freudweeks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Need some help getting better game Ask questions about her, extra points for them being fun/interesting. Make sexual comments/compliments/jokes. Ask her out quickly. Boom, couldn't be simpler.	/r/seduction	09/08/24 06:25 PM
2	[35M] Struggling with Dating After Separation—How Do I Get My Groove Back? She told me she doesn’t kiss on the first date, but I gave her a quick peck anyway. Later, she texted me saying I didn’t respect her boundaries and that she doesn’t want to see me again. Don't double down on non-compliance. Girl says she doesn't want to do something, don't fucking do it, do something else she might like. There are a million other ways you could have heated things up without kissing her. If a girl says "I don't do x quickly" she means "I'm not horny enough yet, try again a little…	/r/seduction	09/08/24 04:09 PM
1	Is having sex on the first date something significant/important? IME it's not so much about how fast you have sex, as it about whether you have sex as early as she subtly asks for it. If she offers herself up to you, and you don't take the opportunity, you will probably not hear from her again. You're playing catch-up there and you have to make sure she knows you know what went wrong or she's going to think you rejected her and get pissed. If she doesn't and the date goes well, you will. It is true that a lot of girls get more attached when they smash. That c…	/r/seduction	09/08/24 03:47 PM
1	How to use game as a suddenly good looking guy? So dude who is 6ft and attractive here (or was, I'm getting older and gaining a little weight but still get AIs from 9's sometimes). Essentially: don't be a dick. I had to learn this as I bloomed too. Be direct and ask lots of questions about her. Her biggest fear is going to be worried she can't win. So don't talk about yourself, it can immediately make her self-conscious or sound like you're being a braggadocios douche. Don't tease her. Like at all. Only the hottest girls will be able to take …	/r/seduction	07/08/24 07:28 PM
1	How do you turn conversations about solo travel and tattoos, sexual? Ask her what her tattoos mean. Ask her if she'd ever want a tramp stamp. Tell her it'd be really hot if she tattooed your face on her pubic area. I don't know man so some dumb shit that's vaguely close to being sexual. Tell her you're kinda dumb so she should get an arrow on her stomach you'd know where to go.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 07:18 PM
2	Try gaming with no prep Yeah you learn how much doesn't fucking matter when you do shit like this.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 07:14 PM
1	How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend line "So do I" "Good for you" nonchalant, then ask another question about her, and be more direct in a minute. Keep it simple. Sometimes it's a rejection, sometimes it's a test. She'll have no problem excusing you if it's a rejection and you keep escalating. Don't shoot yourself in the dick by walking away without her going silent or excusing you.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 07:08 PM
2	Is this a matter of confidence Relax. Deep breaths, longer outbreaths. None of that shit matters. If the girl is still talking to you, and she doesn't walk away when you make moves, she wants to fuck you or will soon. Don't talk about yourself, LISTEN to her because she's going to tell you when she wants to fuck you "where do you live? what are you doing today? do you have roommates?", ask questions about her, make sure she knows you want her in whatever way you want and make sure she doesn't forget it. Do it over and over ag…	/r/seduction	07/08/24 07:02 PM
1	Had a date M22 with F19 and she said something that is giving me a hard time "Well once i was doing that with someone and then they did stuff i didn't want". Was talking to a friend recently about something similar. She was saying that almost all dudes try to create some kind of pretend emotional intimacy in order to get laid. She would rather they just be straight that they're tryna smash if that's what you want. A lot of girls (I think most) don't need that, and if you're doing it and just planning to bounce you're hurting her. You can sleep with most girls within a co…	/r/seduction	07/08/24 06:46 PM
2	How to get over fear of creep shaming? Anyone who thinks it's possible to not be labeled a creep sometimes hasn't hit up enough girls. It's literally just "he's not attractive, let's shame him for trying to step up." Are there situations where you're actually stepping over the line? Yeah, for sure. Sometimes you need to cross that line to know where it is though. Also, think of the badboy stereotype. By definition they are percieved negatively in some social contexts. If you're uncomfortable and stiff and tryna spit game on a girl to…	/r/seduction	07/08/24 06:25 PM