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109

and then they want to discuss a medical problem they have, and expect advice and encouragement.
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:57 PM
4

it is normal for feelings to develop only after some time, when trust and friendship have been established. it is possible that the two of you have different expectations. it is difficult to say what went wrong, so we cannot know if it is your fault or theirs. you can see their sudden disinterest as a significant incompatibility, and move on with your life.
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:25 AM
1

'i would like to take you out on a date next week. when are you free for a dinner?'
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:34 PM
16

yep, statistics is very creative and can support anything you wish, if you ask your questions the right way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 03:50 AM
27

but that's the problem; people their own age will not want to date them. so they find someone naive and impressionable. and economically disadvantaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 03:48 AM
2

not that this dude cares about what women want. he's busy counting his approaches.
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:39 PM
57

nor do they care about their woman, any woman, or anything at all, beyond their porn-fried pp. it's a pathetic life where their only joy comes from an unsatisfying penis manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 08:59 AM
119

a sociopathic individual that lacks adequate empathy and social skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 08:32 AM
19

well said, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 04:18 AM
135

this is the sad fact. ladies, take note - it is disgusting to work against another woman. we must show respect to the women around us, because nobody else will, and that hurts us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 03:58 AM
21

so very few men in our lives are decent and moral human beings, it's disappointing. this is dangerous, especially in a position of power, which they abuse, or lack of power, where they resort to violence. don't they all suddenly seem just useless to the society?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 04:13 PM
66

"tomorrow? with you? nothing. my dates are planned (at least 3 days) in advance."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:48 AM
75

how poetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:47 AM
51

and this is not even some great logical mystery. i don't get how so many men have neither the intellect nor the empathy to figure out how sex with women works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:27 AM
125

right. they have no concept of empathy or sufficient intellect that would allow them to understand women's experience of sex, so he just offers you what he wants to get. it's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:59 PM
49

i do this when i talk to couples as well. it's just basic respect towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:56 PM
63

yeah. i am yet to find a respectable guy to have as a friend. all of them are somehow problematic when you get to know them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 10:35 AM
48

there was a tweet idea for a tv show called '#notallsnakes are venomous.' sometimes i think about what situations it could feature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:45 PM
33

can be either, depending on local custom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:47 AM
23

totally understand your sensitivity about your country of origin. especially if it has negative connotations around there. i'd like to believe that people are genuinely curious and want to find commonalities with these basic questions. they are on an app for a reason, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:46 AM
13

it's his mother's (ehm, parents') job to cOmMuNiCaTe basic social rules and expectations. i can't help if he's not a fully functioning human by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:51 AM
245

he never read the full description. his brain froze at 'insert into vagina' in the first sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:05 AM
20

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:10 AM
50

hey, me too! i was always sensitive to the unfair division of responsibilities i saw around me, and just didn't want to be anyone's slave. and then i never met anyone whom i'd want my children to have as their father. far too many men are uninspiring and irresponsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:17 AM
26

unprepared travel is also less rewarding, if you want more than a beer on a random beach. i research my destinations to make sure i get to experience all the greatness the site offers. my ex would 'go with the flow and be surprised' - as if a good life is just about to fall into his lap. then there is the 'on a shoestring' sort, taking the cheapest flight. dude, if your budget does not allow it, go have your beer in a bar two villages over. no need to fly across the continent to sleep under a br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:51 AM
5

i'm afraid she has economic reasons to not want to be alone. life is hard for a single mother with no other options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:55 PM
45

uhh, thanks, i opt out of this choice of plates. just leave me alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:04 PM
35

so many good points! lack of respect and empathy is so prevalent, i feel sorry for the women who are still trying to 'find a guy.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:53 PM
37

smoking is a serious dealbreaker for me. i will not spend my time around smelly people who don't value their own and everyone else's health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:47 PM
9

mhm. we believe that everyone is a nice person who wants to make the world a better place for everyone else, just like ourselves. surprise surprise, some people/men's interests are to squeeze out an unfair share of benefits just for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:31 AM
38

this. i don't understand how that's not consistently called out as a social faux pas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:28 AM
26

we're so glad he's an ex! life is better without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:05 PM
30

valid point. sure it's much easier to cook with the kids once a year than do your fair share of childcare as a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 10:32 AM
0

that would be too much effort for little benefit, in my opinion. he is intentionally doing something nice and valuable for his family, and has valid reasons for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 10:30 AM
88

he thinks he's original. and saves money at the same time! so incredibly smart. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:56 PM
64

hmm, but they don't care if they like you or not. they just need to see if they can get sex from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:53 PM
6

thank you for this detailed analysis. this should be a universal response to any mention of a starfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:11 AM
23

we need more male cleaners in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:13 AM
2

what is the judgement on audio? the dipsea app, for example. would you consider that sufficiently imagination-engaging?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:07 PM
69

simple and true. she's not attracted to you because you are unattractive. the last time someone loved you unconditionally was your mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:39 PM
35

these are good principles; thx for the inspo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:25 PM
73

you have to feel sorry for the wives. they got what they wanted, but at the price of a cheater. and these men are so arrogant and entitled, using everyone for attention. bleh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:58 PM
69

well, we are here to change that! we are the first generation to know that single women are actually happier. thank god for economic independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:25 AM
11

yeah. it's obvsly educational for the girls here, but too much energy wasted on such nonsense. the mention of a side chick is degrading to me, and disrespectful to his wife. block & delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:42 PM
4

haha, that must feel like an error in the matrix. so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:11 PM
7

this. there's no sense trying to stay friends; he is not looking for that. cut your losses early, spare that time and energy for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:10 PM
9

i swear it's the same tactic from different men. it's like they have a textbook for this? it would be laughable if it wasn't so sick. after a while, you see the red flags immediately, but you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, because you assume he's otherwise a nice person. big mistake; he's nothing like that, and you will come to regret any attention you paid him. block & delete right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:01 PM
7

they believe they are providing 'education' and 'life experience' to stupid naive young women. they are just cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:55 PM
15

sounds psychopathic. how can they live with themselves like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:53 PM
24

the victim girl, sadly, just looks at you funny and does not appreciate the advice. i have stopped interfering for this reason. cheated women, used girls and all the victims do not want to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:02 PM
74

that's scary. when the whole community knows, and still blames the victims, what can anyone reasonably do? the whole system dynamic is so wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:57 PM
52

i recently made the mistake of 'communicating' - asked if he wanted to fix things. he did not. too many words were wasted on what should have been block&delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:23 AM
15

their mom and grandma always told them they were handsome, so it must be true! no effort necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:55 AM
36

and the only place they have some privacy to practice taking selfies, besides bathroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:47 AM
82

all the lies and manipulation. like, how is one unfulfilling sex night even worth all that effort?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:22 PM
25

omg, same, only you are smart with the ambiguity. i made the mistake of laughing in their face that hobby sex was not in the stars for them. i don't know if i'd want to keep them around as friends; i lost all respect for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:15 PM
69

fleeting attention and validation from someone who doesn't really even care about them. some women don't feel very valuable in the world, so it helps them to be seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:59 PM
36

also crying and regretting and feeling used. plus pregnant and std-positive. no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:54 PM
45

this. the girls believe that they will attract a good guy with their easy sex skill. one that will love and respect them, and contribute to chores and childcare. yeah, right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:52 PM
55

she should have seen it coming. too late to think about all the consequences now, i guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:49 PM
147

for the physical needs, i have a vibrator. i'd feel bad to use a person's body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:45 PM
10

he could be initiating these intimate and vulnerable topics to advance your relationship faster. doesn't understand that trust and intimacy take real time; likely he's just fast forwarding his fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 07:48 AM
46

this is it. low effort, high reward. for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:15 AM
9

wow, this is goals. i am not good at using my powers, so this gives me inspiration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:27 PM
7

too accurate. thx for the laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:23 AM
12

the best quote. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:52 PM
11

that's a good idea. let's keep it in mind when we are in a position to do our part to make the project happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:01 AM
3

haha, reminds me of an ex who told me he was cheating on his new girlfriend. i was upset and yelled at him, only to realize that it was all made up. lying was one of the reasons i broke up w him, and i forgot he'd lie even in a silly inconsequential situation like that. didn't speak w him since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:47 AM
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yeah, it was a surprise and she wasn't screen-ready, but he needs to film for internet points, you know? it's his show, and she's just a prop. but seriously, i wouldn't want to be filmed like that, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:47 AM
56

very much like any racist and nationalist sentiment -- makes people feel good for traits they did not have to work for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:16 PM
13

hmm, a decorative object with a solar battery that turns into a toy at night? i could live with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:53 PM
35

yeah, at some point, he's just incompatible, regardless of motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:50 AM
78

for some reason lots of men seem to like primitive, toilet humor. fits to show the capacity of their neanderthal brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:50 PM
-4

trying multiple options is fine, but all of them work very similarly. the chances that you buy one and it will be completely useless are small. but maybe i am not aware, and you can teach us about the differences between this and that silicone cup?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:33 AM
-17

it's not rocket science; there aren't so many significant differences. you can just buy one and be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:13 AM
2

happened to me as well. ready to take, nothing to give. i don't have these people in my life anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:38 AM
15

yep. before the urge, make a list of friends to reach out to instead of him. you might get some kind words in return, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:50 PM
18

hey, it's fine, i also like quiet/introverted types. and it's completely fine to be shy when you are 17. but 30+ year old men are definitely expected to speak up and be proactive toward their romantic interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:31 PM
50

so true. sad for all the girls who think shy is somehow cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:43 PM
56

yeah, they only worry about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:37 AM
3

this. men completely ignore that female orgasm often goes through the brain, and starts way before you get to bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:11 AM
3

don't worry, you'll be fine. it takes time. i had success later in my 30's with a partner i was really attracted to, while on top. similar to other stories, with zero effort from his side, besides just being there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:07 AM
8

just a detail -- how do you stay calm and professional when on the inside you are angry and screaming? i need to learn this superpower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:04 AM
17

boyfriends come and go, girlfriends stay. i wish more pickme women would realize this, instead of wasting their energy to get male approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:48 AM
4

if you respect them. without respect, you don't really care how much they suffer. it's hard to imagine if you have empathy for the living beings around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:02 AM
20

what if some women do not have higher ambitions but to be comfy with someone else's resources? that's the sad part for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:01 AM
7

he has seen it in the movies, so it must be how that works. porn movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:08 AM
7

i never understood why it was supposed to be embarrassing to buy pads and tampons. or condoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:30 PM
10

sounds like a sweet guy who respects you. i hope you can talk about your expectations for bringing your relationship to a new level. i'm sure he will show his passionate side once he gets the green light, and when the sense of intimacy grows between you. enjoy the slow progress; things are going really well for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:42 PM
68

pickme's want testosterone attention like their life depends on it. any other woman is competition, so they throw her under a bus when there's a chance. i never understood why women don't cultivate quality relationships with girl friends. like, you will cry alone when he eventually dumps you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:41 PM
16

which continent are you thinking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:51 PM
8

yep. men feel like they are winning the system by extracting undue benefits from such low commitment /high reward situation. it never bothers them that the woman is a person with feelings, who often compensates for his disengagement and wants just to share a nice life with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:07 AM
3

also time. they need to be quick and efficient, and waiting for traffic to clear can get pretty long. it's easier to turn right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:38 PM
23

this. if a relationship ever grows out of a tinder match, it's because it started as a one-night stand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:01 PM
46

sounds like a cool dude, confident and able to appreciate a great woman. congrats to both of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:37 AM
8

the doctors have far less experience with 35+ mothers, so they are naturally scared. they will, hopefully, get used to the idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:55 AM
5

happens to me all the time, but i never understood it. thanks for the explanation. they take intelligent debate for hostility. ...so pathetic. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:39 PM
16

i am now watching dr.kirk honda's comments on 'married at first sight.' all the 4 women he discusses are fine, really cool and ambitious. all the 4 relationships are failing because their new husbands lie, don't know themselves, cannot make up their mind, and don't know how to be a valuable partner. it's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 09:29 AM
12

right? i never understood the constant obsession. like, maybe try leading a life using your brain, and actual achievements to be proud of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:04 PM
5

same. i like my big fake flowers! 🌺🌺🌺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:40 AM
3

that sounds terrible. but it's all his fault; your feelings were genuine. i hope you find something worthwhile to distract you from this situation. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:20 PM
3

by now i came to understand that 'butterflies' only mean that he is attractive to me, with no info on compatibility or mutual value. often it means he is far above my level of conventional attractiveness, and i'm just anxious about that. so i am not looking for butterflies anymore. i would prefer to meet a sweet guy with whom i like to talk and whom i can respect, who doesn't get on my nerves after a few hours, and who doesn't have unhealthy views of the world, women, or himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:28 AM
15

it's not real. if he really missed you, he'd find ways to show up and fight for you; i'm sure he had plenty of chances before your final decision. it's only manipulation; forget it and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:18 AM
3

they would not take the effort to listen and learn, because they weren't born with it, so why pretend they are something more than that? ...the idea of constant effort, progression, and improvement seems to escape them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:12 PM
40

they are just looking for audience. the more pickme's they can find, the more each of them has to fight for his attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:56 AM
107

i understand this is the proportion of your energy going into the relationship, and the other 90% of your effort is going towards yourself, your goals and your life outside of this relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:52 AM
10

haha, advertisers, bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:41 AM
4

you can also run hot water over the lid for like 10 seconds, that will loosen it a bit. or slightly lift the side of the lid with a knife blade (careful not to break the blade) to let in some air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:22 AM
8

so many great points in this comment. thanks for writing out my thoughts; i also don't want to be judged like a racehorse, and am looking for a matching lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:18 AM
20

i also do this when i feel unheard, but don't want to give him any more attention. he's not getting any more replies from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:38 PM
15

what a stupid game. good on you not to play along. you def deserve better; we all do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:33 AM
67

thx, it did seem a strange coincidence that they would have 5 boys in a row. this explains it. he's not ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:58 PM
19

maybe it wouldn't be so shocking if he were also following some other advice from people in the beauty business. but of all that work, he chooses a hair mask...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:35 AM
14

even of he never finds the one and stays with this one forever, how does it feel to beg for romantic attention that you expect to come on his initiative? what is life like with an uncaring disinterested man that cannot be bothered to listen to his wife until she screms at him in despair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:37 AM
15

i guess it's intimidating for them to realize that the expectations women are learning to have are too high for them to match. understandably, they are not happy to find out that hvw are out of reach. after the initial shock, if they are genuine, they will rise to the occasion and grow and learn. if they are not, they will be forever angry and left behind. let them complain; they are losing out, and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:19 AM
95

what is confusing is why he'd give you any attention if he's not interested. and that's when we understand that decent people will make their intentions clear, yes or no. the fuckboys will play games to keep you around for their ego. it's better to step back and remove yourself from that pool of his options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:03 PM
2

now is a really bad time to get new pets. if you cannot give the space and attention to a dog...we really should not. (i was also thinking about this, so i read a few articles.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:07 AM
1

it's a miracle to have these 4 thoughtful men around at the same time. op must be doing something right. i haven't met as much as one in...ages. in any case, good to know they exist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:47 PM
6

yeah, if you can find a different person to mentor you, do it. too bad there's not enough women in the higher ranks that you could turn to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:54 PM
11

no. i respond to date invitations at least 3 days in advance. (and obvsly, no dates during pandemic lockdown.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:54 AM
7

thanks. i am adding 'what a bizarre thing to say' to my active vocabulary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:46 AM
13

i think they might be getting some positive responses to such talk from prostitutes /bots who engage them for money. and because they don't know any better, this is all they can offer to real women, only to find out that it, surprisingly, doesn't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:03 PM
9

this is my experience as well. if he's single, there's probably a good reason for that. if he's not, he's just looking to cheat. pathetic either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:55 PM
9

great protocol. back when i used old, i would also stop carrying the conversation if he just answers my questions but doesn't ask anything back. like, this is not a one-sided interview, and you need to make an effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:53 PM
2

i'd say, if a woman has other options, she might not stick around faithfully -- just as they would run around, if only they had as many options. they are projecting their own plans onto her. i don't think men would be much concerned about her sharing intimate pleasure like that; never seen a guy thinking that deeply about relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:13 AM
19

...or a woman who actually knows what's going on. a virgin is a safe bet, because she doesn't have expectations, and they can get away with low effort. and in their insecure little mind they believe that just because this is new for her, she will go crazy for whatever she gets -- like they have seen in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:02 AM
6

that's right. also, giving first does not inspire reciprocity unless the other person was ready to also give unconditionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:34 PM
4

i agree. we can have romantic films depicting courtship, but explicit sex scenes in porn do not leave much room for fantasy and imagination. same as with erotic literature; some mental effort should be required.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:38 PM
9

nice idea! now i also want one. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:44 PM
15

sounds dramatic. i like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:13 AM
4

the cup must be the best upgrade in my life in the past year! i love how simple it is. i def recommend it to everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:02 PM
20

'shy' might be an excuse when you are 17. anyone older than that needs to man up and speak out. if not, his priorities are clearly elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:41 PM
6

they don't have the nerve to tell you openly. or to even recognize their own emotion. they are just upset and mean for no good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:43 PM
30

this is why high school (or college, too? not sure) teachers have one of the highest divorce rates -- they think they have a chance with those young girls around them, and lose respect/attraction for the wife at home. it's ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:03 PM
18

yeah, but...micropenis is not so common that you'd have to worry about it this much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:00 AM
51

ohhh no! i schedule dates at least 3 days in advance. i'm not available for any last-minute meetups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:51 AM
5

i like to 'give the gift of your absence to those who do not appreciate your presence.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:55 AM
1

he's so pathetic. like a small child in front of broccoli. defensive from the start, and not even listening. just the idea of dealing with someone like that hurts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:30 AM
2

i like this. yeah, a daytime date should keep things civil. i'm sure he is happy to see you any chance he gets, and will enjoy getting to know you better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:58 AM
3

i think she needs you. even though you are not friends, and under no obligation from you. but she might not have enough supportive relationships elsewhere, so she can really use a good soul to show her how she'd be better off without him. i imagine all this mess happened gradually and she completely lost perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:51 AM
7

thanks for this! there's not enough good manners /etiquette in the world! most men i know would be clueless when expected to open car door or pull out a chair for a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:28 AM
1

*ligation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:17 PM
10

heh, same! sometimes i wish i'd go on a date with a nice new guy, but then i remember the few sad first dates i had while OLD -- so not worth my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:04 PM
3

thanks for this perspective. i agree that most men are very selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:57 PM
10

i never had that mentality actually, but this sub helps me feel that it's ok to have high standards. there's not many role models around me, tbh, and at times i would question my approach. but what do you mean by '3 months into 2020'? we aren't even finished with 2 months. 3 months is still over a month away. (am i using a different calendar?) there's still time for everyone to build up their self-respect. :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:27 AM
3

no worries, you gave him plenty of time to decide. hell, even now, every day is a chance to show that/if he cares about you. but he doesn't; i'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:11 PM
16

yeah, exactly. 'don't be mad at me, i didn't promise you anything.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:58 PM
44

it must be a weird fantasy of men that she's so happy to see/touch his amazing dick that she orgasms just from that. i get it, they want approval and acceptance, but this is taking it too far. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:26 AM
4

haha, good strategy. angry delivery of your point, but i guess that's to show you have run out of patience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:18 AM
12

i see it as the 'concept of normalizing irresponsible, hateful, and self-centered men' needs to die; not any specific individuals. but i appreciate that you care about people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:14 AM
90

...a normal responsible person who cares about the other person she has sex with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:20 PM
6

good strategy. a guy must seem at least a little cultured before i spend my time watching him eat and speak. some people have no manners and i prefer to avoid them. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:59 PM
10

you sound too good for a bunch of men, so they are attracted to you. if you were less attractive, that pool would just get smaller, but it wouldn't suddenly bring 'better quality' men into your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:41 AM
4

i find that a man who is really inspired and interested in a woman will find the courage to speak up, no matter how shy. stop making up excuses for him; he's a big boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:36 AM
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