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freun989/r/seduction08/03/10 01:37 AM
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Don’t pay much (or anything) on a first date. Real women worth dating will pay for a date, or at least offer.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 03:42 PM
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Go to the Beach Boardwalk, surely there will be girls there enjoying the nice weather.
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:08 PM
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A simple breathing trick I've learned has changed how I approach falling asleep, but use for anxious moments as well. You can really feel your heartbeat slow down, the 4-7-8 breathing method. Fully exhale, inhale deeply for 4 seconds. Hold your breath for 7 seconds. Exhale for a full 8 seconds. Repeat. Seriously, try it now. It works. Don't overuse it, you can get lightheaded. To calm your nerves, go through the cycle three or four times. Hope it helps!
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:01 AM
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I wouldn't respond to her every text, especially if it does not warrant a response. That's just catering to her entertainment. Still always transition to hanging out in person, much easier to get to know a someone and escalate. Texting every day is definitely an IOI, so just ask her out.
/r/seduction07/04/14 02:46 PM
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You've already answered your own questions. Once you get the number, you text/call to set up a date. Good date idea entirely depends on your age and interests. Give yourself a situation in which you can build attraction and comfortably engage her, don't throw yourself to the wolves doing something you wouldn't regularly do. Would be silly to suggest a bar for drinks if you're not of age or a hike if you dislike the outdoors. Try doing something that caters to your personality and will give you a…
/r/seduction23/03/14 06:03 PM
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Do not cater to her the way orbiters do. You have already differentiated yourself enough to get the date, so you're on the right path. Maintain frame, keep the date light and fun, switch venues if possible, and lead. If she's a confident girl, at minimum you need to match her confidence level. Calibration is key. Also do not give in to petty shit tests girls like this tend to dish out. In fact, playfully neg and knock her down a peg often if she starts acting too hot to trot. Push/pull and do no…
/r/seduction14/03/14 10:40 PM
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This guy has an interesting theory that hits on a few of the questions you ask. Like his analysis, I have also observed that people who you will match with show up first when opening the app. If the first few haven't logged in since you last logged in, odds are they didn't 'like' you. Also, I don't think you show up in someone's feed if they are outside the age range you set for the profiles you want to see.
/r/seduction13/02/14 06:24 PM
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Similarly, I like the anecdote "A calm sea does not make a skilled sailor."
/r/seduction04/02/14 10:29 PM
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Was just in a similar situation, she comes back next week. Chat regularly, probably not daily, to maintain connection; but do not let it venture into the territory of her just using you as entertainment via text while away.
/r/seduction25/12/13 08:41 AM
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You can explore the G-string together.
/r/seduction13/06/13 08:04 PM
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I agree, calibration is very important.
/r/seduction31/05/13 07:01 AM
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Buy it on Saturday in preparation.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:26 PM
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"To better times than these.."
/r/seduction02/08/11 08:21 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like she wanted to go back to your place. Go to the same bar next time so she instantly feels comfortable. Steadily build kino and at the end of the night take her back to your place.
/r/seduction06/03/11 01:52 AM
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Kudos man. Sounds like you pulled this off well by warming her up with light kino beforehand. Also, excellent choice on going in for the kiss before the date is over. Keep at it!
/r/seduction03/03/11 08:19 AM
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Basically, any girl is a sucker for a good guitar player. It really doesn't even matter what you play her.. Personally, I can't sing for shit but play guitar/bass in a band and just mix in some original material with some random instrumental covers. Whether she has had drinks (like OP) or not, guitar is a major DHV that revs most girls' engines.
/r/seduction29/01/11 09:11 AM
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I think it depends on context. If you ask a girl out, I think a good general rule is to pay for her. But gauge the situation as you go because all women are different and it depends on the girl as well. Many will just sit there expecting you to shell out for a meal, coffee, drinks, whatever you got on the date, whereas as the select few girls will reach for their bags and grab their wallet to split with you.
/r/seduction24/01/11 08:18 AM
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I agree. A lot of people joke about being able to play guitar and it's ability to pick up chicks, yet the truth is that it really works.
/r/seduction24/01/11 04:12 AM
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Live right outside Sac.. sup
/r/seduction18/10/10 06:29 AM
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Good advice. There's a farmer's market/street fair on Wednesdays I think I'm going to ask her to.
/r/seduction08/03/10 08:05 AM
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We met last weekend through a mutual friend and hit it off a little bit then. Ran into her at a party last night and started talking a little more. Got drunk and the night progressed as mentioned above, so I didn't go into it blind.
/r/seduction08/03/10 08:03 AM
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