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Said a lot man, you’ll have to be more specific.
/r/seduction05/11/25 01:31 PM
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I’m gonna tack something on here that might sound counterintuitive, but has worked (for me) Timing - not every woman is going to hop in bed with you at (insert time) in their life. There are women that I’ve known that night who I’ve slept with, and there are women I’ve known for 8 years that I ended up making a regular fwb. I also was never their “buddy”, but would talk on and off with them through the months or years. Sometimes it was flirting, a lot of times it was nothing more than conversati…
/r/seduction05/11/25 11:20 AM
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As a man who’s been sexualized, I’m good. Especially since I recently realized, now in my thirties, I’ve been sexualized by women since I was 12. This is something that’s talked about with young girls but isn’t brought up enough about young boys. I’m not traumatized or filled with a bunch of baggage from it, but knowing that I was sexualized for much of my life, especially at that young of an age, has made me question some familial relationships, as well as made me understand my unhealthy relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:09 AM
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No. We don’t. I’m fact, we dislike the majority of them. I mean, don’t get me wrong, we’re attracted to you, but we don’t like you. In the odd chance we find one of you we do like, we end up marrying her. The rest? No. That’s why we hate your friends, your sisters, and your mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/25 03:34 AM
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It might be hypocritical, but I can handle it from a man, at least depending on the context, because he at least likely knows what it is to be a man and understands the expectations set on us. When a woman says any version of that, to me or anyone else, I immediately can’t stand her. Like I’m not about to tell you how to be a woman or what a woman is supposed to be. Don’t tell me to “man up”, “act like a man”, or “that’s what men do”. You have no concept of manhood except for the basis of your m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:26 PM
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Look, I’m just gonna go ahead and put this here because I keep seeing some version of this over and over and I need to vent. Trump won for two reasons. The first is, Americans are going hungry multiple nights a week, and not because they’re working jobs that pay minimum wage. It’s because the severe pricing rates that so many have people have dismissed as “inconvenient” have made people, who three years ago could provide for their family, unable to afford food each night. My best friend made lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:27 PM
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What? You afraid you’ll be replaced or out of the job? Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:28 PM
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I mean it really is. And I gave anecdotal examples why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:05 PM
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Well the words of OP were: They would get them drunk and coerce them, pressure them, guilt trip them. Which means get them drunk AND coerce them. So, rape. In that case I agree. But if someone gets you drunk because they know you wouldn’t consent while sober, that’s definitely sketchy. And if they pretend they don’t hear your noes or your protests (or your silence if you aren’t really able to talk anymore) then it’s rape. I agree with this too. Edit: also sketchy if they make a big move ONLY bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:43 PM
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I think it’s rape in majority to all cases, I just don’t know that I agree with the sentiment that I’ve been raped because I’ve had sex while drunk. Or that I was coerced. If I was passed out or could only barely remember the night before, sure. Or if while drunk someone wore me down until I relented after I refused them multiple times and they fucked me, sure. But I’ve been very drunk before and still consented to sex (and refused sex), and would never consider it rape of myself because I was c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:16 PM
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That is one of the most awful stories I’ve ever read and honestly makes me mildly sick to my stomach. I’d like to believe the amount who would commit that act is a small percent, however, I’m aware that many men and women out there don’t really understand the concept of coercion and how shitty is, or do understand but just don’t consider it rape. I do think there’s some stuff out there we overcorrect on and are too quick to jump the gun and vilify others for, grayer situations that require nuanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:24 AM
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Men will assume it’s ok to keep going to get their wife in the mood. Alright, well this one I feel like needs some attention, if only because I had my ex literally say to me “usually I don’t want to have sex, but I know if I let you mess with me, you can get me in the mood and I’ll want to fuck”. The other ones you said aren’t anywhere near as gray, but this one is extremely dependent on a lot of cases. At least in my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:12 AM
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Think the point he’s making is maybe “rape” isn’t exactly the term that should be used for that specific situation, and that it’s an extremely gray area that requires nuance. That’s how I interpreted it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:06 AM
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Hey you responded to a reply of mine on another post, I couldn’t reply back because the OP blocked me after I acknowledged he’s trying to sell a book on this subreddit. Anyway, i didn’t get to see the whole comment, only part of it in my inbox. Something about a tank top I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:01 AM
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It says “often” a sexual one, indicating that sex doesn’t have to happen. Whether I choose to believe it or not has no bearing of being less true. People deny gravity exists and that the earth is round, but those people are wrong. You can believe there are people who don’t adhere to celibacy but you’re wrong. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. Also I already answered that question, I can’t help it if you’re not satisfied with the answer. Lastly, after seeing your username and looking at what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:44 PM
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No, it doesn’t. Plenty of celibate couples will disagree with you. So let that thought go because it makes you look ignorant. Also a lot of people have relationship when in school but never have sex because one or both of them don’t feel ready. Those women were right. I’m 33. If she hasn’t been with more people than me, I don’t give a shit. Again, high body count is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:38 PM
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I mean, I like a woman in tank top and jeans as much as I do high heels and a skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:23 PM
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That’s wrong though because not every relationship someone has involved sex, and you can catch an STI from one person. And depends. Eight or higher at like, 19-20 years old? Sure. Eight or higher at 25 years or older? Not really. High to me is if it’s higher than mine and we’re the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:22 PM
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Mmm, define “present as masculine”, because that differs for some of us. I prefer my women who like the outdoors, sports, games, who might take martial arts or self defense classes, or who shoot guns and ride motorcycles, or who cuss some here and there. If you mean like, chew tobacco and tuck their shirt into their jeans like a 50 year old man though, then yeah. That’s a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:05 PM
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No they’re right, those are all dealbreakers for most men, including myself. No, obviously I don’t want someone with a high body count (and high is subjective for many), or who’s done/doing porn or some other sex work, or who’s engaged in some kind of group sex type scenario, but that doesn’t discount any of the other things they wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:02 PM
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I like how men are listing off tons of things on why they feel pressured, and women’s response is “well it’s just as bad for us because we’re expected to have basic hygiene and grooming”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:10 AM
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Personally don’t see the problem with men or women doing it, and think anyone who has to criticize it is a sad person who feels personally attacked because they feel like it’s a reflection on how they live their life (which, I mean, maybe). You’ll have people saying “well, it’s predatory, and they have leverage, and it’s fetishy, and they only want citizenship and money and blah blah fucking blah”. They’re consenting adults. Let them make the choices they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:34 PM
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No and I think it’s nowhere near as harmful as people say. Like for every case where some poor guy got his pecked chopped off, there’s another case where some other poor guy had to deal with health issues from his foreskin that led to it needing to get cut anyway. Is it necessary and should it be pushed? Nah, and if I had a son, I don’t think I’d get it done. Is it the same thing as female circumcision or some other horrible genital mutilation? Nah, it’s a thin piece of skin that barely does shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:10 AM
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Time to do the other 5% then. But also, women aren’t going to make the first move regardless if they think you’re attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:39 PM
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Dress nicer, get a skincare routine for a better complexion, a good haircut, getting in better shape, smell good, work on posture and walking gait, have a good pair of shoes, know how to appropriately accessorize in a manner that’s masculine and noticeable without being gaudy and obnoxious, work on how to speak slower and with better diction, have financial independence and a stable lifestyle (reliable car, own place without roommates, steady job where you’re not struggling monetarily), braces o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:38 PM
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The average guy can improve himself to be more attractive and more approachable. Edit: You hate hearing the truth because it means you have to work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:53 PM
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That’s because you seem to see us as bank accounts. Like I’m not someone’s daddy. My girlfriend? My wife? I’ll spend money on them until they tell me to stop. But a stranger I’m just trying to see if I’ll even want to meet again? No. And it shouldn’t be expected. And it’s weird that it’s a dealbreaker for so many. It’s extremely transactional. Like you’re saying “pay me for my time, but also, your time isn’t worth my money”. It would be as rude as me expecting sex on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:55 PM
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Personally I’m not paying for a first date. Third, maybe second date, fine, but not if I’m just meeting you. I’m not a walking wallet and I have my own bills to pay. I didn’t ask you out because I wanted to spend money on you, I asked you out because I want to spend time with you. If that’s malicious, so be it. I want a woman in my life, not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:10 PM
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Never seen a single episode of this show and know nothing about it, but from the description you’ve given, it sounds like Grey is a major piece of shit and the kind of protagonist too many young medical professional women in their early 20s romanticize and end up emulating in their personal lives. Yes I’ve dated a few nurses. There’s a good chance I may be biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:31 PM
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What? No Meyer-Briggs test results? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:17 PM
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The “talking phase”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:03 AM
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I’m guessing you change your hair every few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:03 AM
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Red haired woman did ya bad huh? Yep. That shit’ll happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:45 AM
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For me, it’s if we’ve begun talking and are in that “pre-dating, I really like this person” stage. Trying to figure each other out and see how they are as a person before a partner. If they have Al enough respect for me now while we’re single vs in an actual relationship. Like a big thing I hear these days is people dating multiple others at once. I don’t believe that to be necessarily a bad thing, but if a woman or man can’t be respectful and upfront about that kind of thing from the beginning,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:38 AM
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If she changes her hair every few weeks or so. If she can’t commit to a hairstyle, she can’t commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:27 AM
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Home girl mighta had some mouth sores.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 09:21 PM
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Oooof shit. Some of that shit sounds like something you’d hear from radicalized extremists.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 09:10 PM
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Got about three posts in on both of those subs before I had to back out. Those folk reek or neuroticism.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 09:05 PM
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Wow. That was… wow. The rabbit hole is deep and dark.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 08:59 PM
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With a population 1/5th the size or smaller as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:03 PM
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If you’re already messing about with someone else, then why validate this guy at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:27 AM
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The way you describe it, it could be 50-50 either way. Maybe she’s just really passionate about what she does and wants to decorate your house, then again maybe she wants you to put it in her belly.
/r/seduction26/07/21 07:00 PM
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Most people are aware not to get something they don’t want.
/r/seduction08/10/20 08:23 PM
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Get a dog, bud.
/r/seduction08/10/20 04:08 PM
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LA Los Angeles or LA Louisiana? Cause there’s a big difference.
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:08 PM
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Black mostly. I’m a “white” man. It’s only when I bother cleaning up and letting my hair down though. Otherwise, the only women who notice me are policewomen... and policemen. And really just police in general. Not in a good way either.
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:27 AM
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