| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 90 | Lol nope. | NAH, SIS | fromdusktildawnzzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:03 PM |
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| 6 | He’ll probably propose before summer. Men bend over backwards for women who treat them this way. I think of this everytime some guy implies my singlehood must be due to not being easy enough. Bon appétit, sis!I think he has a right to be upset tbh. Dismissing your partner’s choice makes them feel like their opinion doesn’t matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:16 AM |
| 3 | If it's not a hell yes, it's a no. We don't accept sure if, but if or maybe. Image credits - @HiddlstonFan on Twitter.Asking a man to come over to his place to presumably hook up is low value behaviour imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:55 AM |
| 45 | TRIGGER WARNING: Just Some Casual Rape and Sexual Assualt Apologising, And They Wonder Why We Think They Have No Empathy?!?! From Men, Going Their Own Way 2.0 (AKA Men FORCED To Go Their Own Way )-VOMITTook me more than 15 years to get the courage to face my past trauma from sexual assault. For some people it takes even more. Everyone processes their emotions at different rates and that’s okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 9 | I think this may be the post that finally makes me leave that sub. "So I was alone, when I could have had the support of a partner". More like you were alone working on yourself when you could have been getting dragged down further!Agreed. Your partner should not be your therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Do women wear what would be considered revealing clothing because of hot weather?It’s both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Do women wear what would be considered revealing clothing because of hot weather?Still relevant but whatever. Don’t really get what your point is. Women like me wear clothes like you showed because it’s in fashion. Go look up men’s sports fashion in the 80s - guys used to wear booty shorts as short as women’s. You wanna say that guys back then were just looking for attention too or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Do women wear what would be considered revealing clothing because of hot weather?I wear ‘revealing’ clothes in summer/on vacation like you linked. I don’t understand what the problem is. I wear it because it’s hot outside and I look/feel good wearing it. That’s it. Men can go around topless in public when it’s hot and women can’t - that’s also a double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality?As someone who takes great pride in their appearance, I would be super bothered by it. I’d rather just break up than feel that my partner is just settling by being with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Being a "real woman" is a right, being a "real man" is an achievementAs a woman, I would agree that there is a double standard. However the idea of being a ‘real woman’ as a term of empowerment and inclusivity is a relatively new concept, whereas the phrase ‘be a real man’ has been around for centuries, so it’s understandable that change is slower for men’s issues like this. I would also add that in my opinion a major factor for this difference is that these days women come together in solidarity to form movements to change society’s perceptions, whereas many men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Men should NOT be grateful they even get to betabuxThis whole post reeks of anger and bitterness. The idea of obsessively focusing on a woman’s past is redundant since a) a woman who’s a virgin can just as easily take advantage of a guy if he’s a pushover (& vice versa), and b) people lie, so you were physically there to witness every one of a woman’s sexual encounters then how could you ever be sure of their n count (not that it’s any of your business anyway). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 11:05 PM |
| 41 | I can’t believe the shit these women actually put up withJesus. I would have told him to pack his shit and leave before he’d get the chance to decide for himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Have you every gone in a date with a man that you weren't into just to get free food, etc.Yeah kinda. I enjoy going out on dinner dates and meeting new people, so if a guy asks me out to a nice restaurant then I’ll usually accept, even if it’s only to enjoy a nice meal and have decent company for the evening. If I got weird or creepy vibes though then I wouldn’t go. Nor have I ever called up a guy to take me to dinner because I couldn’t afford my own food. I’d like to see a survey done on the number of guys who’s ever asked out a girl just because they think they’re hot. You’d probab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 9 | It’s so refreshing when a guy is nice and there’s no dramaHappy for you:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 17 | Do you think mean have it easier in dating world?Sure, a lot of guys have an inflated sense of self worth, but women absolutely hold all the power when it comes to dating. And whilst it sucks that women are judged on age and weight, men are judged on their height and size - men aren’t immune to judgement. That being said I still think women are scrutinised more for their appearance than men though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 16 | Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing?Of course block or ghost. Why waste your time on people who give zero investment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 12:57 AM |
| 17 | Why aren’t men open to receiving health and “beauty” tips?I wish more guys would take care of their skin too. One of the hottest guys I’ve dated was a guy who was super into skincare, and his skin is literally like glass. It seriously looked like his skin was photoshopped in real life. If a guy thought that using beauty products and taking care of his skin was emasculating that would definitely be a dealbreaker for me. What’s interesting is that some of the guys here are opposed to skincare routines because they don’t see how it will make more women wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 27 | FDA Approved the first non-hormonal birth control method for women in 30 years!!Copper IUD is also hormone free. But it’s cool they’re coming out with new birth control methods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Seriously though wtf. She's the biggest pickmesha for a NVM but I have no words. He isn't even trying to help her.Huh.. What are you trying to criticise her for exactly? Taking care of children and dressing gracefully doesn’t make someone a pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯Not saying he’s Prince Charming but I’ve definitely seen a lot worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Questions for FDSNever had a guy refuse to pay for a date - but I don’t date broke boys either. Never had a guy walk out on me. I think intimacy is okay when both people feel comfortable around each other and after a level of commitment has been established - usually around month or two months max of dating. Never had any issues with that. No, all types of guys ask me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 01:18 AM |
| 32 | "FDS isn't a good dating advice". Any thoughts about this post and its opinion about the FDS ?I think a lot of guys just don’t understand what FDS even is or what it stands for. Like this guy who made the post and said “FDS just tells women that they don’t have to do anything different to get a HVM” - that is fundamentally wrong. FDS encourages self improvement and for us women to be the best version of ourselves. If you want a HVM then you must be a HVW. That’s ultimately why our standards are high because we can recognise the value within ourselves. Only LWM disagree with this philosop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Do women judge men based off of their phones?If a guy tried to hit on me and I saw that he had some smashed af galaxy s5 I probably would judge him lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | There is no wallMost likely skin whitening spray and make-up - but no doubt some Facetune too. India and indonesia are a bit infamous for doing wedding make-up transformations like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you or do you not prefer young, *hem* less *hem* experienced women for wives?22 year olds are zoomers lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 10:27 PM |
| 26 | daaaamnYeah I never got this. I grew up with an abusive alcoholic father yet somehow it’s socially acceptable for people like me to be mocked and ridiculed for having ‘daddy issues’ as if it’s my fault for having an abusive parent. I rise above any kind of bs like that though if it comes my way🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Why are feminists almost always privileged middle/upper class college girls?You’ve already answered your own question. People living pay check to pay check may not have the time or resources to fight for activism which is why it’s important that people in more privileged positions take their time to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How often are women tricked into sex ?It’s happened to me once, but I don’t think it’s very common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 17 | Talked to him It’s always a ‘just a joke’ when a guy gets rejected for his bs behaviour, yet I bet he would have gladly taken you up on the offer if you had actually said yes 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 23 | Dumps girl, when she won’t take him back goes on mass shooting kills her and others. Entitled misogynists = NVM scrotes = incels = porn fried brainsHe read his apology like he was reading an instruction manual.. what a psychopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?I agree that anyone has the right to judge or look down on other people. But in the context of FDS, I think it’s hypocritical for a woman to supposedly be all for female empowerment, but then to shame and degrade other women for their life choices which they don’t agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Who’s responsible for a woman’s orgasm - man or woman?Yeah I agree with you. I think if a guy is actively putting in effort to help a woman reach orgasm but it’s still not working out and she historically finds it hard to do so then I think open conversation should totally happen. I think it would only be demoralising if a guy has shown little to no effort in pleasuring his partner, and then she’s the one who has to bring it up- almost like she’s a burden when really the guy should have shown more initiative in satisfying his partner the first plac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:27 AM |
| 18 | Who’s responsible for a woman’s orgasm - man or woman?From a female perspective, I agree that we have an individual responsibility to understand how our bodies work and how we respond to certain things in order to reach an orgasm. However, from my experience I can absolutely say that majority of guys just don’t even try to help a women to orgasm. Like at all. Being brutally honest I think for a lot of guys as long as they’re satisfied they couldn’t care less whether the women came or not. For the guys that do care, I think a lot of them are also a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 10:47 PM |
| 13 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?FDS. I really dislike how many women there look down upon sex workers. If a women (or man for that matter) wishes to use their body and sexuality as a commodity and profit from it then that’s their prerogative. I get that many of the women claim that they are just concerned for the safety and well-being of other women, but to act so ‘enlightened’ and holier than thou when it comes to sex work is so counterproductive. We should support women and their choices even if it’s not a choice we would pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else ever have trouble with an extremely persistent guy?Of course. I just don’t respond to their messages, and if they’re especially annoying then I just block. I’m not going to waste my time/mental energy on clingy guys who don’t respect my choice to say ‘no’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Are women really flooded by male attention?It depends on the environment. I live in an area where strangers don’t really talk to each other, so I rarely get cold approached on the street. But if I’m at a bar/club, then I’ll for sure get hit on by multiple guys a night. I’ve lived in countries where guys would to try to hit on me when I was out shopping or whatever, but 9/10 it’s just straight up harassment. So I think in that case a lot of women do get flooded with male attention, but a lot of it is unwanted attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 03:11 AM |
| 3 | We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposableThere’s something known as the paradox of choice, meaning that the more choice we have of something, the more difficult choosing can be. Many people struggle with this especially on dating apps - and as you said, a lot of people are left feeling that it’s hard to find a relationship when it seems like grass is always greener on the other side. I would argue that this seemingly infinite number of choice on dating apps is only hypothetical - it’s not reflective on reality. Of course, there will al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 08:01 PM |
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