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Just wrote this too. People don’t understand and are so worried of losing frame. I have often times been super angry to my girlfriends but it a stern parent way and even sarcastic insults. I like keeping them on a short leash and letting them know I am on to their bullshit.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:15 AM
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I see couples fighting all the time about stuff like that and usually the guys who actually are vocal and call her out even in anger usually keep them on a shorter leash. It can become toxic but better than being so extra stoic in my opinion. Some things you need to rip them a new one I don’t care what TRP says lol
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:13 AM
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Yes. This is always good in future reference. Keep one up on insta lol
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:16 PM
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Multiple from this area have had same complaint that’s all I’m saying. Yes they’ve fucked me but obviously some won’t continue a more short term banging thing cause they feel like just another girl. Then again I have landed more because of it so it kind of equals out One girl would only give me blow jobs cause she didn’t want to be another one of the girls that I banged cuz I hit all her friends. She’s married now
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:21 PM
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Yeah I’m just saying a girl that’s not a complete whore in the future. Trust me I’ve done all off the above! Lol
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:15 PM
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Agreed. She’s just throwing this at me
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:14 PM
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I never did. She can count like 30-50 just from the stories her brother knows
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:14 PM
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No. We broke up and she’s way younger. Her N count was definitely lower I’m 14 years older Wasn’t a shit test.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:03 PM
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I usually switch .. but if you want a girl hooked you need to make em cum. Ive been told by a bunch of girls I was best they ever had and its mostly by teasing them with my cock... and rubbing their pussy while fucking them.. rub their clit. Lots of girls CANT cum straight from a dick in their pussy.. if you want to make them cum, fuck them and use ur hand on their clit at same time. You can have one hand on her pussy, one finger in her ass if you do it right. Tell her this is how ur gonna pound…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 10:55 PM
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Wondering if this is a narc thing or just guys or girls in general Can you elaborate on the discard phase personally? Do you start to criticize them in your head like they aren’t good enough or withhold sex etc?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 08:33 PM
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Is this different from other guys in relationships? I feel exact same way. A lot of them are hot and then I’ll see other guys in LTR long term with them etc.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 08:32 PM
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Did you have other girls that you didn’t get sick of banging after 5-6 months ? The chase was definitely half of it But she also doesn’t give good head or HJs but has a mint body. More of 9 in face and body but only not self conscious when she is drunk Why do you think you ended it just cause of performance or was there something else lacking to kill attraction
/r/askTRP28/12/17 07:19 PM
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lmfao.. no legit man it can actually get annoying
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:32 PM
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I’m in 30s .. high smv. Just recently got into LTR but been single for 8 years It’s awesome in 30s. Not sure what your fussing about as I look down on most married people. The guys just don’t seem as happy I guess. Some like LTRs though more than others. I’ve always been more independent / I like seeing new girls If you like drinking, go to bars or restaurants with hot servers and get to know some. You may attract party girls but it will get you started. Could also do yoga or other group activit…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 12:30 AM
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What about if the LTR doesnt go out, is more invested in you, and doesnt seem to have any orbiters or wants social media attention etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 06:56 PM
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I have noticed I havent been holding frame really. My girl sometimes gets into her 'moods' where we argue about something, and she sulks and shuts down for a period of 10 minutes to an hour or longer. At times I get annoyed because we may be watching something and I dont want to be around someone who is so easily affected by an arguement, yet then I realize I am the one who is now reacting to her and being in a bad mood or its ruining my mood. What types of things can I do in this case scenario …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 05:50 PM
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I'm dating one now, and seem to always go for BPD chicks. I have NPD so I'll give you my take on it based on the last 4-5 girls. They have no shame.. they will send you 10 messages in a row and be more vulnerable than most girls will this is a turn on to the Narc because they are so cold inside, it allows them to open up as well to them they usually have really nice asses/pussies and beautiful faces, superficial charm, and very feminine and radiate a sexual energy that from the first time you me…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 06:59 PM
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Its easy with a plate... when your in a LTR things get more annoying. Or you simply dont care enough about this girl. Ive had same thing with many plates and dont give a shit, but when Im more invested in a LTR its harder to just ignore or not bring that up.. Currently dating a girl who works at a bar
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 03:39 PM
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Your only getting down voted because people are brain washed about looks. I beat out good looking and ripped/muscular guys all the time. My personality is my biggest asset.. it gets them hooked However, I'm a 6-7 in looks. You cant say LOOKS are nothing because if you were a 2, it wouldnt matter much about game
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 12:03 AM
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I agree. Game beat looks. I am about a 7 in looks but my game beats most guys who are better looking and more ripped. They are also Red Pill but I have more dark triad features and my game is strong and Im persistent, understand the social media game and status. I would say Game & Status BEAT looks even more so.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 12:02 AM
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True. No they arent really BP honestly.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:33 PM
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Good call
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:20 PM
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I duno. Those guys have tried giving her time of day.. lol
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:19 PM
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Ive been around guys who are ripped and at the end of the night, they fuck with me. Duno
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:19 PM
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This girl is hot and can lock down a lot of high smv guys. Her past guys had high smv but not ripped/overly built but charasmatic types similar to myself.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:17 PM
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Top 10-15% imo.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:15 PM
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I bang her a lot.. not friendzoned lol
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:11 PM
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Im torn.. I like the look, the feel is a bit off, but its so slutty
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:14 PM
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Hahah - word
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:14 PM
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Ive had this happen a bunch of times. Looking like the fuck boy and embracing it.. has been key
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 09:13 PM
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This is more so the answer I was expecting. I actually think she does like a bit of my fat on my gut.. but only because it makes her feel COMFORTABLE. She can slack off a bit more and doesn't have to be as insecure. Kinda works for me, but I still want to get in shape more. John, from NY
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:09 PM
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Lol! Agreed. However, I would say most guys are doing it for themselves. I would say a lot of women get tits for themselves too. Not even white knighting. Of course lots of guys will look and they like that, but I think both males and females will do things for SMV .. hard to say which ones are red flags. Would the male equivelent be a guy who takes steroids?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:06 PM
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Insecurity? Its no different then a skinny guy lifting.. they just happen to have the option to skip all that process. Would u not want a bigger dick
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:51 PM
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Lmao actually? I was seeing a chick for awhile with her tits done.. they were fun ;)
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:50 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:08 PM
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True. I guess I haven't really cared because my game has always got me girls I have got hotter girls then some buddies who had their shirts off and were way more ripped and I looked like a meat bag. I had a feeling not to trust her words, its just weird hearing her say it. Shes more insecure than most, but hotter than most as well. I partly do think she doesnt like guys like that, but because shes insecure. Either way.. I still want to get ripped for me I also thought about it like this... if my…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:08 PM
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Did you find this helped in any social anxiety, such as talking infront of people or bigger groups at all? I want to get into boxing/MMA and wondered if I would be more confident from that if I knew I could handle myself physically.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 11:42 PM
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I'm in the same boat. The only ones I seem to actually become interested in sadly are Narcassist types or Borderlines. No idea why, maybe because they are more interesting and hot and cold and it gives me more of a chase. Sadly, they are also the most drama. I don't want to tell everyone to follow that. Interestingly enough, all my friends are married to these types of women and they all had oneitus for them. The one I'm currently seeing is similar to all their wives, the question I have to ask …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 09:31 PM
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I just fucked my LTR in the ass and she was opposed to it. The key is while your fucking her and shes about to cum.. (if you cant make her cum, while ur fucking her just rub her clit.. go slow and keep lickign ur fingers to get her super wet)... during this part tell her how good her pussy feels and then say how u wanna bend her over and fuck her in the ass..or say u wanna put her on all fours and fuck her like the slut she is for u.. just keep saying stuff while in a dominating way and then sta…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:26 PM
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U need more options.. this bitch sucks. LEGIT You need to leave the relationship just to get the upper hand back in general.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:15 AM
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I say the odd comment, and its true it usually means more when u say nothing most of the time
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 09:57 PM
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How did you add niceness so to speak.. I havent been able to get more intimidate so to speak. I show more alpha as well
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 01:46 PM
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Dont make them cum or care about making them cum? The moment I started making a recent girl cum every time its been like crack. Ive used girls like porn star rag dolls and doesnt always have the same effect.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 09:41 PM
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Example?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:47 PM
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So is the key to give her little hints of these but not go full 'gay mode' on her? I feel like a pussy saying anything cause of what I learned, plus I haven't been intimate/in love with any girl for about 5+ years and just been running through them
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:43 PM
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She keeps bringing it up.. a couple times a week. I feel like she actually needs it more than other girls. Must have had a previous bf who was more beta also and she liked the validation. Shes saying stuff even like if I was nicer to her she would do more for me.. meaning she craves it from me.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:27 PM
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Well not sure if it would build more intimacy and make her really fall more in 'love'..
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:19 PM
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No shes saying she wants me to be sweeter/cuter.. Saying cute and nice things to her She is saying Im hot and im fucking her a lot.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:19 PM
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Sometimes its not about not respecting yourself. After banging your chick so many times over a course of 'x' amount of years every which way, its basically a way to turn the guy and girl on again. Girls do it with their men and introduce other girls in the bedroom. Call it a 'Cuck' or whatever, I personally couldn't do it, but I rememeber towards end of my last relationship I was almost open to having some guy fill my chick just to get my rocks off of how bored I was. It started off with me want…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:32 AM
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Why never when their friends can see? And how do you know if your giving too much attention
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:24 PM
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I have a girl who Ive been seeing a lot who is trying to see me everyday.. doing a lot of things sexually to please me. Definitely a oneitus thing happening for me as well. Ive hooked up with over 100+ girls and this one just seems to do it for me since the first time I saw her. That being said, been with her every day recently. The sex is good. The flip side of the coin is she is very obedient unless of course I am going out. If I hit the bars with buddies, she will go out with her girlfriends,…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 02:29 PM
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Multi day ghosting.. can you explain. Im pretty certain my girl Im seeing and almost at a LTR right now would likely fuck someone else if I did this. She has high SMV and I think would break down and start drinking if I disappeared. How does this kind of game playing help you?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 02:24 PM
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I read How to Win Friends and Influence People before high school and been employing a lot of those tactics which is generally being diplomatic. I have sometimes wondered if I am being too diplomatic regarding the way I am with people. I also have Dark Triad features so its a mix of Diplomatic and Machavellian techniques.. lots of manipulation. Some would suggest this is 'blue pill' but I really dont know if I give a shit. I think I can improve on being more confrontational but I feel the habits…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 10:19 PM
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Thats what Im getting at .. even my 'confidence' is not real when I'm on drugs or alcohol. Im just saying it was feeling like its on GOD MODE.. What was your best way of improving your confidence.. Toastmaster/improv or just small steps
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 07:03 PM
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Are you sure its not because the drugs supress your nervous system? Alchohol has done all the above effects to me... I am on GOD MODE and picked up over 100+ chicks. I have dark triad characteristics though but I'm also a bit introverted, so the alchohol brings out the bad boy in me.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 04:18 PM
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Great quote.. loved that part, kind of contradicts the recent post about over thinking but I think its important to be like this imo.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:43 PM
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I was considering this with a friend of mine. He shows alpha traits, 6'4/ripped and even though I get more girls then him, he has a tendency to go after our social circle friends girlfriends. With my current main plate, he has made some attempts at trying this with her. I feel like I can't talk bad about this guy to my girl because it will make me look insecure, yet he is in the power position. She also doesn't know him fully and if she did likely wouldn't be interested. How is the best way to h…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:31 PM
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"Unless a girl posts a photo of you or talks about you, NEVER EVER compliment/like any photo or status of hers. Don't even read her Snapchat stories that show shows who read them. Give her absolutely nothing. Merely existing is not praiseworthy. Being good looking is not an accomplishment. Never PM a woman unless you've approached or spoken in person and she expects your friend request." I've banged numerous girls by replying to their insta stories to open a conversation or their snap chats. Ive…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:42 PM
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Agreed. I more or less actually didn't like the wear black heels comment specifically because who gives a fuck what heels she wears and most high SMV girls generally are a fucking head case and its not that easy. I think if you genuinely want them to wear certain set of underwear or pants or skirt for an event that makes sense and I don't cringe there. All points I will consider though
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:05 PM
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I would make up a big lie. Say your grandmother went to hospital it was brutal or something
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:33 PM
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I dont know why... I always cringe when I see these posts about 'Wear this' Just sounds so try hard and you have to have a very congurenet frame which most guys on here probably dont have. You also need to have a significantly higher SMV then these girls.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:31 PM
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Yah I am 32 I want kids eventually.. I only nut in hot bitches and if they get pregnant I dont even give a fuck. Id rather a baby mama then living with some bitch every day.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 08:13 PM
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Thanks I needed this. I was at the mall today and could have approached a couple real smoke shows wearing little summer dresses. I realized I always pick up girls when Im at a bar and talk to bartenders mostly because Im able to talk to them. Ive come to realize if I can talk to them, I can close them. AKA.. I need more chances infront of new girls. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 10:03 PM
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Dude... your chick is a psychopath/sociopath. Look it up. Tons of red flags... disappearing acts, triangulation.. Run
/r/askTRP06/07/17 02:00 AM
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I dont know why but I didnt really like No More Mr Nice Guy and im definitely a nice guy lol It just didnt seem to do fuck all for me
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:22 AM
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a good place to practice is a strip club with women. I was just doing this the other day... one was on the stage and it was kind of dead in the strip club. I started to stare at her.. and I was getting kind of jittery cause I was uncomfortable and noticed my legs started moving ADD-like. I tried to control breathing and just stare directly into her eyes. I knew it was JUST a stripper, but I realized how much more intimate eye contact is and how I dont use it right. I want to go back and practice…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:07 PM
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good call, a lot of truths there. Your right. Cranked it to porn lol
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:13 PM
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She was a good plate though. I know she's probably fuckin someone else. As am I here and there I guess my question is whether it's worth confronting the issue that it was shit
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:47 PM
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thanks guys
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:12 PM
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basically its being indifferent to everyone and holding my ground is kind of what ive understood by me being affected by what she says, means im moving out of my frame into hers correct?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:03 PM
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Ive read so much on frame and still dont fucking get it.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:02 PM
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Thanks, what if she tries calling me after the weekend (after prime time) and just tries to talk my ear off and still makes excuses on hanging out
/r/askTRP23/06/17 10:50 PM
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So don't bring it up? I want to call her out on it.. partly because of ego I think. Almost like how dare you say u dont wanna fuck me or hang out with me and to stop wasting my time.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 10:39 PM
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