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For me, taking lessons for the waltz, salsa and belly dancing have helped me be able to feel safe moving my body, experiencing the feelings of being in my body, letting a man lead, feeling vulnerable, having a man touch me etc etc all while being in a safe enviroment I come from a childhood of mental sexual trauma so i can relate in a way. ​ Also, it's not completely rpw endorsed but I felt so scared of being feminine, vunerable and sensual. So, to help with being comfortable with sensuality and…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 01:06 AM
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I see nothing wrong with seeking pleasure mentally if you follow an otherwise straight path. If you are not constantly seeking validation & dopamine from outer sources I think it is positive to seek it from your mind
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 04:00 PM
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I think you gave extremely useful and relevant advice!! I LOVE your mindset! It's very important that she figures out who she wants to be, what she values, her principles. Great, great advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 03:54 PM
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Well, for me I have always gone into them knowing that they are just fantasy for my feeling part of my body & brain. It feels good to fantasize. For me, it nurtures that part that can never be satisfied by another human, I get to satisfy it. I hope that makes sense. What I am saying is that, personally, it relieves me from craving that in another person. That desire is met by my own mind. It's very fulfilling personally To each their own :) Take what you need, discard what you don't!
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 03:41 PM
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I found being immersed in romance novels instead helps. I dont't even mean sexy ones. Just sweet ones or both. It helps my mind wonder & feel romantic while still being safe. I get a false sense of vulnerablity that I can practice feeling. ​ Hope that helps.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 01:38 AM
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No blue lights after7:30 pm ​ Wake up at 6. Then 5: 50 , 5:30 & then all the way to 4 am eventually because it takes me about 6 hours after waking before I have energy/ inspiration/ willpower/ motivation
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/19 03:00 PM
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I thought in the past other women would get together at the park or one ladies house and alternate?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/19 02:53 PM
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Zegiknie, I push men away, too. Like, I ghost them or avoid them in public. Do you have any ideas? I am afraid of being vulnerable bc I feel like its a trick. Appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 10:58 PM
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You're right. Often feel paralyzed. Thanks so much. That's a lovely tip. Yes, sadly I think I have to uncover some primal/ childhood needs as well. I am glad you came through- it's so heartwrenching when peoples childhoods overtake them. Good job for overcoming that pit. You're right! She's the ultimate rp goddess to me. Freya means something like the lady. ' Her knowledge and power are almost without equal. ' She is associated with love, sex, beauty, fertility, gold, war, and death. I was negle…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 10:55 PM
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Wondering how you are doing? I only reached one goal in march Hope you are well
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 02:26 PM
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I don't think this post is safe here because of the implication that sikly hair is superior to kinky hair. ​ I read a study that Asians & Caucasions come from neanderthal dna while the other races to do not. So, it is most likely just a matter of being from a different type of prehuman
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 10:37 PM
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Thanks for responding to me. :-) When reading your words I felt a lot of comfort... I felt like an older sister was talking to me. Everything you wrote reads like it came out of my own mind. Those people are real treasures. I take in peoples emotions too easily. Trying to change that, too. I like knowing that maybe the way I feel will also subdue when I find a healthy man to start a family with. That's definitely valauble. Thanks for the reccomendation. Better than before is a great book. Having…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 08:37 PM
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You're right. You're defintely correct. I didn't want to face up & admit to but it's true. I have several cog distortions to be honest. What other resources do you reccomend? Thanks for the advice. Everyone in my life wont give me tough love
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 08:31 PM
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That sounds wonderful. I tried salsa and sewing last month & thats what made me realize what a control freak I currently am. Could not accept that I need to be the fool before and I can be the master. Do you have any insight on how to push throught to focus on progress?? I start resenting myself for feeling frustrated lol...
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 08:29 PM
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Why should rpwomen care about what rpmen think? Each have a biological imperative to follow
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:22 PM
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According to the book sex is a no go. And there are rules for making out as well It's very 1940s to me
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:22 PM
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I know those things as well. I was asking you if you thought if the victorians correlated assertion with sexuality. I just recently went to a museum & heard the whole paragraph you wrote but did not think to ask why.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:12 PM
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I know those things as well. I was asking you if you thought if the victorians correlated assertion with sexuality. I just recently went to a museum & heard the whole paragraph you wrote but did not think to ask why.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 01:12 PM
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I believe that is was considered agressive because of the red associated with it. Red scientifically across all cultures makes women more attractive. So, maybe they didn't want to associate little girls with sexuality- even if it is subdued?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 10:02 PM
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Only glow up for your inner self
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 07:51 PM
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I think you made very good points, as well! Maybe it is just that I didn't realize that ( especially in 2019) if you are religious you can be half in half out. I think you made good suggestions for those who are not devout, like you said. So, if one is devout, what would your dating strategy be? How soon do you bring it up? Congrats to you & your family for being strong in your chosen religion!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 05:14 PM
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It's extremely difficult to raise children when the parents don't have the same view points, though. Especially if one goes to temple/ church/ mosque while the other goes to vice versa. That is so confusing for children
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 01:00 PM
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How do we find them if new in town & no experience w healthy role models?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 12:55 PM
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You sound like a control freak. The only time it is wrong is if you try to mentally or physically harm someone from another race. Every race has tried to preserve their race and culture for millenia. If that was true then why does the Ashkenazi community promote for their children to mary other non familial Ashkenazi's? Ashkenazis are a small precentage of the world and have a right to say no to mixing with out groups.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 02:29 PM
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For all of humanity all of the races have been racist. Losing your ancestral dna is a very new concept.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 02:17 PM
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Thank you, that's a great idea. I am self employed. Do you have an alternative suggestion? Healthcare is my biggest struggle. Meaning, I do not have a primary care dr. Just go to med clinics
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 08:16 PM
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Oh come on collectjism cleary has an worldview that she/ he painted onto this person. It readlike a marxist manifesto not advice
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 08:30 PM
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Would like to suggest acv water, too :) Lemons in the new place I am at are expensive so acv is a good sub
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 03:04 PM
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can you elaborate? Are you saying it is a good strategy to cuddle after movie meal if you want the man to go wild? Trying to learn
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/19 10:00 PM
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How do you maintain such a length ( if you are caucasion)? Any tips? You reccomend olaplex?
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/19 09:47 PM
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Wow, didn't know about microneedling? Can you tell me what is the danger involved? Not challening- didn't realize. I am glad you made this post tho!
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 11:20 PM
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really believe in laser skin peels and derma rolling from the results of older friends, family, colleagues & women on youtube
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 03:18 AM
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You're not ugly & you should definetly love your race. It's what your ancestors passed down to you!! ​ Just to make you feel better, I was the plain jane at your age but now I am getting modeling offers, sponsorship offers & guys are certainly attracted to me. My hardest part is the interpersonal skills. So, focus on that! Focus on finding hobbies that can also make you some side money & will be good for your homemaking life ( if thats your goal) For example sewing & baking :) Try a couple proje…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 10:40 PM
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Second the highlights!! Red door spa is pricey but they have never failed my friends or family
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 06:32 PM
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Can you reccomend a place to get vintage inspired lingerie & loungewear? Especially those pretty night gowns & robes. ​
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 06:31 PM
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My first intial advice is to wear red & make sure you darken your eyelids & crease with a matte brown everyday because these two things scientifically make a woman more attractive. The eye look I am talking about is the stuff you seen in mens magazines. Next, buy half inch flexi rods. Take two & wrap whilst twisting your hair at the same time around said rod ( hope that makes sense) into either hair space buns or princess leia buns. Space buns with make the curls all over. ​ It takes about 45 se…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 06:25 PM
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I am thinking this would be a good time for you to do some self care & wear an outfit that is a little different from your usual style ( not saying sexual) so you can create some new nuerons for him & yourself. He's probaly gonna pull away & his T levels will raise due to it. So, just try & add some self care So sorry you heard that
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 01:15 AM
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Maybe somehow that you are trying to make your world suit his world? That your ideal is to create a sanctuary for him
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 01:11 AM
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Can anyone give advice to me? I always attract guys who are habitual cheaters & in are in relationships?? I dress modest Am I sending the wrong signals? I cut off contact when I find out they have gfs
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 12:44 AM
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You made the dinner & pie for your man? Maybe his girl is not a rpw?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/19 12:55 AM
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Maybe bro is jealous??
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/19 12:28 AM
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Isn't hunting becoming a status symbol, too? So, most likely a good provider. But, do you reccomend a club or meetup or sum?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 08:57 PM
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Looking to ask you for help, please. Does powerlifting change how fem your body looks or your fertility? I realize you won't get bulky. But, is there a risk in having your waist become wider? Or your shoulders? And, do you do comps?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 01:56 AM
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Have you read the wheat belly? You may have a wheat intolerance. That doesn't meat you have to cut out wheat ,either. Just properly prepare them in traditional ways. (Soaking or long fermenting them)
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 11:58 PM
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I do agree with you that it is best for both parties. Where do you draw the line? When can the woman nurture him emotionally? In a marriage, does this differ? If he looks to the woman for advice should she say ask your male confidants? ​ ​
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 12:10 AM
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But that's not what we are supposed to do in a healthy relationship That's dysfunctional Ofc needs are to be met in both parties but even in charity we are to give without the expectation of getting
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 08:22 PM
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How did she set him up w an ulitmatum? I missed that part
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:39 PM
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Everything you said is perfect
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:32 PM
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please let me know how it goes if you discuss this with him bc this sounds like something that would happen to me. very stressful good luck
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 12:38 AM
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Excited for you!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 12:30 AM
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LOL I think you've got me down! Yes, I am trying to prepare way too much & I am not even pregnant or dating!! Very young. Totally agree with & respect your values. Your values are something I want to instill as well. Do you have any insight on how to instill grit & being okay with failure & then adjusting to try again ? I was raised to be afraid of failure( like most) & am a perfectionist. That is so facinating about the sage!! And the oats!! I bet oatmilk would be a life saver for women who nee…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 12:21 AM
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Wow, thank you soo soo much for your suggestion!! That is so exciting to me. I can't wait to follow your suggestions!! Aw, I love that the book worked for your angel. How great. Thank you, I am nervous about parenting tolddlers lol. Do you think I should try & get a job at a daycare or something to have more experience with children?? Children adore me but I am not very good yet at being firm & having them listen to me about gettting away from a growling dog or something & that scares me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 03:29 PM
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Ok, great ! Thanks! When you say that, do you mean each baby has a different sleeping style or something like that? :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 03:26 PM
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That is so crazy about sage!! So glad you told me yikes
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 03:25 PM
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My best advice is to try & start a side buisiness on something you get complimented alot. For example, if people always love your style apply for a buissiness license & wholesale license & set up a small online boutique so everytime someone gives a compliment on your effort you can tell them where to get it all & then you have potential money. That may be a big step but my cousin has had lots of success. ​ If you make cupcakes or whatever & they are popular, try & apply for a cottage industry li…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:14 PM
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True... I'm glad to hear that. That is inspiring. Were you weary to contact him first? He sounds very mature to say that... How does one keep the options open? I am a late bloomer & only recently have had guys showing googoo eyes to me. I feel very excited to be validated & i think it shows. First guy to ask me out on a date I think i scared away with an unintentional innuendo since i am still naive too Do you think i should watch too????
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 01:57 AM
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I'm currently the late bloomer very very recently Makes me cry sometimes. Some guys see me as an easy lay or an lay even though i am modest & a virgin. Advice, please?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 01:49 AM
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I did something similar Was wondering how you are doing now? Super disapointed in myself
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 01:39 AM
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Thanks for the really nice qoute. Will look more into Anna Quindlen & try to take this qoute in. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 03:33 AM
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reccomend wayne goss's to videos on how to use a fuchia colored blush for the most natural & pretty glow. Such a powerful trick that i only just learned about
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 05:11 AM
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I signed up for dancing & forced myself to go to two parties even though i've never been to a party before (22) & never danced until a week ago... really really huge leaps
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 04:51 AM
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check out dermarolling on youtube there willl be dozens of over 50 women who have before and afters. You can use certain mm all over your body, lips, under your eyes for dark circles. It's the cheapest miracle product. Takes 3 months to see results butits a miracle. Suggest beauty by anne marie
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 05:04 AM
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I don't know why everyone assumed that you are looking for validation
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 03:57 PM
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i'm glad that you do tell them you are a redpilled cupid
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 03:56 PM
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Get a hobby that can transfer into selling things on the side, lift weights ( follow whitney simmons and niki blackletter) learn to can and garden because there is a coming economic depression that is unlike anything anyone in the west has ever seen ​ If you go to college make sure automation can not replace you
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 03:43 AM
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Jut fyi alot of guys have a fetish on impregnating a woman & it doesnt mean anything deep, sadly. ​ Good luck, sorry I can't help.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 03:38 AM
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It's easy for us to be harsh because we don't have the preception and connection to him like you do but these are all massive red flags which i am sure you, your friends and family have pointed out as well.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 06:22 PM
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I really respect that! Your husband and mother sound like real assets to a family- as do you. The west would really do wonders if we could practice hard and humble things like this again. Thank you for sharing!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 04:34 PM
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I never said or implied leading on a man you know it. That is the horse shit. She is asking about how to reject someone classily. Rejection leaves a permanment impression on men especially if it is harsh. She doesn't know how to be direct so she is asking. The example is perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 02:58 PM
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There really aren't any good ones but if you learn from wayne goss on how to contour different noses and desired cheek bone looks you will be good to go. Also, I reccomend senegence for it instead of a self tanner. You can use their bronzer, foundation, eyeshadow or whatever- as long that it is at least 1-3 shades darker than you. Just stay away from reddish hues
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 02:40 PM
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p.s. I used .25mm but .5mm for places i wasnt targeting ( just for moisture absorption)
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 02:28 PM
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But what can be done if desring symmetry in the face in bioloigcal?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/19 02:24 PM
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It's biologically & societally programed to be nice to men who are attracted to us otherwise it could end dangerously due to rage. Everyone I have ever known has had a family member teach her how to let guys down gently so they don't build resentment
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 02:16 PM
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Do you can your own food or babyfood, too?? :D
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 05:20 PM
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I'm sorry I don't because mine was discontinued but I can reccomend to you that you make sure the needles are titanium. Gin Amber sells titanium but I havent used hers. And the oil i use afterwards to soothe is food grade grapeseed oil because it's very hydrating. You might want to buy an numbing agent if you are very sensitive but ive never know anyone to not handle it. ​ If you are looking for more intensive skincare one brand has a redlight with it for added benefits. Havent tried it though. …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 05:15 PM
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What product for wiping down do you reccomend? Thanks in advance for the help
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:58 PM
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Anyone have tips for minimizing messes when baking/ crafting with kids? Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:57 PM
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good tip on the earrings! Do you prefer dangly or otherwise?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:56 PM
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Look into derma rollers at .5 needles :) Builds collagen like no other at home device
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:53 PM
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yes, there is a pillow on youtube marketed by a 40+ womant that forces back sleeping
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:52 PM
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I also really reccomend not washing your hair every 2 days. Of course, wear a shower cap & still wash your body everyday. Also, reccomend a chlorine filter for your shower and drinking water for hair and enamel protection. Lastly, satin pillow case and keeping your hair up when you sleep will prevent both hair and skin damage. I read that a derm said other than sun damage, many wrinkles can be attribited to the harshness of sleeping on your side on cotton pillowcase??
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:50 PM
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did you ever stop using rapidlash & get fall out?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 07:46 PM
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I love what you said about stopping by for lemonade! That sounds so, so sweet. I hope that can happen this summer eeeep
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 10:14 PM
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Yeah, it just seems very pracitical. Thanks for sharing
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 10:13 PM
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I thought traditionally women have been seen as the prize?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 10:11 PM
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Aren't redpill men not intrested in monogamy? At least until the court culture changes?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 10:09 PM
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You're right men Alphas don't need to compete but they do like seeing the apple of their eye be desired and competed for by men who would love for them to fail.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 08:01 PM
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My friend had a partner like this... no matter who you are drugs can make you kill for more drugs... be very, very, very careful
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:58 PM
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Yes, it's all about courting and men like competition afterall. Even Scarlett O'Hara's comp did the same thing. Doesn't make you Rizzo from Greese
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:54 PM
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I think this is how women in America dated in the 50s? Anyone know?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:47 PM
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That's so sad... every partner should be treated the way the people who first loved us would want... so sad.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:41 PM
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Do you think there aren't many studies due to potential push back?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 12:43 AM
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Thank you so much for doing and that also helping me understand it a bit more!! I am happy to hear that social support was documented as cruicial. I think that can be forgotten in our modern day culture... Thank you for sharing! Will save this!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 12:43 AM
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Could you share where I could find those stats, please? I am only finding controversy and would like to read something positive. :) Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 08:14 PM
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