Sopranos. I started watching it this summer but had to stop because of the gratuitous rape and violence against women. It’s considered one of the most well-written shows of all time ffs 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Homeless men: an example of how men twist the narrativeI have a personal rule that I don’t give money to homeless men. They’re likely going to spend it on prostitutes. I only give to women. I know this falls into the “but what if they spend it on drugs?!” line of reasoning people use to avoid having to give to panhandlers, but I will not allow my money to harm women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 19 | Homeless men: an example of how men twist the narrativeMen use more violent methods because they don’t care about the mess they leave behind. Women use methods that are “cleaner” (like trying to OD) because they actually give a shit about the people who are likely to find them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 21 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.Getting this tattooed on the inside of my eyelids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | jfc, even the comments are a goldmine, so it’s wrong to have standards???See the thing is, dates SHOULD be fun. I’ve always taken the approach that the point of going on dates is to have fun (and how much fun you have is largely contingent on if the person is friendly, generous, a good listener, etc). The reason dates feel like job interviews to him is because he perceives that women are constantly judging his worth and looking for flaws...he’s clearly extremely insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:06 PM |
| 11 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂“Figure drawing” = drawing exclusively young naked women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:19 PM |
| 19 | Fear on Public TransitCame here to say this. Women are not safe as a class unless we acknowledge that our biological sex is what puts us at risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:46 AM |
| 31 | Is the Hitachi Magic Wand worth it?YES!! Best purchase I ever made. I’ve always had trouble cumming, even alone. I didn’t have my first orgasm until I was 19, and it was with the Magic Wand, after practicing with it for a year(!!!). It’s the only toy I’ve ever needed. It can be intense though so I usually keep my underwear on and use it through the fabric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 34 | Blocking feels GOOD?...you will feel so much better...trust me.Block and delete SAVED my ass when I broke up with my LVM ex. It eliminated any worry that I might give in to the temptation to stalk his profile, or that he would think I was trying to impress him with my posts in a “look how good I’m doing without you” sort of way, even if that wasn’t my actual intention when posting. The less I think about him, the happier I am—and block/delete was a way to ensure I thought about him as little as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 14 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Oh god I’m sorry! This reminds me of my last “relationship” of a few months that ended recently. He had this cool old car with a tape deck and he collected cassettes so for Valentine’s Day this year I bought him a cassette of one of his favorite albums—researched on eBay, ordered ahead of time to surprise him, wrapped it nicely and all that. He got me dead shit nothing for V day. No chocolates, NOTHING. He did cook us dinner that night, but he did that all the time and it was nothing special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 12 | Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex?I’ve never had a male “friend” I didn’t secretly dislike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:16 PM |
| 8 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.I’ve sometimes wondered if men have any hobbies that aren’t about consuming media (watching tv, gaming, music, etc). I do those things too and enjoy them, but I also enjoy “irl” hobbies like running/working out, knitting, and art journaling. My ex did almost nothing like that. He claimed to be really into cooking, but that amounted to just making normal recipes on weeknights like everyone does, nothing that could be considered a “hobby.” They’re not interested in trying new things or improving t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Boundaries are not just about peopleOh god I’m sorry:/ I was afraid of something like this happening but ultimately did it anyway (got the copper), and it was fine. Yeah insertion hurt, but it was tolerable, and the cramps afterwards were minimal. I had read all the horror stories online and was expecting much worse. No side effects except slightly heavier periods. It was one of the best things I’ve ever done for my own health and sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:54 PM |
| 8 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low value4 mile run Shower + wash hair Make coffee and smoothie Straighten up kitchen Work on fiber arts project Call mom Read news thoroughly Meanwhile he stays in bed until 2pm, the last few hours of which are just him watching videos on his laptop🙄 I’m bout ready to end it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:29 AM |
| 79 | The vibes of liberal men towards me since I started with FDSThis describes my ex perfectly. He was a self-described “Communist” and was even against sex work, but would mansplain to me for HOURS about how I was getting my news from the wrong sources and reading the wrong authors, and about how I was a horrible bigot for not wanting men in female-only spaces. I couldn’t bring up anything related to politics because he would take the opportunity to jerk himself off about how smart and woke he was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingI recently noticed that they guy I’ve been seeing for a few months has beard dandruff that falls onto the front of his shirt. I’m seriously reevaluating our relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Have you found any HVW in media as role models?Captain Kathryn Janeway! She’s bold without being foolhardy and knows how to command respect. She was my hero as a teenager and still is now in my 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 12:58 PM |
| 72 | Do you think that a lot of women identify as asexual, demisexual, or are completely uninterested in sex is because of how male-centred and degrading sex is portrayed in society?I’ve had this conversation with friends who self-ID as demi. “I’m a demisexual that means I only want to have sex with people after we’ve developed an emotion bond” So like...a normal person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:40 PM |
| 48 | Do you think that a lot of women identify as asexual, demisexual, or are completely uninterested in sex is because of how male-centred and degrading sex is portrayed in society?I thought I was asexual for most of my teens. Turns out, I was just a normal young person who hadn’t reached sexual maturity. The hypersexuality of the media combined with identity politics that make it normal to invent a label for every tiny little aspect of our lives had me convinced I was asexual when really I was a regular teen girl who wasn’t interested in sex yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 13 | Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVM“You’re so skinny!” “You’re so light/easy to pick up!” I’ve struggled with being underweight for most of my life and so hearing this really pisses me off. Lol thanks a lot jackass you’re clearly just saying this because you think all women want to be skinny and that it’ll make me feel good about myself🙄 There’s an element of infantilization to it also, like they’re saying I’m so ~fragile~ and ~childlike~ which we know equates to “easily manipulated.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | When I start talking to a guy who seems really great, but then I find his Facebook and see that he has an awful sense of style, no pictures of him smiling with teeth, and has like 10 catsHoarding behavior often extends to pets. Some people just keep adopting or bringing home strays and eventually they have so many that the house is filthy and none of the animals are getting enough attention . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:18 PM |
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