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Maybe work smarter?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 12:16 PM
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You said that it's what you could do on the computer. I was saying that it doesn't add anything good to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:51 AM
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Ugly men get married easier than ugly women, so you do have that advantage in the sex marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 12:00 AM
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Being fat and ugly doesn't preclude getting married. It precludes easy success in the market of unmarried sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:55 PM
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Whether or not you are misogynistic, you can simply refrain from misogynistic language as a life choice. It's not funny. It's tiresome and kinda awful. You can live in your van down by the river. It might be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:54 PM
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I thoughtfully replied to you and your response was insulting. No thanks realvmouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:43 PM
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Agreed on most points. Women don't have more inherent value overall based on looks, but they probably do in the marketplace of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:31 PM
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Do you really want to add to the gigantic pile of misogyny in the world? It's not original or interesting. It's tedious and painful for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:19 PM
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I don't think abduction and rape is a laughing matter. No, I mean how did they feel about themselves. Did they say the same things about themselves that incels say about themselves? Crying large rivers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:15 PM
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You have some challenges to fight against.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:13 PM
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People who try to get laid get laid more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:01 PM
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I have a question for you. What do you think men did in the olden times who couldn't find a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 07:01 PM
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They get married, dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:57 PM
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OK. Stay lazy and talentless, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:56 PM
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Looks don't matter as much as talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:56 PM
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Hey, how are you doing? Moving to our discussion, I agree with you on some points, but disagree on others. Early positive feedback is important, but it's not everything, and the world does not give everyone an equal start in life. You have to succeed despite the things that you were lacking as a child. Some kids come from dirt poor families, and it matters. Some kids come from abusive households, and it matters. As far as my message about getting good to get laid, it came about as a response to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:54 PM
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I wonder how fat and ugly dudes ever get laid. HMMMMMMMM???????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:30 PM
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I'm impressed! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 06:16 PM
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That's not how talent works. Everyone is born with certain talents. Those who choose to develop them end up with exceptional talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:13 PM
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Ugly men who are excellent at something get laid by beautiful women. The take home message is that, if you're ugly, get good at something and stop complaining. Fate doesn't owe you the sex life of your dreams. You have to be attractive to women in some way. Be exceptionally funny. Be a great singer. Develop yourself. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:55 PM
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ewww woman hater
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:45 AM
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Most dates aren't fun. Sitting at a table and eating/drinking? Snore city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:58 AM
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I choose to believe the woman. The apartment was too small and making her unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:17 AM
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She TOLD him that the apartment was too small and making her unhappy. He decided to mock her instead of paying attention to her and taking her seriously. He got his just desserts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:02 AM
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How is it vague, when she told him that his apartment was too small? Why would you ever mock someone else's pain? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:01 AM
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She says the apartment makes her unhappy. Her BF mocks her unhappiness. These two things are enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:46 PM
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Sure, but this isn't about me. I'm just pointing out that a tiny apartment full of his things doesn't allow her to have any space of her own to be herself or do things. He mocked her unhaaappiness, but it was real. Cleaning his own apartment isn't going to make her happy, because she can't be herself without at least some space of her own. Her reason for unhappiness was real, but he ignored it and mocked her in public. This is a man who needs a bigger heart and a bigger apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:27 PM
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She moved in with him. He had no space for her to be herself. Anyway, the apartment wasn't the problem. That he mocked her unhappiness is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 03:25 PM
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What does it mean to be under the automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 03:24 PM
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It's happened to me before. I didn't want to be with a man because he lived in a tiny apartment full of his stuff. There was no place for me to exist and be happy if I can't have space to put my things and a table to do artwork on. A desk to sit at. SOMETHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 11:05 AM
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Right away, you mocked her for being unhaaappy because of your apartment. When she "cheated" on you, she was looking for another place to live, not another man. She wanted to "work on it" rather than break up. You're insensitive. You're not listening. She hates your apartment. It makes her unhappy. You're a mocker, and you ignore her needs. She's well to be done of you. You should have just moved instead of all that other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 11:02 AM
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At least consider whether or not you really need to operate on that paradigm. It sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:18 PM
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Sounds like a tough job. You accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:09 PM
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Until this point, you hadn't explicitly mentioned that you were only referring to a get-laid strategy. You made is seem that men can't get laid if they express weakness, which isn't true. Men can be weak and get laid. They just can't be weak TO get laid (and have it work very often). Every man is weak because every person is weak, and most men get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:12 PM
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You've got some kind of syndrome going on there, but you could alternatively just get over it. Everyone has weaknesses. NBD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:18 PM
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Easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:15 PM
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Why shouldn't men be weak around women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:09 PM
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Yeah, like being interesting. Like being dedicated and talented to something. Being nice instead of a nice guy. Go work out at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:08 PM
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High testosterone causes men to have a much higher sex drive when compared to women. Women have high sex drives, but more often this is situational. They don't have high testosterone pressuring them to get sex any way they can. They tend to want a relationship, and even more, a loving relationship. This is aggravating to a man who just wants to bust a nut. So he begs, feels bad about begging, and blames her for making him beg, when it's really just the testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:01 PM
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Let me be more precise. Complaining about sex AS A STRATEGY TO GET SEX is the weakest thing a man could do, because it doesn't work. Venting isn't weak. Being vulnerable isn't weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:53 AM
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Perhaps, but you could say that for any weakness, which is what this thread was about. I volunteered that this complaining-about-sex thing is weak, maybe the weakest, thing a man can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:24 AM
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It isn't about vulnerability. It's the inutility of the practice. Complaining about insufficient sex is worthless as a gambit to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:03 AM
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Complain that he isn't getting enough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:57 AM
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Become competent, then you'll be popular with women. Also, nobody has as much sex as they want, so get over yourself. Nobody owes you a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 12:10 PM
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Fat guys are not easy to have sex with, and they have sleep apnea. This makes bedtimes less fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:23 AM
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I'm sick of the misogyny on Reddit. Reddit is a place where female-on-female incivility is discussed and where rape never actually happens but rape accusations occur daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:25 PM
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It isn't as prevalent as male incivility, rudeness, misogyny, violence, and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:23 PM
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If you include rape, actual beatings, and porn-shaming, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:16 PM
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The subject was female-on-female incivility, not female violence. Certainly females commit abuse against their children, but that isn't on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:15 PM
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Agreed. When a woman is killed, the vast majority of time, she's killed by a man. When a woman is raped, it's almost always a man doing it. Online abuse is conducted by men, almost all of the time. When a woman is harassed in the streets, you can count on it being a man that does it. Sexual harassment in the workplace is conducted by both men and women, but the majority of it is man against woman. But yeah, you can talk about incivility as if it's a big problem. If you compare it to man against …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:12 AM
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Men abuse other men even more than they abuse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:10 PM
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I didn't write this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 04:14 AM
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I didn't write this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 04:14 AM
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ugly ug ly if i were u id b thankful for a hoe. or more than one.... ohhhhhthat IS what u have now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:46 PM
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so u settled ftass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:39 PM
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james u r shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:38 PM
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Have you worked hard at searching? Have you made plans and taken deliberate actions to find an appropriate mate? Do you know what you want, and can you swiftly and easily describe it to women? Example, "I want a woman who has a full time job and pays 1/2 the rent." or "I want a woman who works part time jobs, doesn't pay too much attention to her career, but plays with me a bunch of the time." Perhaps you want a woman who only dates you on weekends. Or you want a woman to live with you as soon a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:14 AM
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You say, "sex is merely a means of regulating their husband's behavior". I quibble with the characterization with the notion that it's "merely" a way to get a husband to do what you want them to do. I'd call it a tactic of last resort! If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you very often, there's a reason for it (and it isn't because women don't want to have sex). Being in several long term relationships, a few of which have ended in bed death, I have experience with this. In these cases, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:43 PM
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Yeah, it's weird. Maybe it's common, but it's still weird. Women aren't doing anything, so they shouldn't be blamed if you're lonely. They're just moving forward with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 12:18 AM
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Loneliness is awful, but describing this as punishment from women is the weird thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 12:03 AM
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Women punish men by not choosing them? That's some weird stuff right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:26 PM
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I'm glad you put this tidbit in. Chad theory could very well be a projection of men sharing a similar female ideal and thinking women operate the same (due to poor Theory of Mind).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 04:51 PM
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Expressing your fear is fine. Choosing a mate who (probably) cannot satisfy you because you're afraid of X, Y, and Z is a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 05:12 PM
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You're taking your chances with a naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 04:23 PM
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You're saying what I'm saying, so don't call it rubbish. The fear isn't bad. The selection of a wife who is less able to satisfy you is the bad thing. Right? The actions are at issue. Every man has the same fears, but not all men take actions based on those fears. Choosing a (probably) sexually inadequate partner because of fear? Bad. YOU CHOOSE YOUR ACTIONS. Some men choose to conquer their fear and select a mate that is suitable for them. Some men cave into it and choose a naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 02:52 PM
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Fear itself isn't bad. What comes from fear is bad. Maybe you think the fear is sensible, maybe not, but if what you DO springs from your fear, it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 01:45 PM
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FEAR is the reason for the double standard. I'm answering the original question. You want to be fearful, that's your business. The average woman looking for a wealthier man isn't doing it because she's overly fearful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 12:46 PM
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You didn't comment about the fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 12:39 PM
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Yes, but they limit their own romantic choices because of this fear. They choose women that have less ability to satisfy them. It's counterproductive for a fearful man, but then again, there's the fear. Fear is hard to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 12:31 PM
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I'm not saying FEAR is good or bad. I'm saying FEAR is the motivator for men who want inexperienced women. FEAR is not the motivator of a woman who wants an experience/wealthy man. It comes from different emotions, and so that is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 12:30 PM
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Nothing inherently wrong with fear, you're right, but it's not the motivation of a woman looking for a wealthy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 12:41 AM
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A promiscuous man wants a conservative woman because he is full of fear and has bad self esteem. He's worried he won't measure up to her previous lovers and that if he doesn't treat her well enough, she'll leave him. ALL OF THIS IS FROM FEAR ON THE PART OF THE MAN, and anything that comes from fear is bad. If a man values a top notch sexual experience, then he'll want an experienced woman. This is more aligned with a woman who wants a wealthier man, because more wealth equals more adventure (sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 07:21 PM
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Any behavior you see exhibited today is the behavior you can expect to see exhibited for the rest of your life (if you choose to spend it with that person).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 07:16 PM
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With the job market as it is, you have to expect a shift towards non-careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 01:42 PM
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