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TLDR: Get a goal and pursue it!
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:00 AM
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Good call, I edited my intro. I am mostly just looking for a FWB.
/r/seduction09/09/12 05:10 PM
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Just approach like normal. Even if she is gay she may have a straight friend with her, in which case she is likely to try to set you up.
/r/seduction06/07/12 07:54 PM
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I think the two are separated by a massive distinction. Rape is forcing sex with an unwilling person, and is abhorrent. LMR is mind games played (with herself, with the guy, with society) by a woman who is actually willing to be sexual with you.
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:53 AM
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Be careful with spinning it may get you so sweaty you will not really want to talk with anybody. Or take it easy and be a wuss!
/r/seduction13/01/12 07:43 AM
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The Game is well written and very entertaining. It is light on actual pickup material, and the material it has is very dated. That said I thoroughly recommend it. If nothing else you will have read an enjoyable book, and it serves as an excellent source for inspiration.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:52 AM
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Oh well opportunities lost ;).
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:37 AM
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I wish I had known this a year ago when some girl rambles on about her boyfriend on a date (first I knew of him). Then again my reaction to all of this was actually spot on that this girl is more trouble than she was worth. We went on to hook up later (not this date), but she married the boyfriend last month. Poor cuckolded bastard.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:26 AM
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Girls do care about looks, but they also have varying ideas of what is attractive. That girl going out with a guy a ton less attractive than she is probably thinks he is very attractive. So put some effort into your appearance (ie, HYGIENE, gym and dressing well) then don't worry about it.
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:36 PM
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Glad you had fun, I am in a similar situation where I can just go out and have fun and still meet some girls. This unfortunately has not made it any easier to escalate with them. I often end up stalling out.
/r/seduction02/01/12 03:46 AM
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I don't think it is necessarily an AFC problem to not like exercise. The key is to find something you enjoy doing that has you moving about and using your muscles. So you don't like weights try something like swimming, or crossfit, or parcour, crossfit, the options are endless. Try a sport or a class as these have you being social. Finding a way to make exercise work for you is far more alpha than simply grunting up the willpower to suffer for an hour at the gym (and it works better as well).
/r/seduction02/01/12 03:27 AM
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I personally find it more nerve wracking to call a girl than to text her. I assume this means that calling is inherently better. Then again I hate to use texting for anything other that quick one shot questions or updates.
/r/seduction30/11/11 10:02 PM
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This strand of my thinking on game actually comes from my reading about business relations in non-technical publications such as Men's Health (menshealth.com of course). These articles are full of specific actions you can take to boost your performance in the work place, that relate well to game (at least in theme, don't offer to take on extra projects for your girl of course, she isn't your boss but the person this article is aimed towards is). I also really liked this article by Scott Adams (y…
/r/seduction01/05/11 05:35 PM
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Frogma is dead on. Another important note about being a leader is that you need to motivate not dominate those around you. Bringing out the best in others is VERY alpha, even if you are not the center of attention all the time.
/r/seduction30/04/11 02:53 PM
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"Ok then take it off. Here I'll help" With the necessary smirk.
/r/seduction29/04/11 02:28 AM
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Certainly not!
/r/seduction06/04/11 07:06 PM
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The point is to pick your fights. Don't go looking for a fight with someone strong to prove a point. If someone stronger than you is being a dick, then you have to know when getting into that fight and probably losing is a better alternative than just bearing it. Fighting and walking away are both ways to not take shit. That said if push comes to shove, punch the dude right in the face and see what happens.
/r/seduction29/03/11 09:03 PM
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I see the OPs point about not letting opportunity pass you by just because you have not dressed your best. Never the less I see a need to say that: once again we are missing the point between not giving a fuck and adding value. Any moron can not give a fuck (like the Dude), but a real alpha adds value. (And no quoting the Big Lebowski does not come anywhere close to adding value!)
/r/seduction02/03/11 12:14 AM
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Now please post this on every whiny "forever alone" meme junk Reddit dishes up next. Many many guys out there need to here this message.
/r/seduction26/12/10 02:02 AM
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This is the best advice I have EVER seen here!
/r/seduction16/11/10 11:35 PM
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Keep doing what you are doing to draw the attention, but think about doing it with "a wink and a nod" towards the target.
/r/seduction30/06/10 06:06 AM
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In my experiences dancing is fun, but it is more likely to get you grabbed by horny fat chick than present good gaming moments.
/r/seduction10/06/10 01:03 AM
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The only thing you can reliably tell is whether she (or someone she is with) is actively looking to meet people by whether or not she is scanning the room. A girl who is scanning is a much easier target.
/r/seduction14/05/10 08:44 PM
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Seriously people need to stop obsessing over the "nice guy" issue. She isn't not dating you because you are nice. She is not dating you because that is the best you can say about yourself.
/r/seduction23/04/10 07:14 AM
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This falls into the trap of separating intelligence and emotion. Here this fallacy is clearly visible by looking at metrics people actually use to make mating decisions. Aside from looks, everything requires both intelligence and emotional stability eg. jobs, hobbies, friends, etc.
/r/seduction29/03/10 06:48 PM
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Was his advice dumb and misogynistic. Yes: Maybe Roosh No: Not Roosh
/r/seduction12/03/10 04:05 AM
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Television is supposed to be fantasy and entertain. Of course, the question is who's fantasy. So some shows are viable chick crack, perfectly designed to elicit emotional reactions from women. Take Grey's Anatomy, the male behavior in this show is women either venting on men, gushing about male quirks, or making them swoon. All put together in a model to make women feel good. So I would not learn game from Grey's but I would learn ways to playfully tease them.
/r/seduction12/03/10 03:17 AM
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Listening is an undervalues skill that is vital to conversation. Try working on that and see how it goes.
/r/seduction07/03/10 06:00 AM
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Actually being nice is a good strategy with women (as with everyone else for that matter). It is supplication that they find a turnoff. You can be alpha while doing nice things for people. The key is to be confident and assertive, yet non-challant while doing so. If you seem to be helping others for your own reasons and not seeking approval, you will appear like a leader who has his shit together enough to be able to lend a hand without thinking about it too much. Even if this does not turn on t…
/r/seduction05/03/10 04:18 AM
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Girl game is very subtle. You are probably just missing the signs.
/r/seduction05/03/10 12:08 AM
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I personally don't run game at the gym, but I am an athlete and usually embarrassingly soaked in sweat at the gym. If I am looking good enough to pick up, I am not working hard enough. That said, I like the idea. You automatically have something in common and the hormones are raw. If the girl is scanning the room she is probably a ripe target.
/r/seduction27/02/10 07:57 PM
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He should wear a "No Fat Chicks" T shirt. Women want what they can't have.
/r/seduction15/02/10 11:02 PM
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Hmm, be open and be likeable. That and making an effort, this is simple boiled down to the basics game. I like it. Also the disparaging other sides is also quite popular amongst PUA circles. Too bad.
/r/seduction10/02/10 01:34 AM
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I love that Seddit is downvoting you for being the lonely voice of reason.
/r/seduction09/02/10 07:13 PM
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Releasing material early on the website is a common practice.
/r/seduction09/02/10 07:11 PM
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Diggbots is right. I just wanted to add that this is really one of those cases where fake it till you make it works. At this point I honestly expect to be checked out by women I walk by, and this is coming from a point where I would wonder why any woman would want to look at me (this was all in my head). I am in better shape than I used to be, but this would not explain the 100% difference in my expectations from 10 years ago.
/r/seduction08/02/10 07:40 PM
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When Stephen Colbert's character first became super popular, the real Colbert was awe struck that people would love him for saying such awful things. When he talked with his grandmother, she told him that people (republican's who think he is serious aside) know that he is not an asshole, because they see through to the real man. In many ways game is the same way, quality women will see through to the real you. They actually don't want the asshole, they just want a guy who will have fun and be ca…
/r/seduction05/02/10 03:42 AM
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I probably should have admitted I haven't read the book yet. I just thought the link would be appreciated. Anyways who doesn't like free ebooks?
/r/seduction01/02/10 01:28 AM
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3 pieces of constructive criticism. I'd post a full body shot, let chicks know for sure you aren't hiding some major physical flaw. Nothing fancy just a shot that shows more of you than your face. Text wise your list are intriguing, but some sort of narrative will draw the reader in. This narrative should paint a picture of why your life is great and the girl should want to be part of it. Think of this as your chance to DHV and create emotion. Provide a little information about what you'd like y…
/r/seduction24/01/10 09:33 PM
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My advice was based on the assumption that he has already attracted the girl. Now unfortunately they are being separated due to their lives. I figure they either get together, or they never are in the right place and time.
/r/seduction19/01/10 05:06 AM
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This is not a good situation for game. My advice is slow play it and see what happens. Keep in touch and make plans to see each other over spring break. In the meantime, live your life and see other girls. This sucks but it is part of growing up. Most people will have that story of the one person they pined for and couldn't have. Honestly things will either happen or not, for a reason or not. If you see her again and you both still have the spark things will happen. If not, things were not meant…
/r/seduction18/01/10 08:05 PM
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Gov positions pay relatively well, but he could make a ton more at some bank. His whole salary is surely less than his bonus would be at any investment firm
/r/seduction14/01/10 04:15 AM
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Exactly my point, he is not that great looking yet he is the poster boy.
/r/seduction14/01/10 02:33 AM
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Go for other girls. This is actually a good time to pick up women, because any ladies that think you are cute will actually open you. Just be sure to have a good story about how you broke your leg, because that is what they will ask about.
/r/seduction11/01/10 01:38 AM
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I think the problem is not that this was written by a woman, but rather by an idiot. She somehow found it necessary to include "don't rape" in her advice. Personally I doubt the typical rapist would read anything the least bit related to this.
/r/seduction23/12/09 09:17 PM
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I think you handled it well, your comeback showed it's all in fun. You set the frame positively and should be fine
/r/seduction13/12/09 07:26 PM
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I disagree with this article. To me "Natural Game" is how you "beat the game", when you finally use your better self to land a truly confident and inspiring woman who you want more than a fling with. Sure the tricks of the PUAs work wonders on vapid and drunk coeds at the clubs or on campus, but you need to truly be confident in yourself to land the exotic specimen known as "a keeper". This means that you do need to be "a natural", because that woman you ultimately want to nail will smell out an…
/r/seduction21/11/09 08:08 AM
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I do listen and connect, I do that really well. I have been told that I "need to pounce" more, because I often manage to think myself out of a sarge.
/r/seduction19/10/09 01:55 PM
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I have only read a couple of Tyler's articles, he seemed negative, sexist, and downright insane. What you say sounds pretty good, I will have to take a second look at his work.
/r/seduction19/10/09 01:53 PM
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Not sure which is worse Roosh or Tyler Durden. I agree with benjirucax.
/r/seduction19/10/09 08:49 AM
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I look forward to hearing about it. I am going to give it a try as well, but I may just pick a few missions at random seeing as I don't have a wingman to play with.
/r/seduction15/10/09 07:04 AM
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You make a key mistake, being respectful and respecting boundaries is not a barrier to seduction. Respecting anyone is necessary to achieve rapport be it a coworker or the cute girl at the other end of the bar. A lot of material out there is meant to slowly build and create this rapport. I think The Game states that if you have sex before 7 hours you "got lucky". Most importantly do not let this post discourage you, just keep in mind that one of your main goals is to prove you are different from…
/r/seduction15/10/09 06:54 AM
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Ok to try taking this post seriously. Other than a current and inexplicable trouble even finding women (I think it may just be bad luck), I am having a sticking point at attracting women and trying to escalate with kino. I am good approaching for the most part, but I am having trouble closing.
/r/seduction01/10/09 06:55 AM
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Just don't dwell on the fear. You can phrase it with that Jedi stuff if you like... I know a lot of you want to out there. I would prefer to reclassify fear as just normal, not a big deal, something you just move past. Remember that when you approach a girl she honestly fears YOUR failure because she wants you to succeed.
/r/seduction29/09/09 06:41 AM
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I have never encountered that, maybe I am just not that good. Just smile and nod, is my advice.
/r/seduction11/09/09 07:58 AM
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I would like to second the recommendation that you read The Game by Neil Strauss. It is the single biggest influence on my game. Just reading the first half is all the inspiration you need to instantly achieve the confidence you need (I really need to do this right now). The second half will explain Kaisse's comments perfectly. Plus it's a damn good read.
/r/seduction10/09/09 08:43 PM
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Yeah, that's what I am doing. I have made it my goal to approach at least one woman a day. Just get back to basics and have some fun. Life is stressful enough, I don't need to be a cassanova every night. I did work on learn something that night: female gaydar. Probably not the most useful pickup skill, but it may come in handy some time.
/r/seduction31/08/09 05:57 AM
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edit grammer: if there are whining ....
/r/seduction24/08/09 10:17 PM
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This article sucks. It gives you no advice on how to get better with women, and has no place in the seduction community. If there is a whining or a misogyny sub reddits, post it there.
/r/seduction24/08/09 10:17 PM
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i suppose you probably don't want to wait a year to be on the safe side?
/r/seduction21/08/09 06:53 AM
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I usually go with a simple question. For example at a bar, "what's the name of the song that's palying?" Just make sure it is something that can start a real conversation. If she is interested or hasn't instantly disqualified you, as women sometimes do for no apparent reason, she will bite. I don't like the elaborate stories or jokes ala MM. I think it is best to keep it simple and just be yourself.
/r/seduction26/07/09 06:46 AM
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By fluctuations in my self esteem, I mostly mean my thesis advisor making me feel like an idiot for doing what I thought she told me to do. Grad school is mucking up my ego. And med school applications and the MCAT don't help much either. I suppose it is also just a ton of work stress that impedes my game at times. I figure that I am just going through some tough times, but am actually weathering them pretty well. That attitude allows me to keep my head above water both in life and in the game.
/r/seduction21/07/09 06:24 PM
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Game much as anyother skill does fade with time, but it also comes right back with practice. In my experience the loss is inconsequential compared to the fluctuations in my self esteem. Right now I am trying to get back into game after a while of not using it and not getting results. My main problems at the moment are building back some self esteem coming out of a horrible rut. That and somehow managing to not find women (Yeah I don't get it either). So go out and the skills will come back fast.…
/r/seduction21/07/09 06:49 AM
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Have to downvote for the recommendation of poking a hole in the condom. Plus the whole thing is useless.
/r/seduction16/07/09 03:37 AM
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Honestly I am really curious how you say this in opening. We all know that HOW you say your oppener is more important than WHAT you say. So my concern is with admitting that you have been "blue balled" recently. Doesn't this set you up as some creep, who needs help from the target.
/r/seduction02/07/09 09:36 PM
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