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| 2 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?actually, much evidence suggests otherwise- they're happier and longer-lasting. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-04-20/couple-with-a-larger-age-gap-happier/9680764 Though perhaps the key thing is to make sure that the guy is actually in for a relationship, it is something to look out for. On the other hand, if the guy is established and mature, then he's easily a better candidate than most younger guys. So really, a girl should only pursue and "wait out" for a guy if she thinks that he's in it f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Men and women flipping roles in terms of pursuing sexThat's still less than it was 10 years ago. In Germany where they have another major (and long-running) fertility crisis, it's something like 80% of women 40 to 44. The other problem is German women often seem to not want more than 2 children, but this is less of an issue for American women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that people who say “number of sexual partners doesn’t matter!”, seem to mostly pursue those with a low number of sexual partners?Something like this is kind of true for me at present. I give off vibes and signals that I'm very confident and have my pick of women (and not only just women, but seemingly straight men too). But the reality is I have a very difficult time to properly connect to another, so I've ended up with 2, when my actual opportunities for sex were much much higher. But right now, most of the girls in my life treat me like a piece of meat, as if they can finally be the ones who 'crack' my code. Especially … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?It's when questions like these pop up, that I really start to think: "How much of this is really about concern over predation?", and "how much of it is envy of the fact that older men that should be attracted to older women like me, are instead attracted to younger women?" The other big thing is legal vs. moral, which is quite often conflated. "Do you think a 55 year old to have sex with an 18 (or 16) year old?", no not really. Should we throw him into jail? No. That being said, if you're in Ame… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men who have sex, please share your story of successful IRL approachesMy big problem here is: Are there even bars like this that even exist anymore? Most are too loud to converse with anyone without yelling. It's very hard to find any kind of venue where any interaction beyond whoever you're with at whatever table you sit at is practically feasible (beyond breaching basic social etiquette). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 6 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialgirls do not want to fuck 'nice' guys (not actual guys who are nice, but are instead manipulative), but do want good guys regardless. The kind of woman who actually would do this is a 'nice girl'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?Sharia Law (or whatever Christian/Hindu/Shinto/Secular equivalent thereof) sounds like the natural remedy, even the likely reaction from this kind of event. Realistically, their political support for Feminism and Equality would evaporate, and they would actively use whatever power they have left to rectify this circumstance (i.e. stop hiring women or voting for pro-Feminist candidates). If they ever gained enough power to effectively shape culture, then yes, they would absolutely try to turn bac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 04:53 PM |
| 10 | The problem isn't that there are too many nice guys, the problem is that there aren't enough nice womenThen that's a big cultural problem with the US that doesn't exist in other cultures, like, for instance, Japan, where agreeableness is rewarded economically. I would prefer social attitudes closer to Japan or Norway than to India or Mexico (the former of which taking advantage of someone else is considered being 'clever'). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Why are men with (increasingly) older brothers more likely to be gay?Quite interesting. Thanks! The bottom type is the most common. (The top two are what you would currently call "cross-dressers", "drag" or "trans trenders"). There's also another type where there's an otherwise manly man in his middle age (40s, 50s) who decides he wants to become a woman. They often are straight too. Think Caitlyn Jenner. Also, there's a phenomenon of "Transbians" wanting other "Transbians". I don't know if this is just a continuation of the previous phenomenon, but now acceptabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Finances are one of the biggest reasons relationships fail and both men and women have distorted ideas about money.Scandanavia is very Egalitarian and will look down upon materialism instead of up like in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are men with (increasingly) older brothers more likely to be gay?This is closest to the truth. It's amazing how everyone wants to put full stock in biological explanations, while mostly ignoring the psychological, nurture, upbringing, culture, life experiences, etc. that goes into making someone the way they were. In particular, the best explanation for gay/bi men are daddy issues. Keep stock of how many gay men either don't have a father, whose father split apart at young age (BPD is so rampant among gay men), or a father is narcissistic/perfectionistic and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Most adult women don't believe in "Getting the man of your dreams"Yup. Not gonna lie. Theocracy sounds like an acceptable cure, and I've been an Atheist half my life. But the one thing you also have to recognize is these kind of people are not representative of "all women" either. AWALT/AMALT is a lie as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | "Women Are Wonderful" Affect and Men Who Have No AgencySystem vs. Agency. I see it strange to collectively blame most Agents for all collectively getting it wrong, than to focus on the root causes for why they are getting it wrong (i.e. culture - who is creating, promoting and funding this culture? Economics and legal systems. Same question). The problem with both Red and Blue Pillers is they often take a very legitimate external concern, and instead act out in a way that makes that problem worse, damaging themselves and others. It's also a very imm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Is Sexual Liberation a facade?Yup. It is. Almost impossible to find someone to trust to settle down with. The lifestyle imposed onto us just creates damaged people. Anomie and nihilism are tough pills to swallow. Fortunately, people tend to be a little less damaged outside America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men more open about their feelings?haha ok bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't men more open about their feelings?I "took the red pill" for about a year and a half, and yes this is exactly the advice offered 2014-2015. Either it's changed or you're bulls***ting. RP does indeed recommend cutting out personal relationships and only adding ones that can help you improve game / women / your social status / business contacts. Basically, ones that are either RP or that you can take advantage of (sexually, financially, socially). But from what you're writing (especially about the "plates") implies you still don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do women go home with men they don't 100% intend to have sex with?Definitely. It can be as simple as "you're only after me for a visa" to "you're 18 and you've already slept with 15 guys?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men more open about their feelings?Encouragement of isolation, breaking off of old friendships that don't bring you value, and making new relationships on a purely self-interested basis is precisely why man RPers find out that their new relationships don't go very well. Of course, that's by design, especially with women. "Plates" are supposed to be a good thing, not a bad thing, and it's perfectly fine for these "plates" to fizzle out in 3-6 months. Please tell me you haven't noticed this trend yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't men more open about their feelings?That sounds like a similar mentality to myself. I would attribute that to an overbearing father, and these are unfortunately issues that all men have to deal with, but we're given almost no model of how to do this correctly. "to support you and help you through things" sounds like a great character attribute in a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't men more open about their feelings?Very true. As crazy as it sounds, this is why I still have gay male friends. There just aren't any straight male (adult) friends who I could honestly turn to and talk about deep emotions with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't men more open about their feelings?It's quite tough when we live in the perfectionistic society that we do, especially one with so much insecurity, predation and paths to failure (but less to success). Revealing these insecurities to women and others will often drive them away - men aren't supposed to be needy and admit they have problems - so men learn to with-hold it altogether. It's ingrained by society and most parents since childhood. Moreover, there are men who are reveal too much, and they become an example not to follow. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Men are shit at birth controlI'd probably just go for anal to begin with. That solves this problem! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Men actually get pissed/judgey when women date younger guys too.Giving a personal perspective, I'm very avoidant when it comes to dating and the sexual marketplace, and I've rarely been in an "open place" to have a relationship - despite being fairly attractive, and especially so if fitness, sleep, etc. are at top form (I'll get girls AND guys acting mousey around me just after being friendly and say hi). So I will often use just about anything to disqualify someone else. "It's not going to last, she's graduating and leaving town in a month" "She's a coworke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What are the best things a guy can work on to become more attractive to a woman?Average dick in America is something like 5.1-5.5 inches (most men lie, and that entire "gay men have bigger dicks than straight men" thing is itself an overconfidence lie too. Talk to any gay guy how often dudes lie about their dick size) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:11 PM |
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