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It really does! I see all the “good things” and leave all the crude behind. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:24 AM
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It’s a pain isn’t it? My marriage was all flags that I brushed over. Until I started my ‘log’ (pre dating journal). The log was four pages over six months. And seeing the pattern of abuse. Wow. Denial of the bias was hard until it was in my face. Hopefully doing posting stuff like this can help anyone else with the same problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:22 AM
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It is a lot of work. I agree with this. Honestly, this was written in COVID— so lots of vetting before dates you know? I think adjusting this to fit your needs is the key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:20 AM
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“And then... you log onto reddit. Female Dating Strategy? Huh. What’s a pick meisha?, you ask.. and keep reading.” I hope. Anyway. Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:00 PM
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Yes!!! 👏👏 so cool to see young women on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:04 PM
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I love this. Thank you for posting darling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:01 PM
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Diagnosed with HPV this year. Floored me. Almost no men are vaccinated for it. And almost no men know they have it. My OB Gyn was pretty awesome and talked me through it. Just get your check ups. Jeez. Also. Got it from my ex husband. I’m sorry darling. What a sack. Glad you identified the behavior for what it is and moving TF on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:00 PM
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Anyone else who reads this-- I hope they watch the video all the way through. I am just picking specific examples. I just watched this, and. I am a bit confused where the disconnect is. This is literally the video you sent me to prove your point. I want to preface this with saying I am on your side. I also agree that if he said women deserve to be harassed because of what they wear-- that's really fucked up, and you are absolutely correct. BUT he isn't making an argument against makeup and nice …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:55 PM
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I’m also hoping this is a glitch, but my flair was taken away? And some comments I made were removed because of it. Hope it’s not for the knee jerk reaction to me posting about JP. :l
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:40 PM
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Thanks for that! Women helping women is obviously the best for dating. I feel you there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:19 PM
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I haven’t seen the carnivore thing widespread on any of his social media. Maybe he’s promoting it somewhere I’m not seeing. I just know his daughter is huge and that’s all her social media is about. And he picked up his daughters diet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:06 PM
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Can you point me where he said that? That sounds really shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:51 PM
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I am trying to understand what point you're thinking. I've seen 'enforced monogamy' thrown around a few times on here, and want to make sure I haven't missed something. If you would help me out-- enforced anything sounds pretty terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:57 PM
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Oh that is his daughter. I am a vegan, and thought this was the silliest thing ever. She's a pro lion diet whatever, and I can't find substantial anything to back whatever she says. I agree that is so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:49 PM
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LVM have to rely on social/legal pressures on women to find mates, which is what he advocates for and what FDS is against. He makes a huge emphasis on women finding partners, and makes a point to say people who are alone are miserable, sad human beings. I don't agree with this at all. I know plenty of single people that have full lives. So with you there. Please correct me if I am stating what you said wrong: But, pressuring women to take on low-quality men (is that the forced monogamy you mean)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:46 PM
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For sure. I don't really get it myself, and I think a lot of these guys are using it to justify something that I can't place. Also-- I have only listened to his college lectures, where is where he began on youtube. He literally posted like 300+ hours of lectures on youtube before he was ever viral. Sounds like a typical male professor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:37 PM
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So I definitely thought about the feminine = chaos/bad and the masculine= order/good. And if you will humor me for a second, he is talking in archetypes. Not as all females = chaos and bad. He is giving an archetype of yin and yang here, which he brings up at the beginning, I believe? Everyone needs both order/chaos, and living on the edge of the black/white of the yin yang is the best for everyone. I really don't think his point was to say all women represent chaos/bad. And also, he says many t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:34 PM
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This is all an open discussion. As an FDS-er who has also listened to a lot of lectures, I wanted to highlight how he may help LVM. Not sure the hate, genuinely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:24 PM
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What does this have to do with LVM? Genuinely want to understand. He's been sick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:22 PM
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Wow. Sorry to see this downvoted for agreeing with some points. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:22 PM
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Downvoted for agreeing? Sucks. : - /
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:21 PM
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Wow. Sad to see this downvoted in the negatives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:21 PM
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I get that. Honestly, a girlfriend warned me about his damned fans when I picked up the book, which luckily seemed less targeted to specifically LVM. But rather people that feel powerless or chaotic. As a woman, I got a lot out of it. I personally followhis lectures because of his psychology topics and the Jungen shadow. I'll just throw your way in case this is up your alley, too. Discusses how we weaken ourselves: https://www.instagram.com/p/B2SHH31lbwi/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:26 PM
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So, while I believe men should always initiate-- I think OLD is kinda flawed? So I force them to initiate (even if they ask ME to initiate. I did this method with Bumble, too). 1/3 times dudes will step up and open up something. To me, this gives them permission to try? Honestly, I paused the app- because I am saturating in some FDS right now. Changing my mentality before I go back at it. I open that damn dating app like doing my taxes. Ruthlessly separate the wheat from the chaff. I hate being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:16 PM
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A man should ADD value to your life - anything otherwise is absolutely useless for you. I really think this is the biggest lesson I have gotten from FDS. The cost of keeping these LVMs around is too high. Your peace should never be sold, or worse-- given away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:07 PM
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Had my hot girl summer this year post divorce. I won't hate on it, it broke through a lot of barriers for me. I learned a lot about myself. But-- I have had to learn I am not personally wired to sustain this. If the sex is amazing, that oxytocin fucks me uppp. Catching feelings is like catching the flu for FWB. Thanks for reminder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:58 PM
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Amazing. Perfect meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:54 PM
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Yes. Yes! You set the pace. You set the pace. This is a hard one I think for women to understand. It took me ages (as in last 8 months) to get good at saying no to men and their behavior around me. Also, another super power? If a guy has an unspoken crush, and is acting really weird , point it out. I hate when guys bring up sexual stuff (about me, the crush) in convos unwarranted. Weirdly sexual? Point it out. Make it seem socially odd-- or, play dumb while pointing it out. "Oh, you wish you wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:53 PM
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Someone else also replied to this, but I can't seem to find the message? But! Yes. Rereading rules, and also the other replier had said 'you need to end it in your heart, not just in your head.' And that was good advice. I wrote down how he wasn't going to change tomorrow, and that I need to see the tangibility of that reality. Not hope. No more hope. I am not living in purgatory, waiting for some man to change. :/ So Field Report: I broke it off. We talked, but he was gracious. Sad. And even sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:40 PM
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Yeah for sure. A lot of damage and insecurity. But. I mean she is pretty no nonsense. Any characters you think embody more that HVF? (I know their in hs. So may be stretch. Haha)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:03 PM
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Hahaha greatttt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:25 AM
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Maive from Sex Education is opposite of pickmeisha. Worth a breathe of fresh air, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:20 AM
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Excited to see this list. I hate to say Gone Girl. But it woke me up to the cool girl archetype id been living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:34 AM
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Advice needed. I posted this week already about my situation and just need. Blah. Help. The guy I’ve been seeing for now almost 7 months. LV behaviors are emotionally distant, but very courteous and good listener; wont step up and commit to relationship; lives like he’s 21 despite being well off and in thirties. Also, the problem is he’s become one of my really really good friends. Texting everyday stupid funny stuff. I see him, and instant attraction. Sex was really great. But. Like. I broke it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:23 AM
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So I use Hinge. I always always just send a heart emoji. It still opens the door. And also weeds out a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 11:58 PM
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Sucks when a teenager is put in a place to have to “mentor” a parent. :/ hope she learns from this— and not internalize it as some slight against her. To feel like you have to step up for something like this, go her for being brave. It opens a discussion of how to deal with fathers that are LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:24 PM
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Does anyone have a list of these Pickmeisha movies from the 90s? I am curious about what ones I have seen or been forced to watch. I just don’t remember seeking ‘em out. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:20 PM
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Wow. I screenshotted this just to not forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:17 PM
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Great line. To the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:17 PM
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LOL this made me laugh early this morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:16 PM
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Answered a little earlier on the thread-- but may make a full blown post about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:16 PM
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I may make a post about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:15 PM
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^ yes. Don't owe explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:00 PM
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I had this problem. Fuck abuse, gah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:00 PM
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What wiggy said and more. after dates, I typically write how I felt about it. How it went. What was good. What was bad. Helps me keep my feelings in check. Where I think it’s going. I make predictions, too. Also. I use it like a log. Helps me decide to dump a guy or not. If I see he’s fucked up consistently, I can see the pattern in the dating notepad. I find that I have a bias that makes me remember only the “good things” and ignore red flags. I’m a programmer. So works a lot like an error log.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:11 PM
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Does anyone have advice for being upfront with males that you are friendship only? I like my guy friends, like a lot. And I don't want to cut them all out-- but I get frustrated af with this crush'ing. Good guys will usually satellite and be cool with being in friendzone if I can make it clear. But.. any advice on doing this sooner rather than later, tactfully?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:17 PM
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This summarizes that well: https://youtu.be/8yYvkgC7eic?t=393 ""If you are correctly identifying that these people came to waste your time and you're cutting them off, it's going to feel like you're cutting them off too soon."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:59 PM
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OLD allows you to filter matches based on education. At least the one I use (Hinge) does. Also, the examples given are great. Gotta go where the higher education people gooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:46 PM
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Sometimes those quick 'cut offs' have a fallout feeling afterward. But cutting guys like that out cold turkey, even if the fall out is hard, was probably a good decision love. If you trust how bad he hurt you, then second guessing yourself works in his favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:45 PM
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Jeez. I feel for OP. Girl, please move tf on. You have degree. You are obviously smart for grad school. Hope OP learns their worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:42 PM
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( Last check in since January here. ) I confronted my guy about the problems with his apartment. Said, "If you were dating Chalize Theron, would you let her sit in your gamer chair in your living room? Would you only fix her rice and larabars when she came over? Would you clean your house before she stepped in it?" It was a quiet, honest conversation after a date we had this week. He looked like a kicked dog. I felt bad, but didn't comfort him. Later, it was brought up again, and I just said-- "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:38 PM
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Love this. Was a notorious paragraph-er, and I realize it was out of an attempt to be understood. For closure. For making sure he "got" it. Now, there's a peace with closing doors. Someone stated they were a "serial dumper" on here, and that resonated with me. I don't need to explain myself. Don't need to stare or pontificate the trash-- I just need to take it tf out. Also, never underestimate the use of a dating notepad. Being honest with yourself saved me a lot of processing texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:31 PM
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How does the first year thing work? Super cool. And also-- congrats, darling!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:08 PM
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What I was thinking ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:35 PM
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Thanks for the new music!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:27 AM
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You don’t need that drain!! I am a huge fan of the do not disturb setting on my phone. It has done wonders for me when it comes to that. No alerts, alarms or calls will come through (you can set exceptions). Glad to see you shedding the parasitic convos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:53 PM
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Love the stupid tattoos one. Mannn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:54 PM
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Awesome. Great to hear you moved the heck on. No man, no matter his looks, are worth that. :| if we start over doubting myself. That’s gotta be a flag right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:47 PM
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Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:37 PM
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No jockstrap for training? That’s crazy to me. Great you don’t put up with that behavior. I do martial arts (Japanese fencing ‘Kendo’ however) and while there are plenty of sexist practices in the old dojos in Japan— I haven’t had much of a problem. I can see that senior/student dynamic being exploited by weak dudes. Makes me sick and glad those girls had you around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:35 PM
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Hinge is wayyy better. Easier to break the ice, imho. If a guy “likes” my interest or picture, I just send him a heart emoji— and force him to start convo. Never initiate first message, even if I’m the one that matches first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:18 PM
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I have realized many hard lessons with this reddit. Dating for 6 months and nothing concrete. All the benefits of a girlfriend— with none of the commitment. My guy let’s sit in a gamer chair in his living room while I clean my entire luxury apartment every time he comes over. His house is always a mess and I’ve just. I poke fun at him about it. But still— I come over. I have thought many times how if he would put half the effort— how much better things would be. I think of most of our dates and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:12 AM
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I think of a really great trait of my father’s. He would always get my mother her coffee every morning. Grind the beans. Make her cup hot. And go wake her up with a hot mug and a kiss. Very sweet. Even when we were on vacations where there was no coffee pot, he would go look for a shop nearby and bring it back. My mom really cared about this coffee in the mornings, and my dad made that effort to care, too. Small things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:57 AM
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Yelling is not a sign of respect. A person who can’t see that words can never be taken back and the damage is done— or see that yelling is juvenile behavior is not your HVM. You may want to read the handbook again about cultivating that higher, no-nonsense mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:37 AM
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Love this idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:07 PM
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