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Break up.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 02:44 AM
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Totally :)
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 12:14 AM
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Amazing words my man! You are a very wise man. Big hug!
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 12:13 AM
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Yep, that's true.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 12:12 AM
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See, I never went into the deep/philosophical theories of the red pill, but I did consume a lot of content like podcasts in which men basically say that "casual sex is a good thing to have as a man". IT'S NOT, ITS FUCKING MEANINGLESS AND EMPTY. I believe the only people who enjoy casual sex are avoidant-attachment-style men; basically, all red pillers. I never applied a "red pill tenet", just the term sounds like bullshit. I only did basic self-improvement + being bold when approaching women. I …
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 12:11 AM
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Totally agree with you! Casual sex is SO EASY to get that you can pay for it.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 04:56 PM
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It may sound harsh and reductive but it's the TRUTH. Just take a look at the most prominent RP preachers, ALL OF THEM are full of resentment (fresh and fit and the bold guy with a beard), in a mediocre marriage/relationship they hide (rollo tomasi), full of anger (jwaller, although he's not totally RP), and so on...
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 04:55 PM
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Thank you so much for your kind words :)
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 04:52 PM
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Those dynamics don't work, they erode your soul or something very deep inside of you, at least that's how I've felt after casual sex. Totally! I love the emotional intimacy of a committed relationship!
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 04:52 PM
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You are completely correct. I get attached during sex, that's why I don't like casual sex, I've felt multiple times that "sex isn't meant to be casual" at least for me.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 09:11 PM
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It's not hard. It's super easy. I've found harder to find love but I'm sure it has been due to the RP bullshit I've adopted. No healthy woman would want to be with a RP bro. RP only attract broken women because the RP itself is broken. It doesn't bring happiness, meaning, nor fulfillment.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 09:10 PM
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Thank for your words! I've done everything sex/dating related and THE BEST experiences have been 1) being in a committed romantic relationship and 2) enjoying my life WITHOUT looking for a sexual outlet either through casual sex, porn, etc. There's something so pure and peaceful about chastity that few men get to experience although this is a topic for another post and subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 08:47 PM
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Thank you so much for your kind words! Totally, the RP is nonsense and sadly, it's very appealing to hurt men (like I was).
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 08:45 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 08:44 PM
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I hope you are being sarcastic haha I hatted casual sex, it's incredibly meaningless, empty, and pointless... not to mention INSANELY risky.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 08:44 PM
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Why are you with him when his "red pill mindset" is driving you nuts? Red pill side effects ONLY GET WORSE AND WORSE over time, you've been warned. Best of luck!
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 07:09 PM
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Read and APPLY Models by Mark Manson.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 03:41 AM
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I don't want to be rude, that's not my intention... but here's my advice: take responsibility, stop complaining, and improve yourself.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:31 PM
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Of course it's hard for you, you have conditioned yourself to look at women as disposable (you are also treating yourself as a disposable commodity bro). See... you will never understand ALL women... why? WOMEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING SAME. Sure there are commonalities that most of them share but at the end of the day, everyone is different. By sleeping with 50+ women you will only get to know 1 TYPE OF WOMEN, guess which? The promiscuous, unstable, low-self esteem women who use sex as a means of va…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 03:25 PM
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I think that you are sabotaging yourself bro, we have all done it at some point, and that's ok. If you REALLY believe that your lack of sexual experience is an issue, you have 2 options: Get as much sexual experience as possible. You can do this through casual sex or a steady girlfriend, BUT NEVER A HOOKER. Don't pay for sex man. Don't be a fucking simp! That said, sex always carries associated risks: unwanted pregnancies, STDs, etc. Change your mindset. Accept that you are not a sexual supernov…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 03:57 PM
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Holy shit bro, it's all in your head. Most women won't care about your PERCEIVED inexperience. They just want to have a great time with a man they like (YOU). By the way, if you're watching porn, quit that shit ASAP. It twists your perception of sex and intimacy.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 03:16 PM
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Not all men are the same. Sure, most men will like the same things in a woman: beautiful, kind, easy to get along with, in good shape, etc. But other than that, don't focus on becoming "the type of woman a certain type of men would want". Why? You are being NEEDY and this is unattractive in my opinion. You do you boo and your personality, values, looks, etc. will filter the types of men you will atrract. Because at the end of the day, you want someone who likes YOU for who YOU ARE. Sure, you'll …
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 03:21 PM
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"Narcissists attract narcissists" golden words. This basically explains all the red pill bullshit. Men who are angry at women will eventually turn into narcissists as a coping/defense mechanism. I mean, if what they want (women) don't want them (redpillers in the making) they will turn into narcissists (redpillers). If men don't like the type of women they attract, it's THEIR FAULT, not the women's. Men who only care about a woman's looks, age, body count, are the same men who only attract women…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 03:17 PM
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I totally feel you, my brother! I also got into the RP after a breakup and being rejected by women I was dating. But see, I thought, "what's the probability that ALL WOMEN being the problem vs ME BEING THE ACTUAL PROBLEM?" As you can predict, I was the problem when it came to my dating life. I was out of shape, not financially stable, I didn't have an exciting career, I had addictions, etc. So... I HAD TO CLEAN MY ACT. All the women who rejected me WERE 100% RIGHT! Therefore, I took corrective a…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 03:01 PM
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I love when they bring intelligent people like Michael Knowles, Lila Rose, and even Chase (I think this is the name of the Christian man who seems to have his things together). Personally, I was blown away by how Lila Rose DESTROYED jwaller with such intelligence, humility, and kidness. It just confirmed that no matter how "alpha" a red-pill-bro appears to be, they are full of sexual insecurities and overcompensating for something they feel they lack.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 02:45 PM
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I think the thing that attracts most men to the red pill are REJECTION SCARS. A breakup, being constantly ghosted, not getting the women they want, etc. All the red pill community is full of men with avoidant attachment styles. In other words, they have suffered so many rejections that now they are resentful of women and thus treat them as objects, not people.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 02:35 PM
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YES! It felt great! Try it brother!
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 01:59 PM
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You said it best: "all game was was just being able to talk to women like their humans, be able to hold the conversation, be funny and make jokes and be lighthearted around them and be straightforward with women too." I think "game" is preached as a form of tactic to seduce ANY woman you want to sleep with, but just because a woman is attractive, it doesn't mean you want to sleep with her. Eventually, casual sex becomes boring and emotionally draining. My idea of "game" is being able to relate a…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 01:59 PM
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YES SIR!
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 01:55 PM
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There's a problem with vulnerability and it's that most people think vulnerability is weakness. Vulnerability is expressing yourself the way you are (desires, emotions, boundaries, everything). The only way to be vulnerable is to be radically honest. That said, most men, when they are being "vulnerable" (according to them) they are just being weak (which has NOTHING to do with vulnerability). If you are always complaining, lamenting, feeling sorry for yourself, blaming others for your misfortune…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 03:12 AM
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M29 here. TV, movies, cartoons, teachers at school, relationships I saw growing up.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 03:28 AM
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Same shit, different voice.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 11:41 PM
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Well, maybe disgusting was too extreme of a word haha 😅 In the end, frequent casual sex is just another form of instant gratification, nothing better nor worst than that.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 02:24 PM
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Yeah, completely fair! Sex is definitely fun but over time, without emotions, it's just like any other form of impulsive pleasure... but with the risk of having a kid haha.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 02:22 PM
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These issues tend to come up a lot from immature men who think that sex and being promiscuous is a good measure of self-worth and/or social status. Now the thing is that having multiple sex partners IS a form of social status from which you can get validation, but in my opinion, FROM THE WRONG GROUP OF PEOPLE. I wish you have the opportunity to be as promiscuous as you want and have multiple women eager to be intimate with you... why? Because you'll realize that casual sex/promiscuity WITHOUT em…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 04:21 PM
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Models by Mark Manson! AMAZING BOOK.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 08:09 PM
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His intentions, goals, values, character, interests, etc. By the way, your status and material success are usually the results of your intentions, goals, values, character, and interests. I would encourage you to read Models by Mark Manson. It's a PHENOMENAL book about dating advice for men.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 06:14 PM
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I have no idea my man. That being said, I don't think that showing off your "material success" attracts the right kind of woman. Just think about it, if the first thing she notices is your clothes, money, trips, etc... she doesn't really care about you. In addition, showing off your money and status comes up as superficial and that behavior will only attract superficial women.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 05:16 PM
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The fact that status and money attracts women doesn't mean it attracts the RIGHT kind of women. I believe that women who prioritize money and status are not the best women to have a healthy committed relationship. And when I say money, I'm referring to earning at least 6 or 7 figures. I believe it's normal for both men and women to want a partner who is self-sufficient, nothing wrong with that. If you pay attention to most couples, the man in the relationship IS NOT 6'+ tall, doesn't drive a Lam…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 05:00 PM
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THIS!
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 04:48 PM
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My experience has been the complete opposite bro.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 04:56 AM
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Fuck the data bro! You can change. Read AND APPLY Models by Mark Manson. It will help you.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 10:41 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 10:39 PM
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TRUE WORDS
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:58 AM
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I KNOW! YES IT IS, at least for me. The moment I started watching porn and masturbating my eczema appeared, I don't give a shit what others think but porn really fucks up various aspects of your life
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:57 AM
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Would you like to be treated as an object to have sex without taking into account your feelings and values? I guess not. Let me tell you that causal sex is one of the most empty experiences I have ever experienced. If you are into that, good for you, I can't stand that emptiness. I think many people seek out casual sex so much because they want validation that they are worth something or are good enough. Not me.
/r/seduction27/05/20 10:49 PM
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Both :)
/r/seduction27/05/20 10:45 PM
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