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If they are busy just leave them alone as you will probably be disturbing them when you approach. A lot of women tell me that they do not feel pretty when they are at the gym because they are sweaty and without any makeup, so direct openers are out of the question in my opinion. My gym has a unisex sauna and it is pretty easy to strike up a conversation in there with people. Also my gym has yoga, zumba, and those type of classes. I had some success with talking to girls after those classes. A si…
/r/seduction15/11/13 03:38 PM
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Santiago is a great city to be in. There see so many young people there because of the universities. Last time I was there the students were having demonstrations against the government and it was pretty easy to meet them because they wanted to vent about the gov to a foreigner. Brazil is a different beast all together, I can't give you much advice about it because it is still hazy in my head. Just beware of girls approaching you at the beach, most of the time they are hookers, and will demand c…
/r/seduction09/11/13 10:12 AM
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Before going out I try to get into a good mood usually by going to one of my friends houses or inviting the group over. We usually talk and have a great time socializing among ourselves. Then we usually head over to a dance club and try to get some dancing in while it is not too crowded and stuffy. There the guys in our group would just open everyone who is there. Most of the time we have a mixed group so it is easy to ask other groups in the club to join us as we head to a bar. Women realize we…
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:24 AM
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You can try finding people at events in your area. There are some sites that have meetups based on different interests. I met a bunch of women that way. Maybe trying these low pressure meetings might prepare you for the bar scene. Or the bar scene might just not be your thing.
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:01 AM
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How much time passes between you meeting them and escalating? Maybe you should try to cut down the time that you can possibly act nice and boyfriendish. You can go from neutral and charming to physically escalating. Once your normal self attracts them there shouldn't be time to be Mr. nice guy and scare them away if you escalate when you see attraction. In the girls mind you go from fun/attractive guy to the guy trying to hold their hand at the park, so they wonder what happened to the guy they …
/r/seduction08/11/13 07:56 AM
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Tell a story. In the conversation if something reminds you of an experience you had just say "this reminds of the time..." and continue. You should have a few of these thought out before hand and ready to use. At first it might take some thinking of how to create the right hook and ending, but eventually you will be able to do it on the fly. Have stories that demonstrate higher value, and use details to create a picture in their head. It might take you a few tries to get a story right, so try to…
/r/seduction08/11/13 07:45 AM
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It would be nice to know which country or countries you are going to be in because getting girls in Rio is different than Buenos Aires. Being a foreigner you have a lot of leeway in breaking social rules, so you can be as crazy as you want to be. Just don't get arrested. If you go to clubs or "discotecas" you are instantly going to stand out being a foreigner and if you go crazy and party hard people will gravitate towards you, especially women. Go to salsa clubs and find a group of girls dancin…
/r/seduction08/11/13 07:24 AM
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I usually change the answer depending on the girl who asks. If its a party girl that asks me if I am a player I agree and amplify "Yes I get more ass than a toilet seat" or something along those lines. If it is a quiet and good girl asking me if I sleep around a lot I usually try to sound serious and say "Yes, I have had a wild past." I think most of all it depends on the way you say it. Some girls do not really care if you are a player or not but they might bring it up because they do not want …
/r/seduction05/11/13 11:06 AM
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If at first you feel awkward going direct try an indirect opener. Have you approached at all? If you are having problems approaching in general I would suggest taking baby steps first. Go up to a girl on campus and ask her if she is in your class "Hey are you in my Chem class with Prof X" when she says no act confused and move on. If there are sororities in your school you can also ask a girl if she is in so and so sorority, and if she says no tell her she looks like someone from there. If you f…
/r/seduction05/11/13 10:56 AM
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Maybe the girls sense some desperation in you . Sometimes I see this in people who don't socialize a lot, they tend to come off overbearing and needy. Do you just try to hang out 1 on 1 with them all the time? I would suggest doing group activities if you want to build female friends. Plus uni is a fun social setting where you can meet a lot of people really fast, so the girls have a lot of choice of who to hang out with. I would suggest expanding your social circle so you don't run into the pro…
/r/seduction05/11/13 10:42 AM
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It can be weird to turn the conversation sexual if they don't see you as that type of guy. If they see you as this charming/flirty/fun/confident guy then you asking them out would match your personality. Also if the girl hasn't shared anything personal about herself and all you talk about is the weather or your grades, then you asking her out would seem to come out of nowhere. If you actually have a meaningful conversation then she would assume that you asking her our is because you found someth…
/r/seduction31/10/13 09:46 AM
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My favorite cheap date is a picnic. Usually I would schedule them on a Saturday afternoon and buy supplies that morning. Buy some sliced bread, some ham or prosciutto (you can ask for a few slices at most deli counters for cheap), some slices of cheese, some arugula, maybe a few cherry tomatoes, some cheap 9-10$ bottle of wine, a few cupcakes as dessert if you want to go the extra mile. That should cost you less than 25$ and you can reuse most of the ingridients to make yourself lunch or to go o…
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:01 PM
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I went to a small university as well. I never had any problems arise or feel any loss of social value from getting rejected by a girl in class. I would consistently ask out at least 1 girl from every class and it all went really well. The key to things not turning out awkward is how you deal with the rejection. For example I would isolate and say "Hey I think you are really interesting/cute and want to take you out on a date." If they say no, or that they have a boyfriend I would just smile and …
/r/seduction30/10/13 04:02 AM
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I would suggest working some on your body language and how you position yourself in the group because that could make a big difference in how threatening you come off. Make sure the girl has a way out, as in don't pin her against the wall right away especially if you are doing very direct openers and lots of touching. If you are in a group try to position yourself where they are around you, like with your back towards the wall or make them stand around you as you sit in a chair. Try to stand up …
/r/seduction09/10/13 02:54 AM
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One move I like to do while dancing face to face is to grab both of her hands and raise them up, straight up, which brings you face to face and then you can lower her hands unto your shoulders or around your neck, from here you can put your arms on her hips or butt. Change it up, dont leave your hands in one area too long. Try to be as close as she will allow.
/r/seduction07/10/13 12:33 AM
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First of all stop texting her or sending messages, call her next time you want to ask her out. She never flat out rejected you so technically you are still in the game. Try to talk to her in school and feel her vibe to deduce if she is still interested. Do some kino, tease her. Next time call her and ask her out for a date, use the word date because you dont want her to get mixed messages. If she says no then move on to the next girl. By calling her you will stand out from the other guys who tex…
/r/seduction07/10/13 12:10 AM
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I think that enjoying to dance by yourself is important at raves/clubs. Dancing with someone else should be pretty simple once they see you enjoying yourself. What I do at clubs is once i am dancing alone and having a good time I look up and see if anyone makes eye contact. Once I see them checking me out I grab them and pull them towards me. When you are face to face just hold on to her and try to up the energy level a bit because if you lower the energy level she would just get bored. So once …
/r/seduction06/10/13 11:48 PM
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I think that if you make it look spontaneous then it works pretty well. Instead of calling something a game just ask her a question like "What's your favorite dinosaur?" It needs to feel spontaneous or else she is going to smell something fishy. What I like to do is to randomly stop conversation, give them a serious face, look them in the eye and ask something funny like the dinosaur question. Sometimes I say "I have a serious question to ask you, its a bit personal" then ask them the dinosaur q…
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:08 AM
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How old is she? I think it is possible to get girls by flirty texts, but it is much easier to do it face to face, so I would of suggested to arrange a meet on the first day of texting. Maybe she dint see enough value in you to call you up or maybe she is shy and couldn't get herself to call you. There are many reasons but you will only keep guessing until you do a face to face meet with her and are able to see her body language.
/r/seduction21/03/13 12:43 AM
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I found that instead of asking where they like to hang out I tell them what I enjoy doing and then tell them to join me. After you establish some rapport I would suggest just going where conversation takes you by conversation threading. If you read any NLP I would suggest you chunk up and try to elicit values and other thing you can use later on.
/r/seduction21/03/13 12:35 AM
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I would try to escalate after you give her shit for being a senior. Keep up the playful joking mood but have chill quiet moments where you make heavy eye contact. Maybe including stories that show your maturity/adult side will make her realize you are not the average freshman. Try to create sexual tension and you got this in the bag
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:54 PM
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I don't think it is a bad plan to ask her to go tomorrow. Things happen and plans change. She might like the impulsivity and the nice surprise of you taking her earlier than imagined. One problem that could arise is that she might not have the necessary gear ready or that she is swamped grading things
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:44 PM
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I would suggest listening to music you enjoy before going out. Get into a groove where you feel really nice. If you are physically exhausted then it's another problem.
/r/seduction06/03/13 04:01 PM
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I run into these from time to time. What I do is act really nice and try to befriend them. Their rejection of friendship and sour behavior will make you look better in the eyes of others. So when he puts his arm on you just go and hug him. When he makes a snarky remark interpret it in the nicest way and never take offense.
/r/seduction06/03/13 03:55 PM
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I would recommend taking her out of her normal routine of dinner dates or bar hangouts. I would take her on a picnic at a park or even the roof of a building. Confident and alpha type of girls try to control situations so you have to take her out of that frame and be the boss, and doing something private and isolated will increase your chances of this. In my opinion inviting her straight to your place could be risky without a date before.
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:36 PM
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I love hitting up a few coffee shops on the weekends. Just walk in, order something, see pretty girl sitting with laptop or book, approach, add a time constraint, number close or bounce them to another place. Pick girls who look like they spent that extra time getting themselves to look nice. Also since you are in uni try to look for clubs or organizations that meet on the weekends. At my uni the romance book club meets on sat, and I'm the only guy in it.
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:04 PM
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I've learned how to spot lies pretty well. After you start interacting a lot with new people you get better at reading faces.
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:31 PM
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I've done speed dating once. The good outcomes came from the girls with whom I had the most random conversations. I think the trick is to avoid interview like questions. It's difficult at times because the girls themselves resort to interviewing you. When I did speed dating we had a Colombian guy give all the girls little kisses on the cheek, I'm pretty sure he got laid that night.
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:26 PM
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The easiest way to avoid other guys getting in the way is to isolate. You can either make separate plans from everyone with her, or you can get her to leave the group with you. What I do in a group setting is after some initial flirting I lean in and say something like "come with me" or "lets get out of here" and then get up and say bye to everyone with the expectation that she will follow. Don't worry about the sex thing. There really is no reason to bring up your lack of experience. If she ask…
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:58 AM
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Your perseverance is legendary. I would of left after 15 mins of waiting. Better start filling out restraining order forms, crazy is coming for you after she reads this post.
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:04 PM
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Don't worry about this too much. Getting girls to be comfortable with you is a skill that might come in handy later on. Since they seem like chill uninhibited girls I would try to turn them into wingwomen. Just tell them about your journey and invite them to social gatherings with you. Ask them to open sets for you and introduce you in.
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:05 PM
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I've been doing day game at my uni for a while. So this might be a long comment. You cannot creep out the whole campus, but you can exhaust areas where people have seen you do your approaches. The trick for me has been to be the social guy that talks to everyone, so nobody really pays any attention that you are getting the numbers of girls. For example when I go to either the library or the coffee shop at first I look around to see if there is someone I know there. If there is someone I know the…
/r/seduction30/01/13 07:43 PM
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Alright. First you need stop doubting yourself. Change is possible, but it requires effort. Nothing will happen overnight, it will take months to see any progress in some areas. The process of becoming more social will be hard and painful because you will need to change a lot of old habits, and more importantly you will fail a lot in the process. As with most new things, there will be a learning curve. The first thing you can do is work on your physical appearance. Go to a gym, or start a workou…
/r/seduction15/12/12 06:42 PM
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If her friend was antisocial and did not want to meet people and have fun then I don't know why she went to a party on the first place. If you have another party just tell the girl to invite another friend because the last one was no fun and you don't want lame people at your party. It seems like a reasonable request given the goal of a party is to have fun. Don't try too hard. Go to parties and have fun. If her antisocial friend is lame then ditch them and go interact with fun people. It's thei…
/r/seduction15/12/12 06:12 PM
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