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Makes sense. So you are not promiscuous like your flair suggests?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:31 PM
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But women desire healthy, wealthy, emotionally stable men who do not take part in risky behaviors, correct? So the selected men must be already achieving the things on this list without being married, right? Wouldn’t that make this research fallacious? I mean how many times do you see women get an overweight poor guy who is depressed and build a life a together with him. Makes me wonder if the research is fallacious. What are your thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:05 AM
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Yeah. I am all for legalizing sex work. But in the grand scheme of things, except the money part it’s all disadvantageous for the sex worker. The cheating men would still respect and love their wives more than the sex worker. It’s win - win for the men. Sex with an attractive woman with no drama and the wife will never know. Finding other jobs or a stable partner can be difficult too because of associated social stigma. Plus the possibility of psychological and physical trauma. The chances of no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:48 PM
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I wasn’t talking about unconditional love. But men are absolutely capable of loving unconditionally. Men would die at war for the love of their country. Men would die for protecting their families. A conventionally unattractive woman who doesn’t work can still have a stable family if she decides to. She might have to lower her “standards”, be less entitled, not be greedy, be loyal and emotionally stable, basically work on her internal qualities and she will have a good chance. Men always have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:10 PM
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You don’t love bums. You think you do. It’s not love. It’s usually a trauma bond that you fooled yourself into thinking it’s love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:58 AM
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Everything you said is true. Men have just one disadvantage. All grown men are “loved” based on how good they continue to perform in their lives. We are very very rarely loved for who we are. That balances the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:40 AM
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“Women are gold digging whores who are incapable of love” might not be always misogyny. Like “all men would assault women” might not be always misandry. Because examples of both are statistically significant enough. The former much more so because it’s even celebrated in society as a symbol of power, rebellion and independence. Beliefs are often dictated by fear rather than hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:07 AM
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lol. My bad. I concur. Men, single or unmarried, have a ton of shit to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:32 PM
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“Men ain’t got shit to lose…” This is kinda true for only unmarried men. Married men can lose everything like money, house, children, pets, his sanity etc. Often times for no fault of their own. Unmarried men who are happily single do have very little to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:43 PM
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If this is only about hookups and escorts, then why on earth were you yapping earlier about getting “average” women with “lower standards” because they are easier to maintain???????
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:49 AM
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Also I misinterpreted your earlier question. You were referring to men being repulsive solely because they have slept with escorts. That is not true in my experience. I have not personally slept with escorts but I have been with strippers. Like dated them and been friends with them. And I have told other girls who I have dated, traditional women. They never found me repulsive. Even I have known very conservative women fall for men who regularly see escorts. Instead I have seen men judge men more…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:49 PM
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Why would he be still repulsive after gaining confidence and game? If you are asking about his moral character being repulsive you wouldn’t know that until you have spent some time with him. Now if you are talking about being in your face repulsive like ewww I won’t talk to that guy ever it probably means he is a creep. And exactly, decent men are not repulsive, yet they may not get laid. So you being not repulsive doesn’t guarantee sex. Hence escorts. Your initial comment said if men are not re…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:42 PM
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I understand where you are coming from. I will not encourage you to engage in it if you view it that way. But couple of points, no one should hire escorts while abrogating their financial responsibilities. Secondly sex with another human, if it’s consensual, is not pathetic. Comparing another human being to a sex doll is pretty dehumanizing. You are not goin just to bust a nut, you are goin to have a no strings attached fun date with someone who you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:28 PM
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Absolutely. And we as men will be doing a disservice to women putting them on a pedestal like that. No human being is perfect and it is imperative for men to understand women have a dark side too. You can’t really love a human being expecting them to be perfect like society wants us to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:12 PM
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You are making some assumptions. No healthy relationship work with one person constantly meeting their partners needs while neglecting their own. That sounds like a trauma bond in a narcissistic codependent relationship. And I agree a prostitute is not equivalent to a wife. That is preposterous. You made a good point with your blue car analogy. I have thought of that myself. But there is an at least 50% divorce rate in most developed countries, which disproves your point about sustainability. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:50 PM
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No an escort won’t have sex without money. I was refuting your point that all decent men can easily get the sex they want. Your last question is not clear. Probably has a typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:23 PM
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No they won’t. Men need game and confidence on top of being non repulsive to get laid regularly. It takes experience for an average guy to gather those skills. Plus time and resources. And not all escorts pretend, some enjoy sex with some clients. Like some people pretend to be happy in some relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:16 PM
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It is comparable unless the marriage is based on love. If you love the person for who they are, for them having values, for them having good internal qualities, for having integrity, honesty etc then of course that kinda love is the most precious thing on earth. Unfortunately most marriages are not based on that kinda love. Men value beauty and women value power, status, fame more than internal qualities. Some marry out of loneliness and desperation. Some marry for immigration benefits. There wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:56 PM
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Learn to have a conversation without trying to be personal. Just because my views are different than yours doesn’t mean your opinions are more valid than mine. And it’s not your prerogative what kind of friends I should or should not have. I asked a couple of questions based on my personal observations. So stay in your lane and communicate in case you have any constructive arguments instead of asinine judgemental ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:40 PM
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An orgasm is not the whole point for paying for an escort. I am not talking about people who have been forced into prostitution, that’s horrifying. I am not talking about buyers whose only motivation is using a woman’s body like a rag doll(yes there are degenerate men like them). I am talking about men who actually like experiencing a woman’s company and being intimate with her with no judgement. I am talking about independent escorts who can pick and choose their clientele. You might already kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:30 PM
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I get your point. But trust me dude, I have seen “average” looking women absolutely decimate genuine relationships because they want the famous rockstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:00 PM
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Agreed. Long term fulfilling relationships are the best way to go. But then again, they are not easy to maintain. The divorce rate is around 50% in the US. Humans are not biologically strictly monogamous. Society asks us to be monogamous because it has its benefits. My point is you pay to be in a relationship some way or other, it’s doesn’t have to be just money. The more mutual love and respect you have for each other, the less it feels like a payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:51 PM
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You will not tell me who I need to stay with and neither can you guarantee whether something is an illusion or not unless you are engaged in the process, because you’re not God. So your sentence sounds a tad bit arrogant. The judgement against sex work is patriarchal. It’s a social control tool. A lot more people would be doing if there was less social stigma surrounding it. Not all sex is based on true love. In fact a lot of it is not because then we would all be marrying our best friends. Desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:36 PM
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Yeah that’s how it should be. You are supposed to think before you nut. Not after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:26 PM
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I am saying payment can be in many forms. You can “love” the guy because of his money, his looks, his social status, his fame, his ability to give you constant attention and validation, his ability to pander to your every whim and desire. All these forms for payments are very much normalized by society. None of which is based on love. If you are the type of woman who loves your man solely for who he is, for his internal qualities, for his ability to love and care for you, for him having a moral …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:35 PM
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What if he actually feels more wanted and loved in the sessions with escorts? You’re paying the money and you can cuddle, make love and leave. In a relationship/marriage, I have rarely seen men being consistently wanted, loved and appreciated for just being who they are. The love and care of a woman is usually predicated on how good the man performs in life. So either way aren’t men always paying for intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:06 PM
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It is. So are relationships sometimes. Actually sometimes marriages are the worst option for consistent sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:34 PM
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36M here. All women who fell in love with me did so when I stopped or never really cared about having a relationship with them. Every time I tried to consistently make things work it always went sideways. This is a comment in YouTube I recently came across which I resonated with a lot: “The feminine is beautifully simple if you look at it this way. She wants you to be your best self and never settle, not even for her. It’s deeply motivating. She will push you to your edge and force you to be you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:54 AM
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