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Just because there aren't rules doesn't mean this isn t a bullshit post and a sad example of the general perspective on this subreddit. You can calm down just as thoroughly if my pointing this out bothers you so much, but I would really rather just respect one another instead suggesting your overreacting because you shared your perspective, like you did to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:22 AM
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If this is the sort of post that gets high upvoyes and positive feedback on this sub, the sub is absolutely redundant. What's the point if callous and biased jokes are seen as legitimate on a debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:04 AM
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Then maybe don't reply to threads that you have no interest or knowledge in?? Pretty useless? Glad that you don't have to worry about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 08:46 PM
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Did you read ny comment? I literally said it's a two way street and requires open communication and listening from both sides. I'm open with my partner about the affection if prefer that makes me feel close and turned on. He delivers both because he likes and because he knows I do. It satisfies the question and all im sayinf is your answer implied that it is more so up to the female, if I misunderstood you my apologies; if I didn't then that's pretty biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 07:53 PM
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What are you talking about? Honestly. And the just because is just because they enjoy it. If you don't enjoy cuddling your partner just because you like the fwelinf of sharinf slace with them or groping them just because you like their body, and if every affectionate thing you do you do only to obtain sex, Have fun in your sexless relationship. I'll have fun in my super gay one. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 07:50 PM
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Like you want to be able to do things on your own, be competent, and driven?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 03:03 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:56 AM
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I think this is a great take for the most part, my only disagreement is in how you speak of women's responsibility to turn themselves on, in a way. When you say: "it has to be a situation that gets them in the mood. Then, they proceed to NEVER put themselves in that kind of situation that turns them on." I feel you're perpetuating the idea that women have full control over the situation. Think of it this way, I probably need two things to feel turned on for an extended period of time. I have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:52 AM
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It sucks for men who don't feel they fit this criteria and it sucks for anyone to be pressured to be a certain way to have success or respect. There is nothing wrong with these things, it just shouldn't be an expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:00 PM
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Thanks for your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:56 PM
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The difference is that your the misogyny on TRP isn't accompanied with a sick beat. (That was a joke). Not all rap is misogynistic, and even when it is I can enjoy the other aspects of the song without indulging in the ideologies behind the lyrics. Additionally, while philosophies in media definitely have an affect on the way people are, the delivery is for the most part far more passive and casual, it does not take itself as seriously as TRP. Also I doubt most women on TBP or who dislike TRP wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:08 PM
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Limits I would set... no unsafe sex if it were casual or polygamist. Knowing how to have healthy and productive conversations about their own consent and the consent of their partners so none of their sex becomes abusive/traumatic/assault. No practices that are a high risk to their health. I would probably encourage them to not do sex work, only because I know it is statistically dangerous and can be socially damaging. I want my kids to feel fulfilled sexually when they are old enough to explore…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:38 PM
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Uh nope. I really give no fucks about winning arguments. Literally just trying to add some extra perspective and point out that arguing women only like masculine men is really generalizing. The majority of women might? In many ways, I think, this is common because this view is so endorsed in media/through the mindset of you and other. Maybe is men advocated for valuing more effeminate men they would become more valuable to the majority? Women did it in many aspects, and shockingly the refining u…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 06:08 PM
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I actually did answer your question by listing many things that I and my friends like that are considered effeminate and not valuable by convention, but your thinking I didn't makes me wonder if we have different views of what makes a man effeminate, why don't you describe to me the man you are picturing if you want my perspective on his ability to find a partner. Because you think even the act of approaching is masculine, I have a feeling you are linking generally unattractive behavior/qualitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:26 AM
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Fair enough, I definitely didn't intend to do that, but I think I likely accidentally described the people because I am more of a blue pill and I really don't have a great perspective on their ideology. At the same time, I tried to take their perspective more than I tried to describe them, still though that isn't necessarily their ideology. To me, red pills believe the world is becoming less fair, specifically towards men. They are trying to point out how they are being treated badly or set up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:34 AM
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I think that the more people speak positively about less conventional men and women, the more people will come to desire them or be open to it. By accepting others for being different we are more open to liking them ourselves. I am definitely aware that plenty of people might still have strict ideas of what they find attractive, and that won't change overnight. I can't force women or men to like something they don't, but I can ask them to think about why they don't like it and to not suggest tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:24 AM
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I know plenty of women who like men who do NOT fit the criteria of general masculinity: I personally prefer scrawny men or men with an average body. I am not incredibly attracted to men with larger body fat, but I would 100% date a larger guy than one who was incredibly toned and muscular. I love men who are in tune with their emotions, feel comfortable opening up and show compassion. I value intellect over brawn. I think it's cool if a man is responsible and knows how to take care of himself, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:12 AM
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You personally come off as more purple to me, and I sympathize with all of your concerns about either side. So I wondering what specifically you relate to in the regards to the red pill (when it is reasonable, as you say) as I'm more blue leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 01:36 AM
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I'm also going to add my own: I think red pill tends to, pre-dominantly, be men who feel fucking frustrated. Frustrated that double standards that disadvantage men get ignored, frustrated that they are called privileged for their sex even though they had no choice in the matter, frustrated because despite their "privilege" they feel a lot of things holding them back, specifically from being sexually successful. I think red pills also feel a bit betreayed by new movements in regards to gender, fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 01:22 AM
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Well if you care so much you can literally look it up for me, and if you don't care you can literally stop posting?? I think this is a fairly suitable question in which I am not trying to assert any of my biases and encourage people to potentially think beyond theirs. If that is too bland for you make your own post bud, I'm sure that you have the monopoly on clever and creative ideas since you appear so to judge them so well. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 01:17 AM
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I haven't found a post specifically addressing this, and I think it's a much better thought experiment to ask people to address their own perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 12:56 AM
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The most pathetic person in both scenarios is the one doing the "whipping". It is never cool to control someone your fucking or in a relationship with and expect their life to revolve around you. It sucks when a person feels they owe their decisions and general autonomy to another person, but I would never go on to victim blame them if they are truly in an unhealthy and controlling relationship. I also just want to add on there is a difference between a dedicated, reliable partnership and abuse.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 12:54 AM
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I mean, possibly? But, so what? This is an extremely generalizing theory running on no data or explanation, and even in the case that there was a correlation, correlations mean quite little. It's causation that matters. In this case, lets assume that there is a correlation. This does not mean in any way that participating in sports help you find sexual partners, there is nothing innate about sports in ones youth. My best guess would be being good at something and working on social skills boosts …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 12:32 AM
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Haha, very true, and everyone is primarily responsible for their own skill development, and each person is fully capable of learning, they might just not be aware that they need to develop their skills if their former partners lie about orgasms for example. I will say first time sex between partners can commonly be the most awkward sex too, it takes time to get to know another person's body and sexual mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:48 AM
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Ah, fair enough. That's not cool either as they weren't being earnest about their looks, and attraction is a valid reason for wanting to date or have sex, after all Tinder is based on quick assessments of attractions. I don't know if I would personally consider that catfishing though. Nothing excuses the lying they did, but I do think a lot of people, men and women, employ those tactics because of insecurities and a desire for affection and companionship (pretty human desires). I'm sure their in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:39 AM
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Eh, I wish it were that simple. I think unfortunately some people have had many experiences which validate skills that they may lack. Ask your partner who complained men can't find a clit, for example, how many of those men she told that to or taught to find it. Regardless, teaching someone very insecure (to the point they won't bring up their downfalls) or very sure of themselves can be really taxing and I respect your not wanting to spend time doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:29 AM
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I'm sorry you feel you're not valued in being your genuine self, as you said earlier. To be honest I think that being one's best self (what people probably mean and which you described well in your first paragraph) is a long and difficult process that can be frustrating without support and good effects. I think while being yourself might not win over everyone, it will win over the right people who like you for you and take the time to get to know you. I like to think that's what people mean, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:23 AM
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Man I'm sorry, catfishing is super shitty and it's not cool to lie to people and fuck with peoples perceptions when they've shown an interest. I am definitely sympathetic to you not caring much about people that don't care for you. I personally am not sure I could bare to fuck someone who lied to me in such a blatant way, but I respect if that isn't an issue for you. I am curious though, was it merely IG filters, or did these girls have entirely different faces in their tinder profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:15 AM
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Makes sense, within my own sex life I agree with a lot of things you said. Being open, fun, letting go of your ego and being able to laugh, enjoying the personality of the person, are all markers of great sex. I think if someone is shy or insecure, conversation and patience could help them open up to more adventurous and fun sex. However if that's not your jam and you would rather just have a confident sexual partner that's entirely respectable. My point is more so that I think, other than compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:10 AM
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1/2: I don't think things being scarce necessarily make them attractive. In fact sometimes having an uncommon feature does not bode well for someone's general attractiveness. I do find however that conventions of attraction, like the one listed in your post are scarce. This is merely because conventional attractive features are generally inflated stereotypes or valued qualities (not necessarily innate in value, could be historical, cultural, media etc.) I would hope and I truly do think most peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:00 AM
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I'm glad you replied! It's cool that you care about your partners, I'm sure that they are more interested in your pleasure as well by knowing you're interested in theirs. Curious, do you think that people who are not putting in any work would do better with some open conversation? If so, in that case wouldn't their being worth it simply be a matter of being taught or possibly just sexual (in)compatibility, which no one is at any particular fault for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:48 AM
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Generally somewhere between a 6-8 depending on stress and the events in my life, I have some pretty shitty anxiety that can get me down, but generally I handle it pretty well I'm 24, a woman, and I'm in a fairly new relationship. My pill orientation is on my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:42 AM
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a straw man You didn't specifically use the term ideology, but I found it suiting considering you did share some ideas and opinions which I already asked you about. If you ever care to actually discuss them, I'm down. Once again, have a good one! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:39 AM
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I am not going to act like the things that I find unattractive are universal, so keep in mind this is just my opinion -A bitter or unhappy demeanor. This happens to everyone so there's no judgement, but I do appreciate someone who feels comfortable with selves and can roll with the punches. -Closed-minded or disrespectful to those that are different from themselves - I personally really love to know that someone is open to views different than their own and will keep respect even when they disag…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:35 AM
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Fair enough, I can't make you consider anything I've said, I just assumed since we are participating on a subreddit for debate you might be open to a discussion about your ideologies. Oh well, maybe someone else will be. Have a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:20 AM
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I think it can be a pretty even split of nature and nurture, but there are is something important to consider here Even in the case that people have a lot of potential to adapt and change (which I believe they do) they are still definitely a product of their environment. Society and culture do a lot in molding someone in regards to how they understand their identity and interests. This is particularly harmful in regards to stereotypes. Even though many people treat stereotypes to be innately a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:14 AM
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Why do you think a person has to earn the attention and affection that would make their partner want to give them an orgasm? You're also implying that you don't personally find the woman you have sex with are worth trying to get off? Out of curiousity, why would you have sex with them if that's the case? Or rather, if they aren't satisfying you why don't you talk with them about your wants and interests to increase your compatibility so you can both have a more positive experience? Who knows, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:02 AM
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I see what you're saying but I think you might be giving too much precedence to a man's attraction and the way an attractive man acts. I don't think that a person who perceives themselves as more attractive assumes they can just be shit in bed because the other person might be less attractive (to them). I find most people enjoy sex more when both people are having a good time. If you literally don't care and you're just masturbating with her pussy, why not leave her alone and just masturbate? Pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:55 PM
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It's cool that you aren't into casual sex, but I think there are lots of people that are and it's not innately disrespectful as long as everyone is consenting and on the same page. This is inevitably harder to find as a lot of people might want more, at least a friendly acquaintanceship, which I think is pretty legit, but if everyone involved just wants to get laid, that's kind of their business isn't it? I personally find it shittier to date someone under false pretenses (sex) because that does…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:39 PM
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I do agree that their can be a double standard. Some people are just going to react badly no matter how genuine or open-minded you are and that sucks, but I assure you not everyone feels this way, though if your experience currently doesn't reflect this, I'm sorry. For the sake of it, I'm going to describe what I see as non-objectifying interaction: In the case that you only want to get laid, I suppose that is fine, there's nothing wrong with just wanting sex and not wanting a friend or a girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:32 PM
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Guy 2. Guy 1 is neurotically good looking, it's too careful, you can tell he tries very hard for it. I don't really enjoy people who put that much effort into their appearance, perhaps it's because I don't and I like potential partners to reflect that I'm not really sure. Guy 2 is good looking in a disheveled and careless way. He doesn't take himself as seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 10:16 PM
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Some guy being socially awkward isn't any woman's issue. It's up to the man to work through his issues, no one else has any obligation to "help him", if they do that's nice, but it doesn't make anyone an asshole if they don't take on the issues of a lonely person. If they giggle about it and make him feel like shit, yes that's rude but seriously nobody is more responsible for their circumstances than that particular person. Women/any people at all don't take socially awkward men's problem of bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 03:37 AM
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Of course women can be entitled, narcissistic, manipulative, etc. Any gender can. In terms of promiscuity I don't think blue pills are denying that some women have sex casually and often. Of course some do, just as with the other qualities some men do. They are likely fighting against looking at this behavior negatively, calling someone promiscuous or slutty puts down not only their sexual behavior but much of the time it means to insult their worth as an overall human being. A woman can sleep a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:26 PM
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I think you are underestimating how far a sense of deep seeded discomfort can push someone. It usually isn't an active choice, I don't think most people realize, this behavior is making me uncomfortable because of this reason. They just feel it and act on it, they don't dissect their emotions to find what is causing it. I think that will happen to everyone at some point in their life, people will treat them badly, far worse than they deserve. Why though are you relating the bad treatment of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 09:04 PM
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I don't think anyone is attracted to weakness in either gender, unless they are manipulative and looking for an easy target, I don't know. I think society holds higher expectations of men to be "strong", to be competent, to not show fear or sadness. This is really unfortunate because there is no reason they should be expected to act this way and I don't personally believe it does anything for them to have this pressure put on them. I find it hard to debate your stance because you haven't really …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 08:54 PM
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I think everyone has. My partner has wanted to stop for multiple reasons before, as have I. Fighting, too tired, too sore. Whatever. We stop immediately. It's always slightly disappointing if you are in the mood/worked up/almost reaching orgasm, but who cares. I respect and love my partner far more than I want their body because they are more than a sex doll to me. I would never continue or make them feel bad for not feeling it any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 04:50 AM
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