frozone65 Archive

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1	Most women aren't complicated or mysterious, they're fickle, impulsive and poor communicators I hear you and feel your frustration. I can only offer my small take on this. Men of recent generations have been conditioned to believe that women are similar to men with only small insignificant differences and should have equal standing in a relationship. While a nice thought, this doesn’t work, and could not be further from the truth. As you mentioned yourself women are more hormonal and more emotional so the outcome is what you have described. As the man we must “always” maintain the frame …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 11:25 AM
1	What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone? A woman being put into the fuck is potentially way worse because she has a biological clock and can ruin her mental health if she wants a family. She can never get that time back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 11:37 AM
3	Do men really care about anything other than a woman's looks when it comes to attraction? I disagree. Most men are constantly doing a subconscious mental calculation asking themselves “can I put up with this for a lifetime?” And no matter how attractive the woman is if she has enough personality traits that are a turn off he will not commit. We don’t even really know we are doing it but most of us are. Unfortunately for women the guy probably won’t tell you when you’re crossing that line and you’re left wondering where the last 3 years went.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:44 PM
1	When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe". Easy. Men and women are different. An unfortunate double standard. But they exist both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:25 PM
2	If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting to LOL…. Absolutely not. I would argue that it’s the exact opposite actually. 80% of women are low value. And bring nothing to the table. Most women live in a state of perpetual delusion. Deluded about their own value. Delusional what it is they bring to the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:11 PM
1	If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting to Whatever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 09:44 PM
2	If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting to Well… I’m personally not broke but how many young men in their 20s have lots of money? Those young men were just starting out in their lives and have no control over larger economic forces. During the Arab Spring youth unemployment was as high as 20-30%. All I have to say is wait until the next big economic downturn in America and you will see. My guess is you won’t have long to wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 01:16 PM
0	If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting to This is true. Women will break all their own rules for the hot guy. 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 10:52 AM
3	If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting to This would definitely lead to a greater level of social unrest than we are currently experiencing and probably out right revolution. It’s been theorized that one of the bigger contributing factors to the “Arab Spring” back in 2011 was that because of the severe economic downturn there was very high unemployment among young marriage aged men. In their culture without a job or means of income a young man’s chances of getting married are slim. And in their culture without marriage they have little …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 10:51 AM
2	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? In many ways your experience supports the phenomenon. You come from a place that probably had more traditional views on dating and mate selection. And the outcomes you describe don’t really show that this phenomenon exists. I’m happy for you and your friends. In my extended friend group I know 3 women now in their 50s that are unmarried and still talk about how their college sweetheart broke their lives. Relationships that took place 30 years ago are still spoken of as if it was yesterday. I can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 10:31 AM
1	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? Actually it is probably much more common nowadays than historically simply because women nowadays tend to have more sexual partners and more serious relationships prior to settling down than in years past. By this factor alone it means that women today have a higher probability of forming a very strong bond with a partner that is not their permanent partner. In my opinion this could be one of the reasons for the greatly increased divorce rate our society is currently experiencing. Hypothetical e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 10:33 PM
7	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? It doesn’t assume that at all. The man doesn’t have to be “the most masculine one” the concept simply states that if at some point a woman has sex or a relationship with someone that leaves a powerful impression on her. It can lead to a “pair bonding” so strong that it potentially inhibits her ability to form a strong bond with someone else even her eventual husband. I know this from personal experience. I have alpha widowed someone, I found out 40 years later and it haunts me every day as it wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 06:48 PM
0	Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are? This is the part that I don’t understand. Most people cannot afford to be alone for the rest of their lives. Unless you plan to work until the day you die one income is simply not enough and if you think it is then you have not done the math properly. Even if you have a job that has a good pension it still won’t be enough. I find that most women have not done the math properly, and it’s sad and annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 11:24 AM
8	Another relationship that didn’t work out … Hi, you have to be careful with SMV it can give women a false sense of security. You may be good looking and physically fit, but from the title of your post it seems that relationships keep fizzling out. For women a higher SMV is great for getting relationships off the ground, you may attract lots of men but other things like a compatible personality etc keep men interested and allow the relationship to grow deeper. I suggest that you be open and simply ask him if there’s anything wrong or if th…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/06/23 04:08 PM
2	Our marriage (F33 and M35) is fine but we lost our spark (because of me...?) I realize my advice is late and not helpful for your situation but I am posting this for others. DO NOT have children in rapid succession 2 years apart. Even extending the gap to 3 years between kids will massively reduce the stress on you as parents. I don’t know where this unwritten rule came from (probably from the previous generation) but in our current society it simply doesn’t work. Having children too close together while both parents have to work results in the mother being overwhelmed a…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/23 07:00 PM
4	How to let it go when I think he's wrong. I find that bringing humor into the disagreement is really helpful in my relationship. When I say humor I don’t mean making fun of your partner’s opinions. Instead make fun of your own opinion. I find that it has the effect of de-escalating the situation and if your partner is a good person then they will follow suit. In the end no one is hanging on to their argument “just to be right” and if done correctly you usually end up laughing about the whole situation. That’s my two cents worth. Hope it…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/23 06:56 PM
3	I keep filling his cup and he is not filling mine? Sorry but your take on this is not accurate. E red You’re making a full judgment after hearing only one side. It appears to me that she expects him to behave like a woman. MANY women fall into this trap and a telltale sign is when I hear buzz words like “emotionally available”. Men are not women with penises. Most men just live life on autopilot because most men value peace. Try giving him some strong hints and if he’s a good man his behavior will change.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/23 03:14 PM