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Yeah, donit hit the nail on the head, and with that comes a wealth of other problems. I was working full time, seeing four different girls (all of whom I'd see every week), and still trying to manage my hobbies and gym. I stopped dating - I was mentally tired. A few weeks later I went out for dinner with my mate and met my now girlfriend, and I honestly knew I was compatible with her on the second date. OP: there's nothing wrong with being invested. The issue lies in how you manage/control your …
/r/seduction02/11/13 01:04 AM
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It you want to get laid, this seems like an easy option. 90 minutes by car isn't that bad, man. If you ask me, you're just putting up self-made obstacles. It seems very AFC'y.
/r/seduction22/09/13 10:28 PM
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Sure man.
/r/seduction21/09/13 04:20 AM
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Where about in Australia are you? I'm in Melbourne if you ever want to wing. I'm also the same as you - super athletic gamer, etc. My advice is as follows: game multiple girls. It already sounds like you have oneitis (reading too much into each situation is a key sign). Be fucking chill. If you're a cool dude, chicks will naturally come to you. Don't burden her with all of your new crush energy.
/r/seduction21/09/13 12:45 AM
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Thanks, CurveBall. I misinterpreted the rule, and I'll definitely become more familiar with the sidebar guides. :)
/r/seduction16/09/13 11:22 PM
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Now don't get oneitis.
/r/seduction15/09/13 10:24 PM
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Are the girls fat? Conventionally attractive? Honest question.
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:26 AM
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I'm having casual (once a week with each) sex with four different girls. None know about each other - but I don't allude to wanting anything other than casual sex. I'm currently gaming three other girls, and I generally get one or two numbers a week that turn into something consistent, and then I'll stop seeing one of the other girls. You can be as brash as you want - but respect the girls you have been fucking and always leave them better than you found them. The only people that know about all…
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:16 AM
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I use the PUA terminology on Seddit because people can relate to and understand it. Thanks for the tip re: language and wording. I didn't think to look at it like that.
/r/seduction01/09/13 02:32 PM
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Two wrongs don't make a right. :)
/r/seduction01/09/13 02:31 PM
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I just think you went about it wrong is all. :) No worries though, I was sincerely curious. Thank you for explaining it.
/r/seduction01/09/13 08:05 AM
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Poly is almost always preached by incredibly strange people. Are you meeting new women all the time, or is it the same HB 4s? Edit: Added "always".
/r/seduction01/09/13 04:26 AM
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Why are you just looking for an argument on every comment you can? Legitimate question.
/r/seduction01/09/13 02:40 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it. :)
/r/seduction29/08/13 07:06 AM
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We chatted and walked around. It was nice, but it didn't feel "natural". She went home and later texted me and told me she just got out of a long relationship and was getting used to being around other people (I got this text a few hours ago). No harm, no foul. I'll put her away for a couple of months and contact her later. She's a cool chick, and we had some chemistry, but not enough to sustain hours of interaction, especially when I felt she wasn't making an equal effort.
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:50 AM
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I'm more so asking the "polite" way to remove myself and leave.
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:58 PM
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You have very few downvotes. Most are Reddit fuzzing.
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:16 PM
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OKC is a numbers game (almost literally). You're sending short messages and then finding someone else to contact. I got four numbers last week after being on OKC for two days, all of which I used that line for. It's all about taking things to text so you can seal the deal and get a date.
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:15 PM
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I went out on a date with a girl I #-Closed last week, yesterday. Prior to this we had exchanged six texts over five days, and spoke for about ten minutes in person (when I got her number). The date itself was just awkward. She made no effort to converse, kept using her phone, and would not accept any of my kino (even small stuff like "Oh nice bracelet!", etc.). Is it ever rude to eject a date? It just felt like she didn't want to be there, and I was pretty disappointed, especially because I alr…
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:05 PM
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Play it as a joke. "So you've interviewed me a whole bunch, and I don't think this is the selection process for some sort of homicidal organ harvesting ring, let's meet up now?"
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:03 PM
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Man, this is just my opinion, but you come across as SUPER creepy in all of these.
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:01 PM
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Here's my advice: just do it, man. Don't worry about other people. Assume attraction and get in there, or like you've seen tonight, other people will.
/r/seduction25/08/13 09:24 AM
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Tell your friends to fuck off with the "pack of idiots" routine where they stand around and egg you on. It's incredibly juvenile.
/r/seduction25/08/13 09:21 AM
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Tell her to text you when she's free and resume finding other girls. Don't get one-itis because she showed you attention.
/r/seduction25/08/13 09:13 AM
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Don't ask, tell. Assume she wants you. Tell her, "I'm having drinks with friends. Come." She has no opening to avoid the invite, and then if she still flakes out go and find someone else. You're valuable. You're the catch.
/r/seduction25/08/13 09:11 AM
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Great report, OP. I know this is anal, but the one thing that stood out to me was the grammar of "I could care less." That implies you could actually care more. :)
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:08 AM
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It's difficult man. I don't feel good about it, and I definitely don't lie about who I am (I have great value and I know I'm worth fucking).
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:00 AM
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Nope, they were great people, and I genuinely think I could have had a relationship with most of them, but I just stopped caring basically.
/r/seduction24/08/13 08:19 AM
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I'm very much the same. I just got out of a two year long relationship (she cheated and left for him) and since then I've had sex with nine different girls in less than four months. This was after only having sex with two girls in four years. No matter how infatuated I am with a girl before we have sex, I nearly always lose all interest afterwards. It's really challenging, and it makes me feel like shit because I don't want these girls to feel used. One girl and I didn't have sex for almost seve…
/r/seduction24/08/13 03:45 AM
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Honestly, I just go for it. I've always been thrown into times where I have to talk and voice my feelings (I spent a lot of time living alone, having to apply for jobs, etc.), so I'm quite used to it. Try heading to a coffee shop, chat to a random stranger (male or female) about the weather, anything. Just let yourself know you CAN talk to new people. :)
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:18 AM
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Thank you. :) I am sure you can do it, too.
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:49 AM
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Hey, I got a follow up date and I can see it leading into a steady relationship! :)
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:48 AM
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AMOG = Alpha Male of [the] Group PDA = Public Display [of] Affection AFC = Average Frustrated Chump
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:48 AM
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Thanks, ZJ! :)
/r/seduction20/08/13 01:56 AM
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I don't know, but I do know your next paper will be even better!
/r/seduction20/08/13 01:55 AM
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You're a cool fucking dude, too.
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:56 AM
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Thank you for your kind words. I'm glad you were able to ascertain something positive from it. Rock on, friend! :)
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:56 AM
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I want to point out that none of this just fell into my lap. I was bullied a lot in high school for being a nerd, beat up a whole bunch of times at school too. I spent my 17-21 working on getting into this industry and putting myself through university. My friends were out partying and I was cramming for exams at home. None of this just magically happened, and sometimes it really sucked (living off of $30 worth of food a week, etc.), but it made the payout all the more sweet. :) Everyone has the…
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:27 AM
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I am glad I could help you out. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 11:47 PM
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I've been told I have very trusting eyes and a warm face, so I do think physical attraction plays a part! :) Thanks for the invite.
/r/seduction19/08/13 11:47 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLhEAFk7CA8 Here's the main one! Short and sharp. I always found his body language to be a bit smarmy, so I try to be more down to earth when I do it, but just adapt the basic principle. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 11:46 PM
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It was just a great time to show off my outer and inner game. These people didn't know me, and I didn't know them, so it was very important for me personally to be outwardly social and show them "me". Thanks for taking the time to read.
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:38 PM
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That's a good point, and something for me to consider going forward. Thank you. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:37 PM
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Shit man you man win, I am a 35 year old kissless neckbeard virgin who lives in his moms basement. So much animosity when all I've tried to do is help you out. Keep feeling sorry for yourself. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:01 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate it. I hope you were able to take something from it. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:05 PM
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Thanks. I think a lot of people struggle to recognise they're in a slump, and don't like when other people are successful.
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:04 PM
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They're an ethnic family and social presence/interaction is important to them and their events.
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:02 PM
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Thanks, man. :) I hope you took something from it in some way.
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:01 PM
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As an addendum, I'm 22, have a great job in my dream field, I'm healthy and fit, and I love my life. I don't consider myself an annoying teen at all. If the lingo annoys you, look within to find out why. Are YOU an AFC?
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:56 PM
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Thank you. I have learned a lot from Seddit, but it's only scaffolding. You need to erect (no pun intended) the building of "You" in a way that you're genuine and sincere, and be happy within. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:53 PM
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Thank you. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:52 PM
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I try to do this with every interaction. Even if it's just a smile or a genuine laugh it does a lot to improve someone's day!
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:52 PM
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I'm open to doing more in the future, but I can see this going somewhere so it might be a while off!
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:51 PM
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Thanks. I try to remember that we're all people and have feelings, so it's important to be genuine with them too and also consider theirs (the AMOGs).
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:51 PM
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It's about the story and experiences, not a condensed summary with no learnings. Imagine Lord of the Rings if it was just, "Frodo put the ring in a volcano."
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:48 PM
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That's the thing though, it's about how you convey it to them. Both guys were just drunk and randy, so I understood. I communicated to them in a positive and upbeat manner that it wasn't anything personal, we were all just doing stuff already. As strange as it sounds, kino them, too. A friendly touch/tap on the shoulder (do it slowly so it isn't perceived as aggressive) conveys a lot that words don't. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:46 PM
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I'd say I'm a middle ground between introverted and extroverted. I love going out and meeting new people, but I need a lot of me time (I live alone and have since I was 17) to balance it out. I think the environment of the night allowed me to really hit my zone. I had more AA when approaching her stranger friends during the night! Haha.
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:44 PM
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I totally understand. I think you need to find an opening though. Her smiling at me was cool, yeah, but I also had to put the effort in to go from there. :)
/r/seduction19/08/13 07:42 PM
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