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How I have been handling it.... I spend a limited amount of time on dating apps, as I did before. When matched see where she is at in terms of her overlap with my COVID values. I had a respiratory issue years back so a bit paranoid - i.e. don't want to chance anything. Won't meet up with the girl unless it's safe for me. Perhaps a bit too much but it's a deal breaker for me. Don't want to chance anything. Years ago, I began developing a social media presence for my business "thought leader" crap…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:45 AM
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Lots to dive into on this but plenty of "bodybuilder" guys have self esteem or image issues. I mean to get into body building in some respects is such a weird pursuit you would have to have some odd motivation to do it... They are so into themselves and their own body they don't really play the bigger game with girls. If you eat clean and train well consistently that's all you need for 90% of chicks. Being extra is not going to go that far unless you start to juice and get into elite level fitne…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:17 AM
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Hits home for me... Had a great plate in a long distance (used to travel for work), she was so cool and great I wanted more from her. So spent more time together etc. Then each time over a bit when we were together, more weight going on her and when I was there, training like normal etc.... I tried to motivate her but to no avail, seeing it wouldn't change, out of the blue for her, I dumped her. Saw she wasn't willing to invest. A shame really.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:10 AM
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https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/coffee-on-empty-stomach I think I’ll cut back regardless.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:26 PM
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Keto diet can be great for diabetics but please look at resources designed for dietetics who want to do keto because depending on your numbers etc can be risky. Best advice is talk to your endocrinologist.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:06 PM
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Yikes... I only drink coffee on empty stomach since I fast in the morning until my Widow opens in the afternoon.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:04 PM
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First just keep it clean. No dust, or visible dirt on tables floor etc. Smell, you can get a really nice healthy beeswax scented candle or aromatherapy stuff. I shouldn’t have to say it but if she comes in and does a sniff of “what’s that smell?” And it’s not cuz she is enticed by it, that’s a problem. Less is more. Don’t have disorganized clutter, a place for everything and everything in its place. My bedroom is for bedroom things. Meaning it’s not crammed with stuff and that which is there onl…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 05:37 PM
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Also wash yourself after sex... You know how everyone is washing hands now more carefully with the Corona? Well, same should apply for your junk after sex. We all know about splash back, the juices that hit your pelvic region around the condom. Unless you have an open cut (be careful about shaving or her prickly beaver chaffing you!) it is hard to catch something. When you're done, in between rounds, etc.. Wash yourself with soap and water like you would your hands. Excuse yourself, take a piss,…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 03:38 PM
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To each their own. A beautiful, well maintained box is a thing of joy.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 03:30 PM
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This should have started and been established long before LTR. If you haven't started and maintained a good frame from the get go, it's gonna be a hard slog back. Basically, it comes down to running shit. You are busy running your life well and she happens to live with you while you do that. If you're having to compromise who you are to live with her, that's a miserable life. Maintaining initial frame is critical. Nothing major should change when you start living together. Obviously there will b…
/r/askMRP31/01/20 03:04 PM
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This is a tough one because it can depend on context, age and a number of things. If you’re at the beach and you’re low body fat, some girls will think you’re better looking than the guy with an extra 20lbs of muscle and extra 10lbs of fat... He may be stronger and in better shape (physically) but you “look better.” I’m 6’3” and have HAD a power lifter body at 250lbs with a decent amount of fat on my frame. I’d get looks like “whoa this guy is a beast” and I felt great all the time (calorie surp…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:57 PM
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Never tell anyone about your wealth or tip your hand too much with money. If you want to do something that indicates your wealth (i.e. buy a nice car, go on crazy vacation) - tell people as little as possible about how you made the money or how much you made. "I got lucky with a stock pick" or something but minimize it. No good ever comes from others knowing how much wealth you have - you'll attract the wrong attention. People are scum when it comes to wealth and other peoples' financial success…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:57 PM
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That’s how men did it for hundreds of thousands of years before porn. It’s fine.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:34 PM
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Ehhhh slightly disagree. For the most part I’m with you then I see a friend of mine who is a +40s struggling actor but very good looking and built. He hardly speaks English, which I suppose adds to his charm. Every time we go out chicks of all ages gravitate to him. He says the dumbest shit (primarily due to language barrier) but that doesn’t matter. They aren’t only interested in one night stands either, most of the women he hooks up with try to lock him down. I dunno.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:04 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3012180/#__sec11title “caffeinated coffee and caffeine intakes were positively associated with plasma SHBG levels.” Far from conclusive but I’ve read this before.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 06:03 AM
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Take a career altitude test. There are free ones online. Depending on where you live there may also be free career counseling services. Also the person or organization that administered your IQ test may have additional advice to offer you in this regard. Your IQ doesn’t define your interests and certain aptitudes. You may be quite gifted for a certain skill - you may know where already or may need a bit of guidance to find it. Jobs in the trades that involve specialized labor and are unionized c…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:20 PM
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Improved to a degree.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:15 PM
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Sorry but I disagree. Real estate agents are a dime a dozen and to be very successful in that field requires a bit more.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:14 PM
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Get out of the burbs.... Go downtown, just go for a walk in different neighborhoods. Way more women there.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:48 PM
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Like most places context is important... I understand the other reply saying not to do it and it doesn’t add much value. However, I’ve had a different experience with a recent plate. I rarely send anything or text etc simply because I’m busy. But sometimes when I’m traveling for work especially I’ll send a selfie to the girl of what I’m up to. The amount of appreciation I get for such little effort is surprising but when I’ve done it she’s brought it up afterwards in person “oh you looked so goo…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:35 PM
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Use your reward system to your advantage. Select positive behaviors / hobbies that you actually want to encourage and focus on orienting your reward system to those. working out meal prep learning new skills starting a side business / hustle walking / running pickup investing / stocks creating art / writing / music, etc Meditation is very helpful, its hard in the short term but the rewards are self evident. If I have an impulse to engage in an unproductive behavior while I know I should be doing…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:17 PM
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One I met literally on the street in my neighborhood and the other through Instagram.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:13 PM
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One was too short, which matters to me because I would not want my potential children to be small. Another was incredibly sweet and optimistic but also naive and easily overwhelmed and that worried me for the future as I might not be able to count on her to “hold down the fort”, eg. running a household well.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:03 PM
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This was me in a nutshell. I was fortunate or smart enough to grab great plates that just were wonderful women. I would hear men complaining about “AWALT. all women this or that“ and go “well not me, not the women I select”. TBH, I was right. I found the unicorn a number of times. Ones that would be right to be the mother of my children, but tiny little faults, genetic or otherwise prevented me from LTRing them. My point being I have been there. Good for you for realizing you want something else…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:36 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:04 AM
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Existential depression. Take solace in the fact that you are aware. It doesn’t change the fundamental conditions of reality that existed when you were unaware and happy. It also doesn’t mean that you can’t be happy again. Knowing a harsh reality while others are living in ignorant bliss benefits you because you understand the rules of the game and if you apply them to yourself and your conduct you can succeed. Take some time and figure out the best strategy for approaching life and you’ll figure…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:48 PM
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Go for it, inquiring minds want to know the results
/r/seduction15/12/18 04:53 PM
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At the very least, do 30 min of body weight training and watch the diet.
/r/askMRP10/12/18 05:05 PM
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Subtly is your friend. You can say it without saying it directly. Body language, tone, wording etc all communicate intention. In a short conversation you can pretty easily tell how down a girl is without throwing it on the table. Success depends on your SMV, how well you’ve read the situation (context) and your approach at that proposition.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 03:41 AM
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Lifting is the bare minimum to attract hotter women. You need a well rounded picture, immaculate features or just stupidly perfect body to raise a hotter women’s eyes that much more or let alone have her approach. Still there is a lot you can control. Most guys I know who slay hotter girls consistently have very successful lives in every respect and run extremely tight game - partly a byproduct of the fact they legitimately don't have time for bullshit in their lives. In terms of their facial fe…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:39 PM
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I rarely go to night clubs anymore but my friends that go regularly are there to hook up and are usually successful.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:17 PM
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Take this with a grain of salt because I cannot remember where I heard it... Apparently jerking off to the random attractive women you see / meet during the day is one of the healthiest ways to jerk off. Let's say you see a cute girl in line at a coffee shop but you have a chance to admire her. You jerk off to her and likely you are expanding on what you saw while you do it, which wires the brain to start seeing that pathway with that type of person as an alternative (i.e. random girl could beco…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:01 PM
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Everyone is different. My experience... I'm 6'3" and at my highest weight I was 239lbs, don't know the exact BF but upper abs barely visible. I could have definitely lost some fat tho. No noticeable change in responses from women compared to when I was around 200-210, which is a more average weight for me. Now I'm 195lbs very clearly defined abs, the V, nothing extra to grab onto etc. I'd estimate between 7% and 10% bf but who knows. Lots more casual interest from women, i.e. walking into a room…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 09:50 PM
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Situational awareness is key at every step! Who is she with? What does her body language say? Approach like a normal human. It’s always the best. I start with a “hi” gauge the reaction and then move into an opener pattern. Don’t have one? Well develop a couple! Usually a comment or question based on the situation or context. She has a drink, what are you drinking? She’s with friends, what are you celebrating or just a girls night? What caught your eye? I like your style Some weirdo at the bar. D…
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:20 AM
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Without looking at your infield stuff it'll be harder for anyone here to properly break down the pick up, that said this is just off the top of my head, maybe you're nailing this stuff, but in case you're not... Confidence Cold approaches require a lot of confidence. Could it be that your insecurities are coming through and changing the vibe? One of the reasons why the direct cold approach can work is because you come in with a lot of confidence, you are relaxed and even the approach is fun for …
/r/seduction08/05/18 04:43 PM
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Thanks. Yea I know, but it's a challenge I want to attempt to see if I can even get there then slowly lean gain after. Trying to keep it natural and healthy, so no juice for me.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 07:48 PM
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Been doing IF and a cutting LeanGains protocol for a year or so. Happy with the results both strength gains and BF% loss. However, I started to experience a plateau at around 10% bf (Dexa tested) and have not really been able to drop below that despite paying more attention to my diet and exercise for a few months. I should be below my TDEE (6'3", 190lbs 10% bf). I lift heavy three days a week and eat at my maintenance cals those days (around 2200cal) and then do around 1500 to 1800 cal on non-l…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:15 PM
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Piggy backing on the "hurry up and fail".... Started to do drop sets after my last set, watching myself fail with a very low weight is kinda funny but it does really help exhaust the muscle.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:59 PM
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I keep the bio pretty short. I've heard a lot of people talk about how important the bio is, etc, so maybe, I am missing something on this. My logic says its just not that important (again maybe I am wrong). I think you have more power to alienate than attract with the bio. What do I mean? If you're looking for a girl who is into BSDM and put that in your profile fine, makes sense cuz you are trying to target a very specific type of girl, but this will alienate most other girls. I am trying to c…
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:43 PM
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Short answer yes. Everyone gets rejected and no one gets everything they want. A "hot" woman still has the same problems other women have, just maybe less of them or less frequently. She can't get every guy she wants, mind you she might have her standards a tad higher than the average girl, so the guy she's going after likely has options as well. An anecdotal example. I've shot the shit with some IG models who most men would rank at an 8+. Most of them have the same problems every girl has, "doe…
/r/seduction09/04/18 08:50 PM
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Probably not. I wouldn’t put it in that case. She may not swipe right due to height bias but on the date and in person your personality, etc could make height a non-issue.
/r/seduction02/04/18 07:24 PM
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Texting as in messages with the girl afterwards? Absolutely, but that’s another topic on its own.
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:59 PM
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Figured a little upfront investment pays dividends in the long run.
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:43 PM
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Played around with this a bit, the following is what seemed to work best and also got some critique/feedback from both females and males. Your mileage may vary and something else may work for your look or personality. I am trying to attract the largest pool of women to swipe right, not trying to get a specific type of woman. —— My bio is short because I wanted to cast a wider net and didn’t want to write endlessly potentially pushing someone away. I briefly mentioned three obscure things I enjoy…
/r/seduction02/04/18 01:33 PM
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Surpassed a 100 at 17? Either they have no standards or girls in Australia (saw in one of your replies you’re from there) are just that easy or shockingly a 17 yr old male would exaggerate their count.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 07:34 AM
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"women in Serbia are different" That's simply not true. I've spent some time in Belgrade. Both men and women care a LOT about aesthetics. Serbian men are generally very old school and masculine. If you watch their music videos, tv, etc the "idealized" man is often the strong hero. Serbian and most Eastern European women do NOT like weak men. For the curious, look up "silicone valley" in Belgrade, a nightspot area with lots of hot bimbo girls.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 12:18 AM
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Yea it really did. I prefer women not on it simply because of my experience dating women who took it, much bigger mood swings, more emotional. Noticeably so. Only after a fair amount of dating experience did I start to put that together and realize the connection.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:58 PM
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270 shit... Good for you. Biggest I ever got was 230 at around 10-12% bf and that was a fuck ton of work to maintain in terms of both training and eating.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:56 PM
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Personally, I'd say having lean muscle is the best, strong with low BF. Just my personal observation from going through a range of diet/workouts and body composition. Found I got way more attention when I was ripped, which I think is because the face looks better/different at lower body fat.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:49 PM
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The men selected were from a college gym, so I imagine not world's strongest man types.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:47 PM
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Yea if you are natural (i.e. not juicing, etc) there really is a limit and it takes a lot of work to hit it. This is a photo from the 50s Mr. Universe finalists, before steroid use. Pretty much the upper limit for natural.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:46 PM
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Yea I mean, I was trying to think of how to recover from this if I were him. What on earth could you say as a response back to that.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:39 PM
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No. I was not attracted to her and as a result didn't try anything. Thinking back, curious to see what she would have done had I made a move.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:37 PM
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I remember these, apparently it has to do with hormonal cycles. Specifically, women on the pill vs not on the pill. Women off the pill preferred more masculine faces, because they were fertile and ready to mate, so they wanted the strongest genes. Women on the pill wanted more feminine faces because the pill tricks the women's body into thinking she is pregnant (or something like that) so she wanted someone more nurturing to take care of kid with. The pill really really fucks with a chick's horm…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:34 PM
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Interesting. I think part of that comes from the type of work associated with those classes and how it shaped the men. Lower classes typically did more manual labor, so they were stronger. Upper classes, typically did less physically intense stuff. My own theory is that those upper class women just got used to those types of men, but they would still definitely go with a more fit dude all things being equal.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:28 PM
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Yea, I have a bunch of friends who have been lifting for years. They are all bulky but none of them look like they hit the gym, even though they are pretty strong. At the beach, you can't tell they are putting in 4-5 days at the gym, because they have such a high BF% that any muscle definition is obscured. I'm happy they are being active but to me it seems like a waste if you can't even see your results. Maybe that's just me tho.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:23 PM
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Why are academics so often such fucking dimwits? I've dealt with a fair amount of academics. It does depend heavily on the discipline, i.e. liberal arts. "Those who can't do, teach" has some truth to it. The world of academia is generally a "safe space" where they do not have to deal with the realities of the world and they can live in theories. Often they have an ideological motivation or narrative they are invested in (because they have studied it for years), so it kind of blinds them to any o…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:15 PM
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The ninja moves were very cringe.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:06 PM
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Appreciate the input. You're not wrong. My orientation on the post was sexual strategy/selection. I agree that becoming disciplined and putting your health, strength and fitness first because it's good for you is a worthier motivation than just to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:02 PM
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Certainly not the only way to stay fit. However, it is probably the best way to increase pure strength.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:03 AM
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haha yea. I chuckled at all that, kept it out to keep the focus on the main point but it is pretty funny and incredibly stupid.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:53 PM
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Makes perfect sense actually.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:51 PM
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You definitely miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Still, all things being equal, homie who is fit has an advantage over stick boy.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:44 PM
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Study vaguely references height and leanness. I would imagine there is some balance between all of those that the majority of women find as their ideal.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:41 PM
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True, the girls in the niche market fall hard. I have a friend who is the most polarizing with women. He looks like Zorro, long black hair, huge goatee, and a thick cartoonishly long mustache. Very strong personality and is completely unwilling to compromise on anything. Most women dislike him instantly, but the ones that do fall so hard for him its crazy.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:40 PM
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Serious "face gains" you look younger and healthier. Good for you!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:37 PM
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Yup... It's funny, lots of my married friends pushing for settling down. I'm happy you enjoy your family but don't push that shit on me. At a BBQ one day I just spoke my mind on this, "I'm in my 30s and regularly take women away from guys in their early 20s. When this stops being the norm maybe I'll start looking to settle down."
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:34 PM
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I feel you. My search for the happy medium was Lean Gains. I've been on that tip for a while, absolutely love it. Increase in strength/muscle while also staying pretty ripped. It does take dedication and some paying attention but its been the best thing I've found. Hard for me to put more time in the gym than I currently do.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:31 PM
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Interesting, I found the opposite. My lower BF% got me more attention than when I was bulkier, noticeably so. Face looks different at different BF% tho, maybe you pull off a heavier face and I don't.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:28 PM
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This. From my own experience doing a wide range of diet/exercise programs to change body composition & fitness goals... The most positive in terms of female response was when I did a big cut and dropped to like 8% BF. "Face gains" were noticeable, no longer the swollen jacked up powerlifter face. Very obvious increase in attention/looks from females. Even though, I was much smaller looking in clothes. It has been so positive that I have been following a Lean Gains protocol ever since. I'd rather…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:25 PM
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Had this this valuable lesson hammered home by accident years ago at a dinner party in mixed company. Long story short, everyone was being polite and "nice" but I had a bit too much to drink and was more "real" than usual. Some of the guys (and girls) were huffing and puffing at the shit I was saying, but most of the girls were very much digging it. You know that fake being offended "oh my god, you're so bad!" but with a smile on their face and the look in their eye.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:15 PM
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Haha, nice! I went to Universal a couple years ago. GF wanted to do the Walking Dead thing where they jump out at you. To be honest all those things popping out put me on edge, I nearly clocked one of the guys in costume when he startled me.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:04 PM
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I was. I don't she think she realized how much of an insult it was.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:01 PM
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Oh God, it was bad, I forgot what he said, but I do remember he just started doing some goofy "ninja moves" as a joke. She did laugh - at him.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 10:59 PM
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Never skip leg day
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 10:56 PM
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It’s the same people who say gender has nothing to do with biology... OK, by all means, go ahead and enjoy your girlfriend’s penis.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 09:18 PM
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The article does talk about "lean" physique a bit as a preference, but its vague. Curious to see what BF% vs Strength relationship there is. I would assume there would be a balance somewhere. i.e. would women pick this guy because he is stronger than this guy?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 09:06 PM
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The article does talk about "lean" physique a bit as a preference, but its vague. Curious to see what BF% vs Strength relationship there is. I would assume there would be a balance somewhere. i.e. would women pick this guy because he is stronger than this guy?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:46 PM
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Reminds me of a guy I know... Him, his girlfriend and I were leaving a party at the same time and happened to be parked in the same lot a couple blocks away. Not the nicest area for sure. His GF is walking closer to me. He notices and complains (yes he whined about it) that she isn't walking with him. Her response was ice cold and went something like: "This is a dangerous area and he's more of a man". I shit you not. EDIT: I forgot what his verbal response was, but I do remember he just started …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:35 PM
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No excuses, train everywhere
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:00 PM
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"The researchers quantified the students' physical abilities via weightlifting machines, grip strength tests and other measures.... were asked to judge how attractive or strong they thought the men were, on a scale of 1 to 7. It turns out we are good at guessing a stranger's strength. Perceptions of strength closely aligned with the men's actual strength."
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:37 PM
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Yea it's very strange... I was thinking it could also be that because (at least in this story) it is a small town, that if indeed it was a bet or prank, the woman would have to continue to live in that town with a lot of people knowing about it.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:33 PM
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Don’t have the full answer here but remember a story a friend of mine told me when he was traveling for business in a small buck fuck town and had to be there for a month on a work assignment. One night some people from work took him out to the local bar. He was by far the most good looking guy there and the local talent was abysmal. He got drunk and towards the end of the night, he just wanted to take something home. Easy pickings right? He got rejected by the only two girls left at last call, …
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:55 AM
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This is a pretty common issue. It stems from your own internal belief structure and self worth. What it boils down to is that you don't feel worthy of these women & place their value higher than your own. They are just a piece of ass, you either want to fuck or you don't - who cares how hot they are? You need to internalize a belief that you are great right now, not based on some external condition. I.e. Only if I'm with a hot chick. Still focus on your life, goals and be disciplined in your pur…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:44 PM
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This scene from "The Departed" I've always liked. Mostly because of the confidence portrayed, the persistence to stick with frame and lack of giving a fuck about what the others around think as you focus on your goal.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:38 PM
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Anything you do in reality is first conceived in the mind, your imagination is fiction. Yet, that is incredibly useful. If you cannot imagine a reality in which you are the person you want to be or encapsulate the ideas, concepts or behaviors you want to embody, then how will you actually live and achieve them? Fiction; whether it in film or literature can portray powerful ideas or concepts, inspire us and give us examples of behaviors we want to emulate. --- Which I am guessing was what OP was …
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:35 PM
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One element of Stoicism that I like is the idea of equanimity: "mental calmness, composure, and evenness of temper, especially in a difficult situation". Repeating this because it is says nothing about suppressing positive emotions. If you look at the absurd nature of life, how surreal it can be, how "little" we all are within the context of our universe and take a step back from yourself, you can begin to appreciate the nature of things around you. TRP's amused mastery is a good one to remember…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:04 PM
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Echoing the other commenters here with lift... I found myself in a similar situation a while back and was happy with how I handled it - hopefully you can pull something useful from it.... (paraphrasing cuz it was some time ago) Was in the express (10 items or less line) at the grocery store buying a bottle of water. Guy in front of me has a few items but then his girlfriend shows up with a full basket of like 25 items (I counted). So I stare at them and their basket, hoping they would engage. Th…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:21 AM
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In my experience, you will have a very difficult time changing others. Personal change needs to come from a motivation within, otherwise it won't last. You are not getting what you want. It is easier to drop this girl and seek someone who is more on your level. It's your life, don't compromise.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:31 PM
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Actually laughed out loud; moped. Forgot about that one.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:28 PM
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My point was that there are some girls (not everyone) who have a guy who does X, one who does Y and another who does Z, etc... So if you start with the assumption that she is like this, it makes it easier for you to mentally push yourself into being the guy who fucks them department. EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO HAVE GREAT SEX, give them that and they will work to keep you in their life and you have way way less to do to keep them around. Yes, women who are 21/22 want great sex as well, maybe they prefe…
/r/seduction26/08/17 06:30 PM
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Thanks.I'll do the same thing regardless of how old the girl is. I typically date mid 20s. The girls I know who have little sugar daddies are pretty much every age.
/r/seduction26/08/17 05:48 PM
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Escalation ladder.... You will have your own method, variety and these will come at different times but on the date... Hug when you meet her Walking together, grab her and lead her by the hand Arm around the waist. get her comfortable with your touch is the point, see how she responds and reciprocates Increase intimate proximity to her, whisper in her ear, caress her neck. *If she is comfortable with being so close to you, she will be comfortable with you kissing her. The kiss... when you are al…
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:09 PM
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It is a harsh truth, but we do have some control over our behaviors and human beings do have the capacity for change. Certainly, some people will be gift naturally with more useful and desired traits. Those that do not have the "god given" advantages can work to maximize their potential - even if that potential is less than their peers.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 01:20 AM
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I agree with your summary. Still, I would not say trivial. Ok, so chicks dig power. If you don't know how to attain power then you are shit out of luck. So the details and strategies to acquire power become paramount. It's part of the reason this sub Reddit exists; developing successful strategies to navigate the world with.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 01:15 AM
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Controlling your fap
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:43 PM
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Put your foot down if you want to. Do what you want to. Be ready to "lose" her. Everyone catches feelings at one point. What would you tell a buddy in this situation? Bottom line, you cannot trust this girl and her behavior has demonstrated that she is not LTR material. Enjoy it for what you can but echoing the other commenters; this is a plate.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 04:00 PM
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Have you ever spent time in Silicon Valley? Plenty of rich good looking guys with no pussy around. So they try to lock whatever they can down. I'm sure that's not everyone but it's something I've seen first hand with friends (and friends of friends) who live out there. I'm surprised gold diggers from Miami, LA don't move out there to snag something.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:50 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:26 PM
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"HPV (the virus): About 79 million Americans are currently infected with HPV. About 14 million people become newly infected each year. HPV is so common that most sexually-active men and women will get at least one type of HPV at some point in their lives." Source: https://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv.htm
/r/askTRP13/02/17 05:14 PM
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Awesome dude. I like it. I think being also socially aware and taking context into account can help the efficacy of this, which is mostly common sense. It works well, as it cuts out all the bullshit and you got to either move forward quickly or move on with your life. The potential negative is that women respond well to escalation; start with friendly touch, then more intimate touch, light kiss, etc... my concern with going right for the end goal, would be that a woman who may have been into you…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:47 PM
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Thanks for all that, appreciate the effort!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 10:17 PM
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OP where are you located? As someone who travels frequently for work, I have noticed a huge difference in what works in different locations. Some cities are just way easier than others and also what works is sometimes different depending on the city.
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:30 PM
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Thanks for the response. I was wondering how to protect myself from getting it actually.
/r/seduction11/01/17 04:26 PM
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"Even with condom use"... how? Please explain.
/r/seduction11/01/17 03:01 PM
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"There was a study done on testosterone levels of men who were diagnosed with ED prior to the study that showed their testosterone levels plummeted after 30 days of abstinence and further complicated their erectile issues." Anybody got a link to the study?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 02:33 PM
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Wasn't aware that the Brooklyn/NY hipster scene was mostly transplants. My point was simply that hipsters and liberals can also come from other places than the west coast.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:05 AM
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My point was that liberals and hipsters can also come from other places than the west coast. "You know nothing about life, idiot." Really? The first part of your comment added to the discussion, this is just childish.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:03 AM
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What's your mission? It sounds like you are lacking a sense of purpose. People with purpose can't find enough hours in the day. Don't have a purpose, a mission or passion? Find one. What do you not know? What can you learn? What can you teach others and share with the world? What can you be doing to improve your life and your future? Start a side business, learn a skill, help other people, connect with your family. Focus on long term goals. Improve yourself. Don't have any goals? Don't know wher…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:44 AM
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All the liberals and hipsters come from the west coast? May I suggest a field trip to Brooklyn NY.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:24 AM
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This.... A 6 at the trendiest spot in LA/NY could be a 9 in San Fran (notoriously ugly city). It's relative and a matter of taste. Buddy of mine prefers skinny model chicks and I like more curvaceous fitness girls. We will sometimes be together and one is raising his eyebrows and the other is looking to see if she's got friends. A bit of an aside. I occasionally hear a guy bragging about dating "the hottest" girl and I see her and she's average to me. Instead if I'm that guy, I instead prefer to…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 07:44 PM
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I bet you say that to all the boys
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:32 PM
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Ahh didn't know you were married. To each their own, but yea maybe fuck your wife whenever you wanna have a wank?
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:30 PM
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Go out and hunt women. Get some plates in the rotation. If you are getting laid regularly you will want to fap much less.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 04:59 AM
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Stick with it and give your penis exercise. Look up jelqing. Dick is like any other part of the body, it needs exercise to stay in shape and healthy. From a physical side, sensitivity goes up and you don't last as long in bed. But you can go more often because you're still stimulated mentally. Been on no porn for a while. I still fap occasionally, but always with my imagination to girls I've never banged but seen in real life (I've heard this increases your desire to hunt, take with a grain of s…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 04:56 AM
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Ehh, you are overlooking a banging body, which is always banging if she keeps in shape, which most 9/10s do.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:06 AM
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Glad you brought this up. Can't emphasize enough how important frame control is.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 07:55 PM
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Agreed, I think it does work. I just didn't want to start a debate on its efficacy for growth.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 11:03 PM
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L-Arginine probably would help, but not as a be all end all. Zinc, ginseng, maca, proper nutrition and vitamins (esp D) all help maintain healthy libido. I would suggest that your penis is simply out of shape. Having frequent erections (like when you jerk off) can help encourage more blood flow to the penis. Like any part of the body/mind, exercise helps it. I get the benefits of nofap but I may suggest you do Jelqing for 10 min a day. That will keep your penis healthy, encourages blood flow and…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 05:05 PM
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Less diversity and more liberal attitudes. Anyone not white may be seen as exotic (and therefor desirable) in a country a with higher percentage of the population being white. Also these countries may have a disproportionately higher amount of blondes in total. There is also not the same cultural history associated with different ethnic groups as the USA. Europe is also way more liberal and many people pride themselves on not being prejudice, so actively try not to see skin color as a factor. Ke…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 04:57 PM
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Big mistake telling her friends he fucked her, that's why she pulled the rape card.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 05:49 PM
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Yoga classes at most gyms are loaded with girls. Health benefits aside, it's a good way to meet women.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:29 PM
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Miami Las Vegas NYC LA
/r/askTRP17/09/16 01:59 PM
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Have you actually been there? The women are terrible and the ratio is heavily skewed male.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 01:59 PM
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Don't know why you're getting downvoted for asking for further reading on this.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:35 AM
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May depend on what type of women you are looking for and what type of lifestyle you want to lead. For example, Portland OR is very white, hipstery, but the women are more likely to be liberal and open to interracial relationships as a result - if you fit into that culture. Miami is more of a party city and women there care more about your money and lifestyle than race. Mississippi is predominantly African American, so if you want to date more black women then your odds increase there. I think th…
/r/GEOTRP15/09/16 06:15 AM
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Sorry I wasn't and no worries. I myself was curious, so I did some googling to see if there was research about this stuff and figured I would pass along what I found. And yes, I was suggesting to do what is healthiest for your hair and find a style that matches being healthy. Long hair that is damaged or unhealthy does not look good. I understand you may be concerned about the texture and length but if your hair is in good condition and well maintained, no matter what the style it indicates good…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 01:19 AM
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Was just trying to add some context to your decision... I'm no expert on hair but based on the above, it seems like concentrating on a hairstyle that will make your hair the healthiest seems like the best best.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 08:13 PM
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"Healthy Hair. Shiny, full, and long hair is very attractive. Again, it's a sign of health and fertility. And thankfully, very fake-able with regular salon visits and blowouts." "Shiny, healthy-looking hair is, once again, a symbol of health and youth. It indicates that you’ve been healthy and getting proper nutrition for at least as long as it took for you to grow said hair." The Handbook Of Evolutionary Psychology by David M. Buss states this: - Longer hair length is perceived as more beautifu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:25 PM
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Yea it seemed like he got offended and pouted about it. There are better ways to handle it. EDIT: He canceled the rest of his interviews because one little reporter insulted him, that to me sounds like he was butt hurt, no?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 02:55 PM
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I know a fair amount of guys who are well off... and yea without looks and attitude, money isn't doing tons for you. Sure you may get some more chicks (pure gold diggers), but they will run you through the ringer and you still won't have the luxury of choice. BB and a gold digger, fucking hell, watching them milk the dude is so sad to watch.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 02:51 PM
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This man does not represent the majority of men or women in certain parts of Scandinavia - as far as my experience goes. I have spent a fair amount of time in that part of the world recently and have spoken to a number of people about this issue. The majority of them do not understand their government. Everyone agrees that rape laws need to be changed as well. There is a big divide amongst the majority of citizens and what the government is doing. The majority of people want immigration reform. …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 11:02 PM
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Yea that's frightening. Reminds me of the 1 in 2 gay black men will have HIV stat. http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2016/02/23/cdc-black-gay-men-hiv-diagnosis-lifetime-at-risk/80812496/
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 12:44 PM
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Also sucks to be a black woman. - they are the least messaged on dating sites (according to data released by okcupid) - even if they are highly educated, skin color can play a role in discrimination in job searches - other black women ruining/setting a bad image
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 11:59 AM
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I'll repeat a good bit of advice. Never make the same mistake twice. When you don't get the results you want, analyze and learn from it.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:10 AM
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Doing whatever will get you results is best. Be strategic. Winning is alpha.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 12:07 AM
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I was curious about your comment and found the following (see below) however I could not find the original, "Boston State Hospital" study that they all reference. http://bignaturaltesticles.com/testicular-enlargement-treatment/ http://legendarystrength.com/sunshine-on-balls/ http://www.coachmag.co.uk/lifestyle/1558/10-ways-boost-testosterone http://jackedgorilla.com/training/boost-testosterone http://www.thefitnessmonster.com/2015/04/men-only-sunshine-on-balls-200-testosterone-increase.html
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 11:26 AM
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What do people think about the following? I hear everywhere that cold showers help increase test but what I have copied below suggests otherwise. I would love some input: 'During cold water stimulation, Testosterone (TS) decreased by 10.0%' Nihon Eiseigaku Zasshi. 1991 Jun;46(2):635-8. Effects of physical exercise and cold stimulation on serum testosterone level in men. Sakamoto K, Wakabayashi I, Yoshimoto S, Masui H, Katsuno S. Author information Department of Hygiene, Hyogo College of Medicine…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 11:05 AM
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Running for sports is not an excuse to skip a leg day.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:46 AM
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From a biological perspective it is the point of all of this. Think about the thousands of people who reproduced to create you. If you do not breed then you are the last of your line. From an evolutionary perspective you are taking out yourself and genetics from the gene pool. So in a biological sense, you are the same as the loser who never had sex and dies alone. For a man who has very little in life, a child can give him purpose and also fulfill this quite basic biological goal. It can give a…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:31 PM
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Imagining the face of a SJW reading the comments; "what, these homophonic misogynists are not bashing OP but supporting him?"
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:35 PM
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Dude I literally laughed out loud at this one.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:59 AM
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No worries, glad it helped. It is your call if you want to be her emotional support; personally I tell girls "that is what their girlfriends are there for". If a girl is telling me about her problems, I'll offer my honest two cents but if she wants to emotionally dump and just go over the same thing again and again, I won't play that game. Girls are not interested in solutions, they just want to circle jerk the problem most of the time. I never engage in that kind of discussion. If you feel like…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 02:13 AM
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First impressions count. I would recommend you have your A-game going the first time, if you want to plate them. If you don't, then pump and dump I guess... In my experience, girls always return to good sex. If you are a guy she trusts enough to have sex with, aren't clingy and she enjoys it, she will keep coming back to you for more. I've had the experience of the girl saying she disliked me as a person but still calling me up for sex regularly. Also girls going out with other guys for dinner d…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 11:35 PM
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Online is harder because they generally exclude over 30, not always but still less. In person or day game works fine if you don't look/behave old.
/r/seduction01/07/16 12:28 AM
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K your clarification helps. The pornstar or all American babe blondes you are referring to are generally (not always the case but in my experience yes) social climbers and gold diggers. They want status in all forms, money, fame, masculinity, etc... Unfortunately, most Asian men (and many Hispanic men) due to genetics/culture (I dunno) don't fit the masculinity part. What that means is tall, fit and strong. These women want a tough alpha dude and many Asians and Hispanics don't have that look. T…
/r/seduction12/06/16 06:36 AM
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Partly, they don't want to accept there are other ways of looking at the world / living. If they did, it would require effort to make personal changes, in which they could fail. Now they live in an insular bubble that is safe and they understand, they can be delusional about how the world works. Shatter that delusion and they have little to cling on to.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 03:30 PM
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It's tricky... For one, it's impossible to compete on money, someone else will always have more than you. The idea is that you have other qualities (TRP) that make you attractive and you get her based on those. Once you are in a marriage, she is depending on you for financial support, so if you can't give her the lifestyle she expects then there is a divide. More so if you can't provide the basics. Ideally, realistic financial expectations have been set but we all know women and keeping up with …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 11:31 PM
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I like your analogy as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 09:53 PM
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Wow great work. Meditation is highly beneficial. There is so much power in knowing yourself and honestly examining your life/self/etc and the discipline that comes with that practice. Eventually all the positive self talk you are doing will become internalized and you will live from that place. Awesome man! You create your own value and self worth. It is only your opinion of yourself that matters. When you care what others think, you give away your power to them. Women struggle with this more th…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 09:47 PM
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You're right, I could have played it differently/better. I called her on it because I know this girl and when I call her on bullshit, she hates it and will try to prove the opposite; which is usually doing what I want. I agree tho, this isn't necessarily the best approach. I did laugh at her nonsense and when she tried to make plans on her terms, I went for punishment and said nah, I'm good, I'll call you when I am ready, then hung up the phone. Part of the context in the situation is that she k…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 09:32 PM
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Yup! Thanks for the comment. I totally agree. Once you start to look at it like this, shit tests can become fun.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:25 PM
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His guard was down, balls drained, half asleep. She knew this and thought it would be a perfect time to surprise him with a question that was burning all night, while his guard was probably at his lowest and she could corner him. Not sure what my friend said but Laugh at the question; ignore "yea I fucked her in the bed, in the shower, in the restaurant, in the ass, I fucked her yesterday" Agree and amplify. "why, do you want a threesome with her?" Yup, sleeping with other girls = good
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:24 PM
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Thanks. Women will always try to push their own agenda on men and blame. You're right, at their best they try to push the man to be the best he can be. Even still there are pitfalls in that too, as your best may be different from her thoughts of your best. Funny coincidence, last night a plate invited me out with her friends. Something I have no desire to attend. Told her no and said you're welcome to come over afterwards though as I would be up late working. She calls me already on the way home…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:18 PM
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Happy to hear you recognize what is going on and are making good choices to live the life you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:08 PM
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Was thinking a lot about the social dynamics of weddings before going to this one (which was a huge expensive one) when I got there I was bored and started to notice other people's behaviors. I kind of looked at it like a field trip to a zoo to study animal behavior, it made being at this event more interesting for me. As a result, I was pretty observant. The next day, I made some notes for myself and then decided to share, so this post was the result. I realize not all of the examples are shit …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:06 PM
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Great comment, thanks for the contribution.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 05:57 PM
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They really are. I call weddings "the show" because that is what it is. For women it has very little to do with "love" or something positive but them being the center of attention, on display, making people jealous, etc.... Not to mention the cost, a young couple starting out dropping a house payment for a party? Bad decision making. If a woman tells me she wants a big wedding, or has planned her wedding, etc; she is immediately taken out of the category of anything potentially serious; huge red…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 05:55 PM
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As I mentioned in the post, it took me a bit to stop being bothered by shit tests. I reframed it and took it as a compliment that this woman obviously has some interest if she is bothering to test me. I don't look at it as a struggle and it doesn't take a lot of energy on my part because I am operating from a strong frame and genuinely don't give a fuck most of the time. When you are invested in her opinion of you, then it becomes more challenging. Put yourself first and it becomes easier. I thi…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 05:52 PM
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I agree that it is their territory and that many guys put far too much effort into the online/tinder game, often at the detriment of developing themselves and their abilities with women in person. Definitely not suggesting tinder or any online dating as a primary method of getting laid, there is no substitute for face-to-face interaction and building your SMV. Would suggest that any guy who can not cold approach day-game build that skill first and then see if you even want to be on tinder after.…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 06:02 PM
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Starting a week early means more women in the area will likely see my profile during that week and swipe and I will have more matches to pick from. I'm not just looking to put my dick into something regardless of quality, that is easy. I'm looking for something I am actually very turned on by. I'll spend at most 10-20 min a day swiping and texting with multiple girls in the days leading up to the trip. This allows me to set up dates as well. And by date, I mean drinks at my hotel or a bar near i…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:58 PM
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Yup, I do this for business trips and it works. I'd change the location about a week or so before I go, build a bit of rapport with matches and try to lay the ground work before I get there, so when I do it's more or less a done deal. Helps to pick down/yes chicks, as maybes are more risky. She is on tinder, she wants a man, she may be "looking for a relationship" but she will definitely fuck a guy who gives her the tingles.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 01:34 PM
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I'd avoid meeting the parents. But that's just generic good advice unless you're looking to marry this chick.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:10 PM
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I know a few buddies that can't cum from sex with a condom, so that's not uncommon. Maybe try switching to thin or sensitive condoms, I know for me there are different brands that make a huge different in terms of enjoyment. And unless she is using some hand/mouth action in the BJ, it may feel great but not be enough to put you over the edge. But unless you've had some experience with a blowjob ninja you may not know how quickly you can cum from one. So not sure about that. I know for me there a…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 01:27 PM
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You barebacking ? Condoms can make it much harder to cum. What about BJs?
/r/askTRP05/05/16 06:20 AM
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Huh, I like that.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:34 PM
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Agreed but a prenup is often not enough. The way the court systems work (here in the USA at least) is that a prenup can essentially be thrown out. She was under duress during time of signing, had improper counsel, circumstances have changed, etc. One of the best ways to insulate your assets (from all types of lawsuits not just divorce) is to have them held in an offshore trust. You move all your assets offshore to one of the countries with favorable laws (Cayman Islands is good for trusts). The …
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:24 PM
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I like that.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:09 PM
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Your 10 may be different than his 10 or mine... Also I think the majority of women enjoy being submissive, they just need the right man inspire that behavior. Now are you the right man for this 10, ehh depends on what you got going on and how you handle her. Nevertheless, I agree with the spirit of your comment. Unicorns don't exist.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:24 PM
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A few off the top of my head. Someone who: Has consistently demonstrated positive character traits over a significant period of time. Is able to handle her own life successfully has a good relationship with her own parents likes children and has shown good mothering skills with other children. has the physical characteristics you want for your offspring; strong genetics. drains your balls understands and enjoys her role in the relationship has street smarts. Never knew how important this was unt…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 02:47 PM
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Some thoughts and anecdotes... It is useful to open doors to women only if you have some social proof to share. I have a friend who is a c-list actor with 15,000 IG followers and he gets DMs from chicks following him, but they are going online and actively seeking his account. A guy at my gym is a fitness monster and while he doesn't have a ton of followers (less than 1,500), he gets hit up a lot because of his physique alone. The majority of my guy friends on IG are the follower type and while …
/r/askTRP28/04/16 05:35 PM
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If you are with a girl you find attractive, it is likely other men will as well. The hotter the girl, the more guys trying to get with her. If they do it when you're not around or it's not clear you're with her, then whatever, you should be flattered and also see how your girl responds, because that tells you a lot. If it's happening right in front of you and it's clear you're with her then I take that as an insult to me and poor social etiquette. In that case, I won't lose my cool and let my gi…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 07:37 AM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 05:25 PM
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Depends on the situation a bit. A girl can be "in a relationship" after dating a guy for a few weeks. Do I feel bad for fucking "his girl", no. I'm much less inclined to pursue someone married with kids because it just has the potential to be more messy and not worth the hassle. I try to have pretty strict guidelines on how I interact in those situations and make it absolutely clear its just sex. I've found that as long as she knows you have no interest in anything more than sex and she trusts t…
/r/askTRP16/04/16 10:19 AM
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Lowered standards and dedication to actively pursuing sex will dramatically bring up anyone's numbers. Obviously there is a lot more you can do and Im not saying that's what OP did, but you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 10:07 AM
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Pretty sure the number one fantasy of males is multiple females. On mobile and feeling lazy but I remember reading that somewhere and anecdotally yea when a woman asks what's your fantasy, my first thought is "got a hot friend?"
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:58 AM
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The issue with test injections is that your body stops producing your own test after a while because it doesn't need to. So if you ever stop using, your levels will drop significantly and it's difficult to restart your body's production. Just a word of caution.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:29 AM
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Read somewhere (in this sub I think) that substituting fapping with jelqing is an excellent idea.... I will try to remember key points. Reason being simple physiology. If you don't use it, you lose it. Think about other parts of your body you exercise; your mind, body.... If you don't lift you lose muscle mass and strength. If you don't read, exercise your mind, have discipline you lose those things as well. Fapping is exercise for the dong. You put blood in, it expands, pushes the capillaries (…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:31 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 09:40 PM
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Do you fap? If so stop. Porn can be a dick killer irl.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 08:25 AM
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Context and your goals make a difference. There are a lot of nuances. Most interpersonal power dynamics are not necessarily black and white. Sometimes it is good to be humble etc when it serves a higher long term purpose. Your long term goal and getting what you want is what matters, the path to this is less important. I understand this may not add a lot to the discussion but something to consider.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 08:22 AM
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I guess my point was that 100 approaches in one day is high (for me) because I don't find that high a number of women I find worth approaching. Mind you, I am not new to this or getting over AA and just need to get my numbers up. I also have women in my life already, so a bit more picky as a result. I usually spend Sundays out and about all day and that is when I do most of my day game. I keep a spreadsheet of approaches, etc to review to see what went well, needs improvement, and track progress…
/r/seduction02/03/16 04:24 PM
1

eh, I live in a major city. I just don't think there are that many datable women walking around. My issue might be that I'm just picky though.
/r/seduction02/03/16 07:47 AM
15

In one day, I don't think I've seen 100 women attractive enough that I would actually want to go on a date with.
/r/seduction02/03/16 06:14 AM
1

Have you tried self hypnosis? Ie guided meditation? It's worked wonders for a few people I know.
/r/seduction28/02/16 08:04 PM
2

Nicely played, good write up.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:17 AM
4

The Interior Design community is loaded with older women. Get a job in decorative home related stuff (furniture/housewares think William Sonoma, Pottery Barn, West Elm) or go to interior design related events, shows etc. Literally 90% women and approx 50% over 50.
/r/seduction18/02/16 04:32 PM
3

If you enjoy going to a coffee shop then go, simple as that. Hitting on a woman is natural and normal. I work from home, so I enjoy the chance to get out of the house and I go to a couple spots that usually have some talent and it allows me a break, while I work on more mundane tasks that don't require as much concentration. Day Bang by Roosh V has a section devoted to Coffee Shop Game if you are interested. I prefer to go alone because it requires no planning and I am usually there at least thr…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 06:00 AM
1

I've never even thought this would be an issue. How bad do you have to be at speaking to a woman to have security called on you.
/r/seduction02/02/16 08:45 AM
2

Nice, would like to get your answer on the "are we exclusive?" question
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:48 AM
2

I laughed at this.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 01:32 AM
2

You don't use it, you lose it is somewhat true. If you don't lift your body becomes weaker. If you don't stimulate your mind, it becomes duller. If you don't use your penis, it's health and fitness goes down from lack of use. We exercise all other parts of ourselves and see improvement in their functioning, why would the dick be different? There are serious negative impacts on the brain from fapping to porn though, I have some references I can dig up if someone is interested but from what I can …
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:27 AM
2

Can do it, just don't enjoy it.
/r/seduction27/12/15 06:51 PM
9

I find Tinder very useful for traveling. Before going on a trip you change your location to your destination. You can rack up some matches and build rapport over Tinder so that when you arrive, you are closer to game-on. Helps for a guy like me who travels a lot for work, so my days are usually busy but my nights are free. No real time to day game and would rather have some dates lined up upon arrival.
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:38 PM
16

High angle, blur, over exposed, no body shots.... I know your tricks wench!
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:35 PM
17

When you are plowing below your SMV, it can be boring/unenjoyable because you are doing it just to have sex and you aren't really that attracted to the girl. I have had "buyers remorse" several times afterward when I am laying in bed or whatever and the deed is done. I look over and think about the time/effort I put in and the awkward exiting from her life I'll have to make and go was it all worth it? Usually no. This is why finding a girl IRL who actually excites you is so much more rewarding. …
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:33 PM
3

Yup
/r/seduction26/12/15 11:33 PM
1

The environment of a webcam girl is her bedroom. The environment for a stripper is a strip club where she has to touch customers and can Possibly get into a bad situation. Other issue; once it's on the web it's on the web forever. She will have tons of screen caps etc up which will always be there. Strippers don't have this problem.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:34 PM
48

While your openness is nice... The success of one interfaith couple is a terrible analogy for the Middle East. EDIT: your
/r/seduction26/12/15 09:28 PM
9

I'd not recommend it. Have friends that went that route and once you pop, you can't stop. At least in the case of the people I know. Feeling low and lazy to go out and hunt? They call a pro. Rather than cultivate the rewards through hard earned effort and skill. Much more rewarding in the long run if you ask me... But I've never done it so maybe I'm not the best person to dispense advice.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:59 PM
2

Plated an ex, always held frame and enjoyed it for a while, no regrets. Depends on the girl tho.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:42 AM
1

The amount of girls who don't care about condoms the first time hooking up is astounding to me.... It makes me hesitate to do anything with them. I'm like "you don't know me and you don't care if we use one? How many other guys have you done this with, I'm not that fucking special that this isn't your first time doing this."
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 09:39 PM
1

You are right. Their relationship was on the wrong course for a while before the cheating and the swinging was a major driver of that.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 10:06 PM
6

We control the amount of commitment we give. It's a powerful card.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 10:01 PM
2

I didn't dedicate more time to the swinging aspect because its pretty obvious how retarded an idea that is/was and swinging and the concept of open relationships wasn't something I really felt like diving into. But that is why I mentioned it, in case people wanted to expand; which you guys did. I wrote the thing off the cuff after reading that guy's post and shared my brief initial thoughts for the community. This is why we have comments, so people can share and expand on the original topic brou…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:54 PM
3

My comment was more in line that there is no recovering the relationship after this. Yes, there were/are plenty of other reasons why this one was already dying before she did anything.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:15 PM
-10

I put it as a side note because that is a whole other discussion on its own and yea major red flags.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 06:00 PM
2

Goes without saying but TwoXChromosomes
/r/askTRP14/12/15 03:13 PM
1

How has no one said; "they want you to foot the bill". Every time some chick WITH her girlfriends invites you out there is a high likelihood that she wants you to pay. EDIT: Not saying you have to, by any means, nor are your chances shot if you don't.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 01:02 AM
2

We never spoke english together and I am paraphrasing (see original post).
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:47 PM
75

At the age of 13, I asked my grandfather for an (admittedly stupid) bday gift. He told me, “you are a man, go get a job and buy it yourself if you really want it.” So I went and got a job and have been gainfully employed every since and relying on only myself to survive. At the age of 15, he asked if I had a girlfriend. I started to complain about difficult girls (which was really me being a pussy) at my school. He told me, “I should focus on my own happiness and go after the girls I want withou…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:11 AM
2

One of the things to remember with Tinder and online in general is girls are coming in for a variety of reasons. On Tinder many are there for social validation, promote their IG or just to flirt. Who knows what other guys she is talking to IRL. I know girls who go on just for shits and giggles with no intention to meet up. Maybe she thinks you're good looking but a high 5 in her taste. Sometimes the perfect execution is still not going to get her to bite and you may never know the reason for it.…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:10 PM
1

Lived in both cities and Vancouver is a paradise compared to Toronto in terms of attitude.
/r/GEOTRP26/11/15 05:12 PM
1

I'm pretty honest with my plates and I tell them more or less this is the extent of the relationship; no marriage, no kids, no future, etc... Some of the smarter plates I've had didn't accept this and broke it off to find a guy who would offer those things.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:25 PM
2

Commenting on people's costumes is a great opener
/r/askTRP30/10/15 07:55 PM
25

Fuck her right in the pussy
/r/seduction29/10/15 03:34 AM
3

I am going to take a different stance from the crowd here and say that you seek the thrill of the chase and once you have them the challenge and fun is gone.
/r/seduction10/10/15 02:36 AM
46

Similar story, I actually was turning down the advances of a 40 something former playmate, who I would have banged had it not been for her terrible personality. Anyway she is drunk and trying to convince me to bang her, I basically am saying flat out no, it's not going to happen. She is trying to convince me by mentioning all the past celebrities she has had sex with, needless to say, her being a groupie for 80s rockers did not convince me to bang her.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:06 PM
4

If you deal with attractive women they will always have men who want to Fuck them in their lives. As long as you are the one doing the fucking, who cares.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 01:55 PM
5

You were dancing with her consensually. You moved your hands to her thigh which is normal enough. Inner/outer, who cares, the point is she did not want it. She immediately indicated she did not want this by leaving. Who knows what this chick's deal is. She is probably a basket case. You did nothing wrong. Recognize this, what you did was socially acceptable given the context. My primary concern would be if she attempts to move forward with some sort of disciplinary harassment charges. There are …
/r/askTRP02/10/15 01:30 PM
1

Can confirm.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 04:56 AM
1

"Women don't want to come within 100 yards of this house, no matter how attractive or how many parties I throw." I appreciate that you are exaggerating.... Still you are always responsible for your own abundance of pussy. You can live with a group of betas/nerds/whatever and score. Your place may not be the party house, but you can go out alone or with a buddy and get some tail and the girls won't really care about your roommates as she is being taken to your room to get fed.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 03:46 AM
2

Laughed out loud at this comment.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 03:39 AM
4

The book you are thinking of is; "Models Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark Manson. Some good theory in there which can help you understand some Male/female dynamics but there is also some really basic shit. It was written to take someone with zero game and bring them up to speed. Take what you will. Daygame Nitro and Daygame Mastery by Nick Krauser are another couple that have a good outline for pick up game. Some of the Paul Janka stuff is OK as well. More basic but still worth a glance. "…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:34 AM
13

As a guy who is 6'3" some girls have confessed to me they won't date shorter guys. It is a disadvantage. However, we all have disadvantages. I have a friend who is pretty short but he is a cool mother fucker and gets steady ass, so don't use it as an excuse :)
/r/seduction29/09/15 03:14 AM
13

haha, she was always angry/complaining about something or bragging about some work accomplishment. She would also attempt to flirt with the subtlety of a rhino. I kept things professional and interacted with her the least I could; money over bitches.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:27 PM
35

Can confirm. I rented out a property I own to one of these types and lamented my interactions with her. These women won't get a quality man because a quality man has no interest in them.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:23 AM
1

Glad you agree. I forgot to mention culture/location context as well, which is - as you point out - is very important. I live in LA and due to logistical driving issues, the flakey/superficial culture, getting a quality girl out can be harder (unlike NYC.) I don't do Tinder here for that reason as well (only when I travel.) However, in the past (and I am aging myself here) I used to use MSN to mack on girls (don't laugh, it was the chat tool of the day.) But I remember how effective it could be …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:51 AM
20

While I agree with the spirit of OP's post. I also have to agree here with RPJax. What also needs to be accounted for is how hot/SMV the girl is. Solid text game has taken luke warm pick ups to warm encounters... The following has happened to me with a couple 9s (we will call them girl A and girl B) and it played out well. I picked up both of them (these are separate instances but went down in a similar way) during the day. Initial convo was probably 5 min tops. Due to logistics I didn't even tr…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 06:29 PM
3

Agree with your golden rule 100%
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:38 PM
5

Yea, gonna go ahead and say be Elon Musk in his wealth creation but do not emulate his personal life, dude is straight beta when it comes to the ladies. He may have the balls at SpaceX but not in his relationships.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 02:48 PM
1

Great piece, thanks for the contribution... Agree with the bulk of it but would like to add my 2 cents as a fellow LA and NYCer. Definitely agree that NYC is one of the easiest places to hook up. However for me at this point in my life its about quality not quantity. The level of talent is not comparable in the two cities at all. NYC does have its hotties, but not nearly as many as LA. They are also harder to find in NYC and you generally need to know the scene to find where they are. NYC the bu…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:53 PM
1

Can I ask what city or state are you in?
/r/seduction19/07/15 08:10 AM
1

At the gym, the fittest girls are almost always doing weights. It's the soft pudgy ones that do the cardio machines at a VERY low intensity. So low in fact that many of them are able to be dicking around on their cell phones while doing it. There is no way I could be on the stair climber and instagramming at the same time, my sweat would destroy the phone.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 04:48 PM
5

"OMG only 120LBS she must have an eating disorder! You must be abusing her and shaming her for eating which is why she is so thin. Shame on you!" (cuz someone won't get the sarcasm, I'm spelling it out)
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:21 PM
5

Let's not forget the emphasis "status" has for a man's value. Something that generally has to be earned through hard work (i.e. finances, or recognition.)
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:26 AM
7

Don't follow it, I saw this article posted on Facebook by a female former classmates. Thanks for the concern tho.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 10:14 PM
8

They are definitely going after the female +30 demographic. Some thoughts on why... Most women care about pop culture, which is what their content caters towards. Also, that demo could be at home with kids bored surfing the net all day, or working in some drone office position trying to kill time. Don't get me wrong, men at work kill time too, I just think we don't frequent buzzfeed as much... Most of my office buddies do a lot of news reading, which at least relates to the real world somewhat.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:29 PM
1

See, I like an hour glass figure as well, and a thick chick can still absolutely take care of herself. Take for example: https://instagram.com/aylen25/ (who I am extremely sexually attracted to) No one could make the argument she isn't a thick chick but her SMV is also through the roof. In your case, I'd say if you are happy with whatever your preference is then great enjoy it! Don't date women only because other people think that type is attractive, own what you like and attack ;) If your frien…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:21 PM
6

No hate for the gents who prefer an ample woman. We all got our preferences. Personally, I just don't like it when a body size of a man or woman is to the point where it is negative to health, makes me go "come on this is under your control."
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 07:09 PM
-3

Everything you do in life, even your leisure pursuits should serve a higher purpose for advancement. Gaming does not.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:47 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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