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frocksoffantasy/r/seduction30/03/16 08:38 PM
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Take it slow. You don’t have to go all the way in one night. Work up to it. If you haven’t done oral before, start with that. Exploring each other is part of the fun!
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:40 PM
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Why are you trying to take advantage of people though? Don’t you think that’s wrong? It’s kinda like having sex with a mentally handicapped person. Most people think it is wrong to have sex with a man or woman who has a mental age below 18, and I agree with that. I know this isn’t the exact case, but exploiting people because of their mental or physical health issues is wrong. Seduction shouldn’t be about game no matter what; you should consider the person you are affecting.
/r/seduction06/09/18 10:57 PM
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A girl with high confidence will game you far better than you could because hot women have more dating value. Gaming in the long term only works on women with mental health issues, trauma, or insecurity.
/r/seduction06/09/18 09:42 PM
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I often do the follow up myself if I had a good date or they paid and I want to thank them for it again, or if I’m dating a girl. In my experience, women want you to take the lead (which gets complicated if it is two women). Following up immediately after lets her know you had a good time and keeps the momentum going. It also shows attraction. I don’t think kino is key but it has some good points that you don’t want be needy or pushy and you should let go if she is not interested, but I don’t be…
/r/seduction30/08/18 12:36 PM
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The advice in this thread is bullshit. As a hot woman that lurks this thread (mainly to get better at dating women), if any man tried to do the PUA stuff at me, I would totally know what he was doing and lose interest. I don’t appreciate being manipulated. I especially hate negging; that shit only works on girls who have low self esteem. You don’t want to date a girl with low self esteem; she will constantly be worried she looks fat or ugly or that you are looking at other girls because they are…
/r/seduction29/08/18 10:55 PM
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Let’s get political. What do you think is wrong with feminism? It could be holding you back from understanding women.
/r/seduction25/08/18 09:17 PM
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Start there! It will greatly reduce your anxiety. Also DEFINITELY take human sexuality; it’s an amazing class that teaches you both about male and female bodies. I’d also take as many women’s studies as you can to learn about issues that affect us, and talk to women about what you learn. Nothing better than to meet an educated feminist man. Melts my heart!
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:58 PM
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Do you have any female friends? I think a good place to start is just make female friends. We aren’t another species. Get to know us as people without the pressure of sex.
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:25 PM
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They don’t test for herpes unless you specifically ask for it
/r/seduction10/08/18 03:54 PM
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You should also get tested to see if you have anything else.
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:12 PM
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That’s not true. Hepatitis and HIV are also viruses and aren’t curable. Though live my with them has gotten much more manageable. HPV also isn’t handled by your body sometimes and you can have it for life.
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:11 PM
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You're very welcome! Glad you enjoyed.
/r/seduction06/04/16 04:52 PM
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I think your attitude is more of a problem than your learning disabilities. Everyone has shit they need to overcome, and learning disabilities are something that you can work on and improve. I have been diagnosed with ADD as well, and I found this short book "10 Simple Solutions to Adult ADD" to be very helpful: http://amzn.com/1608821846. I also take stimulants, which I highly recommend if you aren't taking them already. Don't shut yourself off from the possibility of having meaningful, long te…
/r/seduction02/04/16 07:39 PM
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My top reasons for why being a woman sucks: Periods, pregnancies, menopause, and all other painful reproductive and hormonal burdens. Having a vagina instead of a dick. Seriously, so much goes wrong with vaginas on the regular that you guys rarely have any idea. Fearing for one’s physical safety within the home and the higher likelihood of being abused, raped, or killed by our romantic partners. (For example, a recent study found that 33% of female murder victims compared to 4% of male murder vi…
/r/seduction02/04/16 07:28 PM
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You're lucky in the job department and smart for picking that field. I applied in my field hundreds of times over two years without getting so much as an interview (public health is saturated, and I have no experience, which hurt me a lot). I finally gave up and took a job unrelated to my education or interests. I'm no stranger to rejection in my life.
/r/seduction02/04/16 07:04 PM
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Pretty good. Several cons within driving distance. I don't have much to compare it to, though, because I have only lived near two major cities in my life, within 2 hours of each other.
/r/seduction02/04/16 07:02 PM
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Also, as an introvert, I've connected with many shy and awkward people. You don't have to be an extroverted alpha to be a successful, attractive man. Shyness comes from a place of fear, though, so I do think it is something we should actively address. Anxiety holds us back from the things we want. I take medication for it and go to therapy in addition to doing this kind of self-help research; I guess I'm just looking for someone else who is willing to work on their problems instead of just accep…
/r/seduction01/04/16 09:18 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. What I actually mean about “having your shit together” is having your finances, living situation, transportation, and emotional state in a good place. For example, if you are unemployed, have no car, and are living with your mom, I’m not going to be interested. You may say this is shallow, but I don’t want a partner I have to take care of or raise out of the dirt. I’ve got my shit together; why shouldn’t I expect you to have it together as well? I know people go through …
/r/seduction01/04/16 09:13 PM
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As a perfectionist as well, I find it difficult to want to do things I'm not already good at. One of my favorite quotes from Adventure Time goes like this, "Sucking at something is the first step at being good at it."-Jake. You have to be willing to accept failure in everything from dating to applying for a job. It's difficult to do, but that would be the first thing I'd work on. Start small and build on it. I would also take advantage of any free health services Prague offers. I did both counse…
/r/seduction31/03/16 10:12 PM
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Three of my pictures are of me in HarleyQuinn costumes that I made, and 1 of them is me clearly at a con, so I think that helps me not get flack. I've had a few "you're too good to be true" messages, but I don't really think that's flack. Non-nerds don't find me nearly as exciting since I'm not interested in gyms, boats, sports, pool, and other similar stuff. I'm glad being a nerd is coolish now; I love nerds because they are interested in cool stuff that I also generally like (except I'm not a …
/r/seduction31/03/16 06:42 PM
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http://www.okcupid.com/profile/katrinavalentina I'm also open to critique. I think it's pretty good, but it could always be better. :)
/r/seduction31/03/16 05:52 PM
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We have it easy in some things, and, in others, it really sucks to be a woman. So I say we just appreciate the perks when we can. :)
/r/seduction31/03/16 05:46 PM
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I understand why it has become a trigger for you, and I feel bad. But since there isn't anything you can do about it, my advice would be to focus on the other things you can improve or change. Unless you were REALLY stuck on online dating as your only outlet for meeting women, I don't think this post should make you feel sick. It just isn't really that relevant to you. And, again, height only matters to some people, and, depending on the women's ethnicity, you might not even be considered short.…
/r/seduction31/03/16 05:33 PM
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My friends who are not above average in attractiveness do not get that many messages. Women who are not that attractive actually have to use some guy techniques such as messaging first. Most men that I know don't receive more than 1 or 2 messages a day, but women typically don't send out the first message. Society has taught us that men should do the approach. I have two sisters who are 5'10"+; they both married shorter men. I certainly don't restrict my dating choices to men who are 6" taller t…
/r/seduction31/03/16 05:26 PM
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Sure thing, send me the link!
/r/seduction31/03/16 05:21 PM
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First of all, cut it out with the "not sure you'll ever get a gf" crap. You're young; you have plenty of time to figure this stuff out. You will have to go outside of the people you see all the time. Join groups or activities that have a lot of women. Yoga and dance classes are two of the best group activities where the ratio of men:women is so in your favor. When I took swing dance in college, the women had to take turns being the guy partner because we had so few men. You will be in high deman…
/r/seduction31/03/16 05:20 PM
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I think we are all insecure, and we all need validation. I recently discovered that one of the best PUAs I have met (my ex of 5 years) uses his extreme confidence routine to hide pretty deep insecurities and feelings of unworthiness. Picking up chicks is a way of validating that he is attractive and wanted. The nice thing about inexperience is you can become experienced. I've realized I'm not great at picking up chicks outside of the adult industry, so that is what brought me here. In some ways,…
/r/seduction31/03/16 04:04 PM
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I also date woman, so I guess in this analogy, I'm both the fisherwoman and the fish. Wouldn't you think I would know a bit about how to catch them?
/r/seduction31/03/16 03:57 PM
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Not sure where you got any of it. I never mentioned finances, social connections, or alpha jackassness. I don't think you can tell about any of those categories on an online dating profile unless the person advertises what they make, which I think is a turn-off.
/r/seduction31/03/16 03:56 PM
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Height is just one factor in physical attraction. Personality is more important because it will drive whether or not she has a good time with you. I also am very attracted to confidence; being clever/funny is also pretty important. Confidence shows that you think you are worth something, that you are a catch. I'm not going to buy a product that says, "Well, I guess I'm OK." A product that screams, "I'm the best EVER!" is far more likely to get my attention and seem like it has value and is worth…
/r/seduction31/03/16 03:54 PM
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We do exist! I think it is a myth that quality people can't be found online. Introverts or very busy people or girls with social anxiety can really benefit from online dating. I also like it over being hit on in public. That may be because I'm used to dealing with online fans, but I think it also has a lot to do with being in control. When I go online, I'm in control of who I decide to talk to and when I view my messages. I have no control over who hits on me randomly IRL.
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:44 PM
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Also, thanks for the almost compliment. I had nothing to do at work today, and I'm trying to get back into writing my dating blog, so I did spend nearly my entire afternoon on it.
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:40 PM
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Yes, women are shallow, but so are men, ESPECIALLY on the internet. In other platforms, it doesn't matter so much, but when you receive 20 messages a day and prefer a taller guy (as most women do), you are going to ignore the shorter guys. In real life, if I met someone I really liked who was shorter than me, I wouldn't let height hold me back. My entire family is very tall, but two of my three sisters married men shorter than them. If you have the balls to go after a taller woman and the person…
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:39 PM
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27f here, white, 5"8'. Race doesn't matter to me but the height would be a problem because I'm so much taller. However, there are a lot of short girls out there that it shouldn't matter to, and your personality should be more important. I would do what everyone else recommends and get out in person to meet girls. Join some lifestyle groups around your interests. Show your value in other ways. In today's society, being short doesn't mean you can't be successful. It sounds like you already have a …
/r/seduction30/03/16 11:38 AM
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Do you think this needs to be modified for a woman picking up women? I have no problem with guys, but I have trouble picking up women. I used to tell myself that is because most of them are straight, but I know think it is my approach.
/r/seduction10/08/15 04:02 PM
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