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fruittidemare/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 02:14 AM
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You can go to couples therapy before there’s ever a problem. It’s a proactive step I never considered before getting married (and then divorced ). As far as most common reasons for divorce: Financial infidelity Physical infidelity Not communicating Growing apart One person gets very ill
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 04:20 PM
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The entire human race is exhausting
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 11:04 PM
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You have to figure out who you are , maybe that’s the first time you’ve been faced with this? Just be gentle with yourself. Give it time, breathe, take things one day at a time. You’ve already taken the first step in figuring out that you want to change. Keep it up.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 01:50 AM
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If it was easy, everybody would do it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 01:46 AM
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You’ll enjoy filing first if you can. Again, good luck
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 10:37 PM
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This is a variation of my story , call lawyers tomorrow and get some therapy, be the best dad you can be for your kids. It’s all over except for the filing and while there’s going to always be things that pull on your emotions unexpectedly, you and your kids will be all the better for getting a fresh start. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 10:34 PM
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I got divorced is a full sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/26 09:13 PM
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Part of it is the courts too for whatever that’s worth
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/26 01:39 AM
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My brother in divorce and newly single dad, none of that matters anymore, it’s out of your control. Doesn’t mean it can’t hurt your feelings but don’t even worry about it. Let yourself relax a little , be a good dad. Your relationship with your children matters more than anything else you’ll ever do. You got this
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 01:19 AM
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I didn’t read all that so congratulations or sorry on your loss but how do you let go mate? You just remember every wrong move and promise yourself solemnly that you’ll never make that mistake again. Maybe a little therapy mixed in but it’s that easy. Good luck. Be the man your kids admire
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 12:45 AM
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You can write the letter but make sure you burn it after , just to be clear I’m talking about burning the letter.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/26 08:06 PM
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Yeah best thing that multiple people told me is that kids do see who their parents are. So as long as you are being the man you want your son to know , everything else will sort itself.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/26 03:17 PM
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Thanks , I did find it
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 05:42 PM
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Right! I didn’t have the worlds best lawyer but at 9:43pm est I would figure held have updated his case file:
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 02:43 AM
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Bro, always! Right on though
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 02:42 AM
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I enjoy giving advice honestly, I feel like if anyone can learn from my experience, I’m doing the right thing. It’s not perfect but it really does get better if you can be introspective and work on yourself. Thanks guys!
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 02:33 AM
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I’m 46 and not unscathed from my own divorce but generally this group has helped me (mostly just by reading other’s posts). Get into therapy asap , start looking at being the best dad you can be , and realize you (statistically anyway) have a few decades in front of you. If you want to find love again , you probably will given your age. Focus on keeping your sanity and don’t take the anger out on your boys. Take it a day at a time. And good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 07:54 PM
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It’s going to sound overly simplistic, but if you can take life one day at a time, things might slow down for you and one day you’ll find yourself enjoying life again. Gotta get the thoughts out though, don’t let them bottle up. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 02:34 PM
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Nah , one son and done
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 02:44 AM
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